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SPIRITUAL HUNGER
GRATITUDE, FAITH AND body image
Good Girls
Group combines fun, fundraising
LOST ART
HOW TO PUT GRATITUDE INTO WORDS
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TWO WOMEN BOND OVER BEST GIFT TWOO WOMEN BONNDD OOVVER BEST GIFT
Isnt Enough
Thank You
When
CONTENTS
WINTER 2013-14 POWER OF GRATITUDE ISSUE
Magazine
When we give
cheerfully and
accept gratefully,
everyone is blessed.
~ Maya Angelou
WOMENS IMPACT | 3 WINTER 2013-14
Thank you
to our sponsors, advertisers,
volunteers and supporters for
making this magazine possible.
A portion of each ad purchased
goes directly to Womens Impact.
8Founders note
10Letter from Editor
12Womens Impact
18-year-old Nina Grollman
(PICTURED) follows her
dreams at Juilliard
16Handwritten Gratitude
Practice the fading art of a
personal thank-you note
18Energize your Body
Learn how ingratitude
toward your body creates
a cycle of shame
31Who We Are:
Join our Womens
Impact movement
30Community Impact
Good Girls Club uses
socializing to create
social change
28Empower your Mind
Put gratitude into practice
by embracing positive
psychology
26MENS IMPACT
Meet Pat Traynor,
whose positive energy
inspires others to
achieve their
goals of giving back
20Cover story
When thank you isnt enough;
One mom blessed by another with
the greatest gift.
32Global Connection
See how a local womans
passion in Peru starts
chain of empowerment
34Events
Make a difference
in your community
by supporting these
local fundraisers and
organizations
37Join Us
Come out and connect
at Womens Impacts
monthly Empower Hours
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38Voices
Susie Ekberg Risher
shares the power of
daily, written gratitude
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Megan Havig works
with Womens Impact,
overseeing the website.
She also freelances as
a writer and marketing
specialist and loves
traveling, coffee and the
outdoors.
Mary Jo Hotzler,
who wrote the story
about the power of
positive psychology
(Page 28), is a wife,
mom and journalist liv-
ing In West Fargo, N.D.
By day, Hotzler is the
director of the Forum
News Service, a region-
al news wire service
provider in Fargo, N.D.
Jasmine Maki,
a writer living in Grand
Forks, N.D., focused on
the Good Girls Club
tor this issues Impact
the World feature. She
works for The Grand
Forks Herald as a fea-
tures reporter, covering
arts and entertainment
and life and style.
Tracy Briggs, digital
content development
director for Forum
Communications,
wrote about theology
professor Michelle
Lelwica, who studies the
connection between
faith, gratitude and body
image (Page 18). Briggs
lives in Moorhead with
her husband, Mark,
their two daughters,
Laura And Jordan, and
a dog who acts like Kim
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Meredith Holt,
who wrote the cover
story about a mom
whos forever grateful
to another mom
(Page 20), is a full-time
features reporter for
The Forum of Fargo-
Moorhead. She also
works part time at
the Crystal Corset
Bra Boutique, where
she helps women look
and feel better about
themselves. She lives in
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Kirsten Stromsodt,
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Fargo, wrote this issues
Social Impact piece on
the power of a thank-
you note (Page16).
Stromsodt is the deputy
editor at The Forum of
Fargo-Moorhead. The
University of North
Dakota graduate grew
up in Mekinock, N.D.
When not working, she
enjoys watching her
friends cook, cheering on
the UND hockey teams,
traveling, and gardening
with her dad.
Carrie Snyder,
Womens Impact
Magazines photo
editor, works as a
full-time photographer
for The Forum of
Fargo-Moohread. She
grew up in Fargo and
attended Minnesota
State University
Moorhead for print
and photojournalism.
She is passionate about
photography, sports, the
outdoors and baking.
Nicole J. Phillips,
a former anchor for Fox
News In Fargo, wrote
about Nina Grollman,
an 18-year-old whos
following her dreams and
attending Juilliard with
the support of Womens
Impact (Page 12). Phillips
is an author, speaker and
mother of three kids. Shes
married to Bison Mens
Head Basketball Coach
Saul Phillips. Her column
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runs every Saturday in
The Forum of Fargo-
Moorhead.
LaurelLee Loftsgard
contributes to
each issues Global
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local women who are
making a difference
abroad (Page 32).
Loftsgard works as a
multimedia producer at
The Forum of Fargo-
Moorhead and hosts a
online entertainment
show, InforumTVs Star
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Nicole Welle, started
working with Womens
Impact over a year
ago. She works as a
freelance marketing and
branding expert and
is honing her skills as a
personal development
coach. Welle grew up
in small-town North
Dakota and lives in
Fargo with her husband,
Christopher, and two
sons.
