You Are Captivating: Celebrating a Mother's Heart
Written by Stasi Eldredge and John Eldredge
Narrated by Stasi Eldredge and John Eldredge
4.5/5
()
About this audiobook
Every woman was once a little girl. And every little girl holds in her heart her most precious dreams. She longs to be swept up into a romance, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, to be the Beauty of the story. Those desires are far more than child's play. They are the secret to the feminine heart. And yet-how many women do you know who ever find that life?
As the years pass by, the heart of a woman gets pushed aside, wounded, buried. She finds no romance except in novels, no adventure except on television, and she doubts very much that she will ever be the Beauty in any tale. Most women think they have to settle for a life of efficiency and duty, chores and errands, striving to be the women they "ought" to be but often feeling they have failed. Sadly, too many messages for Christian women add to the pressure. "Do these ten things, and you will be a godly woman."
The effect has not been good on the feminine soul.
The message of Captivating is this: Your heart matters more than anything else in all creation. The desires you had as a little girl and the longings you still feel as a woman-they are telling you of the life God created you to live.
He offers to come now as the Hero of your story, to rescue your heart and release you to live as a fully alive and feminine woman. A woman who is truly captivating.
©2007 Stasi Eldredge; (P)2008 Oasis Audio
Stasi Eldredge
Stasi Eldredge es una autora superventas del New York Times, y se han vendido casi tres millones de ejemplares de sus libros, que han cambiado la vida de las mujeres de todo el mundo. Maestra y conferencista, Stasi es la directora del ministerio de mujeres en Ransomed Heart y dirige los retiros internacionales de Cautivante. Su pasión es ver las vidas transformadas por la hermosura del evangelio. Ella y su familia viven en Colorado Springs, Colorado.
More audiobooks from Stasi Eldredge
Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Defiant Joy: Taking Hold of Hope, Beauty, and Life in a Hurting World Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wild About You: A 60-Day Devotional for Couples Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCaptivating: Unveiling The Mystery Of A Woman's Soul Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Becoming Myself: Embracing God's Dream of You Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Beautiful Now: 90 Days of Experiencing God's Dreams for You Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Love & War: Finding The Marriage You've Dreamed Of Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Free to Be Me: Becoming the Young Woman God Created You to Be Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Beautiful Me: Believing God's Truth About You Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Related to You Are Captivating
Related audiobooks
Strong Women, Soft Hearts: A Woman's Guide to Cultivating a Wise Heart and a Passionate Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Spirit Hunger: Filling Our Deep Longing to Connect with God Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Shine: Stepping Into the Role You Were Made For Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Unseen Companion: God With the Single Mother Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Desire: The Journey We Must Take to Find the Life God Offers Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Sacred Romance: Drawing Closer to the Heart of God Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Fathered by God: Learning What Your Dad Could Never Teach You Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Epic: The Story God Is Telling and the Role That Is Yours to Play Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Waking the Dead: The Glory of a Heart Fully Alive Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wild at Heart Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Walking with God: Talk to Him. Hear from Him. Really. Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5You Have What it Takes: What Every Father Needs to Know Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Beautiful Me: Believing God's Truth About You Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Restoration Year: A 365-Day Devotional Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Free to Be Me: Becoming the Young Woman God Created You to Be Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Way of the Wild Heart: The Stages of the Masculine Journey Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5All Things New: Heaven, Earth, and the Restoration of Everything You Love Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Moving Mountains: Praying with Passion, Confidence, and Authority Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Loving Him Well: Practical Advice on Influencing Your Husband Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Language of Love and Respect: Cracking the Communication Code with Your Mate Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Captivating Updated: Audio Bible Studies: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman’s Soul Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGirls with Swords: How to Carry Your Cross Like a Hero Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Killing Lions: A Guide Through the Trials Young Men Face Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crazy Love, Revised and Updated: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Love Dare Day by Day: A Year of Devotions for Couples Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Christianity For You
Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership 25th Anniversary: Follow Them and People Will Follow You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Return of the Gods Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mere Christianity Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus: Third Edition with Bonus Content, New Reflections Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Mary Magdalene: Women, the Church, and the Great Deception Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Weight of Glory Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5How to Lead When You're Not in Charge: Leveraging Influence When You Lack Authority Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Switch on Your Brain: The Key to Peak Happiness, Thinking, and Health Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Grief Observed Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Crazy Love, Revised and Updated: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5More Than a Carpenter Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Cost of Discipleship Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The 5 Love Languages Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5
Reviews for You Are Captivating
62 ratings25 reviews
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Powerful. My first audio book on this app. Such a beautiful book to start with.
