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the spring I Do Bridal Show
March 30, 2014 at The Flanders
Hotel in Ocean City from 11:30 a.m.
to 3 p.m.
There will be vendors, food, door
prizes and a fashion show by Tesi Bridal
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Also, check our Facebook event:
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Over 300 brides, family members
and friends are expected to attend the
Gazettes bi-annual I Do Bridal Show,
held in spring and fall every year at The
Flanders in Ocean City.
The highlight of the after-
noon features a bridal fashion
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roses reign supreme among wedding flowers. Long considered a symbol of love,
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wedding days not only to symbolize their love for one another, but also because roses are a ver-
satile flower available in numerous solid colors and many bicolor varieties. Tulips are another
popular wedding flower. Also grown in a wide range of colors, tulips are often less expensive
than roses, though rare varieties of tulips will cost brides- and grooms-to-be a significant
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- destination weddings.
These days, one in four weddings is a destination
wedding, giving couples and their guests a rea-
son to blend the joy of a marriage celebration with a
fun and memorable vacation. Planning a destination
wedding suitable for all your attendees is easier than
you think, thanks to some key insights from Myrtle
Beach-based expert wedding planner, Cheryl Cox.
1. Plan ahead
Cox says nine to 12 months is the optimum planning time, especially
for a destination wedding. Many couples start planning a destination wed-
ding as soon as they get engaged. While the summer months are typi-
cally most popular for couples, when choosing a date, Cox recommends
considering a Friday or weekday wedding, or planning the big day during
the less-crowded but still desirable shoulder seasons (spring and fall).
2. Select a destination that caters to all guests
Consider a location with something for everyone. Myrtle Beach, S.C.,
is the perfect example. The destination offers pristine greens for golf en-
thusiasts, museums and historic plantations for cultural buffs, delicious
Coastal Carolina cuisine for the foodies, fun in the sun with a day at the
beach or one of the many water parks, and for brides looking for some
quality time with the girls, numerous spas for a day of pampering. Plus,
there are plenty of lodging options for your guests including oceanfront
resorts, beach home rentals and quaint bed and breakfasts.
3. Research ceremony locations
Beautiful and unique ceremony locations are one of the perks of having
a destination wedding. Research wedding venues, travel and accommoda-
tion options, and rates, then rank the venues you like best, suggests Cox.
As a Myrtle Beach wedding planner, she notes that the areas 60 miles of
stunning coastline make the perfect romantic backdrop. Whether youre
looking for a beachside wedding outside a charming beach home or at the
Myrtle Beach State Park, or a historic location like Litchfield Plantation or
Pine Lakes Country Club, there are countless ceremony locations to choose
from. You can even tie the knot 200 feet above the ground on the Myrtle
Beach Skywheel. Visit www.visitmyrtlebeach.com for more information.
5. Help guests plan activities
Travel is the foundation for long-lasting memories. In fact, a recent
Harris Interactive survey found 62 percent of adults said their earliest
memories were of family vacations taken when they were between ages 5
and 10. Help your guests - particularly families with young ones - get the
most out of their trip by suggesting activities or even making reservations
for dinners, tee times, theme parks, museums, etc., before arrival.
6. Hire a wedding planner
Planning a destination wedding doesnt need to be stressful - hire a
wedding planner. Wedding planners know the local wedding profession-
als and venues including the city regulations for beach weddings, says
Cox. The perfect beach wedding can be accomplished with the help of
a wedding planner as they know the ins and outs of planning a beautiful
beach wedding so couples and their guests can enjoy the true beauty of a
beachside wedding.
7. Consider a pre-wedding visit
If possible, attend a local wedding show to meet wedding profession-
als one-on-one or plan a wedding planning trip to visit venues and meet
with wedding vendors, Cox suggests. Remember to take notes so you
can recall all the details when youre back home.
8. Get wedding insurance
Give yourself peace of mind by purchasing the appropriate wedding
insurance. And, Cox notes, Research to find the best coverage for your
wedding - I highly recommend it.
9. Be mindful of budget
Start your marriage off on the right financial foot by keeping your wed-
ding on-budget. Many couples planning destination weddings find them to be
similar or even more affordable than traditional weddings back home. Myrtle
Beach offers a variety of wedding venue options at various price points, so
you can have your dream beach wedding and still stay on a budget.
10. Enjoy!
This is perhaps the most important step of all. Dont forget to enjoy the
experience of planning this memorable day and enjoying the company of
your guests. Take pictures, sample cakes, pick out flowers and remember
these moments and the beautiful destination you selected.
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any couples find that tradition reigns supreme when planning
a weddings. Certain traditions, such as fathers walking their
daughters down the aisle and grooms sharing a dance with their
mothers at the reception, are moments to cherish. Though such traditions
have withstood the test of time, couples still have some opportunities to
embrace relatively recent traditions.
One such recent tradition is the save-the-date card, a precursor to wed-
ding invitations that simply lets guests know when the wedding is so they
can clear their calendars and be there on a couples big day. While save-the-
date cards are best kept simple, there are a few rules couples should follow
before sending their cards out to loved ones.
Finalize the guest list
Couples must finalize their guest lists before sending their save-the-date
cards. Doing so avoids the potentially messy situation that would no doubt
arise if a person were to receive a save-the-date card but then not make the
final guest list. Trimming the guest list often comes down to finances, so
couples also want to agree on their budget before sending out their save-
the-date cards. Once the guest list has been finalized, couples can send out
their save-the-date cards as soon as possible.
Conrm addresses.
