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    How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps
    How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps
    How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps
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    How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps

    By Frederick Nurse

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    The material you will find within these pages will provide you with a step by step guide on how to find your True Love, and more importantly, how to determine if that person is right for you. We will help you to take the guesswork out of knowing and prepare you for being a right fit for the person you desire. The goal is not meant to provide you with techniques on how to manipulate, cajole and otherwise coerce someone to love you. Herein, you will receive solid principles that are sincere and will help you to find and attract a fruitful and long lasting relationship.
    This seven-step principle will show you exactly how to find your ideal True Love and how to make a sound assessment of their character and values. When you put to work the principles, you will be prepared for that fateful day when love knocks on your door.
    Before you begin your quest to find that certain someone, your true love, first we need to take the time to define: (a) what does true love mean to you? (b)What would be your expectations of a True love? (c) How will you recognize true love when it comes? The questions are important starting points; please take a moment to answer these three questions.
    True love can so easily slip through our fingers because we do not know what would make us happy. Then there are times when love arrives, but we foolishly sabotage the grandness of the gift, because, we perceive that it does not meet our expectations? Similarly, the gift arrives, and we are not mature enough to deal with the demands it makes on us, or the commitment it requires.
    Looking back on my brush with love, I have to wonder if true love was denied because the person did not have the right family background, education, was not the desired religion, was not the preferred ethnicity or race, or was too tall, too fat, or too short. We can all name a plethora of reasons for why we threw love away. Why do we place so many brackets around the qualities that qualify someone as our lover? Society dictates what you can and cannot have by establishing these social boundaries to deny the intended person, joy, and harmony that God means for us to have. If a woman has to stoop to kiss her short lover, is she compelled to overcome social norms, is not love enough. A man standing in line at the grocery store holds his gallant soldier who lost her arm in the Iraq war. Is she any less deserving of his love? Is our pride or ego greater than love? Remember, when you stand at the altar to seal your vows, there is never a question about height, weight, color, background, family or wealth. The person who ministers will seal the two of you with a blessing not a judgment.
    Unlike any other time during my life, I had to confront self with candor and honesty, and it was hard. The average person cannot look at herself or himself in the mirror for more than five minutes without crying - try it. Was the true love I yearned for a fantasy, a trophy or a lifelong ambition? Moreover, was I willing to commit to this new desire having been married before? Did I want another commitment? So, I evaluated how I had committed myself to other aspects of my life. For me, this was a momentous step, and I invite you to ponder these points before you begin your journey towards finding true love. We have all heard that familiar saying, "Be careful what you ask for, you may get it. So now, ARE YOU PREPARED TOR TRUE LOVE?
    This is not an easy journey, you may have some near misses, so write out your answers on your note pad, and before we are finished, you will be singing the ballads of love to your own dedicated melody.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherFrederick Nurse
    Release dateJun 18, 2012
    ISBN9781476371955
    How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps
    Author

    Frederick Nurse

    Fred Nurse Character and service: Married for 47 years and have six adult children and 11 grandchildren, He worships in Brooklyn, NY, A graduate of Hofstra University, School of Business Retired from medical sales Current Board Member of the Brooklyn Council of Churches, Lecturer on World History Former Sunday School, Served as an Elder in Presbyterian Faith Serves the poor in Brooklyn in numerous Community Programs Awards and Credits: Honored as Father of the year by the County Executive of Nassau County, NY Honored by the Jamaican Business Resource Center for Business Acumen.

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      How To Find True Love in Seven Easy Steps - Frederick Nurse

      How To Find True Love In Seven Easy Steps

      By

      Frederick G. Nurse

      PUBLISHED BY: Frederick G. Nurse on Smashwords

      Copyright 2012-Frederick G. Nurse

      Smashwords Edition, License Notes

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

      Table of Contents:

      Know Thyself

      Love Thyself

      The Trail

      Your ideal Soul Mate

      What about you

      The Game Plan

      Making it Happen

      About The Author

      Introduction

      Are you searching for that perfect someone, that special person who will fulfill all of your dreams? The material you will find within these pages will provide a systematic guide on how to find true love. More importantly, you will learn how to determine the right characteristics and values your potential partner must have.

      It would be so much easier if we could simply visit a love- matching establishment, review the menu, and order. Good things the things we cherish do not come to us easily, nor are they dropped in our laps. We have to stretch and persevere until our search is complete.

      The French author Francois de La Rochefoucauld once said, True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, but few have met it face to face. How true that old adage is. Have you been searching tirelessly for this elusive element, we call true love? Could it be that person dwells right under your nose and you overlooked them or dismissed them somehow because of pretentious standards?

      When I began my quest to find True Love I was blinded by all the solicitations from websites saying, Meet your perfect mate. The flashing lights and glitter illustrated on website ads maligned my judgment. I had become transfixed on wanting and needing that perfect someone who could meet all of my specific qualities. She had to look and be as shapely as Miss. America, and nothing else would be acceptable. How silly I was. I knew many who were everything I could have asked for, yet I rejected them out of hand. Once I overcame the notion of a Barbie Doll look alike, I could openly accept my reality.

      True love can easily slip through our fingers because we do not know what we honestly want. Then there are times when love arrives, but we foolishly sabotage the grandness of the gift, because of our pie in the sky expectations. Similarly, the gift arrives, and we are not mature enough to deal with the demands or commitment love will require of us.

      Looking back on my brush with love, I forfeited true love because I placed so many obstacles before me. The person had to have the right family background, education, religion, ethnicity, race, height, weight etcetera. We can all name a plethora of reasons why we threw love away. Why do we place so many brackets around the qualities that would otherwise qualify someone as our lover? How many unions has God meant to bond together but we in our folly disallowed them? Matters, of race, ethnicity, religion and even the minutia of hair color have dashed the dreams of love for so many. Has this ever happened to you?

      If a woman stoops to kiss her short lover, must she be compelled to overcome social norms?

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