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Thi Chin Quc, Bng Quyn em qun nc Ngy tn cng nc cu nc Triu th cn mang Triu rt gp. Tn Tn, bn hc c ca Bng Quyn, by k cho nc qun vy nc Ngy T em qun vy nc Ngy, y rng Bng Quyn phi ko qun v gii vy, nc Triu c cu. T ao st Thi Tam Quc To Tho ght N Hnh tnh tnh ng bng khng Mn dao git ngi, mn tay nhn chu khut phc bn c ng ta n chu Lu Biu. Qu nhin N ngi khc git k th () Hnh lm Lu Biu tc gin ri b git. Trong Trn Ph Thy, Ph Kin em mt triu qun tn cng nh Tn. D dt i lao Tuy nhin T An, T Huyn nm vng tinh thn D dt i lao nn Ly nhn i ph vi mi mt () dng qun Tn t hn nhng tinh nhu, c trt t, c ngh ngi, nh cho Ph Kin i bi. Trc trn Xch Bch, Lu B ch l mt lnh cha nh nm trong tay Sn ha Tranh th nh chy m nh mt thnh Tng Dng ngi tha qun t. Li dng tht bi ca kip cp, li dng la hnh ng To Tho Xch Bch, Lu B tung qun chim Kinh Chu ri t () pht trin th lc ngang bng vi To Tho, Tn Quyn. Sau trn Xch Bch, Gia Ct Lng cho qun t la trong ng hm Thanh ng Ging ng kch Ty, v nh Hoa Dung To Tho nghi ng rng qun Lu B dng k ging kch Ty mt hng nhng thc cht l ng kch Ty ri chn chnh ng Hoa Dung ri vo by ca () nh hng ngc li qun Quan V. ch chin k Trong Trn Ph Thy, kha lp s chnh lch ln v qun s, T An, T Huyn tung qun Tn tn cng sm lc lng qun Tn ca V trung sinh Ph Kin to ra cm gic rng qun Tn ng o khng ko g hu Khng c m lm thnh c qun Tn. Qun Tn v th m hn lon s hi ti mc tng ting () hc ku l ting qun ch la ht, tng c cy lay ng l qun Tn mai phc. (Phong thanh hc l, Tho mc giai binh). Thi Hn-S tranh hng, Lu Bang b Hng V p vo ng qun m Trn trong vng Ba Thc ho lnh kh ra c Trung Nguyn. Hn Tn bn Chn con ng, cch thc tn Thng by k v sa ng sn o nhng li ngm dn qun i ng hm cng m khng ai ngh ti () nh p i Trn Thng, m ng ra Trung Nguyn cho qun Hn. Sau Trn Quan , Vin Thiu i bi trc To Tho ri chng bao lu qua i. Cc con ca Vin Thiu l Vin Thng, Vin Hy chy ti nng nh Cng Tn Khang. C ngi khuyn To Tho tha Cch ngn ng cch b xem la chy, thng tn cng bt nt Vin Thng, Vin Khang, To Tho cho quan ha yn cho k ch t ri lon rng khng cn vi v sm mun g trong ni b ch cng c lon v () rt qun. Qu nhin Cng Tn Khang thy To Tho rt qun bn chm u Vin Thng, Vin Hy v xin hng To Tho. Ngy nay thng thy l k 'T din bin'. T tng ca ng Huyn Tng l L Lm Ph c b ngoi v x Tiu l tng s ht sc ha nh, thn thin nhng thc cht li l ngi cc k Ci n giu dao, lp mu kn k ao nham him, dng mi th on trit h cc i th chnh tr khc. khng k ch bit () Hnh ng ca L Lm Ph v sau c m t bng cu thnh ng "Ming nam m, bng b dao gm" ("Khu pht phc kim", ). L i o Mn cht thay o, a ngi Thi Tam Quc, To Tho nghim cm qun mnh ph hi ma mng cng khc ra th thn gnh vc tai ha dn chng nu khng s b x ti chm. Mt ln dn qun qua rung () cho mnh la, con nga ca To Tho v hong s m dm nt mt khonh la

