Healthy Dating and Relationships

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Contents

The Essential Ingredients of a Healthy Dating Relationship...........................................................3 The Real Secret to Attracting Healthy Dating Relationships .........................................................4 Trust and Respect for a Healthy Dating relationship.......................................................................5 Understanding ody !anguage in a Healthy Dating Relationship.................................................." An Approacha#le Attitude$The Secret to Healthy Dating...............................................................% Dating an &lder 'an.......................................................................................................................( Dating an &lder )o*an .................................................................................................................+ Dating 'en $ )hat ,ou -ould #e Doing )rong.........................................................................../ Dating So*eone )ith -hildren....................................................................................................... Dating )o*en $ )hat you -ould #e Doing )rong......................................................................0 Don1t !et These &ld Ha#its Spoil a Healthy Dating Relationship.................................................3 2reat Tips for Healthy Dating........................................................................................................4 Healthy Dating and -o**unication .............................................................................................5 Healthy Dating $ Ho3 to Read )hat ,our 4artner )ants............................................................." Healthy Dating Tips for the )or5ing 2irl......................................................................................% Healthy Dating Tips $ !earning to Trust.........................................................................................% Ho3 to As5 for a Second Date.......................................................................................................( Ho3 to De6elop a 2ood Rapport )hen Dating.............................................................................+ Ho3 to Shrug off Shyness for a Healthy Dating Relationship......................................................0/ 'anaging the -osts of Dating.......................................................................................................0. 'eeting Dates that Share -o**on Interests.................................................................................00 4lanning a Date7 4lan Different8 Thin5 Different ........................................................................03 Sol6ing -o**on Dating Dile**as..............................................................................................04 The -haracteristics of a Healthy Dating Relationship ..................................................................05 The 'odern )o*an1s 2uide to As5ing a 2uy &ut......................................................................0"

The Essential Ingredients of a Healthy Dating Relationship

Finding true love and maintaining a clean healthy relationship is not an impossible task The trick lies in balancing your act !ou need to have lots of virtues like affection" love" respect" patient and trust to be able to do that The ingredients of a healthy dating relationship are simple and homemade Healthy love relationships need the help of the following features:

o Truth and Honesty# Being true to your partner is one of the most basic prere$uisites for
all good relationships % clean honest character speaks volume" it builds up trust and no matter &hat" and your partner &ill never be suspicious or doubtful about you" as you have al&ays been ama'ingly truthful to him(her

o The Act of Forgiveness# For good solid relationships" you have to forgive and forget
the past )t is no use harboring ill feelings to&ards one another and pretending to be a loving couple

o Friendship# Remember the famous $uote" *after the ne&ness of a relationship dies
a&ay" only the friendship and companionship remain + )t is not sufficient to have a great physical chemistry, you should also be good friends )n every successful marriage" partners are first loyal friends to each other than anything else

o Patience# )f you have it in you to be patient and determined" it &ill help you tide over all
the rough patches in a relationship -ove relations and marriages often come to an abrupt ending due to lack of patience to &ork out the problems &ith a clear head

o Passion# Having flaming passion for your partner does &onders to your love life Do not
confuse passion &ith se. and lust" having genuine love and passion overrides the physical need for intimacy )t makes the relation strong and durable for many decades

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unicating# /ffective communication teaches to you to respect each other+s point of vie& and a healthy regard for your partner+s suggestions )t helps you to talk through all the tough issues in life truth" honesty and faithfulness to your partner are &hat it takes to keep a relationship fresh and thriving )f there is deep love and respect for each other" the $uestion of polygamy doesn+t even arise1you &ill never feel the need for a change in your love life

o !onoga y# % valued relationship is one" &hich is monogamous in nature 0omplete

o E"uality of the #e$es# The ma2or decisions of your lives should be decided mutually in
a relationship )t is not the solo right of man alone to resolve matters that involves his partner as &ell There should be complete fairness and gender e$uality

o Econo ic Responsi%ilities# The financial burden should be e$ually shared for a

healthy pattern %ll decisions regarding money should be necessarily made together so that both partners profit from such monetary agreements

)n addition" partners in a healthy dating relationship have lots of similar traits 3ne should be compatible on an emotional" mental and physical level 3ur life is very short" so &e should value each ne& day and try to create a happy atmosphere for our partner and ourselves Dating relationships should be harbored on a long1term basis 4ever look for cheap fun and e.citement on a date 5uch temporary relationships make it hard for anyone to hold ground" even if they find true love

