How To Build Self Esteem: 21 Ways To Feel Good About Yourself
By Lucas McCain
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It may well be the biggest problem in the world!
It results in the loss of more relationships and jobs, creates more domestic abuse and drug addicts, and sends more people to prison than any other cause.
What is it? A low self-esteem.
Self-esteem is how a person feels about themselves. A person with high self-esteem has a very positive self-image. Whereas a person with low self-esteem has more negative feelings about themselves.
Low self-esteem can result in a number of maladaptive or antisocial behaviors such as hypersensitivity to criticism, defensiveness, chronic indecisiveness, self-sabotage, an excessive desire to please others, or strong perfectionist tendencies. Individuals with low self-esteem may display one or more of these behaviors at different times and in different situations.
If that describes you (or maybe someone close to you), it’s time to BREAK OUT of your prison of low self-esteem!
There is no such thing as the “perfect amount” of self-esteem. Individual thoughts of self-worth are closely related to personality development. What might be right for one personality might not be ideal for another.
But there’s not doubt that self-esteem is important for success in life. In a highly competitive, individual-oriented, free-market society, people are expected to “sell themselves” to establish relationships with individuals such as potential employers or prospective mates.
Here are 21 proven ways to start building your self esteem TODAY!
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How To Build Self Esteem - Lucas McCain
HOW TO BUILD SELF ESTEEM:
21 WAYS TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF
Lucas McCain
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Table of Contents
Introduction
1. Start Building Self-Esteem as Soon as Possible
2. Develop Skills
3. Break the Cycle
4. Become Independent
5. Identify Difficult or Stressful Situations
6. Focus on Your Thoughts and Beliefs
7. Change Your Thoughts and Beliefs
8. Avoid Blowing Things Out of Proportion
9. Practice Self-Acceptance and Affirm Yourself on a Daily Basis
10. Face Your Fears
11. Avoid All-or-Nothing Thought Patterns
12. Consider a Life Coach
13. Don’t Get Hung Up on Appearances
14. Avoid Negative Thinking Patterns
15. Stay Away from Stereotypes
16. Try Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
17. Volunteer or Get a Pet
18. Make It a Habit to Focus on the Positive
19. Eat Healthy and Be Physically Active
20. Undertake Therapy
21. Be Good to Yourself
Now What?
INTRODUCTION
Self-esteem is how a person feels about themselves. A person with high self-esteem has a very positive self-image. Whereas a person with low self-esteem has more negative feelings about themselves.
There is no such thing as the perfect amount
of self-esteem. Individual thoughts of self-worth are closely related to personality development. What might be right for one personality might not be ideal for another.
Self-esteem is not a simple continuum from low (worse) to high (better) self-esteem. The psychological construct of self-esteem is different for everybody. All understandings of healthy self-esteem should be considered on an individual basis.
Low self-esteem can result in a number of maladaptive or antisocial behaviors such as hypersensitivity to criticism, defensiveness, chronic indecisiveness, an excessive desire to please others, or strong perfectionist tendencies. Individuals with low self-esteem may display one or more of these behaviors at different times and in different situations.
Psychologists point out that comfort
events (i.e., enjoying a delicious meal, a new shirt or haircut, a