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ln. To Tho hi quan gim st v cch x ti, quan gim st ngh ti ca To Tho ng cht nhng tnh mng ca tha tng ng trng hn v vy chm tc thay th. T qun lnh ca To Tho s hi lut l nghim minh m tun th k lut. Thi Tam Quc Lu Chng l th s ch Chu nhng li c tnh tnh Thun tay bt d, phi tranh th nhu nhc. Gia Ct Lng bn khuyn Lu B tn dng mi quan h nm ly c hi nm trong tm tay h hng xa lm quen vi Lu Chng ri t "thun tay bt d" chim ly ch Chu lm ch da. Cng chin k nh c ng rn, tn cng vo xung quanh k ch khin chng hong s m l din Thi Tam Quc qun To Ngy nh ti nng ch huy ca Chung Hi v ng Ngi m chim gn nh ton b nc Thc Hn. i tng Mn xc tr hn, mn thn xc nh Thc l Khng Duy bn gi u hng vi hy vng mn xc tr khc a hn v hn, li dng qun Ngy khi phc t nc. Tuy nhin mu k ca Khng Duy khng thnh, ng b git cn nc Thc hon ton mt v tay To Ngy. Thi Tam Quc Trng Phi c lnh dn qun vo ch Chu h La cho h ra khi ni, khin k tr Lu B. Trn ng tin qun Trng Phi b Nghim Nhan li ch ra khi ni n np d b dng a th him yu ngi trong thnh phng th. Trng Phi bn tn cng lp k gi say d Nghim Nhan dn qun ra ngoi thnh v nh bi. Thi Tam Quc, Mnh Hoch lm phn khin Thc Hn bt n. thu phc Mnh Hoch, Gia Ct Lng by ln bt, by ln th (tht cm tht tng, ) Mnh Hoch khin Mnh Hoch i n m khng dm lm phn na. To Tho mun dng Quan V lm Mun bt th phi th dng tng cho mnh cp cho Quan V nga Xch Th Quan V ln ng tm huynh Lu B v Trng Phi; nhng Quan V ch ci nga i mt on bn quay li tr v vi To Tho nguyn ra trn chin u tr n cho To Tho. Nm gch a ngc n, a ming nh ra d ch nhm t ci li ln hn

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Trong Trn Ph Thy, sau khi nhn thy qun Tn ri lon sau t tn c nc bt c, li dng tnh th cng ph u ca qun Tn, T Huyn quyt nh tn dng thi c ra tay t mc ch tung ton lc tn cng, kt qu l qun Tn i bi d ng qun gp 10 ln qun Tn. Kim thin Ve su lt xc, s dng b dng 21 thot xc mi lm qun ch bt ng tr () tay khng kp Thi Chin Quc, Tn Tn v Bng Quyn ban u l hai hc tr cng thy Qu Cc t, nhng sau tr thnh cu th v l ch th Quan mn chnh ca nhau trn chin trng. Trong trn chin quyt nh, Tn ng ca bt gic, dn gic vo 22 trc tng Tn sai qun T dng k rt bp la Bng Quyn v qun Ngy th b khng th chy thot ( ) tin su vo ng hm M Lng. Khi ton b qun Ngy ri vo by phc kch, Tn Tn sai bt ng hm v bn tn, qun Ngy i bi, Bng Quyn cng b mng trong m lon tn. 23 Vin giao cn Xa th giao thip, gn th dng v Thi Chin Quc, t tng nc Tn l Phm Th ra k vin giao

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cn cng, theo vi cc nc gn, Tn s dng v lc uy hip, chim thnh chim t, vi cc nc xa khng em qun i c th cng lc li dng ngoi giao d d lm ng minh. C nh vy Tn nhanh () chng tr thnh b ch ca c 6 nc ch hu, to iu kin cho Doanh Chnh thng nht Trung Quc sau . Tnh chin k Tn Hin cng theo li Tun Tc mang vng ngc hi l nc Ngu Mn ng dit Quc, li dng Gi o pht vi l do mn ng nc Ngu nh nc Quc, thc cht l Tn ha hon ch ri quay li tn Quc Hin cng s Ngu s sai qun cu nc Quc. Sau khi Tn nh tan cng bng li th do chnh ch () nc Quc, Ngu