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W
hat drives you to be so passionate about the
Womens Impact mission?
Thats what a friend asked me a few weeks ago
when I was talking about how much work we had been putting
into the magazine you are holding in your hands.
This is a question I believe we should ask ourselves once in a
while:
What truly drives me to wake up in the morning?
In my case, the answer was simple: selshness. I am a selsh
mom!
I want my daughters to live in a world where everyone
men and women have equal access to education, rights,
responsibilities and opportunities to become a force for good
for their families and communities.
Statistics show we have a lot of work to do to create a
more just and peaceful world. According to the Global Poverty
Project:
Women make up half of the worlds population and
represent 70 percent of the worlds poor.
Women work two-thirds of the worlds working hours and
produce half of the worlds food but earn only 10 percent of
the worlds income.
Initiatives all over the globe are taking steps toward improving
these statistics and proving that empowering women and
promoting gender equality is one of the most effective ways to
create a more balanced and prosperous world.
Gender equality is not only a basic human right, but its
achievement has enormous socio-economic ramications.
Empowering women fuels thriving economies, spurring
productivity and growth, declared the United Nations Entity
for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women.
At Womens Impact Community, we are blessed to see
women feeling empowered one support at a time.
In the past months, through one simple connection in
Womens Impact, Karin received the support of a mentor, Sarah
received nancial support to go to college and Pam received
winter clothes for her kids.
As I remember these inspiring stories, I feel a sense of hope
and immense gratitude for each volunteer who shares their
time, talent and love for this mission; for every person who
takes the time to visit our website and support a womans
life; and for the angels on Earth who bring healing to our
world. I also feel gratitude for God, my family and friends, who
empower me when I feel powerless.
As I am feeling a deep sense of gratitude, I am realizing
selshness was the wrong answer to what truly drives me to
wake up in the morning.
In the end, its one simple answer: Love.
FOUNDERS LETTER
WINTER 2013-14 8 | WOMENS IMPACT
Find what drives you
Chris Linnares
founder & president
Chris Linnares is an international author, psychotherapist and
founder of Womens Impact, formerly Diva Connection Foundation.
Originally from Brazil, she lives in Fargo with her daughter and
husband Bill Marcil Jr., publisher of The Forum of Fargo-Moorhead.
For more information on
Womens Impacts new
website and mission, turn to
Page 31.
Gratitude comes in
many forms
T
he legal pads full of lists and stacks of color-coded
folders speak to my need as an editor for strict
planning and organizing. Were always on a deadline,
and its up to me to ensure we meet it.
Getting a late-night call from your magazines founder just
a week before copy deadline is enough to freak out even the
most seasoned editor.
As Chris Linnares hurriedly explained that Diva Connections
website had been hacked and was now directing viewers to
an online pornography site, my heart sank deeper. Talk about a
defeating moment for an organization devoted to empowering
women.
But my negative feelings soon turned toward gratitude as our
nonprot used this irritating incident to re-evaluate our mission
and image.
In the end, we decided to scrap the website entirely and
start fresh. That decision brought a new name that spoke more
directly to what we are about: impacting women. Gone were
the confused looks when we tried to explain the unknown but
empowering denition behind our diva-licious name.
We also ushered in a streamlined objective for Womens
Impact Magazine. Within these pages, youll nd stories to
inspire, news to empower and ideas to impact.
During the holiday season, were all talking about what were
thankful for. As funny as it may sound, it turns out Womens
Impact can count hackers as our blessing in disguise this year.
Our trials as an organization are small compared to those of
the women we feature in this issue, who all have much deeper
understandings of what gratitude means.
We hope their stories inspire you to look for the people,
opportunities and moments in your own life for which you can
give thanks.
Heidi Shaffer works as the features editor at The Forum of Fargo-
Moorhead. She joined Womens Impact in 2012 because of a desire
to encourage and educate women to reach their full potential.
Shaffer lives in Fargo with her husband. Readers can reach her at
info@womensimpact.org.
WINTER 2013-14 10 | WOMENS IMPACT
Heidi Shaffer
Editor
LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
I
work with so
many beautiful
women who
sometimes need
help and dont
know where to
turn. Womens
Impact for them
has been a
resource, it has
been a sign of
hope.
local nonprot
B
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mom in a
town away from
your family can be
really hard. Thanks
to Womens
Impact I made new
friends for both my
son and myself.
Samantha
I
saw the link and
oh my gosh!
This magazine is
amazing and so
inspiring. I hope
that you and
the magazine
succeeds!
Anna George,
Dubuque, Iowa
I
m incredibly
proud of Chris
Linnares Marcil,
Heidi Shaffer,
Nicole Locy Phillips
& the rest of the
amazing ladies
who launched
this inuential
magazine.
Stephanie Goetz,
executive director
of the Stephanie
Goetz Foundation
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