High on Low: Harnessing the Power of Unhappiness (Winner of the 2015 Independent Publisher Book Award for Self Help)
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Winner of the 2015 Independent Publisher Book Award for Self Help & Finalist for the 2015 Next Generation Indie Book Award for Self Help. Is not being happy really so bad? In HIGH ON LOW: HARNESSING THE POWER OF UNHAPPINESS, bestselling author Wilhelm Schmid persuasively argues that far from preventing us from living a full and successful life, being unhappy - be it in terms of discontent, melancholy, sadness, or depressive mood - is an inherent part of a well-rounded, active, and creative life. Rather than attempting to treat unhappiness as an unwelcome interloper on our perpetual quest for happiness, we should, Schmid suggests, draw on and harness the very power of not being happy.
Wilhelm Schmid
Bestselling author, Wilhelm Schmid is the most significant and popular contemporary German moral philosopher. In his many books on topics such as 'happiness', 'love', the 'meaning of life', and 'balanced living' - to name only a few - he has been endeavoring to create a philosophy of the art of living for our time. He lives in Berlin, Germany, and travels around the world giving lectures and workshops on the philosophy of the art of living. He has been awarded the German Prize for Outstanding Services in Conveying Philosophy to the Public (2012), and the Swiss Prize for his philosophical contribution to the Art of Living (2013).
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5High on Low: Harnessing the Power of Unhappiness is difficult to easily categorize; and that may prove its ultimate strength, even though it presents somewhat of a marketing challenge.It's of diminutive stature (less than a pocket-sized paperback in height), it toes the line between philosophy, spirituality, and self-help guide, and it posits a surprising thought: does the definition of living a full, successful life mean never (or seldom) being unhappy? Wilhelm Schmid offers the perspective that discontent, sadness and depression are actually an important part of leading a well-rounded, active life - and that unhappiness should not be 'treated away' so much as accepted as part of this process.In the ongoing search for chronic happiness, have we forgotten the underlying benefits of sadness? This little book covers the gray areas between melancholy and depression, finding meaning in a sense of place where one is unhappy, and pinpointing the real values in life.Unhappiness holds its own strengths in powers not to be found in an ongoing state of contentment, and this book shows how to recognize and accept these positive points.Without the bad, there can be no adequate recognition of what is truly good: this and the idea that melancholy actually brings with it its own form of strength makes High on Low an unusual perspective recommended for any who would understand the formula of real psychological and spiritual success and its many underlying influences.
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High on Low - Wilhelm Schmid
Wilhelm Schmid
HIGH ON LOW
Harnessing the Power of Unhappiness
Translated by Karen Leeder
Upper West Side Philosophers, Inc.
New York • 2014
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Library of Congress Cataloguing-in-Publication Data
Schmid, Wilhelm, 1953-
[Unglücklich sein. English]
High on low : harnessing the power of unhappiness / translated from the German by Karen Leeder.
pages cm. -- (Subway line ; No. 8)
Originally published as Unglücklich sein.
ISBN 978-1-935830-28-3 (alk. paper)
1. Happiness. 2. Well-being. 3. Melancholy. I.Leeder, Karen J. II. Title.
BF575.H27S3613 2014
152.4'2--dc23
2013032345
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Contents
Foreword
1. If Happiness Doesn’t Find Me
2. Does Happiness Always Make Us Happy?
3. Farewell to Perpetual Contentment
4. The Fullness of Life Consists in More than the Positive
5. Being Depressed: Melancholia
6. Depression: The Illness
7. Living on the Edge of the Abyss
8. A Guide to Living with Unhappiness
9. Melancholy as a Transcendental Ability
10. The Dawning of the Age of Melancholy
About the Author and Translator
Also Available from UWSP
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Foreword
Today is just not my day!
If you can say that you’re in luck. For many people it lasts much longer than a single day. They have to live day in day out with misfortune, through no fault of their own. This is made worse by the fact that we live in an age where we are made to feel we should be happy all the time. It is broadcast from the billboards: Happiness!
Ads proclaim: How to be happy!
Brochures promise us: Even more happiness!
You can even book it at the travel agent: Happiness guaranteed!
The newspapers run with titles like Get switched on to happiness
one week, only to ask the next, Why aren’t we getting happier?
To avoid any potential misunderstanding: It is of course a symptom of progress that we can concern ourselves with happiness rather than survival or fulfilling our duties. But what happens when happiness itself becomes a duty? The hype about happiness has itself acquired a normative meaning; it reinforces a new norm for the individual: You must be happy or else your life isn’t worth living. If you happen to be unhappy, you begin to wonder whether you are missing something, to question whether you are cut out for happiness at all. Clearly, you have failed. Everyone else seems to succeed at it; or at least to work hard at giving that impression. Envy consumes the unhappy. If the worldwide happiness industry is to be believed, they will never join the ranks of the happy who inhabit the planet.
The tyranny of happiness threatens to squeeze out any room for unhappiness. Anyone who dares to challenge the absolute power of happiness in our day-to-day lives will be faced with an uphill struggle. There is no doubt that obsessive pessimism is a pain. But ostentatious optimism is no laughing matter either. The unhappy are browbeaten to the point where they no longer dare to talk about how they are feeling, or even think about it, as that would be to indulge in negative thinking, whereas they feel they are duty-bound to see everything in a positive light.
What are the causes of these hysterical outbreaks of happiness? One is certainly the flight into happiness. As we feel external pressures impinging on us more and more, we seek all the more urgently to find happiness within: Am I happy? Why everyone else and not me?