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    UpDating: How to Date Out of Your League
    UpDating: How to Date Out of Your League
    UpDating: How to Date Out of Your League
    Audiobook5 hours

    UpDating: How to Date Out of Your League

    Written by Leil Lowndes

    Narrated by Joyce Bean

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    About this audiobook

    You need a unique set of skills to get to the heart of your extraordinary mate

    Following on the heels of Leil Lowndes’s bestselling book How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, UpDating shows you how to attract a mate who once seemed out of your league. Written in her trademark straight-shooting style, Leil gives you techniques not found anywhere else, such as how to get:

    • A Gorgeous Partner: Don’t swoon too soon. Fabulous-looking folks actually like someone better when they seem unimpressed at first.

    • A Wealthy, High-Class Partner: Decorate your home with class, not crass. You’ll learn why a TV or the wrong type of carpeting in your living room can knock you out of the running. In fact, take the “How Classy Is Your Home?” quiz to see where your dwelling stands on the totem pole.

    • A Principled Partner: Don’t get caught in one teensy little white lie. One fib and your credibility goes out the door, and the potential mate with integrity soon follows.

    • An Interesting, One-of-a-Kind Partner: Just don’t do anything “normal.” Leil shows you how to be a desirable “nut” who will win the hearts of those creative types.

    Best of all, you’ll learn to make the qualities you want in others become a part of your own life. You’ll learn to like yourself better, and so will everyone else. And that’s probably the biggest benefit of all.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherBrilliance Audio
    Release dateSep 1, 2015
    ISBN9781511305273
    UpDating: How to Date Out of Your League
    Author

    Leil Lowndes

    Leil Lowndes is an internationally-acclaimed communications expert and founder and director of ‘The Project’, a sexual research and counselling organisation based in New York. She has 20 years’ worth of experience consulting, giving lectures and holding seminars in communication skills for corporations, associations, and governments around the world. Her work has been translated into 19 languages, and critically acclaimed by both Time magazine and The New York Times.

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    • 5/5
      Really enjoyed the eye opening descriptions of these ideal mates. It made me rethink and rework a few qualities I desired at first.
    • 4/5
      Maybe this book is doing good for me , as I’m dating a billionaire and I really feel like he is working too hard as if it’s his calling. But being a divorcee for 4 years, I wish my real prince will come soon. I’m not not a billionaire in my account , but a billionaire in my inner quality . Not sure about interracial marriage , how are the attraction points ?