Death To The Fling, Get The Ring
By Breizy T
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About this ebook
Keep finding yourself in a “go-nowhere” relationship?
Tired of dating all the wrong men?
Feeling discouraged, frustrated, and at the brink of giving up on love?
Brei Thompson went through tons of emotions from hopelessness to downright done with love during a 15 year cycle of flings, situationships, and friends with benefits. She hilariously tells her story of how she ended the annoying cycle of dating men who wouldn’t commit and how she finally got the ring and married the most perfect man on the planet.
While making you laugh, you will also feel every heartbreak and disappointment that Brei experienced during her journey because girl, she holds NOTHING back. This is a raw story that every woman can relate to, and Brei lets you into her heart displaying a vulnerability that is unmatched.
Not only will you see yourself and your struggles in this story, but Brei also shares the tools and resources that she used to stop the successful dating cycle, and attract the man who is ready to give you the RING!
There are men out there who are ready to commit. Death To The Fling, Get The RING will share with you the secrets to finding THAT kind of man.
Breizy T
I’m just a regular hard working Queen who was a teenage mom, turned single mom, turned recent wife, who still works 9-5, but is an aspiring serial entrepreneur, with 2 business side hustles......and I love to talk to women, about... women. , I am in love with our magic, our ability to overcome, our strength...So, thats what I do here. I talk to women, about women, for women.And together, we are an army of Queens, protecting the Queendom from low self esteem and low self worth by having conversations and sharing stories of everyday women overcoming difficulties and working through problems.I hope this podcast inspires you to always remember your worth.Feel free to leave a comment or follow me on social media!
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Death To The Fling, Get The Ring - Breizy T
Death To the Fling
Get The Ring
by
Breizy T.
Smashwords Edition
Copyright © 2016 by Breizy T.
All Rights Reserved.
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: The Mirror
Chapter 2: Honest Is My BFF
Chapter 3: Power
Chapter 4: The Cart Before the Horse
Chapter 5: Who
Chapter 6: But What About You?
Chapter 7: Get the RING!
Question Section
INTRODUCTION
All along I had been thinking the love was mutual. It wasn’t.
All along I was reading signs and thinking he was doing what he was doing because he was afraid I would hurt him. So I stayed, continuing to try to prove to him that I wouldn’t hurt him. But that wasn’t the issue.
All along I listened to excuses and accepted them.
He hurt me and I forgave him.
He gave me less then I deserved and I accepted it.
For an entire year, I had been hopeful that the man I was seeing would open his heart and love me unconditionally. But all he did was make excuses about why he couldn’t express that kind of love for me. The entire time, I believed that we would work through our fears and begin to truly express love for one another openly. But after 12 months that day never came.
The whole time I just wanted to feel safe enough to open up the floodgates and let all of my love come rushing at him. But every time I tried he pulled away just enough to let me know that love wasn’t welcomed.
And then, one day, he sent me the most heartbreaking text I had ever received. As soon as I read it, I accepted a harsh reality.
HE. DID. NOT. WANT. ME.
PERIOD.
And that text…
Well, it was my last straw.
I was finally strong enough to walk away. Let it go. End the relationship.
Relationship?
OK let me be honest. That was no relationship. Although I spent a hopelessly hopeful year waiting for this clown to commit, I can NOT call it relationship. I guess it was more of a situationship. Like a fling or whatever.
Anyway … whatever it was … I ended it.
Now fast forward to today.
…and my life has taken a 180 degree turn.
As I am sitting here writing this book, I am lying beside my fiancé. We are talking about (well, having a disagreement about) communication, sex, and whether or not he is comfortable with me sharing my story with the world. He is not communicating with me about his true feelings and I am the type of girl who needs an ‘explanation’ for everything.
We talk a lot.
Let me rephrase—I talk a lot. He listens and gives input a lot.
Some people will think that this is a sign of relationship problems, like why is this girl telling us to get the ring when she is having a disagreement with her man? Some people see having disagreements and heated conversations as a sign that there is trouble in paradise
. Hell, I used to think the same way. But as I got older, as I went through a