2 people found this helpful
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Wow, this book explains what is capitivating in a woman and how to bring that out. How God made you to be unique as a woman and to cherish that.
1 person found this helpful
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5This is just as bad as the male version "Wild at Heart"
"The message of "Captivating" is this: Your heart matters more than anything else in all creation. The desires you had as a little girl and the longings you still feel are telling you of the life God created you to live. He offers to rescue your heart and release you to live as a fully alive and feminine woman. A woman who is truly captivating."
This quote from the summary says it all really. I don't agree with any of it and this is definitely not what the Bible teaches...1 person found this helpful
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This book brought a sense of worthiness, which had been missing in my life. It made me feel good about being a woman, but in a holy sense. I realize the beauty of the creation of women and the significant role through God's order. I'm glad it brought clarity and helped the image of who I am.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This was a perfect description of being a mom and woman.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Exactly what I needed to read this week. Gave me a LOT to think about and illuminated a number of things in my life.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book is everything to me...my unborn children will read this book
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5It is soul-freshing for a mother’s heart and full of wise advice and encouragement. Applies to moms of little ones, adults , and all stages in between. If you feel like you are struggling or failing as a mom I encourage you to read/listen to this short book. You are valuable & called by God. He delights in us and wants to help us on our motherhood journey.
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Based on presumptions and false interpretation of scripture - don’t read.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book brought up so many new ideas for me, I couldn't put it down.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Covers a variety of topics. Highly recommend for those with a past full of hurt, but everyone can probably connect with at least one chapter. And my one chapter made the whole book well worth it.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This really helped me to understand the warfare waged against women, and what a rare and precious thing it is for a woman to feel secure enough in God and her husband to reveal her inner beauty. A must read for the man who is struggling to help his wife and doesn't know what to do. No, a must read for those who think they do know what to do.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This book re-enforces, perhaps defiant feminists may cry, nothing but the image of a weak woman that the 'patriarchal Church' has always tried to impose on Western societies. Within Christian circles, the validity of the book's message have equally been disputed. I personally, however, found in this book some sort of comfort, because I was that kind of girl which it described. It has helped me in accepting what I thought was a 'silly' part of me.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Awesome book
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This is an intense book where each chapter has you looking deep inside yourself and outside yourself to God. It was not a quick read for me but I would recommend it to every woman.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book was an essential part of my walk towards wholeness... thanks to Stasi's personal and encouraging style
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The way I think of myself as a woman was greatly influenced by this book. The Eldredge's paint a beautiful picture of how God loves His creation. As with any self betterment book, I did not agree with everything, however I would recommend this book for any woman who is struggling with their self worth. Finding your value in Christ is the ultimate goal, and I believe that this book points you in that direction.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This was a great read as a woman who was struggling with self worth and looking for a husband. This book helps one realize that you have to put your self worth in God. If you cannot be at peace with yourself then its hard to be at peace for your spouse.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This is my 3rd go-around with this book and given the free time I've had on my time off, I am glad that I actually finished it. It gave me a new perspective and reminder how blessed I am to be a woman of God and reminded about how beautiful and precious I am as a woman. At times, it was a lot of digest in such a short time. If you are interested in reading this, you might want to read it in shorter chunks than I did (a chapter or two a day). It's a lot of information and some of the digging into the baggage that I've carried around with me from my past was difficult to go through in such a short time, but it was definitely worth it. A must-read for women!