Couples should confirm their loved ones addresses before mailing any
save-the-date cards. This can be easily accomplished by sending mass emails
to friends and family members or contacting individuals via private mes-
sages sent on social media sites. Postage to send save-the-date cards can be
costly, especially for couples with large guest lists. Confirming addresses
can save couples money on potentially wasted postage should the cards be
returned because they were sent to the wrong address. In addition, con-
firming addresses ensures everyone gets their cards and no one feels left
out when relatives receive cards and they dont because a couple did not
have their correct address.
Keep things appropriate.
Save-the-date cards need not be as formal as wedding invitations, but
they should still be appropriate. Guests often keep save-the-date cards on
their refrigerators, where people of all ages can see the cards. So while
cards can be light-hearted, they should still be family-friendly. For exam-
ple, photos of the bride- and groom-to-be decked out in swimsuits should
be avoided.
Dont overdo it with information.
Save-the-date cards dont need to include as much information as the
more formal invitations, which tend to include information about the cer-
emony, reception, hotel, directions, and other relevant wedding details. A
save-the-date card only needs to include the date of the wedding, including
the month, day and year so guests are not confused if the cards are going
out well in advance of the wedding day. Couples can include a link to their
wedding Web site on the backs of their save-the-date cards, which makes it
easier for guests to learn more details about the wedding without inundat-
ing them with information too early.
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but they can be worn anywhere the weather is warm. Many of these suits
are manufactured in a gray, blue and brown striped pattern. Again, due
to the lightweight fabric, you will feel cool. For less formal weddings, a
seersucker suit may fit.
A khaki suit or a tan one may work better if the wedding is more for-
mal. Ensure the accessories are in place to make this look work. The suit
should fit well and be tailored appropriately. Sharp creases in the pants
and a crisp shirt and tie can complete the look. If the groomsmen are in
coordinating suits, a tan or khaki color will not look out of place. If a full
suit still feels too stiff, a nice blazer paired with a complementary colored
trouser may be appropriate for a less formal affair.
Some grooms want to err on the side of caution and stick with a classic
suit or tuxedo. In such instances, grooms may want to investigate lighter
weight wools. Such suits wont be as confining as a heavier suit. Grooms
wearing a tuxedo may want to choose a white tuxedo. A white tuxedo will
look pristine and fit with a formal theme. And the white will reflect the
sun and be cooler without looking casual.
A groom who does not mind a midday wardrobe change can opt to
wear a standard suit or tuxedo and plan to change later on for the recep-
tion. He can coordinate with his new bride and step into something more
comfortable for dancing and enjoying the ensuing party. This allows for
formality when the moments call for it and comfort later on in the day.
Dressing for a warm weather wedding may require a bit of ingenuity on
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ouples about to tie the knot may be preoccupied with finding the
right color palettes for their wedding days. While is has long been a
favorite wedding day color, many couples are now looking for ways
to go green at their weddings, as more and more couples want to make
their ceremonies as eco-friendly as possible.
While it might once have been difficult to make weddings environmen-
tally friendly affairs, todays couples have many eco-friendly options at
their disposal. From hotels that use solar power to reception halls that rely
on locally sourced foods, there are plenty of ways to turn weddings into
entertaining and eco-friendly affairs.
Reduce reliance on stationery.
Couples hoping to be more eco-conscious can cut back on the amount
of paper they use at their weddings and throughout the planning process.
Invitations can be printed on recycled stock, and couples can avoid using
the envelope within an envelope that is often used when mailing wedding
invitations. Furthermore, reduce what you place inside the invitation, in-
cluding direction cards. Have guests visit a Web site to learn about hotel
accommodations and respond to the wedding invite.
Choose earth-friendly fabrics.
When selecting gowns and other attire, lean toward natural fabrics,
such as cotton, wool, hemp, or linen, each of which are eco-friendly.
Pick owers that are in-season.
Much like produce, certain flowers are grown out of season with the
use of pesticides and herbicides. Imported flowers have high carbon foot-
prints due to the distance they have to travel. Cut down on how far flowers
have to travel and the use of potentially harmful chemicals by buying lo-
cally grown, in-season flowers.
Encourage guests to carpool to the wedding.
You may want to make a flashy entrance at the ceremony, but you can
curb emissions by having as many people travel together as possible. Ditch
the sedan or limousine and rent a party bus that can fit many of your guests.
Rethink wedding favors.
Instead of trinkets that are produced overseas and likely to end up in the
trash, opt for edible favors, seeds or plants or even donations to charitable
organizations.
Wearing earth-friendly fabrics and using locally grown owers
are just two ways to make weddings more eco-friendly affairs.
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couples wedding day is the culmination of months and months
of planning. For most, it is one of the most memorable, magical
days of their lives, filled with fond moments of time spent with
close friends and family.
As enjoyable as a wedding can be, most brides and grooms who have
already tied the knot can attest that a wedding is a long, often tiring day. It
is very easy for energy levels to wane. To ensure you have enough energy to
last through to the final good-bye of the evening, follow these suggestions
to remain energized.
Recognize your wedding day is a very long day. Its possible to rise
quite early in the morning to begin prepping with makeup, hair styles,
wardrobe and more. If the party is an evening reception, it could last un-
til the wee hours of the morning. You may find yourself up for nearly 24
hours, when the cameras will be flashing and the video rolling throughout.
Naturally, youll want to look your best throughout.
Get a good nights sleep the night before. Get to bed early the night
before so you will get ample sleep and look rested. It is understandable
that nerves and excitement may get the best of you and make it difficult
to fall asleep. If you often grow anxious and struggle to fall asleep before
big events, talk to your doctor prior to the wedding to ask if you can be
prescribed a one-time-only sleeping pill that will ensure you get to sleep
promptly. Do not take this medication with alcohol, and be sure to take it
only if you can get a full 7 to 8 hours of sleep. Otherwise you may experi-
How to stay energized
throughout your wedding day
ence medicine hangover.