ch cn tr tri mt mnh, Tn Hin Cng bn em to ra cho mnh qun quay v dit nt nc Ngu. Thu lng Trm rng thay ct, ph hy c hon tr s ca ch () Thi Tam Quc trong lc To Tho ang em qun i nh Vin Ch cy du mng cy he, cn Chi tang m Thut th lng tho thiu thn, binh lnh ku than. Thy vy To c bin th khc l ch ch mng he Tho mi lp k ti cho quan coi lng Vng Hu l la di mo, tn cng gin tip k ch () trong cp pht lng ri chm ly u Vng Hu. Qun To t y thng qua mt trung gian khc s khng dm ku ca na m ht lng nh Vin Thut. Thi nh Tng, Nng Tr Cao t xng phng Nam, hong Gi si bt Gi ngu ch khng in, lm cho nh Tng phi qun nh nhiu ln khng c. i tng ch in qun ch coi thng mnh m Thanh bn by k gi s hi lm qun ca Nng Tr Cao li l () khng phng phng b, tc th qun Tng tn cng nh bi qun Nng Tr Cao. Thng c Ln nh rt thang, cn c bin th tru th khc l qua cu rt vn (tc Qa () giang tru bn) Khi Tn Tn ti nc Yn lm Qun S, i ph vi s tn cng ca Bng Quyn, Tn Tn by mu cho thi t nc Yn K ny. Th thng Vi s qun t i khi ra i ph vi Bng Quyn Thi t cho binh khai hoa Trn cy hoa n s cht nhng cnh cy ko l trn ng hnh qun lm bi tung m () mt khin mt thm ca Bng Quyn ngh rng qun i nc Yn ng gp 10 ln do thm ban u. Bi vy Bng Quyn rt qun. Phn khch T ch l khch bin thnh vai Trong chin dch chim Hn Trung ca Lu B, Php Chnh qun vi ch ch, ln dn dn t ca ch s cho Hong Trung dng k phn khch vi ch cui cng chm () n ch ch khng cn ch ng cht c i tng ca To Ngy l H Hu Uyn. Bi chin k Thi Xun Thu, Cu Tin nc Vit b Ng vng Ph Sai nh cho sut mt nc. Phm Li v Vn Chng bn hin k cho Cu Tin M nhn k Dng gi p lm ri lon dng m nhn ni ting ca nc Vit l Ty Thi cho Ph Sai khin () qun ch Ng vng v am m tu sc m b b vic chnh s, to thi c cho Cu Tin tr th. K ny gn lin vi in c v Gia Ct Lng trong Tam quc din ngha. Theo trong lc Gia Ct Lng ang gi ngi thnh trng Trong hon cnh thnh khng c khng c phng th th T M bt cht ko qun n. nh vo Khng thnh qun li b qun ch uy hip th tnh a nghi ca T M , Gia Ct Lng sai m toang cng k phi dng nhng hnh ng k l, thnh, trn tng thnh ch cm tinh k, li sai ngi quyt dn trc () trm tnh khin qun ch khip cng lm nh khng c s e da ca qun Ngy. Cui cng T M s tng c mai phc m b i v nghi ng mu k ca Gia Ct Lng nn rt qun, b l c hi ngn nm c mt bt sng ch th chnh trn chin trng. Thi Tam Quc, To Tho phi Tng Cn, bn hc c ca Chu Du sang ng Ng d xt lc lng i phng. Chu Du on c Phn gin k Li dng k ca ch bin mu ca To Tho nn s dng chnh Tng Cn lm To Tho () thnh k ca mnh nghi ng hai hng tng cc k thng tho thy binh ca Kinh Chu ri git hai ngi . Kh nhc k T lm mnh kh nhc nh Cu Tin sau khi tht bi trc Ph Sai th ht lng tn ty phc v