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book... there is not a word to describe this book and do it justice. It's incredible, amazing, heart-felt, touching, and just unbelievably moving. It puts women back in touch with the feminine desires they gave up a long time ago, and helps them to have more fulfulling relationships with other people and with God. Every woman needs to read this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is a wonderful book for a mature Christian woman. Women who have gone through various life trials will benefit the most as it speaks to a woman who has tried to do it all herself and has become disenchanted with the results or has become weary in trying to fix their own lives by themselves. My favorite part was the description of the love affair that the Lord wants to have with every christian woman and how he woes her through HIS actions. He always calls for her and her beautiful heart to follow after him, to come closer. The description of how a woman is defined by God and not by a man is especially poignant to those who have tried the worldly method and failed. Here is the reason why so many christian woman are so unhappy and unfulfilled!Non-Christians will probably have a difficult time understanding a lot of the references. Younger woman who do not a depth of life experiences to draw on may find it difficult understanding the themes also.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Imagine living the fairytale you imagined yourself in as a girl... John and Stasi Elderidge tell us that those dreams weren't put there randomly, but form a part of us as women and can be realised with the help of the ultimate romantic, Jesus Christ. I really really enjoyed this book, although I didn't agree with some small details it empowered and challenged me to realise my identity as a woman.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This book written by a Christian couple is based on the premise that a woman longs for three things; to be romanced, an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and beauty to unveil. Although, in summary, it sounds quite cheesy, Stasi and John guide the reader on a journey through scripture, literature, and real experiences that tend to lack empirical and statistical evidence yet resonates within the recesses of the mind.That God created man, both male and female, in his own image is an accepted Christian doctrine. The authors take this doctrine a step further by expressing the divine nature of womanhood. He specifically blessed us with qualities that are feminine; relational, beautiful and seeking validation. It is their goal to assist the female reader unveil her femininity and connect with God and her man.Validation is found within the books pages as the authors reveal that God is beautiful and glorious. He seeks to have an intimate relationship with His children. He seeks our honest hearts and implores us to seek Him.It is easy to assume that every woman carries with her wounds that have not healed. Most pop psychology books provide ample fodder that our parents have wounded us. I tire of this mentality. It quickly establishes that our parents are the enemy rather than part of a support system that shaped our diverse personalities and independent selves. This mentality also relieves the grown child of any responsibility to respond differently to stimuli.On the other hand, John and Stasi Eldredge offer compelling arguments for accepting our Divine Nature and infinite worth as Children of God. A God who reserves a piece within His heart that only we can fill. A god who can validate our existence and provide shelter and peace.This book will not appeal to every reader. While reading it, I found gems of truth that resonated within my soul. In my attempts to articulate these truths at a later time, they sound sloppy and cheesy.Bottom line: We possess divine matter. The qualities that are belittled and squelched for the perceived lack of strength are really our divine nature. It is the woman who seeks out relationships and deeply connects to those around her. It is the glue that holds society together. We are the ezer kenegdo, a beautiful Latin word that can not be directly translated into the English language and is erroneously penned as "help meet" to our husbands, conjuring utilitarian images. In a more accurate picture, we are the part of Adam that he lacks. Together we complete each other and hold a healthy and vital balance of who God is.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5THE best Christian women's book I've ever read! For the first time I really understand some of the passions of my life. Stasi bares her soul and shares the exciting journey to which Jesus invites women. She starts with Eve and uses lessons from other women (both from the Bible and real life) to inspire women to value 1) themselves, 2) other women, and 3) men.She and her husband John coauthored this book and the male/female perspectives really enhance the message. Highly recommended!
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Although I found some sections of this book to drag a little, I definitely enjoyed it on an overall basis. I was delighted to know that some of my feelings, concerns, and desires are common in women and are nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed by. This was a wonderful read and I've even encouraged my husband to read it!