The Discover Your True North Fieldbook: A Personal Guide to Finding Your Authentic Leadership
By Nick Craig, Bill George and Scott Snook
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A personal guide for becoming an authentic leader
Whether you are just starting your leadership journey or leading a large organization, The Discover Your True North Fieldbook will help you find your leadership purpose, that internal Compass that provides direction and keeps you oriented—your True North. Through a series of reflective exercises, this Fieldbook helps you become a better leader by learning to be a more authentic one.
This Fieldbook both personalizes and unlocks the central lessons of its companion book, Discover Your True North by Bill George. It shares the most powerful insights that coauthors Nick Craig, Bill George, and Scott Snook have learned from helping more than 10,000 leaders discover and live up to their fullest potential. Each chapter contains potent exercises that help you mine your life story for deep insights and important patterns. As you work your way through these reflections, you will gain a clearer sense of who you are and why you lead—the essence of an authentic leader.
We offer an identity-based approach to leader development. Rather than telling you how to lead, the Fieldbook guides you through an intimate process of personal discovery. By understanding your life story and sharpening your personal narrative, you will discover the unique leader you were meant to be. On the way, you will work through the same lessons taught to MBA students at Harvard Business School, as well as senior executives in many Fortune 100 companies.
The Discover Your True North Fieldbook will help you:
- Become more self-aware and self-accepting
- Locate that sweet spot at the intersection of your passions and strengths
- Identify and lead from your core values when it matters most
- Build a robust support team to guide you through difficult times
- Discover your leadership purpose, the essence of who you are, your True North
- Stay grounded by integrating all aspects of your life
- Grow as a global leader
- Help others become authentic leaders
To help you actually live your True North, this Fieldbook concludes by offering a rigorous, step-by-step process that generates a customized, behaviorally anchored Personal Leadership Development Plan. This plan not only summarizes and integrates everything you've learned completing this Fieldbook, but does so in a way that supports immediate action and impact. Welcome to your journey toward authentic leadership. Welcome to your True North.
Visit www.DiscoverYourTrueNorth.org to learn more.
Nick Craig
Nick Craig is a champion of champions, having won the Endeavour Trophy a record six times. He has also won 28 National championships, 8 European championships and 9 World championships, in a variety of classes. He has achieved so much and yet is not a professional sailor – all of this has been done alongside a full-time job. He was awarded the YJA Yachtsman of the Year in 2011 and the Yachts & Yachting Amateur Sailor of the Year in 2013.
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The Discover Your True North Fieldbook - Nick Craig
CONTENTS
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
Preface: Why an Updated Fieldbook?
Why This Book Is For You
Discovering Your Authentic Leadership
Using This Fieldbook
Should I Work With Others While Using This Guide?
A Final Word to Users of This Fieldbook
Introduction: Why Authentic Leadership Development?
What Is an Authentic Leader?
How Will This Fieldbook Help You Become an Authentic Leader?
Your Idea of Leadership
No Leader Is Perfect
Learning From Your Leadership Journey
Part One: Examine Your Leadership Journey
Chapter 1: Life Story
Learning From Your Life Story
Authenticity and Effectiveness
Your Journey to Authentic Leadership
Building on Your Story
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 2: Losing Your Way
On the Hero's Journey
Five Hazards of Leadership Development
Getting Back on Track is a Source of Strength
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 3: Crucibles
Crucibles
Potential Crucibles
The Story of Your Crucible
Learning From Your Crucible
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Part Two: Discover Your Authentic Leadership
Chapter 4: Develop Your Self-Awareness
Self-Awareness can be Developed
Discovering Your Authentic Self
Self-Acceptance
Feedback Seeking
Learning About Yourself is an Ongoing Process
Self-Awareness is Preparation For Growth
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 5: Practice Your Values
Values Are Personal
Identifying Values, Principles, and Ethical Boundaries
Leadership Principles: Making Your Values Actionable
Establishing Ethical Boundaries
Values, Principles, and Ethical Boundaries Benefit From Practice
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 6: Find Your Sweet Spot
Discover Your Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivations
Leadership Strengths
Using Your Sweet Spot
Your Sweet Spot Today
Your Sweet Spot Holds The Key to Your Effectiveness
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 7: Build Your Support Team
Your Most Important Relationship
Building Your Support Team
Developing a Mentor
Developing Genuine Friendships
