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UNDRESSING OR STRIPPING FOR YOUR SPOUSE
CAN SPICE UP YOUR LOVE MAKING

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YOU CAN FOLLOW DIFFERENT EXOTIC THEMES
@ Belly Dancer
@ Geisha

@ Bollywood Sari Diva

@ Hawai·n Hula Dancer

@ Whatever your imagination


allows and doesn·t compromise
your faith and diginity




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THINGS YOU MAY NEED
@ Before getting started these are the things that you
should get ready for the night

Aromatic candles, but if you want him to see you go


wild then let the lights burn.

Non-alcoholic drink with ice.

Lingerie, or anything that turns your spouse on, but


nothing degrading

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MUSIC
@ Next, is music selection. Keep in mind you and your
partners taste. The music you choose needs to be a bit
on the slow side. Not too slow and draggy, but slow
enough so you will be able to take your time
removing your clothes one piece at a time and really
Tease.
@ Romantic and sexy music to strip to that fits your style
& mood. Get original strip to it CD that combines
sensual sounds of Enigma, Madonna's Erotica, or
Vogue or David Sanborn's Smooth Sax.

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WHAT TO WEAR

@ Again, think tease. You want layers, and you want to


give hints with fabric that is very clingy, shear, or has
openings.
@ Black and red are good colors, as is pure white. Mix and
match, dark outer garments and white undies for
example.
@ For the outer clothes a skirt is a must. Short works, but
longer with a zipper or buttons give you more to work
with.
@ The top also works well if it has buttons or a zipper. Bra
- see through or lace on the top part is fine, but the
nipples should be concealed so you can tease him. 
WHAT TO WEAR
@ Front hook is easier to work with and gives some good
tease opportunities. Panties - you do not want a thong,
make him wait for a clear look at your rear. Panties with a
see through back (lace or mesh) are good.
@ Stockings (but not pantyhose) are great because of the way
you can move your legs and expose your rear and crotch
when you remove them.
@ Shoes with a good deal of heel are a big plus. Jewelry can be
a big help - anything that moves and catches the light is
nice. Try a necklace that disappears down your top, a body
chain around your waist, and/or an ankle bracelet.
@ Jewelry is the only thing you should still have on when you
are done stripping. Finally, don't forget some perfume -
something bold, and more than a hint! 
WHAT TO WEAR
@ Speaking of clothing, you·ll have to plan what to wear.
And, you won·t need to go shopping either.
Well«not unless you want to. ;-) It is best to start off
fully dressed. After all it is called a ´Strip TEASEµ.
Removing layers is much more fun, and exciting. A
sexy dress, or blouse and skirt, choose an outfit that
always turns your partner on.
@ You know, the one where he just can·t keep his hands
off you. Then for underneath that, choose a couple
more things. A pretty camisole, over a sexy bra. On
the bottom put a pair of sexy skimpy panties over a
pair of thongs. Eventually you·ll be removing it all,
one piece at a time. O
WHAT TO WEAR
@ Remember, anything that drive·s your sweetie wild,
and whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable is in
order here. You can pretty much choose whatever·s in
your closet for the outer layer. A good, ´naughtyµ
choice is always the schoolgirl look, or you could go
for the button-down business look. A tie would later
make a great prop. Just think about looping it behind
his head to pull him into your breasts.

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WHAT TO WEAR
@ Then accessorize. This includes anything like glasses,
hats, ties, as well as the all-important thigh highs, (or
garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. Just make
sure you can actually move around and dance in those
stilettos. If you don·t have any in your closet, borrow
a pair from a friend. Also long necklaces look amazing
when you·re down to the bare essentials, plus long
gloves and feather boas are great accessories too.


CHAIRS & PROPS
@ Place a chair some where in your bedroom where you
will have easy access to move all around it. Of course
it·s for your sweetie to sit on and watch as you dazzle
him with your StripTease.
@ Also, chill some of your lover·s favorite non-
Alcoholic beverage. You could have some fresh fruit
like strawberries or grapes to feed your lover as you
dance up a storm. Just remember to take it slow and
easy.


