24 Ch Ci tuyt vi .

Cuc sng khng phi l mt m li ca s phn. Cuc sng chnh l mt

mi giao ho bt tn gia mi c th ang tn ti, v trong mi giao ho ,
nhng g Bn th hin s ni ln Bn l ai ? Hy cng khm ph cuc
sng qua bng ch ci k diu, t tm li cho mnh nhng bi hc qu
gi m cuc sng mun gi gm n Bn.

A - (Adult) - Trng thnh
Khi bn trng thnh, bn c th gii quyt c nhng vn pht sinh
t cuc sng. V lc ny, mi ngi s trng i rt nhiu cch bn ng
x, nhn nhn v hnh ng.Hy gi cho mnh mt nt c tnh ring, ng
b ng nghing bi nhng li nhn xt ca ngi khc. Nhng chc
chn bn phi bit th no l ph hp, phi chn chn trong phong cch v
thi cng nh cch c x vi ngi khc. Suy ngh v hnh ng chn
chn l c tnh cn c ca mt ngi trng thnh



B - (Better) - Cu tin
Hy hng ti nhng g tt p hn hin ti. i vi mt vi ngi th
nhng g tt nht vn cha hn l . Nu bn mun tr thnh mt sinh
vin, mt sinh vin xut sc? Hy c gng ht sc t c mc ch
ca mnh. Thay i cch suy ngh v hnh ng. Nu bn s thay i, bn
s mi dm chn ti ch. Cu tin s l cht xc tc gip bn t c
nhng mc tiu cao hn. Ch cn bn khng nh mt chnh mnh th s
thay i s khng bao gi l xu.
C - (Control) - iu khin
Bn phi bit iu khin cuc sng ca mnh, ng cuc sng iu
khin bn. T quyt nh, t hnh ng, t chu trch nhim tt c mi vn
. ng sng mt cch t nht, cuc sng ch khng phi l mt v kch
c din i din li nhiu ln. Mi quyt nh ca bn, mt l s a bn
n gn hn vi mc tiu, hai l y bn ri xa n. Do , hy c mt quyt
nh ng n nht. Ging nh din vin hi Tim Allen ni rng Nu
bn khng t quyt nh c cuc sng ca mnh, cuc sng s quyt nh
thay bn.
D - (Dream) - c m
Dm c m, k c nhng c m m bn chc rng chng bao gi t
c n. Nu bn dm kht khao, tin tng th chc chn bn s bit cch
t c. Tt c tu thuc vic bn c sn sng thc hin hay
khng. ng n nhng li dm pha ca ngi khc. Nu bn khng
tin rng nhng d nh tt p ca mnh s thnh hin thc, bn mt i
mt na sc mnh.
E - (Enthusiasm) - Nhit tnh
Nhit tnh, say m - nu bn c c nhng ci , cuc sng ca bn s
th v hn rt nhiu. S nhit tnh c sc ly lan rt nhanh, do , nu
c sng v lm vic trong mt mi trng nng ng, sc ca bn s
nhanh chng b nh bt. Nu bn khng cm thy say m vi nhng g
bn ang lm, hy cn nhc v lm nhng iu m bn thch hn. Cuc
i qu ngn, v bn s khng thi gian kim ch lng nhit tnh, say
m ca mnh vi cuc sng.
F- (Failure) - Tht bi
Tht bi trong hc hnh, trong cuc sng s khin bn bun phin, chn
nn, thm ch bung xui.Nhng hy nh rng tht bi l tm thi, v bn
khng vic g phi lng tng hay lo lng g v iu ny c. C nhng chin
thng oanh lit nht li l kt qu ca s tht bi nng n nht. Tt c
chng ta u c lc phi t u tranh gia vic bung xui hay c gng.
Nu bn l mt sinh vin hc hnh sa st, n nn ngp u iu xu h
khng phi l s tht bi ca bn m chnh l vic bn khng mun lm g
thot ra khi tnh trng .
G - (Giver) - Cho
Cho i th hnh phc hn nhn v. Mt li khen tng, tnh nguyn lm mt
vi vic tt tt c iu u mang n cho bn v ngi khc mt cm
gic d chu v thc s l rt c ngha. Khi bn cho,ch n gin l cho
ch khng mong n p, bn s nhn c nhiu hn th.
H - (Happy) - Hnh phc
Nn t tm ly hnh phc cho mnh t nhng iu n gin trong cuc
sng. Cng vic, s thch ring, bn b, ng nghip Tt c nhng iu
ny u n cha nhng gi tr m bn cha khm ph ht c.