Enjoy a hearty breakfast. At breakfast on the morning of your wed-
ding, consume a combination of carbohydrates and protein. The carbs will
provide the initial burst of energy you need to get going, and the protein
will keep you feeling full. A combination of whole wheat toast, fresh fruit
and Greek yogurt makes for a filling start to the day.
Stay hydrated. Although drinking a lot of water can result in more
frequent trips to the bathroom-which can be cumbersome for brides wear-
ing their gowns-it is essential to stay hydrated. Dehydration can result in
headaches, weakness and dizziness and may make you feel cranky. Be sure
to consume water throughout the day.
Remembering to eat well and drink plenty of uids can help couples
stay energized throughout their wedding days.
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great registry is the first step to plan-
ning your happily ever after. As you
make your way to the I Dos, its also
a time to plan for your new lives together. From
hosting your first holiday dinner to lazy Sundays
on the couch, making your house a home starts
with building a great registry.
It is your registry, so build it any way you
want to. Choose items that are right for you and
your soon-to-be. Go through the registry pro-
cess together and enjoy it, recommends Audrey
Stavish, wedding and gift registry expert at Bed
Bath & Beyond. Whether starting from scratch
or blending households together, remember to
relax, take your time and have fun.
Here are some additional tips to get you
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Visit a Store: Before you take the trip
down the aisle, take a trip down the aisle of the
store where you are registered. Missed some-
thing the first time around? No problem. Many
stores make the process convenient, allowing
you to update the registry at any point, both
in-store and online. Be sure to get up close and
personal with the items that go on your regis-
try. Touch the towels, hold the cookware-in fact,
most brides make multiple visits to a store and
the website.
Keep it Convenient: Where you register is
important. Ask friends, family and co-workers
about their registry experiences. Start a wedding
registry as soon as you say yes. That way, guests
have options for engagement gifts and showers.
Ask the Experts: Its easy to get over-
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registry consultants can help you be better in-
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Dream Big, Register Bigger: Register for
at least twice as many gifts as the number of
guests at the wedding. Friends and family will
rely on the registry for special events leading up
to the wedding, including engagement parties,
showers and holidays.
Guests will appreciate choices in a wide
range of price points and categories. Also, dont
shy away from high priced items like a set of All-
Clad cookware-these make great group gifts, as
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Brides- and grooms-to-be who have specific flavors in mind can ask
their bakers to include two cupcakes with the wedding cake. Then the cou-
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rides-and grooms-to-be are often nervous when the day they
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leading up to the moment they have devoted so much time and effort to
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Get a good nights rest.
Couples should prioritize a good nights sleep the night before they are
set to walk down the aisle. Make your last night as an unmarried couple an
early night so you will look your best and have plenty of energy on your
big day, which will no doubt start early and end late. A good nights sleep
can go a long way toward ensuring youre in a good mood as you handle a
full slate of responsibilities on your wedding day.
Spend time with family and friends.
Chances are your closest friends and family members are playing sig-
nificant roles in your wedding, and spending time with them is a great way
to keep your nerves in check while having a fun time before, during and
after the ceremony.
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last-minute jitters
Dont be afraid to delegate responsibilities.
In spite of months of planning, couples will still have a to-do list come
their wedding days. If such a list is overwhelming, brides- and grooms-
to-be should not be afraid to delegate some of the tasks on their lists.
Bridesmaids and groomsmen can no doubt handle any outstanding tasks
that dont require any input from the bride or groom.
Relax as the ceremony draws nearer.
As the start time for the ceremony approaches, couples about to tie the
knot should take time to sit down and relax. Once their hair and makeup is
finished, brides-to-be should sit down and exhale or arrange for the pho-
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When it comes time to select a theme, the day the wed-
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specific interest or hobby or something that is dear to them. Here are some
popular wedding themes.
Holiday:
The Christmas season lends itself well to wedding planning. The colors
(red, green, gold) are already established, and most churches and buildings
are already decked out in holiday finery, cutting down on the amount of
flowers and embellishments couples need. Because the holiday season is so
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Destination/activity showers:
Rather than having guests hang around a restaurant watching gift after
gift get unwrapped, some bridal parties opt to throw an activity shower.
These showers are focused around a particular activity. For example, ladies
may be treated to a day at the spa. Other ideas include horseback riding at
a stable or a day at the ballpark. Because hosting an activity shower for doz-
ens of people may get expensive, these types of showers may be reserved
for only your closest friends and family members.
Bride-involved showers:
The idea of walking into a room and being surprised by friends and
family members is appealing to some brides-to-be but not everyone. Some
brides prefer not to be surprised by a shower and actually would like to
have a role in the planning of the party. However, this is delicate ground
on which to tread, considering there may be differences over where the
party is held and even the overall experience of the party. These type of
showers should be discussed before any plans are made, and tasks should
be delegated in accordance with those plans.
It is customary for a bridal shower to take place before a wedding.
But new trends have emerged that are shaking up the way showers are
planned and held.
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ain showers on a wedding day may bring good luck, but they are
seldom coveted. However, a different type of shower altogether
is often highly anticipated and can help couples feel like theyre
one in a million.
Wedding showers are gift-giving parties held for couples about to get
married. The custom began in the nineteenth century and continues to
present day, primarily in North America and Australia. Guests traditionally
shower the bride-to-be with all the necessities (and some fun extras) that
she will need after she ties the knot. These gifts will help the soon-to-be-
married couple establish a home together.
Bridal showers are steeped in tradition, but todays bridal showers con-
tinue to veer off the beaten path. Nowadays, bridal showers feature fun and
games much like a party having nothing to do with a wedding. TheKnot.
com, a website that aims to help couples plan their weddings and all the
events leading up to the big day, identifies these key trends in modern
bridal showers.