Ph Sai nh ngi hu, thm ch nm c cht thi ca Ph Sai gip thy thuc khm bnh cho Ph Sai, tt c ch che giu s chun b tr th ca nc Vit. Lin hon k gn lin vi giai thoi v Vng Don do La Qun Trung k li trong Tam quc din ngha. V thy ng Trc qu bo S dng nhiu k lin tip, mun Lin hon k ngc hung tn nn Vng Don s dng lin hon k trong c m 35 chin thng phi bit mc ni () nhn k gi iu Thuyn vo chia r hai b con nui ng Trc v L nhiu k vi nhau B, sau dng k c nc bt c khi gi L B s th ch vi b nui ri cui cng chnh L B cm kch m cht ng Trc. Tu vi Gp k ch mnh th k chun l 36 thng sch thch hp hn c trong 36 k () () la qun ch 36 k tn gi - Tnh trng nh chin trng 1. Dng ng kch ty (nh lc hng i phng): Tc l gi v nh tht s nh vo pha ng, nhng ch yu li nh vo pha ty. K ny m o v song. Hn cc bc trai cng hiu rng ph n l mt sinh vt xinh p nhng li v cng phc tp phc tp t tm l, tnh cch, n suy ngh, hnh ng, ni chung l rt kh on. Chnh v vy ta phi ly c tr c, phi nhm ngay vo yu huyt ny - ci gt chn Asin ca nng - lm cho nng m ta. C nhiu cch thc hin k ny, nh: - To tin n: Ta du c "ti c" n my th nng cng t tin vo hin thc trc mt hn l nghe m bn gi n i (ph n l tht), chnh v th ta phi to tin n c li cho ta. - Lm ri tai ri mt ch: D nhin l ta m nng, nhng i khi ta phi lm sao cho nng khng bit c tnh ca ta. Ta va t ra rt quan tm v ga lng vi nng khin nng v cng cm ng v ngng m, ri c khi ta sm b mt tht lnh lng, dt khot, lm nng bn khon ngh ngi v ta. Lu dn nng s sinh thng thm nh trm. - Buc i phng lo nhiu mt: C nhn dy: "Theo tnh tnh chy, chy tnh tnh theo", th nn i khi ta phi khuy ng ln trong nng ci thc lo lng chinh phc c ta, phi lm sao nng thy c rng mt ta l mt mt con c to. - M hoc ch ca ch. C nhn dy: "Con trai yu bng mt, con gi yu bng tai". Chnh th mang thn i tn gi th phi th vi li hoa m. Nhng do con gi thi nay tinh thn cnh gic cao, tr tu siu phm nn anh em phi : khen sao cho chn thnh, tm cho ng im tt p ca nng m khen, thm ch phi bin ci xu thnh ci tt mt cch hp l. V d nng anh m ta li khen l du dng th vt, nng s ngh ta gi di v i bi. Trong trng hp ny ta phi sa li l "sc so v c tnh", nng li ch thch m i . C th t t ma dm thm t, nng du st th ch cng dn lung lc. 2. iu h ly sn (D h ra khi rng). K ny cc k quan trng trong thut tn gi. Hn cc bc trai cng bit rng tn gi giai on no cng phi c khng gian ph hp, v d lm sao ta c th hn nng trc mt ng b nhc tng lai c . Chnh v th phi d h khi rng, khi y mun m h hay th th vi h th cng chng s kim lm na. 3. Nht tin h song iu (Mt mi tn h hai con chim). Lm trai nn bit: tn gi ch mi l iu kin cn, phi tn c nh gi na mi l iu kin . Phm l cha m ai khng mun con gi mnh lt vo tay mt thng ngon lnh? M con gi th li hay n cha m. "Hu phng c vng vng th tin tuyn mi khng dao ng" l vy. C mt cu chuyn vui v k ny: Mt b m hi chng r tng lai: "Nu bc v con gi bc rt xung sng nhng ch cu c mt ngi th chu s cu ai?" Anh chng lu c khng do d tr li: "Chu s cu bc sau nhy xung sng cht cng con gi bc trn tnh." ca mu k ny l dng sc lc ti thiu t c hiu qu ti a. 4. Minh tri c mui (Bit r m lm nh khng bit). Khng phi chuyn g ta bit cng u ni cho nng nghe c. C nhng chuyn ta bit m lm ra v khng bit g kim tra tm lng chn thnh v trung thc ca nng i vi ta. 5. Du long chuyn phng (Bin rng thnh phng).