The Real #ecret to Attracting Healthy Dating Relationships

Most people think that attracting a man or &oman is effortless" &hich is a very false notion Things have changed &ith time and both partners e.pect more than mere physical attraction from their relationship !ou must have noticed that some guys are able to attract the best looking &omen &ithout having good looks and pots of money 6ondering ho& they actually do it7 6ell to attract a dating partner you need to have some real secret line of attack to &oo him(her )f you talk about men" they perfectly kno& the significance of cultivating the right kind of personality" &hich makes &omen go gaga over them )f you try and understand these techni$ues you might 2ust get lucky and be able to attract a healthy dating partner !ou must take the trouble to groom your personality" as appearance plays a vital role in attracting your dating partner 4o&" does this perple. you7 6e 2ust mentioned the fact that it &asn8t imperative to be good looking and no& &e say looks are important 6ell" appearance in the real sense doesn+t mean looks alone )t can be your first impression &hen you talk to a dating partner 6hat &e are trying to say here is that clothes play a significant role in shaping one+s personality The clothes you &ear can 2udge you % person+s fashion sense can create a good impact on your dating partner %lso" fashionable clothes can define your body language 5o the ne.t time you plan to impress your s&eetheart" try and implement this real secret9 5econdly" learn to smile more often" &hen you meet Try not to be curt )n case you have a bad day at &ork" maintain your effervescent smile on your face This creates an impression that ho&ever things go messy &ith you" you have an ability to cheer up and not brood over everything in life This can create a positive impact on the person you are trying to date Try to be confident in your approach 6henever you have talk to your date" sho& her your skills on the particular sub2ect by putting across your vie&s 4o&" a &ord of caution here : this is provided you are familiar &ith sub2ect )f you aren8t" then do keep your vie&s to yourself lest you find yourself the ob2ect of ridicule !our kno&ledge is bound to impress your date ;ood poise skills are necessary People desire that their dating partner be intellectually sound 5o never demean yourself But here the important thing is not being impolite or argumentative &ith your dating partner 2ust to impress him(her for the sake of displaying your self1assurance skills 5trike a balance bet&een your &ords %nother secret is" understanding the art of body language )n case the conversation bet&een you and your partner is heading in the &rong direction" then try changing the topic to a more likeable one 3bserve his(her body language and make an effort to respond accordingly )n addition" &hen you converse &ith your partner" try not to e.aggerate facts about you !our &ords should not contain embellished facts that might create problems and even tarnish your

image 5ome people are kno&n to brag about themselves on their first date 5o" the ne.t time you attempt to attract a partner make sure you keep some of this secrets &ith you and use them to your advantage

Trust and Respect for a Healthy Dating relationship

Dating relationships are great fun &hile they last Dating is an inevitable part of adolescent life People ne& to the dating concept can get a bit confused about it They may not kno& &hat to e.pect from their date or partner )t is important to be a&are of healthy and safe dating relationships The initial stages of dating can be en2oyable and e.citing )t is &ise to build up a good trust&orthy and healthy dating pattern $uite early in the relationship" so that it matures to a long1 term bond or ends up in a friendly &ay Here are so e good old dating tips to follow:

Respect# Build your budding relationship &ith lot of respect and love for each other /ven your smallest gesture of love and appreciation &ill tend to make your partner glo& &ith happiness Do not be critical and harsh" but try to build a foundation &ith trust and mutual respect Develop Interests# Try to develop a keen interest for your partner+s hobbies !ou can eventually derive mutual happiness for each other8s creativity Try to en2oy them together as a couple Apologi&e# Be apologetic and say sorry if you have erred 5ome men find it hard to get do&n from their high horse and say sorry to their love mate But" it is very important to ask for forgiveness and make the other person reali'e that you are repenting for your folly 'e serious# )t is good to have fun and amuse each other But" occasionally get serious and talk about your goals and aspirations in life Deal &ith difficult topics, don+t keep it aside for tomorro&1or else the relationship may suffer badly