Couples showers:
Modern couples who like to be all-inclusive are now planning bridal
showers that cater to mixed audiences. Dubbed a couple shower, these
parties include female and male friends and relatives. Gifts are still the
main focus of the event, but theyre varied and include guy-friendly items
within the mix of household goods.
Power showers:
Many are familiar with the terms man cave and bromance, but few
may know that there are now wedding showers geared entirely around the
groom. Known as power showers, these events focus on the groom-to-
be, who is showered with a bevy of gadgets and power tools that are certain
to stock his future garage. The parties are decidedly more testosterone-
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any couples find themselves bom-
barded with questions the moment
they become engaged, and perhaps no
questions is more common than, When is the
wedding? Although a number of couples would
prefer to bask in the excitement of their engage-
ment, some couples feel pressured to rush into
picking a wedding date. Choosing a wedding
date without giving it much consideration may
make things more difficult down the road. Rath-
er than jumping head first into any decisions,
couples should give thought to any and all dates
and decide if there are certain times of the year
they want to tie the knot or avoid.
Season
When thinking about potential wedding
dates, it helps to have a place to start. Some
couples find it helpful to start with a particular
season and then narrow it down from there. De-
cide if you prefer the lush greenery of summer
or the amazing color spectrum of an autumn
afternoon. Perhaps you envision arriving at the
ceremony with a snow-packed landscape amid
twinkling holiday lights? Think about the season
when you feel most happy and then determine if
that time of year is doable.
Month
Certain months may seem
perfect, but not for busy profes-
sionals or those with limited va-
cation time at their disposal. For
example, early spring may not
be good for accountants tallying
year-end numbers. Teachers may
feel most comfortable tying the
knot in the summer when they
already have days off. If you run
a pool business or a lawn mainte-
nance company, then the summer
might not be so good. Keep these
factors in mind.
Holidays
Some people would like to tie
their wedding day to a particular
holiday. Valentines Day is popular
for weddings thanks to the romantic sentiments
synonymous with the holiday, while some cou-
ples prefer Halloween or Christmas weddings.
Holiday weddings can be exciting, but they also
produce significant obstacles that couples who
choose to get married during other times of year
dont have to worry about. Guests may not want
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wedding participants, from brides
and grooms to the couples parents, hope to
look their best for the celebrations. Women
often find that well applied cosmetics can
enhance their beauty and help ensure they
are picture-perfect.
The key to wedding makeup is finding a
balance between application that will come
across well in person and will look good in
photographs. Professional makeup artists
may understand just how heavy a hand to
use to apply makeup, but the novice do-it-
yourselfer may need some instruction to
master wedding day makeup.
Very often the key to wedding makeup
is simplicity. Brides want their best features
enhanced and have the makeup add to their
beauty rather than outshine it. Brides want
guests to notice their faces and gowns and
not their makeup. Here are some other tips
brides can employ in an ef-
fort to put their best faces
forward.
Begin preparations a
few days prior to the wed-
ding. If you will be enhanc-
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spray-tan, do so at least two
days prior to the wedding. By
the third day the color will
set and appear more natural.
The same idea applies to your
brows. Tweezing, waxing and
threading can create irritation and redness. Have your brows profession-
ally shaped a few days before the wedding and then do a minor touch-up
with your tweezers the night before. This allows your skin to recover and
redness to dissipate.
Start out with well hydrated and moisturized skin. Apply a few layers
of moisturizer, preferably one with an SPF if you will be spending time out
in the sun. When the moisturizer is completely absorbed and dry, use a skin
priming product that will help keep your foundation locked into place.
Match your foundation color to your natural skin color. When these
colors dont match, your face may look like it is a separate shade from
your neck and decolletage. If you will be tanning, then find a shade that
matches the tanned color. A foundation that has slightly yellow undertones
will even out redness on the face and look better in photos. Apply the
foundation thoroughly with a sponge or brush and be sure to blend it well
at your neckline. Set the foundation with a matte powder.
Apply concealer to red spots or undereye circles after the foundation.
Aim for a creamy, emollient concealer for under the eyes. A peach color
that will contrast with the purple and blue tones of your eyelids works
well. Putting on the concealer after the foundation means you will prob-
ably need less and wont look like youre caked with product.
Use an eyebrow pencil or powder to fill
in your brows. This is a must for your wedding
day and can really help to frame your eyes. Use
small, light flicks of the pencil rather than long
strokes to make the color blend naturally. Use
a brush to blend in further. Always go a shade
or two lighter than your natural color. Finish
with a gel that will set the hairs into place.
Complement your lips and eyes. Many
brides like to play up their eyes on their wed-
ding days. If you are going for a dramatic eye,
opt for a more neutral lip, and vice versa. Oth-
erwise, you may look like youre wearing stage
makeup. Neutral colors look best for weddings
and will not appear dated in photos. Stick to
subtle browns and taupes for universal flattery
on most eye colors. Use a light hand to apply
a neutral shade of light shadow all over the lid.
Apply a medium brown to the crease of the eye
and a darker brown to the very outer corner,
and blend thoroughly. A very light shade of
shadow can be used directly under the brow-
line and toward the inside
of the eye to make eyes ap-
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with matte shades of eye
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of one pearlescent shade
that is lightly dusted right
in the center of the lid from
the lashline to the crease.
This will add just a touch of
luster to catch the light and
make eyes sparkle.
Apply liner before
mascara, and blend it with a brush. Push the liner into the lashline to make
lashes appear thicker. Use mascara to lengthen lashes. Place a makeup
sponge behind your lashes when applying mascara so you dont risk hitting
your lids with the mascara wand. If you will be using false lashes, apply
them now. Err on the shorter side for fake lashes, and cut them as needed
to fit your eye. Lashes that are too long or full may appear cartoonish and
can be uncomfortable to wear. Connect your lashes together with the false
ones with another application of mascara. Waterproof mascara will hold up
through tears of joy.