K ny ngha l bn trong l hnh rng , nhng lm cho n tr thnh phng. V d nu hm nay ta i nhu v cha kp tm, ming y mi bia ru m phi n im hn ngay ko nng di th c th ngy trang bng perfume for men v ko chewing-gum. 6. M nhn k (K dng ngi p). Do k ny c p dng trong thut tn gi nn phi hiu y l "nam nhn" ch khng phi l "n nhn". Con gi thi nay nhiu u im nn cng i hi cao, khng phi ch c ch kh anh hng m lm xiu lng nng c. V th n ng cng phi bit lm p, nhng l p nam tnh cho nng sung sng v hnh din. Tin y ti m ngi va hi va bn, li thi lch thch th lm sao xin c ci hn ca ngi p? 7. Sn ha kip (Theo la m hnh ng). K ny l li dng lc lon thao tng, lc tnh hnh ri ren m sp xp theo mun. Chng hn nh tranh th nng gp chuyn bun th ta phi nhn m th hin ht ci tnh ca ta, a nng i theo qu o ca ta, lm cho tnh cm ca nng ph thuc vo ta . c im ca k ny l phi bit ty c ng bin. 8. V trung sinh hu (Khng c m lm thnh c). C nhn ni: "Thi th to anh hng", qu ng nh vy. Nu thin h khng lon, trt t khng ri th lm g c anh ho xut l! Nhng phm i u phi lc no cng din ra cnh c b i hc v trong m ti b bn lang si bu quanh ta ra tay hip s nh trn phim ? Chnh th ta phi to ra thi c t r bn lnh ca ta. V nh ta gii IT th phi ch lc nng s m chc ngoy cho my tnh ca nng hng i, th l nng phi nh ta. Lc y ta s xut chng v c nng thng cho ci nhn khm phc. Nu ta bi gii th phi nh a no chen ln y nng ri xung nc ri ta nhy xung cu... K ny phi thc hin cc k cn trng v chnh xc y nh, nu khng th hu qu s khn lng. 9. Tin pht ch nhn (Ra tay trc ch phc i phng). Phm i lm g cng phi tnh chuyn i trc ngi khc mt bc. Nu nng c nhiu v tinh theo ui, ta li do d chn ch th h chng phi l "mi thm dng gic" hay sao? Chnh v th phi nh nhanh thng nhanh, ra tay trc nhng bn tnh ch kia thu phc i phng . 10. tho kinh x (p c lm cho rn s) Ph n thng hay c nhng pht xao lng, nht l khi c rt nhiu v tinh rnh rp quanh. Ta c th bng gi xa xi, ct l nng hiu trn i ny ta phi l ngi n ng duy nht ca nng. 11. T ao st nhn (Mn ao git ngi). Nu tn c c nng xinh xn, duyn dng, thng minh th d nhin phi chp nhn thc t l nng c nhiu ngi theo ui . Thay v nh mn ghen tung v vn th ta phi t ra l ngi qun t, nhng phi lm sao my tn tnh ch kia trit h ln nhau, cn ta ch "ngi trn ni xem h nh nhau", rt cuc trong mt nng l chng n u xu c, ch mnh ta l "anh p dn ln trong mt em". Nh li chuyn thi Tam Quc, To Tho mn Lu Biu git N Hnh, mn lng qun git Dng Tu ri li lm ci vic mo gi khc chut, tht l mt tay thng minh, gian hng. 12. Di th gi ha (Dng vt g vu khng ngi ta). K ny l vu oan cho tm lng trong sng ca ngi ta, khin ngi ta phi m c, su au, tuyt vng, ri khi y ta s t ra l mt bc chnh nhn qun t, an i v v v lau nc mt cho nng. 13. Khch tng k (K chc gin tng gic). Ph n vn tnh hiu thng, c