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Observation Training - The Power of Observation is a series of online observation training courses designed to enhance your leadership skills training and general awareness. You look but you do not see EVERYTHING; you listen but you do not hear Dr. Harry Jay's compelling book "The Power of Observation" teaches a person how to see EVERYTHING that the eye takes in and how to evaluate it in the conscious mind so the person misses nothing. Learn how the mind filters out stimuli and how to reprogram your filters to take advantage of everything you see and hear using the latest education information technology. Every sales and marketing executive should read this book and take advantage of this brain training online. This book is for anybody in business and investing, marketing and sales, and small business & entrepreneurship. The courses offered are the exact same online police training courses used to train law enforcement. When it comes to observation training, not only is this one of the only courses available, it is the best online training available.
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Dr. Leland Benton is Director of Applied Web Info, a holding company for ePubWealth.com, a leading ePublisher company based in Utah. With over 21,000 resellers in over 22-countries, ePubWealth.com is a leader in ePublishing, book promotion, and ebook marketing. As the creator and author of "The ePubWealth Program," Leland teaches up-and-coming authors the ins-and-outs of today's ePublishing world. He has assisted hundreds of authors make it big in the ePublishing world. Leland also created a series of external book promotion programs and teaches authors how to promote their books using external marketing sources. Leland is also the Managing Director of Applied Mind Sciences, the company's mind research unit and Chief Forensics Investigator for the company's ForensicsNation unit. He is active in privacy rights through the company's PrivacyNations unit and is an expert in survival planning and disaster relief through the company's SurvivalNations unit. Leland resides in Southern Utah.
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The Power of Observation - Dr. Leland Benton
The Power of Observation
You look but you do not see everything; you listen but you do not hear everything!
By Dr. Harry Jay
~~~
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Dedication
Chapter 1 – Some Background Stuff First
-- The Complete Person
Chapter 2 – You Look But You Do Not See
Chapter 3 – You Listen But You Do Not Hear
-- Improving Auditory Perception
-- What the Ears Sense
-- Auditory Indexing
-- The Art of Listening
-- How to Listen
-- How to Ask Questions
-- The Need to Communicate
-- Exercise 1
-- Exercise 2
Appendices – Bonus Instruction
-- How to Detect Lies
-- How to Ask a Question Intelligent
-- How to Become More Intelligent Than You Are Now
-- How to Be Articulate
-- How to Be Persuasive
-- How to Be a Good Listener
-- How to Listen Effectively
-- How to Communicate Effectively
-- How to Create Relationships through Careful Communication
-- How to Make People Listen to You
Meet the Author
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Introduction
In religion we have a saying, Who is more foolish; a child afraid of the dark or a man afraid of the light?
This is an interesting statement. It goes to the heart of the matter of what do you really see, and in so doing, what do you comprehend?
What is filtered out and what is of interest to a person? What is retained and what is useful? Although the questions seem endless; the core problem is observation first and then all of the other questions follow.
In other words, you must first observe – see it, hear it, taste it, feel it, and smell it – before you can evaluate it with a bombardment of other questions.
This workbook is not about the other questions. I will leave these to the social scientists and philosophers. This book is about learning to observe with all of the five senses given to you.
It might startle you just how much information you receive daily that is filtered out completely. We will discuss filters very heavily later on in the workbook. It will equally startle you just how much information comes to you that is not recognized by your senses and simply passes by
.
I will show you why this occurs and how to overcome the lack of observation.
Trained observation is an art form. It does not come naturally nor does it come easily. You must practice it daily until it becomes second nature and it will become second nature rather quickly if you follow my instruction.
My daughters always lamented the fact that growing up with me wasn’t easy because they never seemed to be able to get anything by me.
Trained observation has many attributes not only in parenting, but in business and your personal lives as well. Soon you will be able to spot the clues that will lead you to making good choices.
These choices affect your quality of life so observing everything around you is most important.
C.S. Lewis once noted that if we had to choose between reading old books and new books, it should be the old books we choose. Not because they are better,
he wrote, but because they contain precisely those truths of which our own age is neglectful.
Lewis was well aware that there were truths spoken through other worldviews that he was blinded from simply because he existed in his own.
