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Nguyn Chu Nam Phng 06/12/2013
Bn c TX cha?
Mt cu b cha hc ht lp 1, tr thnh nh pht minh v i nht. Mt ngi n ng b ic, tr thnh nh
son nhc v i nht. Chuyn vin tng ? Khng, chnh l Edison v Beethoven. V nu c mt cu
tng t m t cuc i bn, bn mun n nh th no?
c xong bi vit ny, bn s bit ti T.X., mt cng thc cc n gin gip bn to ra mt mc tiu khc
bit nht t trc ti nay, bn s lun ngh v n, lun trn y cm hng khi thc hin n, v n s to ra
n tng ca bn trong cuc i ny. u tin, bn s bit nn tng khoa hc ca n, sau bn s nm
trong tay tng bc r rng, v quan trng l bn s p dng lun ngy hm nay v nhng ngy tip
theo trn ngp cm hng!
Chuyn hai ci cy
bao gi bn c mt mc tiu ra, ri cui cng cha? Nguyn nhn gc r khin chng ta tht
bi l g? Qu l mt cu hi kh, v nu bn tr li c th mi vic tr nn d dng ri.
Trong khu vn n, c 2 ci cy, mt cy to, mt cy nh. Ci cy to rt xu h v tuy to song vn cn nh so
vi my cy hng xm. N quyt nh t nay ht c bao nhiu cht dinh dng n s dn ht ln trn
nui thn. Mt ngy kia n rt vui khi pht hin ra mnh cao ln gp i. Nhng khi mt cn bo p ti, trong
khi cc cy khc bnh yn v s, duy nht n b chng knh vi mt thc mc sao ci cy nh khng .
S tht l ci cy nh c b r rt su v khe, cn n th ngc li.
Ti sao cy to tht bi? Do n thiu hiu bit v chnh bn thn mnh. N khng bit b r c vai tr rt
quan trng, nn tp trung ht sc vo nhng th khc. Con ngi chng ta nhiu khi cng vy, c l khi sinh
ra, mt chng ta hay nhn ra ngoi nn t ai bit tnh trng b r bn trong mnh. V khi sng gi ti, khi tht
bi, h vn khng hiu ti sao mnh tht bi.
R ca chng ta?
Vy b r ca chng ta l g? Lng, tc chng, trng cng ging m? Khng phi. Nu r rt nc v dinh
dng t lng t v chuyn ln trn gip to ra thn cnh hoa l, th b r ca chng ta cng phi c chc
nng tng t. Ch nh l mm? v ta a nc v thc n qua m? Khng phi. Nhng th y ch l
nhnh nh ca th rt quan trng ny m thi.
Khi mt ai tht bi, th nguyn nhn c th l g? Chng phi chng ta hay ni do ch km, do thiu quyt
tm, do thiu kin nhn hay sao? Tt c nhng th ny t u ra? Nu l t tay, chn hay nhng th bn
ngoi khc th khng c Nick Vujicic, anh chng khng tay khng chn tuyt vi. Do , ch c th l t mt
th m thiu n chng ta s cht ngay, l b no. B no ht nng lng t cuc sng, v gip ta chuyn
ha thnh tng, hnh ng, v to nn nhng iu tuyt vi. Cho nn, khng khng hiu v b no, bn
chc chn tht bi!
in vo ch trng
Sc mnh ca no b rt khng khip, tim nng ca no b rt to ln, bn c b no thin ti. l nhng
iu m bt c mt cun sch hay mt kha hc truyn cm hng no cng s ni vi bn. Song thc t th
lun n gin hn l thuyt, phi cn mt iu g n gin hn, m ch c s tri nghim thc t mi gip
chng ta nhn ra c.
Bn xem chic nn k diu bao gi cha? Hy th chi tr chic nn k l nh! Hy dnh 1 pht on
xem T.X. ngoi Tp Xc nh ra th cn l vit tt ca 3 ch g khc na?
T X
c rt nhiu tng th v c a ra, vd : Thm Xinh p, Thch Xy p, Tm Xanh (lt na nh
comment tng th v ca bn nha). Mt tr chi vui, song n cha mt s thch ca no b, n thch in
vo ch trng. Khng nhn thc c iu ny l nguyn nhn s 1 ca tht bi.
Bn sn sng cho T.X.?
Rt nhiu ngi t ra mc tiu gim cn, v h bit r phi lm th no, nhng h khng lm. Rt nhiu ngi
t mc tiu chm ch hn, v h bit r phi lm th no, nhng h khng lm. Rt nhiu ngi t mc tiu
phi dnh thi gian nhiu hn cho bn thn, v h bit r phi lm th no, nhng h khng lm. V bn thy
khng, c im chung ca h l g?
H bit qu r mnh cn lm g, do vy, h khng lm, tht l k l!!! c v nh con ngi ta c xu hng
khng lm theo nhng g mnh bit l phi lm!!! Ti sao vy? n gin l h khng to ra khong
trng kch thch no b trc khi tm ra gii php.
Va mi a ra mt mc tiu, h ngh ngay ti vic mnh phi lm g ri, th b no thin ti lc tht
nghip, n chng thm ng no to s hng phn na. Vy lm th no to ra mt mc tiu vi khong
trng ln? Chng nh c t mc tiu cng cao, cng phi l l c? Cng c th, nhng b no chng ta
khng hot ng theo cch y, vy nn bn phi dng ti T.X..
