Vng m gm nhng thng tin v bn thn m c bn v ngi khc u bit. Khi
khi u mi quan h, vng ny thng m nh. Nhng thng tin c bc l thng nh tn, cng vic, chc v, tnh trng gia nh, bng cp
Khi mi quan h pht trin, vng ny c bc l thm ra v lm nh li vng c du bn di. Vng ny cng m rng mi quan h cng pht trin. 2: Phn m Vng c du gm nhng thng tin m bn bit v chnh bn nhng ngi khc li khng bit. V dc cch nhn v cp trn hoc cng vic, tnh hnh ti chnh, sc khe ca bn.
Nhng thng tin ny l ro cn c th bo v bn trong mt khong thi gian ngn nhng theo thi gian, vic thiu chia s nhng thng tin ny c th dn n vic thiu tn nhim v kh giao tip. Nu chng ta khp kn qu lu, mi quan h s kh pht trin cao hn mc quen bit ban u. 3: Phn che giu: Vng m th hin nhng g m ngi khc nhn thc v bn nhng bn thn bn khng bit. V d ngi khc ngh v bn l ngi bo th nhng bn khng bit v lun ngh mnh l ngi linh hot.
Vng m cng ln th s hiu lm cng nhiu. Vng m s gim bt nu ta bit ci m v tm kim thng tin phn hi v cch nhn nhn ca ngi khc v bn thn bn
4: Phn khng bit:
Vng khng bit gm nhng iu chnh bn thn mnh khng bit v chnh mnh v ngi khc cng khng bit. Vng khng bit do chng ta cha c kinh nghim hoc cha khm ph nhng tnh hung khc nhau hay nhng kh khn trc y. V d bn thy tht kh khn hoc khng bit bng cch no biu l tnh yu u i.
Vng khng bit s nh li nu chng ta khng ngng hc hi, pht trin, th thch vi nhng tnh hung mi, th thch vi chnh mnh, lun lun t hon thin v nng cao kh nng ca mnh.