TNH DC PH N TUI TRUNG NIN

L Thy Ti

C quan sinh dc n khc vi nam gii cc im: C bung trng l hai tuyn va ni tit va ngoi tit, li hot ng c tnh chu k. Bung trng ch hot ng t dy th n mn kinh. T cung c cu trc c bit nui dng v lu gi bo thai trong 270 ngy. m o di, c kh nng gin n, l "hoan lc l", cng l ng ra ca em b. Ni y c h thng tuyn bi tit dch nhn di tc dng ca hormone bung trng.

H IU HNH NI TIT Vng di i (hypothalamus)

Trung khu sinh dc nm nn ca no gia, pha trn giao thoa th gic, bao gm mt nhm thn kinh, rt giu mch mu nui dng, c kh nng bi tit hormone. Nhn trn th bi tit vasopressin, nhn cnh no tht bi tit oxytocine, hai cht ny c cc si thn kinh dn xung thy sau tuyn yn. Nhn c xm, nhn bng gia, nhn lng gia v nhn cung tit ra cc hormone gii phng. Trong c hormone gii phng cc kch dc t ca tuyn yn gi tt l GnRH (Gonadotropin Releasing Hormone). y l hormone gii phng do hai nh khoa hc M Schally v Guillemin pht hin ra nm 1971.

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Cc kch dc t ca tuyn yn

Hypothalam us G n RH Tuyn yn Kch dc t FSH, LH, prolactin

Bung trng Estrogen Pht trin v Mc lng, n mo

D tr m di da

Tng m ch m u di da

FSH (Follicle Stimulating Hormone) Kch thch nang trng pht trin v to nang De Graaf. Lp o trong ca nang bi tit estrogen. LH (Luteinizing Hormone) Kch thch phng non to thnh hong th. Hong th bi tit progesterone. Prolactin Hormone bi tit sa. Bung trng L hai tuyn hnh bu dc, kch thc 4x2x1cm c 2 chc nng: Ngoi tit: bi tit 1 trng trong mt chu k kinh. Ni tit: bi tit hormone sinh dc n (estrogen, progesterone) di s iu khin ca cc kch dc t.

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CC THI K HOT NG SINH DC N

Cuc i hot ng sinh dc n c th chia lm 4 giai on: 1. Giai on b gi: d b phn sinh dc l con gi nhng bung trng thi k "ng yn" v mt ni tit. Nguyn nhn l do trung khu sinh dc vng di i cha bt u hot ng. 2. Giai on dy th: Tin dy th: h iu hnh ni tit-sinh dc c khi ng gy ra mt bc ngot ln trong s tng trng ton din. Ngc nh ln, nm v ni r, m v pht trin, tng sinh ng tuyn sa v khoang sinh sa di tc ng ca estrogen. Lng mu, lng nch xut hin di tc dng ca androgen tit ra t bung trng v tuyn thng thn. di m o tng ln, mi ln, mi nh pht trin, m vt to ra, di da xng v tp trung nhiu m. Biu m m o tng sinh, dy ln, vi khun Latobacillus xut hin, pH m o gim xung <4,0. GH (Growth Hormone) b kch thch nn thc y sn ct ha to thnh xng rt nhanh. Mi nm b gi c th tng 10cm chiu cao. Dy th: Vi s "ng cu dao" hot ng, bung trng bt u c nang trng pht trin, chn v rng gy ra k kinh nguyt u tin. C b ngy th bin thnh thiu n. 3. Giai on hot ng sinh dc: v mt ni tit, thiu n c th mang thai. Tuy nhin xng chu cn pht trin v hon tt lc 18 tui. Cc c quan sinh dc ph cng nh ton thn cn tip tc pht trin. Trc di i-tuyn yn-bung trng hot ng nhp nhng. Thi k hot ng sinh dc ko di t dy th n mn kinh. 4. Giai on mn kinh: mun ni kh nng mang thai khng cn na. Bung trng teo, cc hormone ca bung trng gim i ch cn 10%, gy ra tnh trng mt cn bng trong ton b h thng ni tit, nh hng trm trng n sc khe ph n.