Be subtle with blush. Use subtle blush in a peach-pink color to
achieve that blushing bride appearance. Smile and apply the blush only to
the apples of your cheeks.
Choose a long-lasting lip color that will hold up through kisses and
smiles. Lip stains work very well, as they provide that hint of color but
wear well during the day. Another helpful tip is to perform a practice run
prior to the wedding, taking some photographs to see how the makeup
looks in pictures. Cameras and flashes can wash out makeup, so sometimes
you need to apply just a little bit more than usual for it to show up on
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like they have stepped into a casino on the famed Vegas strip. In addition,
an Elvis impersonator is essential to a Vegas wedding.
TV show:
Some couples elevate certain television shows to cult status. Whether
its Friends or Star Trek, popular television shows have been trans-
formed into festive wedding themes. Whether the idea is to go daring and
exchange vows in costume or simply name reception tables according to
characters or show locations, couples can include a little television fun
into the event.
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Many men and women envision a fairytale wedding complete with
horse-drawn carriage and the happily ever after. This is what makes Dis-
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backdrops for wedding events. Those planning a fairytale wedding need
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their wedding. Invitations and decor can hint at the theme, and then special
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and reception spaces. Prices on everything from food to flowers to airline
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Day of the week
Its less expensive for couples to get married on Fridays and Sundays
than Saturday afternoons or evenings. Couples may think that the money
saved will be well worth it, but they also should think about how this deci-
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from work or school. Sunday weddings may be slightly more convenient,
but those who have to get back to work on Monday may be tired from late-
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their weddings when those weddings are not on Saturdays.
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Couples having religious ceremonies should consult with their houses
of worship as to which dates are acceptable. Some will not have weddings
on days of religious observation. It is wise to consult with a church, syna-
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that you are certain your chosen day is acceptable.
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to any meal. Its also fun for newlyweds to explore spices together. They
can create new combinations for both old and new dishes to learn which
flavors they, as a new couple, deem to be their favorites.
When selecting spices for gifting, look for natural and organic spices.
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Pack some snacks. The time between breakfast and the cocktail hour
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to pack some easy snacks to eat. Trail mix can be nibbled for a boost of
energy, and a banana can take the edge off of hunger pangs. Avoid anything
messy that can drip onto clothing or get stuck in your teeth. Arrange to have
snacks stowed in the limousine or another mode of transportation so that
you can refuel on the way to the ceremony or in transit to the reception.
Dont overdo it with caffeine. It may be tempting to lean on an en-
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caffeine is only a temporary fix. After the effects of the caffeine wear off,
you could find yourself more tired than before and crash at an inopportune
time during the day. Instead, a brisk walk outdoors may recharge your
batteries. Afterward, time spent on the dance floor enjoying the reception
will likely stimulate some adrenaline to keep you going.
Eat dinner. When family is beckoning and the photographer needs to
get yet another pose, it is easy to skip dinner. Be firm with your decision
to enjoy your meal. After all, you paid for it and it should not go to waste.
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Continue to drink plenty of water throughout the night. Alcoholic
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a wedding toast, it also can be nerve-wracking, as no one wants to give a
toast thats memorable for all the wrong reasons.
While the best toasts are often those that veer off the beaten path, com-
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there is a certain formula men and women can follow to ensure their toasts
cover all of the appropriate bases without offending the bridal party or
fellow guests.
Acknowledge the guests. Families are more geographically diverse
than ever before, so more and more weddings host guests who come from
far and wide to celebrate with happy couples on their wedding days. Its
customary for men and women making wedding toasts to acknowledge
the guests, thanking them for being there. This is often a great way for best
men and maids of honor to break the ice and calm their nerves, especially
at larger weddings where they may only know a small percentage of the
guests. When thanking the guests, be sure to thank the parents of the bride
and groom as well.
Explain your relationship to the bride and/or groom. Best men and
maids of honor should devote a portion of their toasts to explaining their
personal relationships with the bride and/or groom. Introduce yourself
and explain how you met the bride or groom. Oftentimes, such stories
have a comical twist that can further calm your nerves.
Aim for a jovial toast. Wedding toasts are typically given at the wed-
ding reception, when guests and the bridal party are ready to celebrate.
Such an atmosphere lends itself to a jovial toast wherein best men and
maids of honor focus on happy times with the bride and groom. Tell a
funny anecdote that illustrates the special bond you have with the bride or
groom. When choosing a story to tell, remember to keep things appropri-
ate for guests of all ages, including young children.
Steer clear of alcohol before giving your toast. Many people overin-
dulge in alcohol at wedding receptions, but best men and maids of honor
should avoid consuming alcohol until after they have toasted the bride and
groom. Horror stories about drunken, inappropriate wedding toasts may
seem more like an urban legend than a legitimate possibility, but the ten-
dency for alcohol to lower peoples inhibitions makes it dangerous for men
and women to consume it before giving their toasts.
Give your best wishes to the bride and groom before raising your
glass. Raising your glass to toast the bride and groom is often the last step
before your toasting duties officially end. But before you raise your glass,
remember to offer your best wishes to both the bride and groom. Once
those sentiments have been expressed, ask the guests to raise their glasses
and toast the newlyweds.
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edding invitations often provide guests with a first glimpse of
a weddings style. Invitations also may serve as the means by
which distant friends and relatives find out about a couples
pending nuptials if a formal announcement was not made.
Amid the flourishes of calligraphy and impressive paper stock is infor-
mation that speaks to the importance of the day when two people will be
joining their lives together. Guests will learn not only the time and the
place of the wedding from the invitation, but also the formality of the
event and the scope of the party that will follow.