khi khng rung ng trc s eo bm 10 nm ca mt anh chng nhng li m mn mt chng khc trong nm pht ch v s khiu khch ca bn b . V th i khi ta c th cao ngo lnh lng chm vo s t i ca nng, ri gi gin ip thch thc nng, to cho nng c hi h h l chinh phc c ta, m khng h hay bit l mc la mu gian ca ta. 14. Man thin qu hi (Li dng sng m ln trn). K ny c th hiu rng ra l li dng thin nhin, thi tit phc v mc ch ca mnh. V d i chi th phi a nng ra b h lng gi nng lnh, th l ta ... m . Hay tri ma bt cht th phi bit tm ch kn o cho nng ng, cn ta th ng ngoi ly thn trai che ma cho nng. 15. m trn sng (i con ng m khng ai ngh n).

Tr tng tng ca ph n thng b kch thch v nhng cch t tnh c o, khng ai ngh ra. V th thy phim ngi ta chiu anh chng cm bng hng run ry ng di ma ch ngi yu m cng hc i lm theo th nhm to . Ci s c o y i khi rt n gin, min l phi bt ng v khc l. 16. Phn khch vi ch (i v khch thnh v ch). K ny tc l ta phi bin th th ng thnh ch ng khng ch cc din. Chng hn ch mi i chi vi nng mt hai bui u m nng ny hn nng th cng nn chun b tinh thn c th phi xi mt ci tt . Bit th nhng nhiu khi vn phi lm (i gii, ngy xa b b nh n cn chin hn m vn chu c th c nhm nh g ci nh ca m nhn), ct l nng c c m phng phu, a y, cn ta c c m ln lt. Ph n tht l, i chi vi nng nu chn tay ta ty my th lp tc b y ra ngay, nhng nu ta khng lm th m li ngi cng nh khc g th tc l ta ang xc phm su sc n lng kiu hnh ca nng y . V th lm trai nn nh: khi ch li mt bc th ta tin mt bc, khi ch li n chn tng ri th ta phi lp tc m ly ch khng cn ni no nng ta ngoi vng tay ca ta. 17. Kim thin thot xc (Ve su vng lt xc). K ny dng cho lc nguy cp, tnh chuyn ngy trang mt hnh tng la di, che mt i phng. V d nh ta ang ung bia cng l bn c, nhng li bo nng l ti nay anh phi lm vic overtime khng n em c. Nh nng bt thnh lnh cng gia nh i n ti m gp ta nh hng th phi bn bc vi chng bn chp nhong v lp tc ch ng n dn nng ti gii thiu vi cc "i tc kinh doanh". 18. Khng thnh k (K b trng ca thnh). y l khi ta v xy dng quan h bn b vi nng, nng thong dong bc vo i ta mt cch v t, trong sng, ri khi thi c chn mui ta tp hp lc lng v mu chc nng khng th thot khi cuc i ta. 19. Cm tc cm vng (Dp gic phi bt tng gic). Gic y l mt i ng gm nhng ngi thn xung quanh nng v nng l tng. ng nhin nhn vt trung tm l nng ri. Khi ta chim lnh trn tri tim ca nng th nhng cn tr khc c n thua g. Cc k khc suy cho cng cng phc v k ny. 20. Ban ch ngt h (Gi lm con heo n tht con h). Lo T ni: "Ngi cc khn kho m lm ra vng v" l vy. y l c nhng lc ta t ra ng nghch nng khng cnh gic, chng qua cng ch l "ru ng qun th" , th ri ch thi c chn mui ta mi ging n sm st, tn cng chp nhong khin nng khng th khng nng tnh vi ta, khng nhng th ta cn tin ln chi phi cuc i nng. 21. Qu kiu tru bn (Qua cu ri ph cu). K ny c th thm mt cht l khi tn nng c ri th lp tc thit qun lut, ct mi ng tip gip nhng g trai rp rnh khng c c hi n trm tri tim ca nng. Tt nhin l k ny phi c thc hin kn o, t nh khng th nng s ngh l ta c on. 22. Lin hon k (K mc ni nhau). K ny cng thm mt cht, l ta c th cu kt vi nhng thnh phn c sc nh hng ln n nng chinh phc tri tim ca nng, v d: ngi thn, bn b, ng nghip, m nu bn ang phng Ty th c khi ch cn mua chuc ch ch cng l cng kim im trong mt nng ri y. 23. D dt i lao (Ly khe i ph vi mt). y l c nhng lc tn gi ta vn phi ln k hoch chi tit, c y ngn sch d phng v thi hn kt thc... Khi ta c th thong th ch c cn cu, khng nht thit phi hp tp, nng ny m lm hng vic ln. Ci chnh l ta phi nm c "thin thi, a li, nhn ha" ra n quyt nh. Nu thi c cha chn th phi kin nhn ch i. 24. Ch tang m he (Ch vo gc du m mng cy he). K ny l khng tin mng thng mt nn mn mt s kin khc t thi . i khi nng cng c nhng im sai tri v ta phi "nghim khc dy d" , tuy nhin, khng t ra gia trng, v nng khng khc th ta phi mng sao cho kho, khin nng thng ta, n ta, phc ta v nghe li ta. 25. Lc tnh h thch (Nm vo ngi di ging). Tn T ni: "Nu ng trn quan im o c Khng - Mnh th y l hnh ng khng chnh nhn qun t, nhng nu coi l mt mu k th hnh ng ny li l mt hnh ng sng sut." Li nh chuyn L B b bt, To Tho trong lng cn i cht thng mn mun d d L B, Lu B ngi To Tho c thm mt mnh tng na nn gh tai To

Tho m nhc kho: "ng khng nh chuyn inh Nguyn v ng Trc hay sao?" Th l B v thnh dng sc ngay. p dng chuyn xa cho chuyn nay, nu nng c k chuyn ch bai v mt thng tnh ch no th phi kho lo m nm nng t x l n thi. 26. H trng thanh th (Thi phng thanh th). K ny l cho ngi ta la mt, n s, c bit hu hiu vo lc mi bt u tn gi. Tt c nhng u im m ta c c phi th hin cho nng bit (d l trc tip hay gin tip), thm ch u im nh ta phi lm cho n to ra. Ngy nay k ny c gn nhng m t nh "lng x", "qung co"... 27. Ph tru tn (Bt la di ni). C nhng lc phi li mt bc tin ba bc, v d nh nng ang bng bng tc gin th khoan hy ci l vi nng, m d dnh cho nng h nhit . i n khi nng du dng nh mt con th non ta s em chuyn ra chm chc mt cch hi hc nng thch ch v n phc ci khiu n ni ca ta. 28. St k hch hu (Git g cho kh s). Tn gi thnh cng cha , m phi bit gi cho tnh yu ca nng bn cht vi ta. Kh ni cuc sng nhiu cm d, v vy thnh thong ta phi k nhng trng hp bn ngoi (i khi ba ra l ca mt thng bn no ) hoc c c trn bo ch thm d thi v nng cao thc chung thy ca nng. Phi lun lm cho nng qun trit t tng rng phn bi l ng ngha vi "ng ai ny i", s khng c s tha th. 29. Phn gin k (Dng k ca i phng qut li). "Phn gin k" l dng ngi ca i phng la i phng. V d nh trong thi gian cn thm d m nng phi thng em i tm hiu ta th ta phi tn dng ngay thng ny n lm nnh thn cho