Creating a Personal Board of Directors
The Benefits of Your Support Team
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 8: Integrate Your Life
The Buckets of Your Life
Measuring Success in Your Life
Integrating Your Life
Prioritizing What You Love Doing
Reflecting on Your Journey
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Part Three: Put Your Authentic Leadership into Action
Chapter 9: The Transformation from I to We
The End of the Heroic Leader
Guiding your Leadership Development
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 10: Lead with Purpose
Rediscovering Your Purpose
Leading With Purpose
Alignment of Individual and Organizational Purpose
A Life of Purposeful Leadership
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 11: Empower Others to Lead
Empowerment
Five Ways to Build Trust and Mutual Respect
Empowering Others to Lead
Leadership Style—A Contingency Approach
Leadership Style—A Developmental Approach
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 12: Become a Global Authentic Leader
Accessing Your Global Insights
Awareness, Curiosity, and Empathy
A Life of Global Leadership
Key Takeaways
Suggested Reading
Chapter 13: Create Your Personal Leadership Development Plan
Your Personal Leadership Development Plan
Your True North Is Alive
Suggested Reading
Afterword
Appendix A: Ways to Use This Guide
As an Individual
As A Member of A Group of Peers
As A Member of A Team or As A Team Leader
As A Coach or Mentor
As A Facilitator
As an Educator
Appendix B: Form a Leadership Discussion Group
Appendix C: Course Syllabus for Authentic Leadership Development
Course Purpose
Intellectual Premise and Course Concepts
Book Reading
Leadership Discussion Groups (LDGs)
Authentic Leadership Development Course Plan
About the Authors
End User License Agreement
List of Tables
Table 1.1
Table 2.1
Table 2.2
Table 2.3
Table 2.4
Table 2.5
Table 2.6
Table 5.1
Table 6.1
Table 6.2
Table 6.3
Table 6.4
Table 6.5
Table 6.6
Table 8.1
List of Illustrations
Figure 1.1
The Discover Your True North Fieldbook
A Personal Guide to Becoming an Authentic Leader
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Nick Craig
Bill George
Scott Snook
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George, Bill (William W.)
The discover your true north fieldbook: a personal guide to becoming an authentic leader / Nick Craig, Bill George, Scott Snook.—Revised and updated.
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Includes index.
ISBN 978–1–119–10355–4 (pbk.); ISBN 978–1–119–10356–1 (ePDF); ISBN 978–1–119–10357–8 (ePub)
1. Leadership. 2. Organizational effectiveness. I. Craig, Nick, 1960- II. Snook, Scott A., 1958- III. Title.
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Dedication
Bill George dedicates this book to his colleagues Nick Craig and Scott Snook, who have devoted their lives to enabling leaders to discover their True North.
Nick Craig dedicates this book to the authentic leaders in his life, who showed him the way by being just themselves.
Scott Snook dedicates this book to his wife Kathi, and their five children, Sean, Kyle, Megan, Robby, and Jessica.
Preface
Why an Updated Fieldbook?
Since writing the original version of this fieldbook, we have had the privilege of working with over 10,000 individuals on their journey to becoming more authentic leaders. Our experience has ranged from teaching the Authentic Leadership Development MBA course at Harvard Business School to running custom True North programs with senior executives with global responsibilities.
In the process, we have learned a great deal about how people discover and implement their True North. Having worked with many of these individuals over an extended period of time, we have come to understand their long-term journey and what it takes to stay the course.
As Bill said in the Preface of the first edition:
Leadership matters. It matters a great deal—to our organizations and institutions, to the people who work in them, and to the people who are served by them. For our society to function effectively, we need authentic leaders who can encourage people to perform at their best and step up and lead themselves.
"I wrote True North because I have a passion to see more people in all walks of life lead authentically and because I wanted to help people like you discover your authentic leadership."
In conjunction with Discover Your True North, we have amassed our insights and learning to create a significantly updated guide to assist you on your journey to authentic leadership. As you navigate the unchartered territory of the twenty-first century, we hope our fieldbook assists you in becoming a highly effective—and authentic—leader, one who follows your True North and stays the course!
Why This Book Is For You
One of our greatest learnings since writing the first edition is that everyone can lead. When you call a help desk and your issue isn't in the dropdown menu for the person on the other end, they have a choice in that moment to lead or not. We all know how it feels when they do and when they don't.
In our view, any time you face a decision that impacts others, you are leading. Thus, whether you are a student, parent, bus driver, army officer, CEO, grandparent, or citizen of the world, we all have the opportunity to step up and lead.