GET STARTED
@ When you are all set to perform your mystery you,
give a call to your love and ask him to drop home
early for he will be blessed with a seductive night. Ask
him to give you a ring at least 10-15 minutes before he
is near your house.
@ Make sure to put on your esteemed cloth and make up
half an early before his arrival that you do not annoy
him by making him wait outside the door for long.
Darkened the bedroom and light the aromatic candles.


MAKE SURE TO REMEMBER THESE GOLDEN RULES
WHILE PERFORMING THE EROTIC DANCE.

@ You are not his sweet angel right now but his seductive
private dancer. So, walk up and down, flirt, tempt, tease,
flick your hair around and gyrate your body with the
rhythm. Throw your clothes off on his face. Let him smell
them instead of you. Make him beg to release him from
binding.
Do not let him touch you with anything, but touch
yourself the way he wants to touch you.
Borrow the celebrity seductive tricks. Keep one leg in front
of the other, heel lifted, whenever possible. Copy Liz
Hurley's or any other seductive Hollywood star poses.
Maintain eye contact throughout the performance
@ Use these tips and let the lackluster nights turn to be the 
best moments of your life.
10 EASY STEPS HOW TO GIVE A LAP DANCE...
@ (1)You got to Loosen Up A Bit, Take Your Time, Feel
Sexy, Feel The Urge To Dance
@ (2)Place Him\Her On A Chair

@ (3)Once You`ve Put Them In Their Place You Begin


To Arouse Him\Her By Dancing 4 feet Away
@ (4)Once You`ve Done That Then You Get Closer But
Not To Fast You Want Them To Enjoy It And Not
Just Jump To The Bed!
@ (5)Moving Your Hips Back And Forth Closer And
Closer You Begin To Touch Your Body Like Its Really
Turning You On (Don·t Forget To Smile)

10 EASY STEPS HOW TO GIVE A LAP DANCE...
@ (6)Make Sure That He Knows He Cant Touch You Its A
Hands Off Deal! Common Ladies Take Control
@ (7)Now Start Moving Your Butt Closer Too His Lap But
Don·t Sit Just Slowly Rub Your Butt On His Lap They Love
It!
@ (8)Slowly Turn Around And Have Your Chest Out Same
With The Butt Make Sure That He Knows Your Encharge
Tease Him With I Little Bit Of Touching
@ (9)Kiss His Neck Lightly Then Moan Lightly In His/Her Ear
Kinda Like a Sigh But The Kind That Turns People On!
@ (10)Once You See He Is Very Aroused And Cannot Take
Anymore! You Let him Take Over!
@ *** Dont Forget To Pick A Good Hip Swinging Song To Go
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DOING IT:
@ Start up close: Enter the room, and circle the chair
slowly, giving him a good look at you. As you pass
behind him lean over and whisper in his ear, telling
him you are going to strip for him, or something else
to get him going. Stop in front of him, and bend over
so he can peek down your shirt. Straddle one of his
legs and lower yourself onto it, then briefly rub your
crotch against his leg.

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DOING IT
@ Start up close: Enter the room, and circle the chair
slowly, giving him a good look at you. As you pass
behind him lean over and whisper in his ear, telling
him you are going to strip for him, or something else
to get him going.
@ Stop in front of him, and bend over so he can peek
down your shirt. Straddle one of his legs and lower
yourself onto it, then briefly rub your crotch against
his leg.

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DOING IT
@ Getting naked: This should take a good while. Don't just
remove something - play with it. One button at a time, half
an inch at a time. Slide clothing aside for a moment to give
a quick peek. Unfasten, or partly unfasten an item, and then
move around before you finish taking it off.
@ Understand that he likes seeing your hands on the parts of
you that he wants to touch, so stroking, squeezing and
rubbing your breasts and crotch is a good idea. Do this
through clothing, under clothing, and unclothed. You can
accentuate these things by making a face that says "that
feels
@ good". Remember, tease, tease, tease. Fully unbutton your
shirt, and then turn your back on him before you remove
it. Turn back to him, but with the shirt held over your bra.
Turn and bend over, slip your panties down to show your
rear, and then pull them back up before you face him again. OO
DOING IT
@ When the time comes to do your Romantic StripTease
remove one piece of clothing at a time, making sure
to linger on each piece. Give it a try, I promise you and
your lover will have great fun. Oh yeah and great sex as
well!

