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Cch ni xin li trong ting Anh

Trong ting Anh c rt nhiu cch ni xin li. Chng ta phi cn c vo mc ch ca li xin li v mc ca li c cch ni cho ph hp.

John: Li n mun ri! John ch th hiu ni cc ch em ph n sao li c th tn thi gian cho vic trang im nh th c ch. M bit l tn thi gian trang im ri th sao khng lm t sm, c cc anh em chng ti phi leo cy di c th nh? Linh: n s-ri! Khng phi tn thi gian trang im m l do c v tai nn giao thng lm tc ng nn Linh mi ti mun mt cht. n s-ri, n s-ri! John: n s-ri l ci g? Linh: H, n s-ri c ngha l Im sorry. t trc c bc hng xm trc khi i du lch Hng Kng nh Linh ph o cho mt bui ting Anh cp tc. Bc ln tui ri nn ci g cng mt rt nhiu thi gian mi nh c. Cui cng bc y ngh ra cch hc cp tc rt dn d l t phin dch ting Anh ngc li sang ting Vit. Linh: Thank you th bc y phin dch thnh thanh ci cho d nh, Im sorry th thnh n s-ri. N lc ca ngi ln tui tht l ng khm phc. T Linh vn thng hay ni n s-ri thay v ni xin li, li xin li ca mnh d nghe hn v cng thng hn. Linh: Anh John , Linh va ngh ra l nhng ln trc anh chia s vi Linh cch cho hi, cch cm n ri. Vy hm nay anh John li dy Linh my chiu xin li i. John: Xin li th cng c nhiu cch ni lm. Chng ta phi cn c vo mc ch ca li xin li v mc ca li c cch ni cho ph hp. Cng rt kh c khun kh, tiu chun nht nh cho nhng li xin li v khng th lit k ht c cc kiu li m chng ta mun xin. Hm nay John s v d mt s trng hp in hnh da trn quan im c nhn ca John Linh v cc bn c gi c th theo m ly cm hng v p dng vo cc tnh hung ca ring mnh. John: Thng thng, khi mun xin li v mt vic g, ngi ta thng ni xin li ri nu ln l do gy ra li hoc biu l s hi hn hoc cm gic ti li mt mc no . i vi nhng li nh hoc nhng li xin li x giao th thng ch ni li xin li m thi. Nhng t hay s dng trong khi xin li l: sorry (tt nhin ri), apologize, excuse, pardon. John: Excuse me c th c s dng hi li khi khng nghe r hay trong nhng tnh hung nh khi ta mun ai nhng ng hoc khi mun hi gi, hi ng mt ngi khc, tng t vi pardon me.Excuse me cng c th c dng khi mun thu ht s ch ca ngi khc hay gi ngi khc mt cch lch s (Excuse me sir/madam). Sorry th kh l quen thuc, c dng ph bin nht trong nhiu ng biu th cc mc khc nhau: Im sorry! Im very/so sorry! Im terribly sorry! (biu cm rt mnh)

Ever so sorry (tng t Im sorry nhng thng s dng trong cc ng cnh trang trng hn) Apologize thng s dng trong cc ng cnh lch s, trang trng. John: Ng ngha th chc hn chng ta u nm r, quan trng l ng dng hp l vo cc tnh hung v cch din t lm sao khng b gng go. Chng ta hy cng xem qua mt vi v d trong a dng cc tnh hung: Sorry, how stupid/careless/thoughtless of me/I was! That's my fault! Im so sorry! It was entirely my fault! Please excuse my ignorance! Please don't be mad at me! (rt thn mt) Please accept my (deepest/sincerest) apology! (trang trng) My sensitivity was on vacation that day and I'm so sorry! I hope you can forgive me for what Ive done! I was so inconsiderate and I apologize! Forgive me, I was wrong! I hope that someday you'll be able to forgive me for (something)! You were right, I was an idiot! (biu cm rt cao) I must beg your forgiveness for my outspoken and insensitive remarks! Please forgive me for being so late! It was inexcusable. Please accept my apology! My actions proved how thoughtless I could be. I'm to blame for this mess/I messed up, and I would like to make amends Sorry, it was inexcusable! My face gets red every time I remember that night. Linh: ri anh John. Linh ngh nh ht v bin ha theo tnh hung v cch dng ca mnh th Linh v cc bn c gi cng tn khng t thi gian ri. John: ng vy. Nhn th rt n gin, ai trong chng ta hu nh cng c th hiu c ngha v mc biu cm ca cc v d trn nhng s dng nhun nhuyn theo mnh th cng i hi mt thi gian lm quen. Cng lu cc bn: Xin li l rt quan trng nhng trong giao tip khng nn qu nghim trng ha vn khi khng cn thit. Khng cn thit nhc i nhc li nhiu ln li xin li, c th lm ngi nghe c cm gic kh chu. Ch cp n li c th, khng nn ni lan man hay gii thch di dng. John & Linh: Xin hn gp li vo tun sau, chc cc bn thnh cng!

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