HAM MUN (LIBIDO)

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Ting Latin c ngha l mong mun, ham mun, am m. N ch s ham mun tnh dc. Bc s Gilbert Tordjman cho rng "libido l mt lc thc y, mt nng lng, mt cn thm mun, mt xung lc khin ngi ta i tm khoi cm tnh dc". ph n estrogen v testosterone l nguyn nhn pht sinh ham mun. Tc gi Francesco Albroni ni v libido nh sau: "S ham mun ca ph n cn c nhng giai on t t, theo tng bc gn nh kh cm nhn, cn nam gii th mun tt c v gn nh ngay lp tc. D biu hin mt cch t pht, ham mun ca n ng bao gi cng l s xm nhp mt cch t ngt v d di Ngi ph n mun c cm d theo nhp ring ca mnh mt cch hi ha. H mun ton thn trn ngp xc cm. K cm d gii l k lm cho n b b li cun, kin nhn ngi n b c thi gian chun b, m c c ha nhp"

Cc cp ham mun tnh dc

C 2 cp : Ham mun tip xc: gp g, nhn thy nhau, tr chuyn linh tinh, nm tay, m hn Ham mun tha mn: mun tin ti ci ch xa hn, su hn l hot ng tnh dc S gi tnh (erotica): l yu t kch thch ham mun (mu sc phng ng, mi hng t c th hay o ng mng na kn na h).

S khc bit gia ham mun v tnh yu?

Ham mun thuc phm tr cm xc, cn tnh yu thuc phm tr tnh cm. Ngi ta vn c th ham mun mt ngi m mnh khng yu v ngc li (c bit l nam gii). Hn na ham mun rt mong manh, n c th mt i bi cc l do bnh tt, tm l, nhng kh khn trong cuc sng v chng, nhng cng c nhng nguyn nhn tnh cm nh s khng chung thy. Tnh yu khi dy ham mun nhng ham mun cha chc l h qu ca tnh yu.

Hnh nh ph n thng t ham mun hn nam gii?

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Khng hn th. Mi gii u c nhng ngi ham mun nhiu, ham mun t. C iu ham mun ca nam gii th hin r rng hn, cn ph n th kn o hn.

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C s vt cht ca ham mun tnh dc:

TNH DC (sex)
Xut pht t ting Latin c ngha l "quan h tnh dc". Sex l tp hp cc phn ng, thi , tm l m khi u l ham mun ri mi dn n s tha mn bng quan h tnh dc.

Cc giai on ca mt hot ng tnh dc

Nm 1966 cun "Human sexual response" ca bc s William. M. Masters v n tin s Virginia E. Jonhson (chuyn gia v tm l hnh vi) ra i. Hai tc gi nghin cu 382 ph n tui 18-78 v 312 nam gii 21-89 tui a ra thng tin rt chn ng rng s hiu bit v c th hc, gii tnh ca nhng nhn vt tham gia nghin cu "ngho nn mt cch khng th hiu c". Cng khng th trch ai v tnh dc t lu c xem nh iu cm k. Mi cho n 1972, mn Tnh dc hc lm sng (clinical sexology) mi c T chc Y t Th gii cng nhn, cn chng trnh o to bc s 6 nm mi ch dng chng Sinh l sinh dc m thi.

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Bng Bn giai on ca hot ng tnh dc (Masters v Johnson) Cc giai on Giai on kch thch ph n Tit dch nhn m o, m vt cng, mu nam gii Cng cng + ngc cng + u dng vt tit dch nhn Dng vt cng cng, mu v tm bm Tim p nhanh, th gp

Giai on ch yu

Co c trn m o, ngc cng cng, c ni mn Tim p nhanh, th gp

Giai on cc khoi

Co tht t cung, m o, m vt mu. Mt cn cc khoi gm 3-10 t co tht m o gin, cc c quan tr v trng thi bnh thng

ng dn tinh, ti tinh, tuyn tin lit co tht 0,8 giy/ln v phng tinh Dng vt xp xung, tr v trng thi ngh

Giai on gin li

Nhng im "bng n kch thch" ca ph n

m vt (clitoris) C nhiu tn gi nh m hch, mng c, hch nhn, ht ngc, con chut d kch thc rt nh (c ngi kch thc nh nh ht u xanh, c ngi kch thc to nh ht u nnh). V cu to: m vt cu to ging nh dng vt, treo pha trn m h, nm khim tn ni gp nhau ca hai mi nh. m vt c khong 6-8 triu u tn cng thn kinh (gp 4 ln dng vt). Khi b kch thch, mu t ng mch (ch yu l ng mch xon) s trn vo m vt lm n cng cng. y l im "bng n" th nht ca ph n m hu nh n ng no cng bit. Trong mt s nghin cu cc nh khoa hc thy rng tn hiu u tin ca cm hng tnh dc l s rung ng ca m vt S rung ng ny chnh l ngun

