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    Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either
    Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either
    Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either
    Audiobook (abridged)4 hours

    Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either

    Written by Ian Kerner

    Narrated by Ian Kerner

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    About this audiobook

    Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!

    Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never ""the one,"" but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.

    The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, ""with a great guy who is into you."" So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHarperAudio
    Release dateFeb 1, 2005
    ISBN9780060834814
    Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either
    Author

    Ian Kerner

    Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.

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    • 5/5
      Great insights how to deal with men...love it very much
    • 5/5
      Very good! Sometimes hard to read the truth but I'm now changing
    • 4/5
      It was good and easy to understand. Enjoyed listening to it
    • 5/5
      I have to start treating this kind of people better
    • 5/5
      Loved it..so helpful .?thank you for all the tips .
    • 4/5
      A good straightforward manual that helps one understand that the dynamics of dating are revealing of whether we are sticking to our standards or not. If not, we really need to face reality and move on to a better relationship.
      The latter part of the book is a sweet testimony by the Authors and for women is the proof that keeping our lives busy gets us only the truly interested men.
    • 5/5
      I can't say enough how helpful
      This book was to me. Nothing was left out. Insightful funny and inspiring I was left with a smile on my face, for two reasons, one the humor in the book, the second because I had a plan of action.
    • 3/5
      And it's true--I wasn't. The end.