The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
Written by Tina Payne Bryson
Narrated by Tina Payne Bryson
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Your toddler throws a tantrum in the middle of a store. Your preschooler refuses to get dressed. Your fifth-grader sulks on the bench instead of playing on the field. Do children conspire to make their parents' lives endlessly challenging? No-it's just their developing brain calling the shots!
In this pioneering, practical audiobook, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson demystify the meltdowns and aggravation, explaining the new science of how a child's brain is wired and how it matures. The "upstairs brain," which makes decisions and balances emotions, is under construction until the mid-twenties. And especially in young children, the right brain and its emotions tend to rule over the logic of the left brain. No wonder kids can seem-and feel-so out of control. By applying these discoveries to everyday parenting, you can turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child's brain and foster vital growth. Raise calmer, happier children using twelve key strategies, including:
• Name It to Tame It: Corral raging right-brain behavior through left-brain storytelling, appealing to the left brain's affinity for words and reasoning to calm emotional storms and bodily tension.
• Engage, Don't Enrage: Keep your child thinking and listening, instead of purely reacting.
• Move It or Lose It: Use physical activities to shift your child's emotional state.
• Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By: Guide your children when they are stuck on a negative emotion, and help them understand that feelings come and go.
• SIFT: Help children pay attention to the Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts within them so that they can make better decisions and be more flexible.
• Connect Through Conflict: Use discord to encourage empathy and greater social success.
Complete with clear explanations, age-appropriate strategies for dealing with day-to-day struggles, and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child shows you how to cultivate healthy emotional and intellectual development so that your children can lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives.
Tina Payne Bryson
Tina Payne Bryson, PhD, is a pediatric and adolescent psychotherapist, parenting consultant, and the director of parenting education and development for the Mindsight Institute. A frequent lecturer to parents, educators, and professionals, she lives near Los Angeles with her husband and three children.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Interesting parenting book that addresses how to deal with your child’s emotions on their level, while helping them to become well-rounded and in touch with their emotional and logical sides.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book is packed with information, strategies, and tips of parenting in the way that is easy to understand. It explains how the brain works and how we can work with that brain, integrating, connecting and redirecting. This is useful fundamental know hows for parenting children at any age and for understanding yourself in a different light. Highly recommended
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wow, this is a Brilliant book!!! I gained insights for both children and adults! It's a must read!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5So informative! I love the real life ways you can use what you learned.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very good book to better understand behaviors not just in children but also helpful for adults.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Science integrates with psychology to explain how our brains develop. This book offers the techniques on how to steer our thoughts, feelings and subconscious habits toward more productive and rewarding behaviors. Truly life changing information for our children and ourselves. Thank you.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A little mechanical. But I liked hearing the perspective. Maybe a little focused on previous trauma
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Science based, practical, encouraging, and normalizing...the perfect book to ignite and encourage self reflection that will lead to raising emotionally intelligent children.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Opened my eyes into a whole new way of raising my child. I actually have already applied some of the strategies and have seen a difference in how my 3 year old reacted.
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- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5written as parenting instruction but insightful about how the brain works in childhood
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A very down-to-earth and easy to follow parenting guide.
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Why is this audiobook not available in South Africa? I was looking forward to listening to it.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Substance: Uses brain research to help adults deal with children, and children to help themselves, by understanding what the child's brain is doing (or not doing) at different stages of development.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5skimmed it; liked the approach which is not so "revolutionary" if you have read and used the strategies of Adele Faber in How to Talk So Kids Will Listen, How to Talk to Teens..., How To Talk so Kids Can Learn
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