Sexy and Confident: How To Be the Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self–Esteem
By Ash Green
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Regardless of how she views herself, every woman wants to be sexy and confident. She wants to be the type of girl that is both sure of herself but is also wanted by men. She also wants to be taken seriously in the workplace and in life. The problem is that most women think that lowering themselves is the only way to succeed in life. It's possible for every woman to be the best that she can. All it takes is figuring out what she needs to enhance and what she needs to minimize.
Sexy and Confident: How To Be The Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self–Esteem is the book that will help you achieve the balance you need to become your secure, self-assured and sexy best. So bye-bye, old you and hello, dream girl. It's time to become sexy and confident.
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Sexy and Confident - Ash Green
Sexy & Confident
How To Be The Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self–Esteem
Sexy & Confident
How To Be The Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self–Esteem
Ash Green
ARTRUM MEDIA
For the girls who know they deserve more from life.
Sexy and Confident: How To Be The Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self–Esteem. Copyright © 2009 by Ash Green.
eBook ISBN–13: 978-0-9840574-3-6
eBook ISBN–10: 0-9840574-3-9
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Paperback ISBN-13: 978-0-9840574-2-9
Paperback ISBN-10: 0-9840574-2-0
Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and the publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.
Contents
Hello, Dreamgirl
You’re Worth It
Sexy? And Confident?
What Men Want
Reinvent Yourself
Your Past Means Nothing
Confident, But Not Bitchy
History Repeating?
Independent But Not Isolated
It’s Okay To Want A Man, But…
A Bad Man Will Ruin A Good Woman
Don’t Be One Of The Boys
The Male Influence In Your Life
The Angry Girl
Bad Role Models
Good And Decent Men
Make Men Treat You Like A Lady
The Same Mistakes Over And Over Again
Sexy Does Not Mean Slutty
How To Dress Sexily And Confidently
You Have To Be Realistic
Autopilot
Jealousy
Dating Confidently
Play To Your Strengths
Sexy Doesn’t Come In A Glass
Regardless Of What You Think, You’re Attractive
Low Self-Esteem
Desperation Isn’t Sexy
Never Chase A Man
Never Put Yourself Beneath A Man
Other Women? Don’t Let Them Beat You Down
How Men Operate
Dealing With Players
Stop Losing Your Self-Respect
Fixer-uppers? Pros And Cons
A Particular Man To Avoid
Make Them Respect You
You’re Not A Teenager Anymore
You’re Ready
Hello, Dreamgirl
This book is written with the sole purpose of motivating you.
I want to motivate you to do everything in your life better than the way you’re doing it now. I want you to date better. I want you to think more highly of yourself. I want you to be more confident. It doesn’t matter what you do or how you’re doing it, even it you’re doing it excellently, I want you to do it better. Everyone is capable of more. This is especially true of how you view yourself and how you are perceived. You are no exception.
Regardless of how she views herself, every woman wants to be sexy and confident. She wants to be the type of girl that is both sure of herself but is also wanted by men. She wants men to want her for herself and not because she has to lower herself in order to get their attention. She also wants to be taken seriously in the workplace and in life. The problem is that most women think that lowering themselves is the only way to succeed in life. They think that they have to be something they aren’t in order to fit in and accomplish their goals. They either think they have to act like a bitch to get ahead in business or act like a complete ditz in order to get men to notice them. Trying to fit into these stereotypes just makes being a woman so much harder than it should be.
While both of these viewpoints will work, are they really necessary? Isn’t there a middle ground where a woman can be both attractive and competent? Isn’t there a middle ground where a woman can just be herself? Where she can both be hardnosed but still feminine? I say that there is. This middle ground is what it means to be sexy and confident. This is what it means to be true to yourself and everything that you can be in life. It’s about bringing out the best in yourself as a woman while still being a woman. And let me tell, you a woman who can achieve both of these qualities will be a dreamgirl not only to the men in her life but also to herself. This is because she will be able to achieve everything that she has ever dreamed possible.
Women have so much to offer and by all rights should have the advantage over men in almost every situation. Women have what men want. Women are what men want. The only problem is that women undermine themselves by either trying to act like the guys in situations where guys dominate or they tear each other down in situations that are their own domain. They never give themselves the opportunity to use their unique gifts they have just by virtue of being female. As a result, they often end up feeling less than, dating bad men or just losing out on everything they could have achieved otherwise. This is why you have to find the balance between ballbreaker and heartbreaker, between a hard nose and a powdered one.
So sexy and confident? Of course. Dreamgirl? It’s a given. You just have to figure out the balance that will work for you. It’s possible for every woman to be the best that she can. In fact it’s her right as a woman. All it takes is figuring out what she needs to enhance and what she needs to minimize. After all, women are promised their Prince Charming from childhood and since he doesn’t exist, there needs to be something that compensates for his absence. This means having the life and self-esteem you deserve. No two people are the same, but the end result is. How you get there is up to you, but I am going to give you some tips on what you can do to help you achieve the desired result. You also need to realize that it doesn’t matter what you do professionally. Whether you’re a waitress or an attorney, you are capable of being the best you that you can be. It doesn’t matter what you do when you are sexy and confident. You always have something to bring to the table in any relationship and any situation. And that something is yourself. And that’s all you need.
So bye-bye, old you and hello, dream girl. It’s time to become sexy and confident.
You’re Worth It
You’re worth it.
Yes, you have value and you’re worth every bit of effort that it will take to make you feel better about yourself. It doesn’t matter how badly you feel about yourself or how others have treated you. Whatever has happened to you in your life or whatever mistakes you’ve made are irrelevant. You deserve better. You’re worth the effort to make yourself better and you’re worth every good thing that happens to you as a result. Despite what others may say to you or how hard they might try to tear you down. It doesn’t matter if they think improving yourself is a complete waste of time, you’re worth it. And because of the fact that you’re worth it, you should also know that you deserve better than what you’ve been getting.
Yes, you deserve better. You deserve a good life. You deserve a good job and you deserve a good man. You deserve everything that every other woman who has it together has. You’re no different. So what if you haven’t had the right breaks or the right luck? Just because you might not have had any of these things up to now means nothing. All it means is that you haven’t had them yet and that the best is yet to come. Or course, there are some people who will say that you don’t deserve anything in life and that thinking this gives you a false sense of entitlement. They subscribe to the life is misery
idea and think that luck or merely hard work are the only determinants in having a good life. However, if you look at the people who say this, most of the time, they’re doing pretty well for themselves. They’re married and/or successful. It almost seems that they want to elevate themselves by comparing themselves to people who have not achieved this same level of success yet. This is just a little pathetic and completely unnecessary. While I think there is some truth to the fact that luck and hard work are important, I think that everybody deserves a good life and it is within reach. This is especially true if one goes about it the right way and has a good attitude.
When people try to tear you down and say that you’re just wasting your time trying to improve yourself, you have to remember that they are coming from a place of negativity. They don’t want you to succeed because it will either diminish what they have if they are successful or they will look bad because they didn’t have the initiative to do better