Cuc sng l mt chui phc hp, bn khng th trnh c nhng lc
chn nn, mt mi, ku ca, phn nn, nhng quan trng vn l cm gic
ring ca bn. Khi bn cm thy hnh phc, th y chnh l hnh phc
thc s. ng ku ca, phn nn mi v nhng g cha hon thin trong
cuc sng, nn nh rng bn thn bn cng chnh l mt vn . Hy t
hon thin mnh v cm nhn hnh phc t nhng g mnh ang c.
I - (Invest) - u t
Nn u t cho tng lai ca bn ngay t by gi. Bn kim c nhiu
tin? Nhng khng c ngha l bn phi tiu cho bng ht s tin .
Hy hc cc t ph, h c rt nhiu tin, nhng lun mun u t vo mt
lnh vc no lm tng s tin y ln hn l chu nm tin qua ca
s. ng tiu pha qu ng, v cng trnh lm vo cnh n nn chng
cht. Bn c th u t cho tng lai bng nhiu cch: hc hnh chm ch,
c gng thng tin trong ngh nghip, v.v Lm th no khi bn
bc vo tng lai, bn khng cm thy mnh qu ngho nn.
J - (Joyfulness) - Nim vui
T tm ly nim vui v ngha trong tt c cc cng vic bn lm, nh th
bn s cm thy hng th hn. T tm ly nim vui cho mnh v cho c
ngi khc na. Bn c th gi ngi li xe, th k, nhn vin tip tn
bng tn thn mt, v hi thm sc khe ca h. Sau hy xem cu tr
li bn nhn c l g. Quan tm n ngi khc v t to cho mnh cc
mi quan h c nhn, v bn s cm nhn thy nim vui ln nht ca
mnh.
K - (Knowlegde) - Tri thc
C nhng iu bn hc c trng, nhng cng c nhng iu ch c
cuc sng mi dy c cho bn. S hc l sut i v hy lm mt ngi
hc tr chm ch. Bi v khi bn cng bit nhiu, bn s ngm ra mt iu
rng mnh vn cha bit g c. Nhng ci c bn hc c, nhng ci
mi bn cha hiu? Tt c vn cn tim n trong cuc sng. S hc v
s bit l mnh mng v cng trong cuc i ny. Hy tch ly kin thc
cho mnh, v hy hc thm nhng iu mi trong tt c cc c hi bn c
c.
L - (Listen) - Lng nghe
Ni mt v lng nghe gp i. Bn phi t bit cn i iu ny. Lng
nghe theo ng ngha ca n ch khng phi lng nghe mt cch hi ht.
Bn s hiu thm nhiu iu v ngm ngh c nhiu iu t vic bit
lng nghe mt cch hiu qu.
M - (Mistake) - Li lm
ng s hi nu bn l gy ra mt li lm no . Hy t khuyn khch
mnh rng chnh l cch bn hc hi v rt kinh nghim. ng
nhng li lm nh gc bn. C th bn s rt bun v day dt, vy th
ng c giu dim, hy tm cch gii to v c hc thm nhng iu mi t
ci c. V c gng ng bao gi lp li nhng sai lm tng t.
N - (No) - Khng
Hy bit ni khng ng lc. Ni khng vi cuc sng qu bung th,
ni khng vi nhng cch c x khim nh, ni khng vi nhng thi
quen xu, vi nhng ngi xu m bn gp. Ni khng ng lc v
ng cch s l ci ro chn tt nht bo v bn khng b sa ng v cm
d.
O - ( Opportunity ) - C hi
C hi nhiu khi g ca rt nhanh v rt kh. Nu bn ch lng nghe,
bn s bit c khi no th n n. tm n nhng th din ra xung
quanh bn, v hy bit chp nhn ri ro, mo him nm bt ly nhng
c hi. S phn ca bn nm trong tay bn.
P - (Patience) - Kin tr
Thnh Rome khng th xy trong mt ngy, v s nghip ca bn cng
vy. Tt c mi ngi u bt u bng mt cch no v tt c mi th
u cn c thi gian. Mc d c th s rt kh khn hiu mt vn
ngay lp tc, nhng nu bn say m, kin nhn hc hi v quyt tm
lm iu , bn s lm c. Ch Nhn ng l rt kh hc, nhng
mi thnh cng u cn c n.