For a budding and healthy dating relationship it is essential to respect each other+s family structure" be united in times of peril" understand each other &ithout any e.change of &ords" listen &holeheartedly to your partner+s talks" refrain yourself from acting cruelly in a moment of anger and being able to trust your partner like you trust yourself Many dating couples do encounter problems and ma2or issues &here they do not agree &ith each other )n such a situation" it is best to break up and move on" rather than staying together and having ugly fights /ither negotiate for a compromise or say goodbye before you lose each other+s respect and trust 5ome relationships 2ust happen due to instant physical attraction and good chemistry" after the bodily heat dies off" there is nothing more to it 0onflicts and fights are a part of a healthy gro&ing relationship" as long as they are e.pediently resolved )t re$uires both partners to be truthful" honest and considerate of the other8s point of

vie& Remember" it takes t&o hands to clap 3ne &ithout the support of the other hand &ill make no noise at all Finally" &hen you start dating" let it happen because you genuinely care for the other person and not because all your friends are hanging out &ith someone Dating is a splendid chance to kno& a person better" and you should go on a date only if you are fully ready for it )t &ould be great if your parents &ere okay &ith your dating habits

(nderstanding 'ody )anguage in a Healthy Dating Relationship

People around the &orld crave to learn the art of studying body language in a dating relationship Body language is kno&n as the calm" clandestine and most commanding language of all9 Many of us might argue as to &hy body language is considered to be of so much importance )t+s not necessary that &e al&ays communicate verbally Through our body movements a lot of unsaid things can be understood To study body language is a science in itself 6hen you think of dating" it is good to kno& the fundamentals of body language so that you could find out ho& your date responds to you There are many &ays to find out if your dating partner is uninterested Try and study their body language 5itting in a defensive posture &ith arms folded" turning a&ay from you" looking else&here &hen you speak" are all signs that your date may be uncomfortable or is trying to ignore you )t is a kno&n fact that &hen a partner is uninterested he(she makes an attempt to move a&ay and tries to lessen contact This is &hy it is essential that you understand the body language and then take a call on your date The best option is to talk openly &ith your partner and if things are not &orking the &ay you feel they should then you ought not to think about going ahead &ith the relationship Be conscious of your body language &hen you are communicating &ith your partner )t is a fact believed by many that body language speaks &hat you think in your heart and never sho&s any shades of lie or deceit Hence" &hat you actually think about your partner is conveyed through your body language Think about this# if at the back of your mind you have a feeling of disgust for your partner then it &ill be clearly visible through your body language 4o doubt you &ill speak &ell in front of him" but your body language can make the bitter things going on in your mind more visible 5o often body language 2ust happens plainly but the conse$uences can be severe 6hen you speak" use gestures to e.press yourself This makes you more interesting to your partner" but don+t go out of your &ay and do something to discomfort your partner )f you must" touch &ithout slea'y intentions and believe it or not" it sho&s9 !ou must hold eye contact at all times Ho&ever" never look do&n" it is read as a sign of &eakness 6hen you are in love" your eyes can speak a thousand &ords <ust one look could let your partner understand the depth of your love %lso" your vibrant smile and body postures can have a positive impact on your partner !ou can display a lot of affection through your body language Hence" it is good to learn the art of body language &hen it comes to dating your partner )t can

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be one of the most effective methods of non1verbal communication 5o the ne.t time your partner makes a grim face you kno& &hat+s &rong 2ust because you have studied the art of body language !our body language &ill not only enable you to take an e.istent relationship to the ne.t level" but all you folks out there &ho are tapping on love for the first time" the right body language &ill ensure that you &ill never be harshly re2ected

An Approacha%le Attitude*The #ecret to Healthy Dating

Do you attract men &ith your drop1dead looks7 3r are you a loner &ith an attitude problem7 Do you &ant to date someone" but feel that you do not have an approachable personality7 %ctually there t&o &ays to make a date" one is being approachable and another is to approach your date /very &oman in this &orld has a fan follo&ing of her o&n" and no matter &hat" she is the most attractive &oman to them Be it her father" husband" son or lover" there is someone out there for all you girls Being attractive doesn+t necessarily mean physical beauty, it is all about being approachable &ith a pleasant personality Today+s &omen are more career1oriented and they are al&ays busy /ven &hile &alking" they are &rapped up in themselves 5ome really look like underground spies or agents &ith their formidable grim face" blank eyes and stiff attitude %nd it is no &onder that men think t&ice before approaching them" even for a casual chat" let alone asking for a date Being approachable does not mean that you have to cast sly glances or a se.y &alk )t 2ust means that you ought to smile more" and be pleasant and friendly to all the people you meet 5ome people carry their problems at home to &ork" &hile others may do 2ust the opposite /ither &ay" they are ready to pounce on the very first person they meet This kind of an attitude is &rong and you can never dream of finding a good partner &ith such a formidable approach %ngry girls" ho&ever beautiful" look good only in movies )n real life no macho hero has it in him to tackle a &ild cat Here are some handy suggestions for all females &ho &ant to appear demure and approachable : keep the cla&s hidden under those silken gloves9