ta. Chng hn ta cho n 1 ci th VLTK. 30. L i o cng (a cy l cht thay cy o). Ngha l nu ta c li vi nng th phi tm cch li cho i tng khc, m i tng hay nht l nhng "nguyn nhn khch quan" khng b mang ting c. 31. Thun th khin dng (Thun tay dt con d v). K ny ngha l phi bit nm ly bt c c hi no vt hin n trc mt (v ny phi tht linh hot mi c). V d nh i chi m nng khng may b dm vo vng nc bn, ng ng ra m hy mua ngay chai La Vie cho nng ra chn v tm khn lau cho nng. 32. Dc cm c tung (Mun bt m li th ra). C nhng lc ta khng nn tn cng ro rit m trnh xa ra, thc hin nhng hnh ng ct thu phc lng ngi, gi ngi. T m nng t tm n vi ta. 33. Kh nhc k (Hnh h thn xc mnh ngi ta tin). C khi ta phi hnh h cho mnh m my ngy, hoc gi v m, ri em ci thn xc kh s y m mua chuc tnh thng mn thng ca nng, khin nng xt xa v chm sc cho ta. 34. Phao bc dn ngc (Nm hn ngi thu v hn ngc). Ta phi ga lng vi nng, phi xem nhng ngy sinh nht, valentine, 8-3... l dp tri cho th hin tnh cm su m ca ta i vi nng . Ngay c khi khng c l g vn c th kim chuyn tng qu cho nng. Mt my mn qu m c c hi chinh phc c c mt ngi v, th hi ci no qu hn? 35. T thi hon hn (Mn xc hn v). K ny l sau khi tht bi trong mt cuc tnh, ta tm n cuc tnh khc (mn xc) ly li nim vui (hn v) . Tuy nhin, k ny c nguy c ri ro cao l trong lc tinh thn bt n, nu khng tinh th c th rc nhm "xc cht". 36. Tu k (Chy, li, thot thn). Nu sau khi tn xong mt c nng ta mi t nga ra l nng xu xa y mnh, khng th ci to, khi y chc ch cn cch no khc ngoi "b ca chy ly ngi", it's time to say good-bye! (Hy vng cc bc khng phi p dng cch ny).

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1. Thnh tht: Ni di s lm cho ngi n ng mt i lng tin ca ph n. H s t lm kh chnh bn thn mnh. V vy, mt ngi n ng chn tht s l biu hin ca nim tin, ca sc mnh. 2. Su sc: Nhng ngi n ng su sc s khin cho ph n thy h quyn r v mnh m nht. 3. Bao dung: Ngi chng bao dung s khin cho c v cm thy nh nhng, an tm, tm trng lo u s bin mt. Ph n s ci m, v th hin bn thn bi h tin rng d h c lm sai, ngh sai th ngi chng cng s m lng lng. 4. Dm lm: Mt phm cht quan trng ca ngi n ng chnh l dng cm. Trit hc ca ngi n ng chnh l trng phi trit hc hnh ng, n ng nn bin nhng tng ca bn thn thnh hnh ng. 5. Phong : Ngi n ng s kh lm rung ng tri tim ph n nu h khng phong d h tt v cao thng. i vi mt ngi n ng, phong chnh l v p ca s chn chn ca mt ngi trng thnh. 6. Hi hc: Nhng ngi chng hi hc i a s u l nhng ngi hi hc. H phn u trong s nghip v cuc sng vi tinh thn tch cc. Nhng ngi n ng nh vy thng khng thy qu au kh nu gp trc tr. cnh mt ngi chng nh vy, ph n s cm thy nh nhng hn. 7. Cu tin: Cu tin trong cuc sng v s nghip l c im c bn nht ca mt ngi n ng hp dn. S chng bao gi l mun i vi mt ngi n ng c ch tin th.