Q - (Quality) - Phm cht bn trong
Hy t r nng lc ca mnh trong tt c nhng vic m bn lm. Thit lp
nhng mi quan h nghim chnh, lm vic hiu qu, suy ngh chn chn,
gi gn sc khe Nn nh rng, bao gi gi tr bn trong cng bn vng
hn dng v bn ngoi. Gi tr cuc sng l nhng phm cht bn trong,
l c nh gi tnh hiu qu ch khng phi vic tnh t lc sinh ra
n gi bn lm c bao nhiu vic.
R - (Reputation) - Thanh danh
D l ting tt hay ting xu cng s c lu gimi. Bn b, ngi
quen s c nh hng rt ln n s hnh thnh tnh cch ca bn. Vy
nn, bn phi bit chn bn m chi, chn mt gi vng. Ting lnh n
xa, ting d cng n xa hn.Thanh danh l ci s theo bn n sut i,
do hy bit cchchm sc v nui dng n.
S - (Success) - Thnh cng
Thnh cng khng phi l cn o ong m s tin bn kim c hay s
lng ti sn m bn c.Thnh cng chnh l khi bn bit vt qua chnh
mnh, l khi bn bit t iu khin cuc sng theo hng tch cc hn.
Nu bn so snh mnh vi ngi khc, bn s ri vo tnh trng b tc.
Thay vo hy tm cch chy ua vi nhng mc tiu c th m bn
t ra. Hy tin rng bn c khao kht v bn c nhng t cht c
th tr thnh mt ngi thnh cng.
T - (Thankful) - Bit n
Hy bit n nhng g cuc sng mang li cho bn v trn trng nhng g
mnh ang c. Nu bn cha c mt cng vic v a v cao? ng ly iu
lm xu h, hy t nh rng so vi nhng ngi tht nghip mnh cn
may mn hn nhiu, rng khng c cng vic no l thp km nu l
cng vic hp php. Bit nh gi ng nhng c hi trong cng vic cng
nh nhng th gip bn sng tt hn. Hy cm n sc kho ca bn, gia
nh bn v tt c nhng ngi tt m bn may mn c gp.
U - (Understanding people) - Thu hiu
C gng hiu ngi khc nhiu hn. Lun nh n nhng ngi gip
bn v c gng gip ngi khc. i x vi nhng ngi xung
quanh bng s knh trng bt chp a v v thn th ca h. Khi bn chn
chn, bn s nhn thc c rng, hiu ngi khc tc l hiu thm nhiu
iu v bn thn mnh.
V - (Values) - Gi tr
Nhn ra gi tr ca bn thn v phi xc nh c ci g l quan trng
nht i vi mnh. ng bao gi bung xui vi nhng th m bn bit
rng n c ngha quan trng i vi bn thn bn. Hy gi vng lp
trng v quan im ca mnh, tin tng vo s la chn ca mnh. Nu
bn khng c lp trng ca ring mnh, bn s b ri vo mt m hn n
v khng tm c li ra.
W - (Willing) - Sn sng
Nu bn mi i lm, hy sn sng n sm v v mun, b thi quen i ra
ngoi n tra hoc mua sm khng ph phm thi gian v lm vic tt
hn. Hy sn sng lm t nhng ci c bn nht, ng ngi kh, cng lao
ca bn s c n p xng ng.
X - (X traordinary) - Bt ng
C mt vi iu xy ra m khng cn c l do cng nh khng th no gii
thch c. Nhiu lc bn ngh mnh nm chc trong tay chin thng,
nhng khi c mt vi iu bt ng xy ra bn s hiu rng khng c g l
chc chn c. ng c tr thnh mt ngi t mn, rng bn khng bao
gi sai.Bn khng th t c iu , tt c mi th u ch l tng i.
Hy sng cuc sng ca mnh, m gic m ca ring mnh, nhng ng
bao gi ngh rng sc kho, gia nh, cng vic s lun lun ging nh
bn hnh dung, khng c g thay i.
Y - (You) - Bn thn bn
Bnhy bit t hi lng vi mnh mt mc c th. ng c ch n
nhng ngi hn mnh so snh v dn vt. khng phi l cu tin,
l so snh v ganh t. Hy gip nhng ngi km may mn hn. Vui
mng v nhng g bn lm c, v c gng vi nhng g bn cha lm
c. Hi hn v dn vt chng c ch li g. Nn ngh rng, mt tng
lai tt p ang ch n bn pha trc.
Z - (Zoom) - Bin c m thnh hin thc
Bn sn sng, bn kin quyt, bn bit cch m rng con ng
m bn chn t trc, bn cm thy hi lng v s la chn ca
mnh? Vy th y l lc bn nng lng v iu kin ct cnh,
hon thnh nhng d nh v c m ca mnh.