Dear Therapist: My Fiancé Is a Slacker Around the House
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Dear Therapist,
I am engaged to be married to a man I love very deeply, and with whom I am very comfortable and happy. I have been in long-term relationships filled with doubts and anxiety before, and I feel nothing of those lingering sentiments here.
We are both very career-driven people and want to have children. We both believe that parents should play an equal part in the raising of children.
However, I play the project-manager role in our relationship. I can delegate tasks to my partner and he will do them gladly and without complaint, but he rarely takes initiative on his own. I can ask
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