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    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence
    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence
    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence
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    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence

    Published by Simon & Schuster Audio

    Narrated by Michele Filgate, Fajer Al-Kaisi, Roger Casey and

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    About this audiobook

    “You will devour these beautifully written—and very important—tales of honesty, pain, and resilience” (Elizabeth Gilbert, New York Times bestselling author of Eat Pray Love and City of Girls) from fifteen brilliant writers who explore how what we don’t talk about with our mothers affects us, for better or for worse.

    As an undergraduate, Michele Filgate started writing an essay about being abused by her stepfather. It took her more than a decade to realize that she was actually trying to write about how this affected her relationship with her mother. When it was finally published, the essay went viral, shared on social media by Anne Lamott, Rebecca Solnit, and many others. This gave Filgate an idea, and the resulting anthology offers a candid look at our relationships with our mothers.

    Leslie Jamison writes about trying to discover who her seemingly perfect mother was before ever becoming a mom. In Cathi Hanauer’s hilarious piece, she finally gets a chance to have a conversation with her mother that isn’t interrupted by her domineering (but lovable) father. André Aciman writes about what it was like to have a deaf mother. Melissa Febos uses mythology as a lens to look at her close-knit relationship with her psychotherapist mother. And Julianna Baggott talks about having a mom who tells her everything.

    As Filgate writes, “Our mothers are our first homes, and that’s why we’re always trying to return to them.” There’s relief in acknowledging how what we couldn’t say for so long is a way to heal our relationships with others and, perhaps most important, with ourselves.

    Contributions by Cathi Hanauer, Melissa Febos, Alexander Chee, Dylan Landis, Bernice L. McFadden, Julianna Baggott, Lynn Steger Strong, Kiese Laymon, Carmen Maria Machado, André Aciman, Sari Botton, Nayomi Munaweera, Brandon Taylor, and Leslie Jamison.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSimon & Schuster Audio
    Release dateApr 30, 2019
    ISBN9781508294993
    What My Mother and I Don't Talk About: Fifteen Writers Break the Silence

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    • 3/5
      I like when a book title acurately portrays the character and substance of a book. The title of this anthology did exactly that. What my mother and I don't talk about explores the gritty truth of parent-child relationships. While the focus was on the roles played by mother, it also explored the roles of fathers, step-parents and grandparents. The book focused on some very difficult issues, including sexual abuse and pedophilia, but harder still it promote a level of introspection into the reader's own relationship with his/her mother. A very introspective and moving book. I would recommend.
    • 3/5
      It was quite thrilling but not me you know but I'm sure that someone else would enjoy this title.
    • 5/5
      I truly laughed, cried and felt these stories in my heart. Empathize with them, even if they’re far from my reality! Grateful for their courage to share their stories!
    • 5/5
      a wonderful, wonderful anthology. perfectly chose essays. heartbreaking and beautiful. the essay by nayomi munaweera made me weep.
    • 5/5
      I've never read a series of short essays compiled in a book and I wasn't sure it was for me but I did enjoy it. I felt each heart break and I felt like I got a sneak peek into each person's psyche. Takes so much bravery to have the dialogues that a lot of the writers did with their moms. One story in particular spoke to me as I'm sure their are some that will resonate with each reader.

      4 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      The honesty on this tough topic is refreshing. So are the narrations. Very well read!

      1 person found this helpful

    • 2/5
      I will admit both the title and the concept of this book intrigued me. As a grown woman who still wonders about the relationship with her own mother and where exactly it went wrong, it was an interesting find. Unfortunately, not all but I was left with nothing more than petty, and sometimes annoying revelations.
    • 4/5
      These stories of Mothers were beautifully written, dark, heartbreaking, and hopeful.

      1 person found this helpful