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The Story of Apprecication Bn tay ca m Posted on Thng Mt 30, 2012

Bi ny l lc dch ca mt ai t nguyn bn The Story of Apprecicationpha di y Bn tay ca m, bi hc ca con Mt thanh nin hc hnh xut sc np n vo chc v qun tr vin ca mt cng ty ln. Anh ta va xong t phng vn u tin, ng gim c cng ty mun gp trc tip c quyt nh nhn hay khng nhn anh ta. V ng thy t hc b ca chng thanh nin, tt c u tt v nm no, t bc trung hc n cc chng trnh nghin cu sau i hc cng u xut sc, khng nm no m anh chng thanh nin ny khng hon thnh vt bc. Vin gim c: Anh c hc bng ca nhng trng no? Chng thanh nin p Tha khng Th cha anh tr hc ph cho anh i hc sao? Cha ti cht khi ti va mi mt tui u. M ti mi l ngi lo tr hc ph. Vin gim c li hi: M ca anh lm vic u? Chng thanh nin p: M ti lm cng vic git o qun. Vin gim c bo chng thanh nin a i bn tay ca anh cho ng ta xem. Chng thanh nin c hai bn tay mn mng v hon ho. Vin gim c: Vy trc nay anh c bao gi gip m git gi o qun khng? Cha bao gi. M lun bo ti lo hc v c thm nhiu sch. Hn na, m ti git o qun nhanh hn ti. Chng thanh nin p. Vin gim c: Ti yu cu anh mt vic. Hm nay khi tr li nh, lau sch i bn tay ca m anh, v ri ngy mai n gp ti.

n lc y th chng thanh nin c cm tng l cng vic tt ny ang sn sng l ca mnh. V n nh, chng ta sung sng khoe vi me, v ch xin c cm ly i bn tay ca b. M chng trai cm thy c iu g khc l. Vi mt cm gic va vui m cng va bun, b a i bn tay cho con trai xem. Chng thanh nin t t lau sch i bn tay ca m.Va lau, nc mt chng tun trn. y l ln u tin chng thanh nin mi c dp khm ph i tay m mnh: i bn tay nhn nheo v y nhng vt bm en. Nhng vt bm lm au nhc n ni b rng mnh khi c lau bng nc. Ln u tin trong i, chng thanh nin nhn thc ra rng, chnh t i bn tay git qun o mi ngy ny gip tr hc ph cho chng t bao nhiu lu nay. Nhng vt bm trong i tay ca m l gi m chng phi tr di ng ng cho n ngy chng tt nghip, cho nhng xut sc trong hc vn v cho tng lai s ti ca chng. Sau khi lau sch i tay ca m,chng thanh nin lng l git ht phn o qun cn li cho m. Ti , hai m con tm s vi nhau tht l lu. Sng hm sau, chng thanh nin ti tr s cng ty. Vin gim c cn thy nhng git nc mt cha ro ht trong i mt ca chng thanh nin, ng hi: Anh c th cho ti bit nhng g anh lm v hc c hm qua nh khng? Chng thanh nin p: Ti lau sch i tay ca m, v cng git ht phn o qun cn li. Cm tng ca anh ra sao? Th nht, by gi ti mi thu hiu th no l ngha ca lng bit n: Khng c m, ti khng th thnh tu c nh hm nay. Th hai, qua vic hp tc vi nhau, v qua vic gip m git qun o, gi ti mi thc c rng tht kh khn v gian kh hon tt cng vic. Th ba, ti hiu su xa c tm mc quan trng v gi tr ca lin h gia nh. Vin gim c ni: y l nhng g ti cn tm thy ni con ngi s l qun tr vin trong cng ty chng ti. Ti mun tuyn dng mt ngi bit n s gip ca nhng ngi khc, mt ngi cm thng s chu ng ca nhng ngi khc hon thnh nhim v, v mt ngi khng ch ngh n tin bc l mc ch duy nht ca cuc i. Em c nhn. Sau , chng thanh nin lm vic hng say, v nhn c s knh trng ca cc nhn vin di quyn. Tt c nhn vin lm vic kin tr v hp tc nh mt i. Thnh tu ca cng ty mi ngy mi c ci thin. Tha qu v. Mt a b lun lun c che ch v c thi quen mun g c ny, c th s pht trin tm l c quyn v n s ch lun lun ngh n mnh n trc ht. N s th v cc n lc ca cha m trong sut thi gian nui dng n thnh ngi.

Khi lm vic, n gi thit rng mi ngi phi vng li n; v khi tr thnh mt qun tr vin, n c th s khng bao gi bit n s chu ng ca cc nhn vin di quyn v lun sn sng tha cho ngi khc nhng khim khuyt v sai st trong sinh hot ca cng ty. i vi loi ngi ny, h c th hc gii, c th thnh cng mt thi gian ngn nhng tht s trong i h s khng bao gi h c c hi thc s cm nhn c ngha ca thnh tu. H s cn nhn, lng h lun cht y on ght v u tranh c c nhiu th cho mnh. Nu chng ta thuc loi cha m chuyn bao che con ci nh th ny, phi chng chng ta ang cho chng thy tnh thng ca cha m hay l ang tn ph chng, to iu kin cho chng pht trin ti a tnh ch k v nhn? Bn c th cho con ci bn sng trong nhng cn nh ln, n thc n ngon, hc dng cm, xem TV mn nh rng Nhng khi chng ta ct c, xin bn vui lng cho chng cng lm vic . Sau ba cm, hy chng ra chn bt cng vi anh ch em chng. Khng phi v bn khng c tin mn ngi lm trong nh, nhng bi v bn nn thng con ng cch. Bn mun chng hiu rng bt k cha m giu c c no, mt ngy kia tc chng ta ri cng s bc nh m ca ngi bn tr kia. iu quan trng nht l con ci ca bn c hc hiu bit hn v thi chn thnh ca mt con ngi sng i, v t kh nng ca chng phi bit cng lm vic vi nhng ngi khc hon thnh mi cng tc m chng gp phi trong cuc sng. *** STORY OF APPRECIATION By editorawais One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview; the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV, that the youths academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never was a year he did not score. The director asked, Did you obtain any scholarship in school? and the youth answered none. The director asked, Is it your father who paid for your school fees? the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees. The director asked, Where did your mother work? the youth answered, my mother worked as a cloth cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that were smooth and perfect to the director.

The director asked, Did you ever help your mother wash the clothes before? The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.The director said, I have a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mothers hand, and then see me tomorrow morning. The youth felt that as the chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mothers hand, his mother felt strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hands to the kid. The youth cleaned his mothers hand slowly, his tears dropped down as he did that. It is the first time he found his mothers hands so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incite pains so strong that shiver his mothers body when cleaned with water. This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mothers hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the directors office. The director noticed the tear in the youths eye, asked: Can you tell what have you done and learned yesterday in your house? The youth answered, I cleaned my mothers hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes The director asked, please tell me your feeling. The youth said : Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done. Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship. The director said, This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired. Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the companys result improved tremendously. A child who had been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed entitlement mentality and always put himself first. He is ignorant of his parents effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and

always blame others. For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid? You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow grey, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get things done.

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