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THE EASY WAY TO TALK DIRTY
@ A lot of you want to turn your guy on. But, not
everyone wants to talk about big, throbbing organs
and things you·d only hear in a porn flick. You want it
to be sensual as much as sexual. Heartfelt as much as
horny. Romantic as much as randy.

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THE EASY WAY TO TALK DIRTY
@ Whisper.
@ For example: ´You make me feel sexy.µ or ´when
you·re around, I just can·t control myselfµ. Or, ´when I
start thinking about you, I can·t concentrate on
anything elseµ. Or, something like ´you give me
goosebumps when you touch meµ. Or ´I want youµ.
@ Do it gently. Sensually. Teasingly. What I mean is
touching his lips with your fingertips, and saying to
meet you in the bedroom.

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THE EASY WAY TO TALK DIRTY
@ ´You drive me crazy.µ Now this one is all about tone.
If you·re kissing his neck and getting undressed when
you say it, it·s one thing.
@ ´Meet me in the bedroom.µ Or, ´I·ll be in the
bedroom.µ
@ ´Would you like to take a shower with me?µ

@ ´You have to do everything I say.µ

@ You wanna whip a guy up into a frenzy, you show him


the goods and tell him he can·t have ¶em. It·s the tease
that counts
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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 1. Express confidence and passion. You are in love with
the most beautiful woman in the world
@ 2a. Start from the top and work your way down. If
there is something holding up her hair, let her hair
down. Take her glasses off if she wears them. Run your
fingers through her hair and gently kiss her. Continue
to kiss and nibble the side of her face and around her
ear. Smell her hair and take in every essence of your
wife.


  
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@ 2b If you are in facing her, hold her bottom firmly.


If you are holding her from behind, run your hands
gently down both sides of her body and around the
pubic area. You may very lightly touch her breasts
through the fabric but do not fondle them even
though she would let you.


HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 3. Let's start with her top. Unbuttoning her top has
a nice slow effect. A non-buttoned top can be a bit
more abrupt when it does come off. Slow slow slow,
keep it slow when taking your wife's top off. The only
time to speed up is when a non-buttoned top is up
around her head. Make sure it comes off smoothly
without tugging. When your wife's top does comes off
do not stare down at her breasts ... yet.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 4. The next step is know how the bra works. Make
sure you have a good knowledge of how the hooks of
a bra work. Nothing kills confidence more then when
you fumble around with your wife's bra hooks. This
takes practice and you should eventually learn how to
unhook a bra with just one hand.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 5. After kissing your wife, pull slightly back from
her and look into her eyes. Let your love for her shine
through. While looking in her eyes, unhook her bra
being careful not to let the bra fall off her shoulders.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 6. Now is the time to gaze down at her bra covered
breasts. Make sure your wife sees where your eyes are
focused. With one easy motion slip your fingers under
both bra straps and pull the bra off her shoulders. The
bra should pull away easily from her body and fall to
the floor. Take a long admiring look at one of the
most beautiful things found on this earth.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 7. Your wife should now be topless but still wearing
a skirt or pants. Take one of her wrists and gently but
firmly turn her slowly around. Wrap your arms around
her from behind. Lightly kiss and nibble her ear and
neck. Tenderly cup her breasts and tug ever so gently
on her nipples. This is not the time for a heavy hand. It
is more teasing then deliberate. You may even feel
goose bumps on her body at this point if you are
doing this right. You are in total control, never rushing
or grabbing. She knows you are in control and is
loving it.
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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE

@ 8. If our wife is wearing a skirt slide your hands up under


her skirt. Lightly brush your hands up high inside her legs.
Gently touch her pubic and vaginal area of her panties. Dip
two fingers down inside her panties and with the lightest of
touches rub her clitoris. Now take your wife's panties off by
pulling down from the sides and let them fall to her ankles.
Have her kick her heels off (or leave them on, ooo la la).