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kch thch tnh dc hiu qu. N xua tan s e l, ngn ngi ban u v khuyn khch ch em dn thn vo chuyn "yu". Khi cuc giao hoan ang hi "gay cn" s rung ng c thay bng cm gic nh c lung in t m vt chy qua ton thn, lm tng cm gic sung sng, m. im G G l ch ci bt u tn ca mt bc s ngi c, Ernst Grafenberg ngi ln u tin pht hin im ny v miu t n trong mt tp ch khoa hc vo nm 1944. Bc s Grafenberg tnh c tm ra vng ny trong ln khm ph khoa cho mt ph n, khi ng chm vo, b rn ln sung sng. V th im G cn gi l im Grafenberg, mt vng nhy cm nm thnh trc m o. Sau ny cc nh khoa hc M thng bo r v tr nh sau: 70% gn pha niu o 15% gn bng quang 7% gia m o v t cung 8% c cu to dng tuyn v ng nh

Vy hnh th n ra sao? Khi c kch thch, n c kch thc 1x2cm hnh cong, giai on cc khoi, im G s tit ra mt t dch nhn mu trng m nhng h n cm nhn c gi l "phng tinh". Mt s b lc c truyn thng ct m vt ca b gi trnh b kch thch. H u bit rng trong m o cn c im G. Ngay c khi ngi ph n mn kinh th im G vn pht huy tc dng to hng phn khi chu kch thch.

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V cng l im G Nm 2010 tin s Barry Komisaruk thuc i hc Rutgers (M) dng cng hng t ht nhn ghi nhn nhng vng nhn cm gic trn no khi kch thch vo m vt, im G v nm v.

Kt qu cho thy: kch thch vo nm v cng lm cho ph n hng phn v t cc khoi. L gii iu ny cc nh khoa hc thuc i hc Rutgers (M) gii thch rng, khi nm v b kch thch chng tc ng ln no lm tng hm lng oxytocine. iu ny gip cho nhng ngi b tn thng b phn sinh dc vn c th t cc khoi.

Nng lng tnh dc

Nhiu ch thc mc: ti sao "lm n" xong l ng chng c "nguyn xi" th m ln ra ng? Thi xa c Hi Thng Ln ng v hot ng tnh dc nh ngi i cy hay vc t, "lm" xong mt l th ln ra ng l phi. Thi nay cc nh khoa hc nhn thy: lao ng ny cng l lao ng c bp, ngun glycogen cn kit nn bun ng l c c s. Khm ph cc ha cht tit ra khi "vi vu" ngi ta thy dopamin, oxytocin, endorphin bi tit ra m m a 2 ngi n trng thi m th ng l phi o.

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C mt thc mc m nhiu ngi vn trn tr l: ti sao "tru gi khoi gm c non"? ri sau tn hn mt s "tru gi" chng nhng khng "sm" m cn tr ra? y l b mt m trong cun Lovemaking energy trnh by. Cc nh khoa hc Trung Quc cho rng: khi ph n c kch thch v hng phn y v t c cc khoi th bn thn h pht ra mt dng nng lng. Nng lng ny cn ln hn c nng lng ca ng x mt i khi lm tnh. Nu v chng "giao lu" trong khung cnh yu thng v y hng th th ngun nng lng ca b v s thm vo c th chng theo mt lc ht k l. ng chng s cm thy khe mnh, yu i hn v qu trnh lo ha dng nh chng li. Tt nhin khng phi cp no cng nh vy. Nu hai ngi ly nhau khng v tnh yu m v a v hay vt cht chng hn th coi chng sau mt thi gian ng chng tru gi s khng gm c non na.

