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    How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction: Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness
    How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction: Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness
    How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction: Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness
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    How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction: Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness

    By Dueep Jyot Singh

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    Table of Contents

    Introduction
    Why Am I so Shy?
    Childhood Programming And Shyness
    Just “Being Yourself”
    Social Behavior and Society
    Taking That First Step
    Volunteering Your Services
    Natural Programming for Survival
    Learn Not to Be so Self Absorbed
    Just Lending a Helping Hand
    Conclusion
    Author Bio
    Publisher

    Introduction

    Believe it or not, when given the chance to interact socially, unless of course you are a totally outgoing, extroverted sort of person, a large percentage of us may find the going tough. That is because we have been genetically programmed by nature not to be social at first instance. And later on, with the passing of time, and the veneer of civilization adding to the natural instincts, man decided that any sort of social interaction is only going to be among people of his own social standing, and he would talk to men of lower rank only when necessary.

    Millenniums have passed since then. However, the situation has changed all over the world, and it is the 21st-century. There is absolutely no rhyme, reason, or security need for you to be wary and chary to go and talk to somebody, because you think your life depends on it. That is not so. So this book is for all those people who absolutely cannot talk to anybody in a social milieu, do not know how to make small talk, or get into a conversation, or interact with anybody just because they are so shy.

    Let me tell you something – 2,000 years ago, if you behaved in this antisocial manner, and did not conform to tribal traditions by being a part of a social group, it was possible that you would be destroyed because you were a threat to the whole group. That was because you were definitely not around asking questions on how to survive. You definitely did not take part in any survival exercises and training sessions. Instead you went off all alone to commune with nature, and to talk to the animals and trees, because you were different and could not be bothered to talk to human beings.

    In Africa, of course, you would be fed to the Crocodiles. In Asia you would have been put in a large group, with people of your own age group, bullying and tormenting you, until you retaliated. If you were not able to retaliate, it meant that you did not have the spirit to survive. So next sacrificial session, you would have been sacrificed to the mother earth, because nobody would be willing to carry your burden.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherMendon Cottage Books
    Release dateFeb 12, 2017
    ISBN9781370398256
    How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction: Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness

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      How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction - Dueep Jyot Singh

      How to Become Proficient in Social Interaction

      Learning the Art of Small Talk & Overcoming Shyness

      Dueep Jyot Singh

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      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      Why Am I so Shy?

      Childhood Programming And Shyness

      Just Being Yourself

      Social Behavior and Society

      Taking That First Step

      Volunteering Your Services

      Natural Programming for Survival

      Learn Not to Be so Self Absorbed

      Just Lending a Helping Hand

      Conclusion

      Author Bio

      Publisher

      Introduction

      Believe it or not, when given the chance to interact socially, unless of course you are a totally outgoing, extroverted sort of person, a large percentage of us may find the going tough. That is because we have been genetically programmed by nature not to be social at first instance. And later on, with the passing of time, and the veneer of civilization adding to the natural instincts, man decided that any sort of social interaction is only going to be among people of his own social standing, and he would talk to men of lower rank only when necessary.

      Millenniums have passed since then. However, the situation has changed all over the world, and it is the 21st-century. There is absolutely no rhyme, reason, or security need for you to be wary and chary to go and talk to somebody, because you think your life depends on it. That is not so. So this book is for all those people who absolutely cannot talk to anybody in a social milieu, do not know how to make small talk, or get into a conversation, or interact with anybody just because they are so shy.

      Let me tell you something – 2,000 years ago, if you behaved in this antisocial manner, and did not conform to tribal traditions by being a part of a social group, it was possible that you would be destroyed because you were a threat to the whole group. That was because you were definitely not around asking questions on how to survive. You definitely

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