o +eep that s ile on 1 /ven if you had the &orst start to the day" do not make things
difficult for others around you 5mile and let the tension out of your system )f you are pleasant and cheerful" you can attract more people

o Confidence 1 Most men admire &omen &ho have self1confidence and think highly of
themselves )t does not mean that you have to be haughty and arrogant )t rather signifies a &oman &ho believes in herself and has self1respect They pose a challenge to men &ho are bored &ith the clinging types

o !a,e eye contact 1 )t is very important to look right into the eyes of people" thus
signifying that you are approachable But" be careful not to keep staring" 2ust make a $uick eye contact and &alk on

o 'ody Posture 1 )t is a kno&n fact that standing &ith your arms crossed indicates that
you are on the defensive )t signifies that you &ant to be left alone But a rela.ed posture &ith arms dangling at the sides or on the table does mean that you are approachable

o #eductive Dresses 1 !ou can dress seductively so that men are naturally attracted to
you !ou need not put on little mini skirts or skin tight T1shirts" &ear a dress that sho&s a little skin and leaves much to the imagination That sho&s real class and attitude Most men love mysterious and stylish &omen Hope this article is an eye opener for all you girls out there &ho &ant to make a kill &ith the right kind of approach

Dating an -lder !an

The concept dating an older man is &ell kno&n over the years The combination of a younger &oman and an older man is considered to be a classic relationship )t is easy to see &hy many &omen prefer dating older men : they have a status in society and are most likely to be more financially stable as compared to younger men Most young guys are not sure about their future and neither do they have a fantastic career %s a result a lot of younger &omen prefer dating older men Dating an older man comes &ith benefits The biggest and most palpable factor is maturity 3lder men are very mature as compared to the younger guys %lso" by dating older men &omen get a lot of emotional support and a good deal of financial security ;ood mannerisms and the tendency to treat &omen &ith care and respect are more inherent in older men These are $ualities that &omen yearn for and find attractive in a man 5econdly" security is some&hat that all &omen &ish for" not necessarily merely from a monetary point of vie& but also in terms of emotional comfort /ven if you aren8t career oriented you need not &orry in terms of finance Many &omen are not particular in dating a man &ho &ould love to hang around playing video games and remain immature all through life This kind of a problem is not seen &hen younger &omen date an older man 6omen &ho have lacked the presence of a father normally tend to look up to an older man as a kind of father figure or counselor This is fre$uently advantageous to both concerned The &oman &ill obtain direction and get more life e.periences from being &ith an older man The older man also gets an opportunity to be admired by a younger &oman 4o doubt dating an older man does have a lot of advantages But very often this classic combination goes kaput )n some cases" the older man might be very rigid and &ill not be able to adapt to a ne& lifestyle He might be very obstinate and reluctant to change his &ays for the sake of his dating partner This can surely create a rift in the relationship The older man can be very stubborn about his specific lifestyle and this can really make his partner feel uncomfortable

in his company )nitially" the younger &oman may find all this attractive and amusing But over time" things can drastically change and their good e$uation can turn bad very soon =uite a fe& older men have children from their previous relationships )n such a situation his kids may not accept a younger &oman in his life and can create problems Think about this# if his children are older than you then the situation can become a bit sticky" leading to embarrassment /ven if the kids are small they could be reluctant to accept you as their stepmother !ou need to be mature enough and &ell prepared to handle any situation %nd if you are" then there should be no looking back )t is only you &ho can make the best decision once you have &eighed all the pros and cons Think &ell before take the final step" as it involves you and your partner+s emotions

