Cch coi ngy tt xu Tc gi: Phan K Bnh Ngun: Trch "Vit Nam phong tc" Vic ci xin, vic

lm nh ca, vic vui mng khai h, vic xut hnh i xa, vic khai trng ca hng, ca hiu, vic gieo m cy la, vic t t, vic thng biu, vic nhp hc, vic xut qun, vic an tng... vic g thng cng bt u lm vic g, hoc ng th hoc xut hnh, hoc khai bt, khai n... li cn xem ngy lm. n nhng vic vn vt nh co u x tai cho tr th, vic tm gi, may o... cng c ngi cn thn qu trong kn ngy. Kn th phi xem n lch. Sch lch do to khm thin gim son ra. Mi nm v ngy mng mt thng chp, Hong ng in khai tro, cc quan Khm thin gim cung tin Hip K Lch, ri khm mng vua m ban lch khc ni... ... Ban lch trng th nht l cho thin h bit chnh xc nht tit kh, thng thiu thng , ngy tt ngy xu, tun hnh c u nhau. i ngy no c nhiu sao ct tinh nh thin c, nguyt c, thin n, thin h... hoc l ngy trc khai, trc kin, trc bnh, trc mn th l ngy tt. Ngy no c nhng sao hung tnh nh sao trng tang, trng phc, thin hnh, nguyt ph th l ngy xu. King nht l ngy st ch, ngy th t, vic g cng phi trnh. Mi thng c ba ngy l ngy nm, mi bn, hai mi ba, gi l ngy nguyt k, vic g cng nn king v nht l nn king nhp phng. Trong mt nm li c mi ba ngy gi l ngy Dng cng k nht, ht thy vic g cng phi trnh nhng ngy y.

Nhng ngy y l: Ngy 13 thng ging Ngy 9 thng ba Ngy 5 thng nm Ngy 8, 29 thng by Ngy 25 thng chn Ngy 21 thng mt Ngy 11 thng hai Ngy 7 thng t Ngy 3 thng 6 Ngy 27 thng tm Ngy 23 thng mi Ngy 19 thng chp

H phm phi ngy y th vic g cng h hng khng thnh. Phm vic li cn kn ngy hp mnh, m king ngy tui. Ngoi gi li cn nhng ngy thp linh, ngy c hp l tt, ngy thp c i bi, ngy t l, ngy t tuyt l xu Ni qua m vic dn gian cn dng nn kn nn k. Ci xin nn tm ngy thin c, nguyt c, k ngy trc ph, trc nguy. Lm nh nn tm ngy thin n. Thin h, k ngy thin ho, a ho v ngy kim lu. Xut hnh nn tm ngy lc m, hong o, k ngy trc ph, trc b. An tng nn tm ngy thin h, thin c, k ngy t kh quan ph... Cn nh kn gi th vic g lc mi bt u nh lc mi xut hnh, lc mi ra ng i ci, lc mi dng nh, lc h huyt... Thng u kn ly gi hong o. Php tnh gi hong o phi nh bn cu th: Dn, thn gia t; mo du dn Thn, tut tm thn: t ng thn; T, hi thin cng tm ng v Su mi tng tut nh k chn Li cn phi nh hai cu: o vin k thi thng t L dao h nht hon trnh.

Lc nh gi trc ht phi bit ngy g, ri dng hai cu th di m bm theo gi bn cu th trn. H bm m gp cung no c ch "o, vin, thng, t, dao hon" th gi y l gi hong o... ... Xt php chn ngy, t i ng, Ngu, Tam i c. Song khi by gi th ch tu vic m chn ngy: Ni s dng nhu, ngoi s dng cng. Ni s l vic trong nh vic t t ci xin... th dng nhng ngy m can l cc ngy: t, inh, k, tn, qu. Ngoi s l vic ngoi nh nh dp, giao thip... th dng ngy dng can l cc ngy: Gip, bnh, mu, canh, nhm. Dng nh th ch c lm cc vic m i, ho nh th theo v ngy m, vic cng cp mnh m th theo v ngy dng, ngha kn ly ngy c cht ngha hp vi nhau m thi. n i sau cc nh m dng thut s mi ngy mi by thm ra ngy tt, ngy sao xu, ngy ny nn l vic n, ngy kia nn lm vic kia. Ht ngy ri li c gi sinh, gi hp, gi xung, gi khc, ng lm vic g cng phi xem ngy, kn gi, thc l mt vic phin toi qu. nh lm vic g cng nn cn thn, m chn tng ngy, kn tng gi m ph cu n kh chu. M xt cho k th c ch g u, chng qua vic thnh hay bi ct do ngi ch c quan h g ngy tt hay ngy xu. Nu c chn ngy gi m nn vic th khng cn g phi dng n sc ngi na hay sao ?

