The No Complaining Rule: Positive Ways to Deal with Negativity at Work
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The No Complaining Rule - Jon Gordon
Table of Contents
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Introduction
A Simple Rule Is Having a Big Impact
I Was a Professional Complainer
Chapter 1 - Hope
Chapter 2 - On Fire
Chapter 3 - Morale
Chapter 4 - The Phone Call
Chapter 5 - The Real Problem
Chapter 6 - Traffic
Chapter 7 - The Talk
Chapter 8 - The Cost of Negativity
Cost of Negativity
Chapter 9 - It Could Be Worse
Chapter 10 - Cancer
The No Complaining Rule
Chapter 11 - The Positive Road
Chapter 12 - The Complaining Fast
Chapter 13 - Three No Complaining Tools
Chapter 14 - No News Is Good News
Chapter 15 - Fundamentals of Prosperity
Chapter 16 - The Bloggers
Chapter 17 - The Yard Guy
Chapter 18 - Friday
Chapter 19 - The Meeting
Chapter 20 - Positive Principles
A Positive Environment and Culture Are Everything
Positive Leadership Is Required
The Secret to Winning
Trust Must Permeate the Organization
Fill the Void with Positive Communication
Become Solution and Innovation Focused
Chapter 21 - Questions
Chapter 22 - More Traffic
Chapter 23 - Sunday
Chapter 24 - Monday
Chapter 25 - Hope Shares the No Complaining Rule
Chapter 26 - The Rollout
Chapter 27 - Play to Win
Chapter 28 - Hope Receives the News
Chapter 29 - Six Months Later
Chapter 30 - It’s All Good
Chapter 31 - No Complaining Rule Action Plan
Step 1: Explain the Cost of Negativity and Complaining
Step 2: Share and Explain the No Complaining Rule
Step 3: Justified Complaining versus Mindless Complaining
Step 4: Identify and Share Your Complaint/Solution Process
Step 5: Listen, Hear, and Act
Step 6: Celebrate Successes
Step 7: Monitor and Enforce the No Complaining Rule
Step 8: Distribute No Complaining Tools
Step 9: Designate a No Complaining Week
No Complaining Week Personal Action Plan
Are You a Complainer? Assessment
The Energy Bus Training Program
Become a Certified Positive Leadership Coach, Speaker, & Trainer
Attend a Power of Positive Leadership Training Event
Other Books by Jon Gordon
Index
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data:
Gordon, Jon, 1971-
The no complaining rule : positive ways to deal with negativity at work/Jon Gordon.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-0-470-27949-6 (cloth)
1. Employee morale. 2. Employees—Attitudes.
3. Negativism. I. Title.
HF5549.5.M6G665 2008
658.3′14—dc22
2007051635
For Jade and Cole
Always remember to choose the Positive Road
Acknowledgments
This book would never have been written if it hadn’t been for Dwight Cooper, the CEO of PPR, who told me about the No Complaining Rule he implemented in his company and the positive impact it was having on his culture. This book is based on Dwight’s commitment and dedication to creating a positive company where his employees create success and enjoy their work. Thank you, Dwight.
I also thank my wife, Kathryn, who inspired me to take the positive road in life.
Thank you to my maternal grandparents, Martin and Janice, whose last name I have passed on to my children. Thank you for your love.
Thank you to my parents for the greatest gift you could ever give me: your love. I miss you, Mom, but know that your spirit is with me.
Thank you to my agent, Daniel Decker, who supported this project from the start and helped make it a success.
Thank you to my editor, Matt Holt, and to Kim Dayman, Jessica Campilango, and the wonderful team at John Wiley & Sons for making this book possible.
Thank you to the other members of my team who work hard and never complain: Jim Van Allan, Cathy Garwood, Brooke Trabert, and Amy Walter.
Thank you to all my clients who allow me to work with your companies, organizations, teams, and individuals. I am grateful every day to get to work with so many wonderful people.
I also have to give a big thank you to the managing partners at Northwestern Mutual who supported our No Complaining Tour to benefit Pediatric Cancer. Thank you to Tim Bohannon, Tait Cruse, Matt Russo, John Wright, Bob Waltos, Joey Davenport, Harry Hoopis, Scott Theodore, and John Goodwin.
I’d like to thank Ken Blanchard for his continued support of my work. Ken, you have played a major role in my life both professionally and spiritually. You have the purest heart I have ever known and I’m honored to know you.
Most of all I’d like to thank the original creator of the No Complaining Rule, God. Thank You for the inspiration to write this book. You deserve the credit.
Introduction
A Simple Rule Is Having a Big Impact
I didn’t invent the rule. I discovered it—at a small, fast-growing, highly successful company that implements simple practices with extraordinary results.
One day I was having lunch with my friend and client Dwight Cooper, a tall, thin, mild-mannered former basketball player and coach who had spent the last 10 years building and growing a company he cofounded into one of the leading nurse staffing companies in the world. Dwight’s company, PPR, was named one of Inc. magazine’s Fastest Growing Companies several times, but on this day PPR was named one of the best places to work in Florida and he was sharing a few reasons why.
Dwight told me about a book he had read that dealt with jerks and energy vampires (negative people) in the workplace. But after reading and reflecting on the book, he realized that when it comes to building a positive, high-performing work environment, there was a much more subtle and far more dangerous problem