Dating an -lder .o an
Dating and love have no age barrier" ho&ever" dating an older &oman can be a different e.perience than dating a female of your age There are numerous men &ho are fascinated by older &omen for the fact that they are more mature and are e.perienced in every aspect of life There is a notion that older &omen tend to understand men better and are more capable of handling a relationship &ell" as they are sure of &hat they &ant )n the $uest for a perfect relationship some men prefer an older &omen 3lder &omen are $uite sure about ho& they &ant to take their life ahead 6hen it comes to dating" they are open" understand a man+s needs" and many a times can guide men on ho& to take their relationship ahead Dating an older &oman can be fun and interesting Ho&ever" this is possible if she has no kids to look after That does not mean you cannot date single mothers" but it &ould take much more effort on your part There are several instances &here men easily get impressed by older &omen but fail to &in them Treating an older &oman like a female of your age or close to your age is the biggest mistake that most men do Here are a fe& tips that can help you &hen dating an older &oman %n older &oman &ould al&ays like to date a man &ho is mature enough and kno&s &hat he &ants to do in life This factor is also considered &hen it comes to commitment in the relationship )f a man comes across as confused and unsure about things in life" she &ould prefer not to date him" fearing he &ould leave the relation in future due to his uncertainties Though the &oman is older than you in age" she &ould al&ays &ant a man &ho can take her responsibility and care for her )f you believe that she being older should shoulder your responsibility" you &ill turn her off completely Be a gentleman and get rid of your college habits %n older &oman &ould prefer a man &ho has manners and eti$uettes 5he &ould e.pect a more respectful behavior % childish behavior is something she can+t take Many men find it difficult to accept that the &oman in their life is more settled than them Ho&ever" do not let your ego get in the &ay )t is natural that she &ould be settled in life due to the age gap Do not let this point come up at all during your dates

Do not lie or fake about yourself 3lder &omen are smart enough to catch &hen a man is lying Due to her past e.perience she has learnt the trick to see the actual man behind the face Thus be honest and she &ould appreciate it )f you have decided to date this charming older lady" you need not get bothered to get details about her past )t8s ok to have information about it" ho&ever" give it some time and she &ill reveal her past

<ust like any other lady" even older &oman e.pect appreciation and compliments Do make them feel special and you can &in their heart easily Ho&ever" at the same time be sure if you really &ant to make a future &ith this lady &ho is elder to you

Dating !en * .hat /ou Could %e Doing .rong

6hen it comes to dating" both men and &omen have different &ants and &ishes 3ften" &hen &e date" &e e.pect a lot of love from our partner" and loads of surprises Ho&ever" &e fail to understand their needs and hence land up in a strained relationship 6hen a &oman dates a man" she has a list of e.pectations that she &ants her dream man to fulfill But" at the same time she forgets he is an individual too and has his o&n e.pectations as &ell Healthy relationships are all about give and take and a &oman needs to kno& &hat her man needs )t so happens &e tend to feel that &e are doing &ell on our part" but &hen the problem arises &e fail to understand &ho and &hat &ent &rong Here are a fe& things that you could be doing &rong on a date %s stated by several men" &omen have the habit of cribbing about everything and can go on &ith it for hours and days together 6hen she has a problem &ith any thing" she &ould see to it that she cribs about it and asks for e.planation till she finds another problem &ith her man 6ell" a lady cribbing is a complete turn off for men and constant nagging can push them a&ay from you )t is best to speak once about the problem and leave it there 5peaking about the same thing &ill make your man feel miserable and may turn him a&ay from you %s &e all kno& every individual is different" &e also need to accept the fact that men are different from &omen Most &omen simply deny accepting it and keep assuming things The &ay a &oman perceives things" a man &ill perceive it completely in a different &ay Thus you need to understand your man+s psychology and deal &ith him accordingly To help yourself you can also read books on men and &omen being different to understand your man better 6hen it comes to body language" &omen score &ell" as men don8t seem to read body language &ell Many &omen e.pect their man to understand &hat they &ant &ithout letting them kno& Men have no super po&ers and &ill never be able to predict &hat you &ant )t is best to speak out &hat you &ant in a relationship than &asting time in asking him through non1verbal communication ) have seen some &omen &ho portray a different image to attract their man Ho&ever strongly you are attracted to someone" do not try to &in him over by merely contemplating &hat men look for in a &oman and forcing yourself to behave differently This may help you start the relationship but it &ill soon end up once your partner learns about real you

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3ther than these mistakes" &omen often make a silly mistake of being &ith a man even after facing too much of trauma and pain 5ome &omen simply &ant to believe that their relationship &ill get better and her man &ill treat her &ell some day 5taying in a relationship &ith false hope is 2ust another silly but grave mistake that &omen do )t is al&ays good to be yourself Be realistic and see &here your relationship is heading -earn to understand a man+s psychology" and most importantly" trust and respect each other