@ If our wife is wearing pants have her kick her shoes off.
Unbutton her pants reaching around from behind her and
firmly pull them down and off. Lightly brush you hands up
high inside her legs. Gently touch her pubic and vaginal area
of her panties. Dip two fingers down inside her panties and
with the lightest of touches rub her clitoris. 2
HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR WIFE
@ 9.Now finish what you started.

@ After pulling off her panties it is sometimes fun to


leave her skirt on and nothing else. However the
choice is yours if you want to slowly unfasten her skirt
and let it fall to the floor.

@ After taking off her pants slowly pull her panties


down from the sides and let them fall to the floor.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/men
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@ For the woman undressing the man: after unbuttoning
the jacket, stand behind your partner and, with both
hands grasping the lapels (indicating that you are at
the wheel now), ease off the jacket and drape it
carefully over the nearest ottoman while still nibbling
his left ear.


HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ The next thing to come off is the tie. Personally, I love
ties. A man in a suit and tie is like a surprise present
with a ribbon around it. And what girl doesn·t love
surprises?


HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ By now our rapidly sobering hero stands resplendent in
cummerbund (possibly), shirt, socks and trousers. The
cummerbund comes off next. Here he should breathe
in, rip off the garment and allow it to slip teasingly to
the floor. Do not pick it up or slide it under the bed
with your foot.


HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ If you are the female in this scenario, I suggest an
embrace around the girth. Using this as an alibi,
unhook the cummerbund from behind. The rotund
will love you for it, the svelte will see it as homage to
their athleticism ² and it places you in a great position
for the next stage: unbuttoning the shirt.


HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ Shirt off, our gallant of the trading floor now stands
bare-chested in trousers, shoes and socks.
@ Shoes come off next, ladies. To avoid kneeling, I
suggest wrapping a leg around his and easing off the
shoes with your foot. This is possible because, earlier
that evening and at the risk of appearing continental,
our strategic rake donned laceless shoes. If you are the
man, slip off each shoe deftly by using your toes.

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HOW TO UNDRESS YOUR HUSBAND
@ One recommended method developed by my better
half is this: after quickly unzipping (gentlemen please
note: laboring over the fly will make you look coy,
narcissistic or merely perverse), hook your thumbs
into the waistband of your trousers and, with one
smooth motion, pull them off. Hook your socks on
the way down. This may be slightly inelegant, but it
works.

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HOW TO DO A LAP DANCE AND UNDRESS VIDEO
FOR YOUR HUSBAND
@ In line with the rest of the presentation and series, we are trying
to promote intimacy and sexual relations between husband and
wife.
@ Most of the videos on youtube, DVDs etc. either are
pornographic or just do a poor job of conveying this.
@ We tried to illustrate this using line drawings but were not able
to find anything suitable
@ The video below is the closest we could find. Again we are not
recommending or advocating lap dances or stripping but if this
turns your spouse on and away from what is forbidden. Then
here is something educational.
@ Practice some of the steps. You don·t have to be a professional
dancer. Learn how your body moves and perform steps you are
comfortable with.
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@ The Sexy Striptease


@ http://www.getromantic.com/passion/spice_up_sex/striptease.ht
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@ The Easy Way to Talk Dirty
@ http://www.getromantic.com/passion/spice_up_sex/talk_dirty.ht
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@ Strip Tease To Spice Up Your Love Making


@ http://living.oneindia.in/kamasutra/spice-up/strip-tease.html
@ HOW TO STRIP FOR YOUR HUSBAND
@ http://site.themarriagebed.com/sexuality/sexual-play/how-to-
strip-female
@ How to Undress My Girlfriend

@ http://www.ehow.com/how_5474041_undress-girlfriend.html

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