CC KHOI PH N
Rt c bit. Khi cm xc dng tro ging nh mch in b qu ti, c ton thn trng thi cng. Nhp tim tng ln n 150-160 ln/pht, huyt p tng, th hn hn. Khung chu chuyn ng d di, mu dn v vng m h, m o. Thn kinh cm gic vng m h, m o hng phn cao , chng khin cho cc c ni y co tht v chuyn thnh nhng t sng ln tn lan truyn khp c th. Mch mu trong tiu khung khng cn cng na, m hi v ra, cm gic th gin chy ton thn. l cc khoi. Ph n c bao nhiu ln cc khoi? Nu n ng ch c mt ln vi s i hi tt c n lc th ph n c nhiu ln cc khoi. Nghin cu c thc hin M vi 1 ph n tnh nguyn. Phng nghin cu c trang b y t my ghi m n camera. Ngi ph n ny c ti 50 ln cc khoi vi 50 ngi n ng v kp phi dng li v ht phim. Khi c hi c khng mt sao? c tr li mt nhng tha mn. Gii thch hin tng ny cc nh tnh dc cho rng khoi cm ca ph n bay l l ging nh vin si dp m bn c tnh nm cho n lt trn mt h. Ti sao nam gii khng c nh vy? Bi nam gii ph thuc vo c ch cng, mu dn vo hai th hang v xp xung sau khi cc khoi. Mun khi ng li phn x cng, dng vt phi c thi gian

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th gin np oxy. Ph n khng chu cnh ny. H mch tiu khung s iu chnh lng mu n b phn sinh dc ty theo mc hng phn nn nu vn hnh tip tc n s khng b thiu oxy nh dng vt. Nh vy cc khoi l do s co gin ca mch mu? Khng hn th m bao gi cng phi c yu t thn kinh trc tin. No b va tip nhn thng tin t ng quan va pht ng phn x tnh dc va bi tit ha cht tc ng n ton thn. Ty sng l k tha hnh mnh lnh v iu chnh h mch mu vng tiu khung dn n b phn sinh dc. Cc nghin cu ch ra rng trong khi n ng c th t cc khoi ch sau 2 pht c kch thch th ngc li ph n phi mt t 15 n 40 pht t c cc khoi.

NHNG HA CHT BI TIT KHI YU

Ph n trc ht phi c tnh yu ri mi tin ti tnh dc. y l im khc vi nam gii v c cho l "tin ha hn". ang yu, ch cn nghe ging ni, nhn thy nhau l dy thn kinh s VIII hoc dy th gic truyn xung ng v no. Theo nghin cu ca Trng i hc Rutgers (M) th cm xc yu huy ng ti 12 vng trn no b. Serotonin, hormone gip cho kh sc ti tn, ngi trn tr nha sng c bi tit i th, vng di i, v no, tuyn tng v c thy thi dng. Serotonin gip cho c gi thy tin tng i tc v mnh dn hn. Cng lc vng putamen v caudate nucleus sn sinh ra dopamine. Con gi khi yu lng dopamine thng tng ln 50% so vi bnh thng. Tip ng vi 2 vng trn l hypocampus (kim sot tr nh v giao tip x hi) cng sinh ra dopamine Genius Beauty cho rng: ngi no c hm lng dopamine cao c nim cm hng trong tnh yu nhiu hn. Dopamine lp tc kch thch no b, tuyn sinh dc v thng thn bi tit testosterone v estrogene. Testosterone v estrogene kch thch ham mun tnh dc, tuy nhin ph n nhiu estrogene v t testosterone th biu l ham mun nh nhng, su kn hn. Ngay lc oxytocine ca thy sau tuyn yn bi tit. Oxytocine c gi l "hormone u ym" nhng khi khng km lng c h tin ti quan h tnh dc th oxytocine

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c gi l "hormone ca s gn b". Khi quan h tnh dc c s xut hin ca endorphine, phenylethylamine (amphetamine) - nhng ma ty ni sinh lm c hai trong trng thi m, bay bng, "sng d vo tai cng mc k". Chun b cc khoi, ngoi cc hormone trn th DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone) ca tuyn thng thn bi tit tng gp 3-5 ln cng oxytocine to ra cc khoi n y chng ta c th hiu v sao tui mi ln, khi khng c hng dn y c lao vo yu v quan h tnh dc, mang thai, dn n t l ph thai ca nc ta cao nht th gii.

TNH DC CA PH N TRUNG NIN

T 35-40 tui, bung trng bt u c nhng du hiu suy gim hot ng. Ngi ph n bt u n nh s nghip, con ci chun b ln trung hc ph thng, nhng tng y l giai on c nh gnh i cht th li i mt vi nhng triu chng ca suy gim ni tit. Khi u l nhng ri lon ca hormone bung trng. Tuy nhin vi c ch iu khin ngc (feedback) th c trc ni tit t hypothalamus, tuyn yn, bung trng v c nhng tuyn lin quan (nh tuyn gip) u bin ng.