Couples should keep certain things in mind as they begin to design their
wedding invitations.
Have a good idea of your potential guest list.
Before shopping for wedding invitations, it is key to have a strong idea
of just how big the wedding will be and how many guests will be invited.
This way you will know how many invitations you will need. Invitations
vary in price, so cost may be a consideration if your guest list is extensive.
Decide on the formality of the wedding.
Will you be hosting a black tie affair, or will it be a casual gathering
at the shore? Guests infer many things about the wedding from the in-
vitations, which should match the formality of the event in style and the
sentiments expressed. An ornate invitation written with classic wording
suggests a more formal affair, while a whimsical invitation with less formal
wording could indicate a more laid-back event.
Dare to be different by playing with invitation
sizes and shapes.
Rectangular cards are standard for wedding invitations, but you can ex-
plore your creativity by choosing more modern, artsy invitations. Circular
invites or scalloped edges can add some whimsy to the wedding mood. In-
vitations that fold out or are embellished with ribbon or other decorations
can be appealing. Just keep in mind that cards that are not the standard
shape and size could be more costly to send. Always have the entire wed-
ding invitation weighed and priced at the post office so you will know what
the postage will cost.
Choose a legible font and text color.
Your invitation may look beautiful, but it may prove ineffective if it is
difficult to read. Do not risk guests misinterpreting the date or the location
because they cannot read the writing on the invitation. Steer clear of pastel
or yellow text colors, and remember to have a high contrast between the
color of the invitation and the text you are using for easy reading.
Keep the invitation simple.
It may be tempting to load the invitation with lots of information, but
all you really need are the key pieces of information, such as the who,
what, where, and when. Crowding the card will take away from its
aesthetic appeal. Most stationers will suggest a separate, smaller insert in
the wedding invitation for the reception information and response card.
Never put information such as where you are registered or no kids al-
lowed. This is material better reserved for word of mouth or on a wedding
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Do some math.
It is important to know your dates so you can receive the invitations on
time, mail them out, and give guests enough time to respond. A good rule
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One of the final components of weddings are the favors guests will take
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quire immediate attention, that does not mean couples should wait until
the last minute to made decisions regarding their wedding favors.
Brides-and grooms-to-be should not underestimate the importance of
handing out wedding favors, a tradition with a rich history. A wedding
favor is considered a symbol of good will to guests, and there are many
different wedding favors on the market. Finding the right one can take a
little work. It is usually a good idea to find something that suits the theme
of the wedding and is both long-lasting and practical. Try to avoid anything
that is too kitschy.
A couples budget should be considered when choosing wedding favors.
A couple may want to give their guests lavish gifts but should only do so if
their budget allows. It may be challenging for couples to find favors that fit
the theme of their wedding, as well as their own personalities and budgets.
But it can be done. The following are some favor-finding guidelines.
Be creative
Wedding favors can be just about anything, so theres no need to stick
to Jordan almonds or wine bottle stoppers. The more creative couples are,
the more receptive their guests will likely be. For example, for an autumn-
theme wedding, fill mason jars with the ingredients for a spiced cake and
give the recipe directions on a tag. For a summer wedding, gift guests with
a sun and surf survival bag, full of sunblock, a beach towel and sunglasses.
Complete the theme
Some weddings follow a particular theme from start to finish, and wed-
ding favors should stick with that theme. Couples who will showcase their
love of travel on their wedding days may want to give guests keychains
or purse holders that feature popular landmarks around the world. Those
who are admitted beach bums may want to present a small fishbowl with
sand and a goldfish inside, reminiscent of days at the seashore.
Go traditional
Couples who opt for universally appealing favors can lean toward some
popular options, such as silver cake servers, candlestick holders, decora-
tive photo frames, or engraved keepsake boxes. Aim for favors that have
utility. Otherwise, favors may end up collecting dust on someones shelf.
Food and beverage gifts are fun
Food favors mean guests can enjoy their gifts and not have to worry
about finding space inside their homes to display trinkets. Food favors can
be lavishly decorated cookies, fine chocolates, petit fours, small bottles of
champagne or cupcakes decorated like the wedding cake.
Favors are often integral to wedding celebrations. Selecting a favor that
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ctober is the new June. More
and more, weddings are tak-
ing place in the height of fall
foliage, heart of winter and prime
holiday season, including the ever-
popular New Years Eve ceremony
to ring in the new year. But its not
just the wedding season that has
drastically evolved over the past de-
cade, its everything from roles and
responsibilities to gift-giving.
As you gear up to celebrate the
union of your beloved family or
friends or even your own know
what to expect from the changing
tides of weddings. Lizzie Post, co-
author of Emily Posts Etiquette,
18th edition and great-great-grand-
daughter of Emily Post, helps cou-
ples navigate the new traditions of
weddings. The Post name has been
synonymous with proper etiquette
and manners for the past 80 years.
As decades pass, so will tradi-
tions, but proper etiquette is time-
less. Be prepared for the next wed-
ding you attend and know what to
expect from changes in the wedding
landscape with these important
pieces of advice:
Pay it forward
Finding the right gift for the
newlyweds can be difficult. While
registries help to point guests in the
right direction, many couples are
getting married later in life and al-
ready have all the household items
that are common wedding gifts. To
provide the couple with a small nest egg to use however they wish, a check
is always a great and safe gift idea. Several financial institutions, like Bank
of America, offer mobile check deposit through their banking app, allow-
ing the couple the flexibility to deposit checks on-the-go to help cover
outstanding vendor payments or use on their honeymoon. Another new-
age trend is contributing to a couples honeymoon fund.
