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    Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships
    Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships
    Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships
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    Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships

    Written by Dr. Marni Feuerman

    Narrated by Devon Sorvari

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    The lure of the unavailable man is a mystery to many. Why is she wasting her time? But, for many others, it is a deep-seated pattern. Time and again, they fall for someone who for one reason or another will never return their feelings. The object of their affection may be emotionally unavailable, married, or even pathologically cruel. The woman who routinely finds herself in this situation suffers mightily, feeling rejected, unloved, undesirable. She wonders what is wrong with her. With empathy and compassion, Dr. Marni Feuerman helps women see their situations clearly, understand the historical, emotional, and psychological reasons behind their actions, and, most importantly, make better choices for themselves. Feuerman unpacks the cliche about not being able to control the other's behavior, only one's own, with clear exercises and action steps. While the emphasis is on understanding and changing one's own behavior, profiles of the reliably unreliable/unavailable are given to make "red flags" undeniable. And while the subject of unfulfilling relationships is not a happy one, Feuerman has positive messages for sufferers. Initially painful insights breed clarity and confidence. The end of a destructive relationship clears the way for a positive one. And being "in love" means not just loving, but being loved.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHighbridge Company
    Release dateApr 19, 2019
    ISBN9781684571437

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    • 5/5
      The books is big help. This book is a lot help if you want to break free of a boyfriend, a crush, a family who is abusive, and an ex who still uses you, if you are having a break-up or just feeling bad about a relationship specially the romantic kind.

      I needed this book because I made decisions that cause pain in my heart constantly. After reading this books I have a lot to do but it is for my own good:)

      3 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book is filled with practical information. A must read for single women.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 4/5
      This book is good if you are someone who finds yourself going after emotionally unavailable men or if you are emotionally available yourself. A lot of the things talked about in this book are stuff my therapist has talked about. So reading this book was very reflective for me.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 4/5
      I like the fact that the Author broke down certain things about unavailable men and why you may keep picking them… This book has given me some good thing to watch out for and to work in within myself.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Very informative, helpful, kind and gracious about our responses / triggers to our PTSD responses.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book hit home and provides amazing advice. There were times I had to stop the audio and cone back a day later - it’s real and intense! It’s for anyone who now recognizes the term “Ghosted” and is ready for healing.
    • 3/5
      Overall a okay book in the first few chapters, a good starter book if you’re someone not familiar with attachment styles and the impact of childhood neglect.

      It has this weird undertone of being directed towards the affair partner which made it alot less impactful for me, and if you’re someone who has been cheated on this might be triggering to hear.