The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissists in an All-About-Me Age
Written by Joseph Burgo, PhD
Narrated by Christopher Lane
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In the tradition of The Sociopath Next Door, clinical psychologist Joseph Burgo's The Narcissist You Know is a guide to help you identify, disarm, and coexist with extreme narcissists.
In today's social media and selfie-obsessed culture, we are living in an age of narcissism-and a society that often celebrates this potentially harmful trait rather than understanding it as a psychological disorder. Scientists are beginning to learn that narcissism exists on a spectrum-much like autism-and most of us exhibit some mild narcissistic tendencies. But one in twenty people fall into a category the author refers to as Extreme Narcissism, in which these self-absorbed characteristics result in destructive behavior that harms not only the individual but everyone around them, including friends, family, and coworkers.
With more than thirty years of experience studying personality disorders and treating extreme narcissists, Dr. Joseph Burgo has developed a useful guidebook to help you identify, understand, and manage narcissistic personalities. Relying on detailed profiles, vignettes from the author's practice, and celebrity biographies, The Narcissist You Know offers easy-to-understand tools and solutions you can use to defuse hostile situations and survive assaults on your self-esteem should you ever find yourself in an extreme narcissist's orbit.
Don't let narcissism destroy your relationships. Get the tools you need to understand, work with, and live with the narcissist you know.
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Reviews for The Narcissist You Know
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is a Wonderful book! Very useful in understanding your difficult journey.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The information in this book helped me get a broader education about the narcissist so that I can better facilitate my Life coaching clients.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5When pointing out political examples, the author views the right side as evil and seems to think there is no examples to be found on the left. Must be nice to live in that bubble!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Amazing book. I learned a lot about myself and others.
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Not very informative as far as defending yourself from narcissists but just a bunch of stories about oh poor narcissist and their life struggle person looking for a book like this most likely doesn't care to hear the sob stories as we've been torn down by these terrible people.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Really interesting book by a narcissist about narcissism. It also gave me insights into my own narcissistic moments, though I wouldn't qualify as an extreme narcissist, but it helped me understand the role shame can play in some of my decision making.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very insightful. It has helped a lot to understand the narcissist in our family and to validate the restraining order. I do wish the nasty language was not directly quoted. A mention of a string of profanities would have been sufficient.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very well written. Loved the examples given, will try to use the techniques to deal with Narcissist in my life
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I am in the middle of an ugly divorce with a narcissist and this book was wonderful to give me an overview and identify all the characteristics that I just though he had. Thank you so much!
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