We wrote this workbook based on the assumption that we are all on a journey to become more authentic leaders. This book is for those who wish to deepen their connection to the magic of who they are so that when they have the opportunity to lead, they will be more likely to step up, lead effectively, and live a meaningful life.
Discovering Your Authentic Leadership
Becoming an authentic leader is hard work. The process is not much different from becoming a world-class musician or a successful athlete. To become great at anything, you must leverage the unique strengths you were born with, while acknowledging and learning from your shortcomings.
In Bill's case, he had to work very hard to become a leader, enduring disappointing defeats and rejections in high school and early college years. As General Electric's CEO Jeff Immelt describes it, Bill had to make the leadership journey into [his] own soul
in order to find out who he was, where his real passions lie, and how he could become more effective as a leader. He didn't have a fieldbook like this one to help him, so he made up a plan as he went along. With the help of his wife Penny, close friends, and some important mentors along the way, Bill not only grew and flourished, but he also captured hard-won lessons along the way. Lessons we share with you here.
After searching for a role model for many years, Bill learned that he could never become a great leader by emulating someone else or by minimizing his shortcomings. As Director of the Year
Reatha Clark King says, If you're aiming to be like somebody else, you're being a copycat because you think that's what people want you to do. You'll never be a star with that kind of thinking. But you might be a star—unreplicable—by following your passion.
Many books offer quick fixes or seven easy steps to leadership. Unfortunately, development doesn't work that way. To realize your potential as a leader, you need a systematic plan to support your growth. That's the goal of The Discover Your True North Fieldbook: to offer a clear and detailed path to guide your development.
We encourage you to take on as many leadership experiences early in life as you can. Don't sit back and wait for them to come to you. Seek them out! After each experience, process them by returning to your development plan, make necessary changes, and reengage with a clearer sense of your True North. This is a lifelong process. Start now.
As you embark on this journey, consider these fundamental truths:
You can discover your authentic leadership right now.
You do not have to be born with the characteristics or traits of a leader.
You do not have to wait for a tap on your shoulder.
You do not have to be at the top of your organization.
You can step up to lead at any point in your life: You're never too young—or too old.
Leadership is a choice, not a title.
Using This Fieldbook
This fieldbook offers you a series of exercises encouraging you to delve deep into your life story, discover your passions, and develop into an authentic leader. First, you will explore your life story and its relationship to your leadership. Then, you will examine the leadership experiences you have had thus far in your life, including both challenges and disappointments. To keep you from losing your way, we'll also highlight several common patterns that might distract you from realizing your True North.
After a broad review of your life story, we'll ask you to unpack significant crucibles, those searing moments that seem to hold great meaning. By mining your life stories and exploring your crucibles, you begin to uncover unique patterns that help to define who you are, your authentic self.
Next, you will go to work on five key elements of development: self-awareness, values and principles, motivations and sweet spots, support teams, and how to lead an integrated life.
In the final section, we'll ask you to experience what it feels like to make the fundamental shift from I
to We,
craft a leadership purpose statement, and understand the importance of empowering others in a global context. After completing this work, you'll be ready to create your own Personal Leadership Development Plan (PLDP). This is a dynamic document that you can return to in future years to assess your progress, make any necessary updates, and use as a lifelong guide to remain oriented toward your True North.
Should I Work With Others While Using This Guide?
Your responses to the exercises and your notes in this fieldbook are personal. However, we do encourage you to share them with trusted others, including mentors, coaches, and members of your support team. Their feedback will be invaluable as you work to develop your PLDP.
As you share your personal story and insights with others, we encourage you to take some risks; experiment with being a bit more vulnerable than perhaps you might ordinarily be. We've found that sharing your story can be incredibly liberating and in fact deepen ties with those you trust.
There are several ways you might use this fieldbook:
As an individual, you can complete these exercises and draft your PLDP on your own.
You can work through this fieldbook with a group with friends or even new acquaintances. Everyone should complete the exercises individually, and then discuss the insights openly with other members of the group. Then it can be helpful to go back to the exercises and update them, based on others' feedback.
Your group can be led by a professional facilitator who guides your discussion and keeps the group on track. Or you can create a peer-facilitated group, in which leadership of the group rotates to a different member for each session. Bill pioneered this approach with six-person Leadership Development Groups (LDGs) in the Authentic Leadership Development course at Harvard Business School.
To enhance your learning, you can also use The Discover Your True North Fieldbook in conjunction with a personal coach or mentor. Experienced partners can help deepen your learning, provide feedback, and add an additional layer of insights and