Temper tech use
Even weddings are going hi-tech. There are numerous websites avail-
able that can help the couple to organize the process, communicate with
guests and share photos after the ceremony. But a few things like a hand-
written thank you note should steer clear of the hi-tech lure. In a gad-
get-driven society, everyone is carrying a smartphone. Couples can post
a tasteful notice at the entrance of
the ceremony location or in the
program to remind guests to turn
off their cell phone ringers and re-
frain from use during the ceremo-
ny. Some couples may actually en-
courage guests to take photos and
share images via social media, but
guests should respect their wishes
and use phones only as a camera
and upload images after the cer-
emony.
Respect personalization
Couples want their special day
to reflect who they are and what
is important to them. While pre-
vious generations traditionally
wed in places of worship, many
modern couples choose to tie the
knot at a sentimental location, like
where they had their first date. The
decor, music and even the food
and drink served at a wedding
may have a personal story behind
it. No matter how nontraditional
the element may be, guests should
eagerly partake in the festivities,
acknowledging and respecting the
couples individualization.
Be all-inclusive
In the past, bridal showers were
strictly for the bride and bachelor
parties were a men-only affair.
Nowadays, these festivities are
no longer gender-specific. Show-
ers can be thrown for the couple
in unison and include creative
themes like stock the bar or time of day. Bachelor and bachelorette
parties can also be conjoined to involve the entire bridal party in a desti-
nation event. And while these events are a celebration of joy, expenses can
add up quickly. If you use a rewards card, like the BankAmericard Travel
Rewards credit card, you can earn points on purchases to pay for all or
part of your trip. This is great for both the bride and groom and guests
traveling to the wedding.
As trends and expectations shift, so will the way major life milestones
are celebrated. It is important to celebrate these moments in life with
grace and support for the happy couple - after all, its their day - and it
should be as unique as they are.
For further etiquette advice on navigating 21st century weddings, visit
www.emilypost.com.

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Modern wedding trends
that are building new traditions
Rather than the traditional wedding in a place of worship, couples may
choose a location and style with personal signicance,
such as where they had their rst date.
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Eco-wedding
Cut down on waste.
Do you really need four courses at the reception and a complete des-
sert display? Food that goes uneaten will likely end up in the garbage. If
you cannot arrange to have food delivered to a soup kitchen or another
charitable group, scale back on how much is served. Chances are guests
will not even miss the extra food.
Recycle your gold or silver.
Wedding bands symbolize are customary at wedding ceremonies. Rath-
er than buying new rings, transform old jewelry into rings by having the
metal melted down and formed.
Style your hair naturally.
Although many hair products have reduced or eliminated their use of
CFCs, which can enter the atmosphere and damage the ozone layer, harmful
chemicals are still used in many products. Brides can skip the elaborate up-
do that requires a lot of hair spray for a more natural, free-flowing look.
Rent or borrow whenever possible.
Rented items are reused over and over, while items couples buy specifi-
cally for their weddings are liable to be used once and then discarded. Opt
for rentals when possible.
Light beeswax candles.
Candles are an eco-friendly way to provide romantic lighting at the
wedding. Opt for non-toxic beeswax candles rather than paraffin candles.
When couples put their minds to it, they can find many ways to have an
eco-friendly wedding without compromising on style and fun.
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Spices
Step 3: Include adventurous spices
Add a surprise element to your spice gift basket with a few adventurous
options. This is a good way to personalize your gift as well. For example,
add a spice that is reminiscent of their honeymoon location, such as Fron-
tiers new Seafood Seasonings, hand-harvested French salt Fleur de Sel, or
Grains of Paradise Seed, a tiny seed that tastes like a combination of a mild
black pepper, ginger, cardamom and coriander.
Step 4: Dont forget trendy spices
Help the happy couple go to the head of culinary class by including top
trending spices in your wedding gift. Smoked spices are all the rage right
now, so be sure to include some delicious smoked sea salt. Another trendy
spice is Vietnamese Cinnamon, prized by gourmet chefs, many whom be-
lieve it to be the best cinnamon in the world.
Step 5: Finish with extracts and avorings
To round out your wedding gift, consider including some premium
extracts and flavorings to really help prepare the newlyweds kitchen. One
great example is non-GMO Vanilla Extract from Frontier. Its rich, uni-
versally popular taste will enhance treats from cookies to custards. Plus,
non-GMO means it isnt made with genetically modified vanilla beans, a
positive for many people.
When it comes to wedding gifts, make sure yours stands out from the
bunch. A customized collection of spices is sure to be used time and time
again by the happy couple, and theyll think of your thoughtful gift every
time they cook. (BPT)
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How to approach
music on your
wedding day
M
usic often plays an important role on festive occasions, and wed-
ding days are no exception. The right music can make a wed-
ding day that much more meaningful, while the wrong music can
make a couples big event memorable for all the wrong reasons. Though
music selection might seem like one of the easier decisions couples must
make, those about to tie the knot typically must make a host of music-re-
lated decisions regarding their wedding day, including whether to choose
a live band or a deejay to perform at their wedding receptions. While the
reception is when music might be most on display, couples planning their
weddings must think beyond the reception when setting the musical tones
for their weddings.
Ceremony
The ceremony itself often sets the tone for a couples wedding day. A
beach wedding, for example, often creates a laid back atmosphere, while a
ceremony held in a large church or temple often sets a more formal tone.
Music played during the ceremony also goes a long way toward setting the
tone couples hope to establish.
When choosing music for the ceremony, couples should first consider
the venue where they are tying the knot. Some, such as houses of worship,
may have rules pertaining to what can and cannot be played inside the ven-
ue. Classical, hymnal or processional music often makes the best fit when
weddings are taking place in more formal venues. Outdoor weddings tend
to give couples more leeway. But in general couples dont want to choose
any music thats too loud or over-the-top for their ceremonies.
