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Khng c g d bng vic mc v a tin cho con v khng c g kh bng dy con bit s dng ng
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Bn mun xy dng khng kh gia nh nh th no; ln xn, rn ting la mng hay bnh yn, t gic?
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Khi c vic phi i xa nh, bn mong mun sinh hot nh s din ra theo n np hay phi lun gi in thoi
v nh kim tra v ch o t xa?
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Lut l g? L nhng iu PHI lm, khng lm s b PHT.
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Chnh Sch; nu lm s c thng (nhng th b thch).
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Lut; nu khng lm th s b pht (nhng iu b s v ght).
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Ti sao phi c Lut?
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Mi trng khng c Lut l mt mi trng bt an; hnh vi s rt ri lon, manh ng, nguy him..
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Nu khng c Lut giao thng th ng x s v cng hn lon v d dn ti tan nn.
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Mt gia nh c Chnh Sch tt v c Lut l s bnh an, vui v. Cn gia nh khng c lut l th s om sm,
m ti, la ht sut ngy
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Khi b thc hin hnh vi tt nhiu ln th s thnh thi quen t s chuyn sang Lut.
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1. Khi no bt u ra Lut?
S Sinh!
Ch Phng Nga bt u p dng Lut cho a chu khi mi sinh c 30 ngy. B c tham gia mm cm
gia nh, c 2 ngy b bt u khc, c b khc thoi mi, khi nn mi b b ln khong 30 giy v ni
c nh ang n cm, con ngoan nm im, khc khng ai a u nh. Lp i lp li hnh ng v cu ni ny
nhiu ln khi b khc. 2 ngy sau b hiu ra vn v ht khc. T v sau b ngi n chung vi gia nh
rt ngoan.
Cn i vi b ln hn, phi cho b n chung ba cm vi gia nh, nu b quy th ko ra khng cho n, nu
ngoan mi c tham gia chung, tp khong 2 tun l b ok.
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i toa lt ng gi sau 1 thng tui; c thy con t l xi, b s nh ting xi, sau 1-2 thng b s quen vi vic
xi i v b ch t khi c xi.
Bit thng bo nhng nhu cu ca bn thn;
- mun i t phi xi xi nha con
- Bit ra du khi ngn ng thoi cha c thng bo cho m bit nhu cu. Cc bn tm c cun Sign with
your baby tm hiu v vic hun luyn ny.
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2. Ln danh sch nhng iu mun hun luyn cho b. S lng Lut tng ln theo s tui (2 thng/ 1 hnh
vi).
Tuy nhin b c th qun v ta phi nhc nh v tr nh vnh vin ch hot ng t 4-5 tui tr ln. Tr nh tm
thi th lc c lc mt.
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3. Gia nh cn c s thng nht trong vic dy con.
Nu ai bt ng th mi ng qua mt bn, khng c can thip. V nu khng c s thng nht th b s tm

ni t nn. Dn dn b s tr thnh mt con ngi cc k mu m.

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4. Phng tin h tr; phi c tm bng ni cng cng, ghi ln nhng Lut b phi tun theo c nh
nhn thy.
V d;
- Nhng iu khng c lm cho b; khi b nm th khng c nht cho b.
- Nhng iu phi lm cho b; nm banh phi nht (hung cho b b hnh vi nm , chuyn sang nm bng,
chi banh)
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5. Nguyn tc ra Lut;
5.1. Lut phi c cng b cng khai, r rng.
Lc truc Lut Cm quo phi khi n c b m khng cng b nn ngi i ng c ci nhau om
sm lm mt trt t.
5.2. ni d thy, d nhn bit. V d b ln th dn ngay ca phng.
5.3. tnh rn e.
Lut i vi hnh vi xu nh thuc tr sinh i vi cn bnh nhim trng, l con dao 2 li.
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V d nh Lut Ph Rng ch c lm tc no s m ngy cng honh hnh hn.
Lut ca o Hi n cp cht tay nn dn chng rt s.
Lut ca Singapore nghim minh v cng nn ngi dn rt tun th.
Ty vo s ght v ni s hi ca b m ta ra Lut. C b khng s b nh mng m li s b m b ri.
5.4. tnh kh thi.
Cch y vi nm, nh nc nh cm karaoke nhng khng tnh kh thi nn nh phi b. Nhng lnh
cm t pho th li kh thi.
i vi b ta c th qui inh n cm trong vng 20-30 pht ch khng th trong vng 10-15 pht. Mua ng
h reo nhc nh, h tr b.
Ta phi to mi iu kin thun li b c th tun th Lut mt cch thoi mi nht.
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6. Khi b phm lut m thnh tht nhn li;
Nu tha, b s c vic phm li v thnh tht. B nhn li l tt nn ta p dng chnh sch khen, nhng vn b
pht. B s tr nn dng cm v thnh tht.
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7. Thit lp cho b thc ti phi ngoan;
- Chnh Sch & Lut phi lun song song.
V d; b 5 tui bit dn cm. M ch cn ni n gi cm ri v b t ng i dn cm l phi khen b
ngay b c ln tinh thn.
- Phi dy con t lc s sinh n 3 tui (dy con t th cn th), t 6 tui l b phi vng vng. T 0-3 tui
l giai on vng 24k, mm, d un nn. 3t-6t; vng 18k, hi cng. 6 tui tr ln l thnh st, kh un nn
hn.
- Tuyt i khng c h da b v t 0-3 tui, thng tin i thng vo tim thc m khng thng qua thc.
Tim thc nh ci kho ch nhp hng vo. thc nh th kho bit la tt, tiu chun nhp nhng khi
xut th s xut ht hng tt ln hng xu nhp v t lu.
- p dng Chnh Sch & Lut n 6 tui. Sau mi hnh vi chuyn t thi quen thnh nhu cu nn ch
Khen thi.
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8. K thut CH;
- Khng c ch b thm t, nng n, s n su vo tim thc ca b, li ch qu ng c th trit mt con
ngi.
- Ch ch vic b lm, khng bao gi ch b v b c nhng gi tr ca b.
V d; b lm b bnh bng th mnh ni con lm b bnh bng ri th mnh khng c bnh cm bng, gi
phi dnh tin mua bnh mi thi.

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9. Khi b 6 tui tr ln, c th p dng Lut Tin.
- khi hc c 9-10 im, b c thng tin bng giy. 9 = $1, 10 = $2. B c th dng tin ny mua
hoc khi b gy thit hi g th dng tin ny n.
- Tp cho b phi lao ng kim tin mua nhng vt dng theo nhu cu c nhn nh sch, truynv cho
b t i mua b s hiu gi tr ca ng tin, b s n o suy ngh khi mua mt mn hng v s c thc
lao ng l c tin.
- Trong quyn sch Nu bit trm nm l hu hn c cu hi nh ti c tng tin l quan trng nht, by
gi ti mi bit l s tht.
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Khng c g d bng vic mc v a tin cho con v khng c g kh bng dy con bit s dng ng tin.
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Mt cu b mi ngy m cho 2000 i hc. Mt hm cu c bn bao n sng. Cu v k cho m nghe v
xin tin m bao li bn. M hi cu Lc con c bn bao n sng con c suy ngh s lm g kim tin
bao li bn khng? Cu b tr li l khng. M cu ni nu con khng bit cch tr n th ng bao gi nhn
n. Sau m cu a ra gii php s cho cu ng trc 2 ngn bao bn, ngy hm sau cu phi nhn,
i hc khng c tin.
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