CHU DUNG C TM S ng ngy: 07:54 07-12-2011 HIU I Tm s tui gi (Ca Chu Dung C- Nguyn Th tng Quc V vin Cng ha nhn dn Trung Hoa) Thng ngy hi h, i ngi ngn ngi, thong chc gi... Chng dm ni hiu ht mi iu nhn sinh nhng ch c hiu i th sng mi thanh thn, sng thoi mi. Qua mt ngy, mt mt ngy, Qua mt ngy, vui mt ngy, Vui mt ngy, li mt ngy . Hnh phc do mnh to ra. Vui sng l mc tiu cui cng ca cuc i, nim vui n cha trong nhng s vic vn vt nht trong i sng, mnh phi t tm ly. Hnh phc v vui sng l cm gic v cm nhn, iu quan trng l tm trng. Tin khng phi l tt c nhng khng phi khng l g c. ng qu coi trng ng tin, cng khng nn qu so o, nu hiu ra th s thy n l th ngoi thn, khi ra i chng mang n, khi cht chng mang i. Nu c ngi cn bn gip, rng lng m hu bao, l mt nim vui ln. Nu dng tin mua c sc khe v nim vui th ti sao khng b ra m mua? Nu dng tin m mua c s t ti th ng lm ch! Ngi khn bit kim tin, bit tiu tin. Lm ch ng tin ng lm ti t cho n. "Qung i cn li cng ngn th cng phi lm cho n phong ph". Ngi gi phi thay i quan nim c k i, hy chia tay vi "ng s kh hnh", hy lm "con chim bay ln". Cn n th n, cn mc th mc, cn chi th chi, lun lun nng cao cht lng cuc sng, hng th nhng thnh qu cng ngh cao, mi l ngha sng ca tui gi. Tin bc ri s l ca con, a v l tm thi, v vang l qu kh, sc khe l ca

mnh Cha m yu con l v hn; con yu cha m l c hn ! Con m cha m bun lo; cha m m con nhn mt ci, hi vi cu l thy ri ! Con tiu tin cha m thoi mi; cha m tiu tin con chng d ! Nh cha m l nh con, nh con khng phi nh cha m ! Khc nhau l th, ngi hiu i coi vic lo liu cho con l ngha v, l nim vui, khng mong ch bo p. Ch bo p l t lm kh mnh. m au trng cy ai? Trng cy con ? Nu m dai dng chng c a con c hiu no bn ging u (cu bnh sng tin v hiu t). Trng vo bn i ? Ngi ta cng yu, c khi lo cho bn thn cn cha xong, c mun n cng khng lm ni Trng cy vo ng tin ? Ch cn cch y. Ci c, ngi ta chng hay , ci khng c th ngh n to lm, n p lm. Thc ra s sung sng v hnh phc trong cuc i ty thuc vo s thng thc n ra sao. Ngi hiu i rt qu trng v bit thng thc nhng g mnh c, v khng ngng pht trin thm ngha ca n, lm cho cuc sng vui hn, giu ngha hn. Cn c tm lng rng m, yu cuc sng v thng thc cuc sng, trng ln chng bng ai, trng xung chng ai bng mnh (t thng bt tc t h hu d), bit th lc no cng vui (tri tc thng lc). Tp cho mnh nhiu am m, vui vi chng khng bit mt, t tm nim vui Tt bng vi mi ngi, vui v lm vic thin, ly vic gip ngi lm nim vui. Con ngi ta vn chng phn bit giu ngho sang hn, tn tm v cng vic l coi nh c cng hin, c th yn lng, khng h thn vi lng tm l c. Hung h ngi ta cng ngh c ri, ai cng th cui cng tr v vi t nhin. Thc ra gh cao chng bng tui th cao, tui th cao chng bng nim vui thanh cao.