Cc ri lon khi suy gim trc ni tit

V kinh nguyt: ri lon kinh nguyt (vng kinh ngn, kinh ra nhiu hoc t). V c nhng vng kinh khng phng non (s phng non phi c vai tr ca LH (Luteinizing Hormone). Cn bc ha: do thiu ht estrogen dn n ri lon iu hnh h thn kinh thc vt (trung khu nm tu sng, thn no, vng di i (hypothalamus)) m in hnh l cng giao cm. Biu hin: nng bng phn trn c th, lan ln c, mt, u, v m hi, li thng xy ra ban m khin ph n mt ng. Lnh chn, chng mt, nhc u, ging hi chng tin nh khin ngi ph n x chiu lun trong trng thi s hi, lo lng khng bit mnh mc bnh u v trm trng ti mc no. Ri lon thn kinh, tm thn: lo lng, hi hp, mt ng, gim tr nh, hay qun, thiu tp trung. vy li thay tnh i nt nh hay

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cu gt, gin hn v nhng l do nh nht, thiu t tin (v nhan sc, sc khe), t ti, bun nn v rt d ri vo trm cm. Thay i v da: thiu estrogen nn lp m di da gim, da tr nn th hn, nhn nheo, m ngc cng rt lui khin ngc va s va nhn. Cc tuyn m hi bi tit km, dinh dng tc gim nn tc kh, rng, bc. H tit niu: trng lc bng quang gim, c tht c bang quang yu c bit vi ph n sinh nhiu nn d b tiu sn, vim ng tit niu. Thay i b my sinh dc: bung trng, t cung, m o u teo li, cc tuyn bi tit cht nhn km, m o kh, mng nn sinh hot tnh dc b au, rt, d vim nhim. Ham mun gim hn xung, ngi ph n hng hc sc xun ngy no nay khng mun gn chng, i ng ring hoc ni c n nh con chm chu. nh hng trn xng: long xng, gy xng, bin dng xng thng xy ra. Trn tim mch: tng huyt p, bnh mch vnh tng t 2-4 ln so vi hi tr. Bnh ung th: cng d dng xut hin nh ung th v, ung th c t cung, ung th bung trng

Chn on suy gim tnh dc n

Tt c cc du hiu trn khin ngi ph n l ra c an nhn khi con ci trng thnh li ri vo tnh trng lo lng, bi ri khi thy sc khe v ham mun tnh dc u xung dc. H cho l mnh gi hoc qu date v lun mc cm khi ngm nhn trong gng. Nhng vt chn chim ni khe mt, nhng cng tc bc v nhng ting th di nui tic tui xun qua i cng nm thng. D vy th ph n cn phi tip tc sng trong khong >20 nm nh th. C 3 triu chng tnh dc v 9 triu chng ton thn chn on:

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 3 triu chng suy gim tnh dc: Gim ham mun Kh m o Kh t khoi cm

9 triu chng ton thn: Ri lon kinh nguyt Bc ha, m hi v m, ri lon gic ng (mt ng) Mt mi, kh tp trung Lo u, cng thng, suy gim tr nh, thay i tnh tnh Bnh tim mch au nhc xng, long xng au u Tc rng Tng cn

Nu c 1 triu chng v tnh dc v 2 triu chng ton thn th l suy gim tnh dc.

Nguyn tc c bn iu tr suy gim tnh dc n

Nng cao cht lng sng ca ph n tui x chiu l bo v sc khe ph n v bo v hnh phc gia nh. Estrogen l hormone b thiu ht, vy th ta nn b sung estrogen? Vn tng chng d m khng d cht no. Sau my chc nm dng estrogen iu tr, cc nh khoa hc li thy khng n bi t l ung th v, bnh tim mch tng ln. Xu th chung hin nay l i tm nhng phytoestrogen t cy c c tc dng tng t estrogen nhng li khng gn vo th th estrogen gy hi l nhng estrogen thin nhin tt. Mt khc cn phi ly li thng bng cho c h trc ni tit. Nhng tho dc nh Lepidium Meyenii c tc dng ln trung khu ni tit, cng vi nhng

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tho dc b sung estrogen, progesterone v testosterone s iu chnh nhm khi phc li ham mun v cn bng sinh l n.

