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Careswhateveryoneelsethinksofhim,fearsdisapproval. 3. Insecurewithhimself,doesntfeelthatahighqualityperson(womenespecially)shouldlike him.Heisconstantlyafraidofabandonment. 4. Exhibitscontrolling,possessive,jealous,domineering,clingy,orsuffocatingbehavior.Over texts,overcalls,needstobewiththatperson24/7.Makespeoplefeelguiltywhentheyenjoy timewithouthim. 5. Idealizespotentialmatesandoverlookstheirflawsakaputsthemonapedestal.Doesthe samewithrelationshipsanddevoteslargeamountsofemotion,time,energy,andmoneyearly on. 6. Doesnttakeresponsibilityforhisactions.Neveradmitsfaultandwronglyblamesothers. 7. Claimshesvictimized,attributeshisownflawsandshortcomingstoexternalcircumstances and/orotherpeople. 8. Kissesupandistotallyagreeabletotryandscorepointswithpeople,especiallywomen.Will neverdisagreeforfearofupsettingher.Placeshisneedslastandtriestosatisfyeveryone elsebeforehim. 9. Neverleads,issubmissive,andalwayswantstomakesureeverythinghedoesisokaywith her.Overlyapologeticandsayssorrywhentheresnothingtoapologizefor. 10. Doesntdrawboundaries,giveswomenwhatevertheywantinreturnforlove,sex,or approval.Acceptssecondclassbehaviorforthepossiblerewardoftheaforementioned. Doesntsaynoevenwhenheknowsitstherightthingtodo. 11. Oftenhideshistruefeelingsandbottlesthemupinside.Afraidtospeakhismindandmaylie oromitthings. 12. Immatureandthrowstantrumswhenhedoesntgethisway.Lackssocialetiquetteand awareness. 13. Displayspoor/weakbodylanguage.Makeslittleornoeyecontact,leansforwardoutof nervousness,andhasfast/jerkymovements.Possessesnervousticks/fidgetyhabits,keeps handsinhispockets,exhibitsbadposture,anddoesntstandupstraight. 14. Iseasilyemotionallydestabilized,getsworkedupovermeaninglessthings.Loseshiscool andhasoutburstsofanger. 15. Constantlyusesselfdeprecatinghumortogetapproval,sympathy,orpity. 16. Feelsguiltyforhisnaturalsexualdesires,evenforsimplylookingatawoman.Represseshis sexualityandendsupinthefriendzone.Getsfrustrated,angry,andmisogynistictowards womenbecauseofit. 17. Whinesandcomplains,usuallytogetpityorsympathy.Hasanegativeattitudeandacynical outlookonlife. 18. Favorsinstantgratificationandshortsightedthinking.Hesnotwillingtoputintheeffortor dedicationneededtoaccomplishtasks.Doesnotgivecredittowhatothersachieveand thinkshecouldeasilydoitbetterthanthem. 19. Feelstheneedtocompensateforhimselfthroughgiftsorexpensiverestaurants.Needsto provehisworthbyshowinghismoneyorstatusearlyon. 20. Alwayshasstringsattachedormotivesforbeinggenerousordoingfavors.Expects somethinginreturnandgetsangryorguilttripswhenitdoesnthappenexhibitsmanipulative behavior. 21. Judgespeoplebasedonexternalfactorssuchasappearanceormaterialitems. 22. Seeswomenprimarilyassexualobjects.Hismaingoalistohavesexwiththemanddoesnot careoractuallylisten. 23. Dependent,needsawomantofeelhappyorfulfilledinlife.Hatesbeingaloneandwilljumpinto relationshipsthatarenotrightforhimjusttobewithsomeone. Theniceguyisthepersonificationoftheattributesinamanthatwomenultimatelydonotfeel attractedto.
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