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Chicken Man discouraged him from abandoning his education and urged him to
do whatever he could to succeed in life. Jack told him that if he "put [himself] in
God's hands" he could not "go wrong" (161). Out of trust, he listened to her and
turned to God, and slowly he began to find his way in life. Like McBride, I too
experimented with different groups of people in order to find out where I fit in
relation to society. I was comfortable with a certain group; we had fun and I fit
with them. However, my mother disapproved of the group and made me stay
away from them. I then became friends with another group that supported my
education and my well-being. I began to exert more effort into my education and
horseback riding. Like McBride, I found the group that I fit in with and improved
my life.
James McBride's mother, Ruth, also found a group of supportive people
with beliefs that were similar to hers. She relied on her thoughts and emotions
and others' feedback to discover the religious aspect of her identity. Her family
was extremely strict in its Jewish beliefs, and her father was an Orthodox rabbi.
Because her father forced her to spend her time outside of school working at his
store, she became lonely and unhappy. At school, the painful name-calling she
received from the other students made her feel further separated from society.
With the exception of Frances, she was friendless. Ruth was "starving for love
and affection" (83). When she escaped from her religious prison, she sought a
new, forgiving religion with which she could identify. She found that she fit in with
the Baptist religion. Although she did not blend in with them physically, she
matched them in their spiritual beliefs. Unlike Ruth, I am not deeply religious.
Most of my friends are not religious, either. Both Ruth and I found groups of
people who had beliefs similar to ours, allowing us to identify more easily with our
groups. Some of my friends are religious, and sometimes we have trouble
understanding each others' beliefs. However, we still identify with each other
because we have other common beliefs or interests, allowing us to feel
comfortable with each other. Both Ruth and I have friends that we can identify
with in some way.
In The Color of Water, James McBride searches for his identity, as
everyone must do. One must overcome certain obstacles in order to get to know
himself. Only once that he knows himself can he look for other people who are
similar to him. Through identifying with other people, he learns about himself.
McBride illustrates the process of discovering one's identity in The Color of
Water.