MN KINH V MN DC
Mn kinh l mun ni hot ng ca bung trng khng cn. Ngi ph n mn kinh c gii thot khi ni lo mang thai. Lc ny con ci ln khn, cng vic n nh li chun b ngh hu nn v chng c nhiu c hi hng th nim vui chn gi. Vy m bung trng vi cc hormone li tt ngm. Hiu n gin th l nh vy. Nu chng ta xem phim Tu thy hon quan b thin sau tui dy th thnh thong tng tu vi cung n hoc ci v, giu mt ni, tc l nhng ngi vn cn ham mun. Ph n cng vy. Dy th, h thng ni tit cng hot ng n nhp vi nhau. Nay bung trng ngng, h thn kinh, tm l cn nguyn vn, testosteron t tuyn thng thn cng vi chng 10% estrogen bi tit t m m to ra ham mun. Tuy nhin ham mun ca ph n l thuc vo yu t tm l. Nu ng chng yu thng, bit khu gi th chng c b v no li khng hng ng bi cm xc cn nguyn vn nh thu ban u, lm g c chuyn mt i.

MN KINH VN C TH QUAN H TNH DC

Chng ta thy mt s ph n tin mn kinh li nhn c mn qu ca to ha l "hi xun". Lc ny testosterone tit ra b lng estrogen thiu ht. Ngi ph n nh tr ra, thch lm p v quan h tnh dc mnh nh hi mi lp gia nh. C th tm lm mt php tnh: 1/3 cuc i t th u n khi ly chng (25 nm); 1/3 cuc i lm vic, xy dng gia nh, sinh con (30 nm); 1/3 cuc i ngh hu, hng th (25 nm). on i sau ny vt cht n nh nhng sc khe ang i xung. Vy m chc nng tnh dc li b mt i trong khi sinh hot tnh dc mang li rt nhiu li ch. N gn kt yu thng gia hai v chng, c bit sau by nhiu nm tri qua thng trm ca cng vic v nui dy con ci. N lm cc c quan nh tim, phi tng cng hot ng, gii ta stress, li tng cng h min dch, gip chng bnh tt V th cc ch ng b ph, cng ng ngh rng "gi ri, lm vy con chu n ch ci" hay "v chng gi ng chung k qu" Nn coi y l

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giai on hng th bi theo nh ngha tnh dc l hot ng nhm tha mn mt nhu cu ca c th. Nhu cu ny khng th thiu trong i sng v chng.

QUAN NIM CA PH N NC NGOI V TNH DC

Kho st b ti vi ph n Chu u cho chng ta thy quan nim ca ph n v tnh dc c nhng iu c bn sau: 86% ch em cho rng: tnh dc hon ton ch l chuyn khoi cm th xc v i hi ny hp l ging nh i th phi n, kht th phi ung, vy thi. 82% cho rng tnh dc em li sc sng. Nu n ngon, mc p m thiu mn tnh dc th k nh thiu hn ma xun. 81% cho rng nh "chuyn y" m c tnh yu tht s. Khi c mu thun v chng th tnh dc l liu thuc thn k ha gii tt nht. Sau khi ly chng v sinh hot tnh dc h thy mnh l n b ng ngha hn. Ph n c "n nem" khng? 60% qu b th nhn l c i "vng trm", a s l nhng qu b ngoi tnh ni cng s. Trong 21% th nhn l khng ch mt ln m h khoi "ti phm" bi ch l "vui v" cht nh. 40% cho l mun nhng phi nn lng v s v gia nh. 67% th nhn l thng xuyn "ngoi tnh t tng". 68% cm thy ham mun khi v tnh i qua mt cng trng, nhn thy nhng thn hnh vm v. Nhng con s trn cho chng ta thy ph n Chu u c gii phng v kh thoi mi trong chuyn tnh dc. Cn ta? Bnh ng trong cng vic x hi th c nhng bnh ng trong vic nh v trn ging ng th cn nhiu vn phi ci cch mi mong c nh h.

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Hiu v tnh dc n, chng ta s c ci nhn ng n hn v gip ph n nhiu hn. Xin ng coi tnh dc l iu cm k m hy t n ngang hng vi cc chc nng khc chm sc. Chng ta cha thot ra khi li ngh phong kin vi nhng t "kh ni", "nhy cm" hay "chuyn ring" th tnh dc vn trong bng ti. Gip ph n tui trung nin ly li phong trong sinh hot tnh dc l gip h gi li tui xun, t tin, yu i v gi c hnh phc gia nh. Ni nh Nietzsche: Chng no cuc i cn i ln th hnh phc v bn nng l ng nht. Ni d hiu, tnh dc biu th vn ha x hi ca mi quc gia, vn ha th no th tnh dc th y. S pht trin ca vn ha khng th tch ri gii phng ph n v vn ha tnh dc.

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