Qu na i ngi dnh kh nhiu cho s nghip, cho gia nh, cho con ci, by gi thi gian chng cn li bao nhiu nn dnh cho chnh mnh, quan tm bn thn, sng th no cho vui th sng, vic g mun lm, thch lm, th lm, ai ni sao mc k v mnh u phi sng ngi khc thch hay khng thch, nn sng tht vi mnh. Sng trn i khng th no vn s nh , c khim khuyt l l thng tnh i, nu chm chm cu ton th s b ci cu ton lm cho kh s. Chng th thn nhin i mt vi hin thc th no cng xong. Tui gi tm khng gi, th l gi m khng gi. Tui khng gi m tm gi, th l khng gi m gi. Nhng x l mt vn th nn nghe gi. Sng phi nng hot ng, nhng ng qu mc. n ung qu thanh m th khng cht b, qu nhiu tht c th khng hp th c. Qu nhn ri th bun t, qu n o th kh chu. Mi th u nn "va phi ". Ngi ngu gy bnh (ht thuc, say ru, tham n tham ung...) Ngi dt ch bnh (m au mi i khm bnh) Ngi khn phng bnh, chm sc bn thn, chm sc cuc sng. Kht mi ung, i mi n, mt mi ngh, thm ng mi ng, m mi khm cha bnh... u l mun. Cht lng cuc sng ca ngi gi cao hay thp ch yu ty thuc vo cch t duy, t duy hng li l bt c vic g u xem xt theo yu t c li, dng t duy c li thit k cuc sng tui gi s lm cho tui gi y sc sng v t tin, cuc sng c hng c v; t duy hng hi l t duy tiu cc, sng qua ngy vi tm l bi quan, sng nh vy s chng gi chng cht. Chi l mt trong nhng nhu cu c bn ca tui gi, hy dng tri tim con tr tm cho mnh mt tr chi a thch nht, trong khi chi hy th nghim nim vui chin thng, thua khng cay, chi l a. V tm l v sinh l, ngi gi cn kch thch v hng phn to ra mt tun hon khe mnh. "Hon ton khe mnh", l ni thn th khe mnh, tm l khe mnh v o c khe mnh. Tm l khe mnh l bit chu ng, bit t ch, bit giao thip. o c khe mnh v c tnh thng yu, sn lng gip ngi, c lng khoan dung,

ngi chm lm iu thin s sng lu. Con ngi l con ngi x hi (c bn ghi: con ngi tn ti trong x hi), khng th sng bit lp, bng tai bt mt, nn ch ng tham gia hot ng cng ch, hon thin bn thn trong hot ng x hi, th hin gi tr ca mnh, l cch sng lnh mnh. Cuc sng tui gi nn a tng, a nguyn, nhiu mu sc. C mt hai bn tt th cha , nn c mt nhm bn gi. Tnh bn lm p thm cuc sng tui gi, lm cho cuc sng ca bn nhiu hng v, nhiu mu sc... Con ngi ta chu ng, ha gii v xua tan ni au u ch c th da vo chnh mnh. Thi gian l v thy thuc gii nht, quan trng l khi au bun bn chn cch sng th no. Ti sao khi v gi ngi ta hay hoi cu (hay nh li chuyn xa xa) ? n nhng nm cui i, ngi ta i n cui con ng s nghip, vinh quang xa kia tr thnh my khi xa vi, ng sn ga cui, tm linh cn trong lnh, tinh thn cn thng hoa, ngi ta mun tm li nhng tnh cm chn thnh. V li chn xa, gp li ngi thn yu, cng nhc li nhng c m thu nh, cng bn hc nh li nim vui thi trai tr, c nh vy mi tm li c cm gic ca mt thi y sc sng. Qu trng v c m mnh trong nhng tnh cm chn thnh l mt nim vui ln ca tui gi. Nu bn c ht sc m vn khng th thay i tnh trng khng hi lng th mc k n! cng l mt s gii thot. Chng vic g c m c, qu ngt vi khng bao gi ngt. Sinh, lo, bnh, t, l qui lut i, khng chng li c. Khi thn cht gi th thanh thn m i. Ct sao sng ngay thng m khng h thn vi lng tm v cui cng t cho mnh mt du chm ht tht trn.