Bc T : TP chp nhn im yu
Nick Vujicic sinh ra khng tay khng chn, v anh cng khng tr thnh ngay mt din gi, anh c nhng
khong thi gian v cng au kh, thm ch mun t t. Ch cho ti khi anh chp nhn s tht mnh khng tay
khng chn, mi s bt u thay i. Mt tng ny n S ra sao mt ngi khng tay khng chn nh
ti, li c th tr thnh t ph v lm t thin?.
ng vy, u tin bn phi tha nhn, v chp nhn nhng im yu ca mnh trc khi mun thay i. V
tng t nh Nick Vujicic, nu bn tm hiu v nhng thin ti, nhng v nhn, bn s thy tt c bn h u c
im yu, u c thiu st. Nhng s khc bit l h bin im yu thnh mt li th ch khng n
lm mnh tn ph.
Bn c l khi b ni v im yu, ngi ta thng ngay lp tc c nhng cm xc mnh m khng? l
bi v chng l nhng k c kh qun, gn lin vi vng cm xc trong no bn. V khi bn tp c thi quen
chp nhn nhng im yu ny, chp nhn nhng cm xc ny, bn s bin b no thnh ng minh, bn s c
c ngun ng lc mnh m.
Chnh v vy, vic a cm xc vo mc tiu l v cng cn thit, v cn cm xc g mnh m hn nu bn bin
nhng k c tht bi, nhng li ch bai tr thnh ngun cm hng mnh m gip bn tin ln? Do vy, hy lit
k ra ngay t nht 3 im yu ca bn, cng yu cng tt!
Bc X : XC lp s khc bit
Sau khi c mt danh sch im yu, hy chn ra mt im yu nht, im m nhiu ngi bit nht, c th
h hay ly lm th ch bai bn nht. Ri sau , hy tnh tm v tr li cu hi :
Nu c ai c im yu nh vy, th h s lm g khin mi ngi sng st nh?
Mt ngi siu hng ni v s giao tip, li tr thnh bc thy v ngh thut ni chuyn. Chuyn vin tng
? Khng. l Debra Fine, tc gi ca cun sch The Fine Art of Small Talk rt hay. Mt ngi khng c
khiu hi hc, li c th tr thnh nh v ch din thuyt th gii. Chuyn vin tng ? Khng. l Darren
Lacroix, nh v ch din thuyt th gii nm 2001. Mt hc sinh tng b t chi bi 6 trng v hc qu km,
li vit ra cun sch v phng php hc tp bn chy nht. Chuyn vin tng ? Khng. l Adam Khoo,
tc gi ca Ti Ti Gii! Bn Cng Th.
Bc : NH mt cu t m
Nh bn thy, hu ht nhng cuc i truyn cm hng u c th xc nh bng mt cu khin ngi khc
phi Wow, sao h lm c?. V khi bn c th truyn cm hng cho ngi khc bng mc tiu ca mnh,
th khng th no m n li khng truyn cm hng cho chnh bn!
Vy th by gi bn hy kt hp im yu (T) vi kt qu khc bit tng xng (X) to ra to ra mt cu
gip to khong trng, gip kch thch b no thin ti. Hy vit n mt cch ngn gn, truyn cm hng nht
c th, kiu nh Mt ngi , sau , ai vy nh? ri post ln f acebook ri xem xem mi ngi s t
m nh th no nh ^^!
iu quan trng nht!
Em ni khng hay u, tt nht em nn tp trung vit lch. l mt vin gch mnh nhn c cch y vi
nm, nhng lc u mnh bt ra tng Vy th mnh cng phi ni nhiu, v khi mnh lm c, mnh s c
mt cu chuyn hay k. Nh vin gch , m gi mnh c 780 gi din thuyt, mt cn nh cng to
y ch, v gn y n li c sn thm bi li nhn xt em ni cng ngy ni cng cun ht.
Do , ngay khi to ra mt T.X., bn khng cn bit l mnh phi lm th no c c kt qu . iu
quan trng l bn cm thy rt hng th khi ngh v n, c bit khi lm c n na th thi ri, tuyt vi trn
c sung sng! Lm nh th no l cng vic ca b no thin ti, hy tin tng n bng cch hng ngy suy
ngh v T.X. ca bn bt c u. Ri bn s thy cuc sng s cho bn rt nhiu gi tuyt vi m by lu
nay bn khng !
T : TP chp nhn im yu
X : XC lp s khc bit
: NH mt cu t m
Mt cu b tt nghip tiu hc trung bnh v 4 im mn vn, li vit mt cun sch c o nht t trc ti
nay. Chuyn vin tng ? Cha bit. V ngi b 4 im l mnh, song khi vit ra T.X. ny mnh cm thy
rt tuyt, v cuc sng cho mnh nhng gi tuyt vi. Khi mnh bt u tm hiu v tiu thuyt, mnh tnh
c mnh tm c The Snowf lake Guy, mt bc thy vit lch.
V khi bn nhn c nhng gi t cuc sng, bn bit mnh cn phi lm g. Mc d bn bit, nhng ci bit
s ny hon ton khc vi ci bit trc y, n l s kt hp ca cm xc, ca sc mnh no b, bn s lun
mong mun c thm thi gian thc hin. y qu l mt thch thc trong cuc sng bn rn. Nhng khng
c ngha l khng th, sau khi comment TX ca bn, hy c tip bi Lm sao c 1h cho c m? v bt
u bin TX ca bn thnh hin thc ngay nh!
P.s. K t gi nu c mt ai ang khng bit mnh s lm g cuc i tr nn ngha, th bn bit nguyn
nhn ri y! H cha c T.X.! Hy gi bi vit ny cho h!