Keep in mind that while the music played during the ceremony can set
the tone for the day, this music can vary significantly from the music played
during the reception. A favorite performer may not be appropriate during
the ceremony, but that doesnt mean the couple cant dance to that artists
music during the reception.
Live musicians can add a more elegant feel to the ceremony, but such
performers also can be costly. Playing prerecorded music may not be as
elegant as having a live performer, but it can cost a lot less and still make
for an enjoyable day and evening.
Reception
Many couples prefer deejays to live bands for their wedding receptions.
Deejays can play favorite songs as couples and their guests know them,
while bands can only
play their own renditions
of those songs.
Another thing to
consider when choosing
between a deejay or live
band for the reception
is the venue itself. Some
venues are smaller and
unable to accommodate
a full band, while oth-
ers may not have ideal
acoustics, making it dif-
ficult for a live band to
sound as good as they might in a more music-friendly environment.
The formality of the event should also come into consideration when
choosing between a live band or a deejay for the reception. Deejays spin-
ning the latest top 40 hits may stick out like sore thumbs at especially for-
mal weddings, while a classical orchestra likely wont fit into the laid back
theme of a beach or destination wedding.
Couples tying the knot outdoors may need to consider equipment when
choosing bands or deejays to play their weddings. For example, some ven-
ues do not provide equipment, such as microphones and speaker systems,
to couples for their ceremonies. Renting such equipment can be costly, but
couples can often skirt such charges by hiring deejays or bands who lend
couples their equipment during the ceremony. Deejays or bands who will
loan and set up the necessary sound equipment for outdoor ceremonies
merit extra consideration.
When discussing music to be played during the reception, couples must
consider their own musical tastes as well as those of their guests. A wide
range of popular music tends to go best at wedding receptions, as guests are
more likely to dance to songs they recognize. Avoid any music that has the
potential to offend guests, opting for lighter, happier tunes instead. Wheth-
er hiring a band or deejay, couples should make a list of no-play songs or
artists and make sure that such lists are included in their contracts.
Music plays an important role on couples wedding days. Though choos-
ing music for the ceremony and the reception is often fun, couples must
take such decisions seriously.
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G
entlemen getting ready to tie the knot will have to make certain
wardrobe choices so they look their best on their big day. Al-
though many grooms-to-be rent tuxedos on their wedding day,
it may be more cost-effective to purchase a tuxedo. Tuxedos are the ulti-
mate formal wear for men. Worn at formal gatherings like proms, wed-
dings and lavish parties, tuxedos have undergone several style changes
over the years. Men interested in looking polished will find no option
makes that impression more convincingly than the right tuxedo.
Men frequently called upon to attend formal events may find pur-
chasing a tuxedo is a wise investment. There are several advantages to
owning a tux rather than renting one time and again. Tuxedos typically
cost around $1,000, whereas renting tuxedos can be $200 or more each
T
he origins of the modern
tuxedo remains a topic for
debate, but one of the more
widely known tales of the tuxedos
beginning traces this classic look
to a wealthy tobacco magnate of
the 19th century. Pierre Lorillard
lived with his family in a residential
colony called Tuxedo Park, which
was roughly 40 miles northwest of
New York City. The Lorillards were
popular in social circles, and Pierre
helped establish the area as a prime
hunting and fishing destination. Lo-
rillard also developed a social organization called the Tuxedo
Club, which regularly hosted balls. At the time, men wore din-
ner jackets with long tails to formal events. However, Lorillard
wanted something different and modern, and he commissioned
a tailless black jacket to wear to the Tuxedo Clubs Autumn Ball.
Lorillard got cold feet in time for the ball and did not wear the
shorter jacket. However, his son, Griswold, did wear the short
jacket and received much praise. Soon the style was copied and
worn in various social circles across the country. The tuxedo
was born, and soon became a timeless classic.
Tuxedo History
Tuxedo purchasing pointers
time, making it advantageous for
men who frequently don tuxedos to
purchase their own rather than rent.
Another advantage to owning a
tuxedo is the opportunity to wear a
tux that is custom-made and tailored
just for you. Instead of a rental that
will merely be stitched temporarily
to fit your measurements, a tuxedo
you purchase will be tailored specifi-
cally to your body, increasing com-
fort and making you look better as
well.
Men who buy their own tuxedos
also can choose the style, fab-
ric, color, buttons, accesso-
ries, and type of lapels on
the jacket. A tuxedo store
may have more styles available for sale than for rent. If you desire something
that fits your personality and your physique perfectly, buying your own tux-
edo may be your best bet.
Men worried about purchasing a tuxedo only to see their waistlines in-
crease or decrease should keep in mind that many tuxedo shops offer free
tailoring for as long as you own the tuxedo.
When purchasing a tuxedo, men should choose classic styles and colors
so they can enjoy the tux for years to come. Opt for a slim-fitting white shirt
underneath that wont billow out when jackets are removed. Men who want
to break from tradition can opt for a shirt that is a pale blue or light gray to
wear under the jacket. This is still an understated look, but one with a hint of
creativity.
A classic, black bow tie is an ideal match when purchasing a more classic
tuxedo. The bow tie is back in a big way, and men who want to spice things up
can purchase more traditional neckties for those occasions when they dont
want to wear bow ties.
Tuxedos come with different lapel styles, and its important to know the
differences. Todays most popular style is the notch lapel, wherein a triangular
indentation is cut where the lapel joins the collar. This lapel mimics the shape
of a classic suit. A peak lapel is the quintessential classic, featuring a broad, V-
shaped lapel that points up and out just below the collar line. A shawl lapel is a
smooth, rounded edge lapel. The shawl lapel reached the height of its popular-
ity in the 1950s, but it can still look good today.
The notch
lapel tuxedo
has become
the most
popular style
of recent
years.
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