Our worldview is no exception. Every thought and experience, every book and idea that crosses our path, has been shaped within the caldron of postmodern thought, a mindset often ruled by the eyes.
And when orientation to life is based on one's own perspective, and truth discerned by personal preference, blindness is a difficult concept to accept.
But that doesn't make it less real.
Blindness is as natural to humankind as the desire to understand. We are blind to our own faults, blind to truths we don't want to hear.
It is the cure to this blindness that is important.
Eugene Peterson writes, There is widespread interest in living beyond the roles and functions handed to us by our culture. But much of it ends up as a spirituality that is shaped by terms handed out by the same culture.
What do you do to see authentically?
What do you do to protect yourself from walking blindly down paths shaped by dangerous ideas, down roads paved with misleading promises?
We shall see!
Dedication
When I was a boy, my training in observation began quite innocuously. A member of my family – his name was Gaetano Mazzerbo – was a master art restoration expert. He would take damaged masterpieces from the Italian Renaissance and Baroque Periods and restore them to their original magnificence.
After school I would go to his studio and sit with him for hours talking about some of the most amazing things. Many times I would watch him work and in his slow, plodding, methodical manner he would painstakingly clean and restore some of the most stunning paintings I ever had the privilege to see.
It was during many of these sessions when Gaetano would ask me, What do you see?
Where I saw an event; he saw a whole story and so my life training in observation began.
I remember one session in particular where he was restoring a sculpture – it was a copy and not the original – of Michelangelo’s Moses Receiving the Commandments on Mt. Sinai
(the original is in the photo above).
Even as a young boy I sensed something was not right about this sculpture. He saw the puzzled look on my face and asked his famous question, What do you see?
But this time the question seemed different. My eyes were looking at the sculpture but my other senses were alerting me to something being odd and I couldn’t recognize what that oddity was.
Let me explain – I could see that Michelangelo depicted Moses with horns growing out of his head. I could see this was odd but not the reason behind the depiction.
To me, the oddity was not so much the horns but why they were there. Unfortunately, Gaetano didn’t know either, and told me that this fact had stumped art historians for centuries.
Many years later I would discover the answer in Bible College. Michelangelo was the victim of a mistranslation of this bible verse:
"And it came to pass, when Moses came down from mount Sinai with the two tables of testimony in Moses' hand, when he came down from the mount, that Moses wist not that the skin of his face shone (was radiant NIV) while he talked with him" (Exodus 34:29).
In Ancient Hebrew, the word for radiant is keren
. Oddly enough, it is also the word used for horns
. So the reason for the oddity was a mistranslation of Exodus 34:29.
That day in Gaetano’s studio taught me more than I would ever know.
I see things but are they real?
I see things but are they fantasy?
I see things but are they filtered by my culture, my gender, and my life experiences or my misunderstandings?
What do I really see?
And, like the horns on Moses’ head, why were they there? Michelangelo was fooled by words; what fools YOU?
We will begin with seeing; seeing and hearing are the two most important senses we have.
The other three senses we possess – taste, touch and smell – are what I call confirming senses. They confirm what our eyes and ears see and hear.
This course will continue to fascinate you as you learn the skills I will teach you. It will sharpen all five senses and as these senses gain in acuity you will witness a very interesting phenomena – your sixth sense or what has been called ESP (extra-sensory perception) will grow too.
Your five senses are physical attributes that are controlled by your brain but influenced by your mind. Your mind is not your brain; the mind is housed in the brain. Everything you do is affected by your physical and mental attributes; everything is connected to everything else so first I will begin by teaching you about both these attributes.
Next I will teach you the influences that affect these attributes and in essence either enhance or corrupt the information received by your senses.
Gender plays a very important role in observation. The way men and women employ their psyches is very important so I will draw on information from some of my previous books to demonstrate gender differences in observation.
Culture also plays an important role. It will not do to cling to the cause and wish the result away. Reality does not play mind games.
What is more, to anesthetize the mind in order to abort what comes to birth when wrong ideas are conceived and borne in the womb of culture, will only kill the very life-giving force of the nation that nurtures the idea.
We must learn, in the words of one cultural commenter, to live as wise as serpents and as innocent as