Dating #o eone .ith Children

5ometimes dating can be complicated &hen there are kids involved 3ften" people spurn a&ay from dating a partner &ho already has children )t+s no harm for you to have a dating relationship But you need to take utmost care that this does not affect the children as &ell as your relationship )f the situation is handled &ell" then the chances of failure are remote )t is not necessary to meet your partner+s children on your first date itself Take time and meet your partner a fe& more times )f you feel that you both have a strong connection and you are ready for a future commitment" then meet your partner+s children 3nce the t&o of you are comfortable and share a good rapport &ith each other" decide on a perfect time to meet the children )t is essential that you form a good e$uation &ith the children %gain" you need to remember that before dating your partner you &ere genuinely ready to accept his(her children 5o you should not sho& a sudden change in your behavior )nteracting &ith children can be very tricky They might ask you lot of $uestions" embarrassing at times" and you need to have patience to ans&er them Try to strike a conversation about their likes and dislikes" favorite things and more %lso" make an effort to meet the children often Make arrangements that you can meet them at home or even go for outings 5it &ith them and &atch their favorite sho&s on T> Play their much1loved games )nitially the child can try to be reticent But" a fe& meetings later things can seem to be much better )n order to &in the heart of your partner you need to take lots of effort and form a good relationship &ith your partner+s children 5it do&n &ith your partner and discuss the future of the children %ssure that you &ill provide all the help and support for their upbringing % lot of time your &ords can have a great effect on your dating relationship <ust try and remember that ho&ever close you get &ith your partner don+t interfere on the decisions taken by your partner regarding his(her children -et your dating partner make a choice about their schooling" further education" etc Try not to pass your opinion unless asked %s your dating relationship gets stronger" your partner &ill come to you for help or guidance on any matter This kind of an attitude &ill surely strengthen your relationship &ith your partner %lso understand that your partner &ill al&ays give lot of importance to his(her children 5o you need to have the maturity to accept these things and not behave in an unruly manner Dating in circumstances &here a partner has children is not so easy !ou need to strive hard to make the relationship successful %ll you have to do is make sure you build a strong rapport &ith the partner+s children and make things uncomplicated for your partner %fter the children are involved make sure that you do spend $uality time &ith your partner too These tips can

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actually help to you create an affectionate relathionship &ith both your dating partner and the children

Dating .o en * .hat you Could %e Doing .rong

There are a fe& men &ho often find it easy to &in the hearts of charming &omen and start dating them Ho&ever" these relationships die prematurely due to mistakes that men commit unkno&ingly 4ot all &omen come across guys &ho really commit these mistakes" ho&ever" it is best to be a&are of them and avoid such situations if you &ant dating to be an ama'ing e.perience Taking care of small but important things &ill not make the lady run a&ay from you Here are fe& things &here men could be going &rong &hen dating a &oman

The desperado Many men act desperate to get the love of their life They get too hyped up and start chasing &omen as if there is no tomorro& They feel it might sho& her his love" but fail to reali'e that it only creates a &rong image % &oman might feel you are some ro&dy and &ould &ant to seek a better and decent guy )t is best not to sho& any signs of desperation 6e all get e.cited &hen &e like someone" ho&ever" this could only spoil your image )nstead" play the game slo& and take every step gradually The %rag0 5ome men simply love themselves more than anything else in the &orld There are men &ho can never get tired boasting about themselves They find it hard to give their date a chance to speak about her interests This is a complete turn off and rest assured you &on+t see the lady ever again 6e all feel proud about our &ork and deeds Ho&ever" constant 2abbering &ill do you no good Be a good listener and let the lady do some talking This &ill also help you get to kno& and understand her better The shy guy0 Unlike 2abbering men" there are some &ho are completely shy !ou could be dashing and a &arm person at heart" but cannot reveal your feelings or have an open conversation -et me tell you that this &ill only make your partner feel left out -earn to share your thoughts and let her kno& as often as you can ho& much you like her and &hat she means to you Believe me" learn to communicate and it &ill strengthen your bond +eep your pro ise0 Most men promise and forget 6hen you say you &ould call her" see to it that you indeed call her )f you have promised to take her out for dinner" see that you make time for the same 6omen may e.cuse this habit in the beginning but &hen it happens repeatedly" she &ill certainly look for a better man 1ever lie0 )f you plan to be &ith your date on a long time basis" please do not lie -ying may initially make you a hero" ho&ever" once all is revealed she &on+t even &ant to see your face % fake personality cannot last for long Ho&ever" being true &ill help you make the relationship stronger ;ive her the space and you take yours as &ell )mposing decisions on her &ill only push her a&ay from you )nstead" let her take time off to do her things and at the same time you plan to spend some time &ith your friends %llo&ing each other the much1needed space is the base of healthy relationship

Taking care of these fe& things can make much of a difference &hen you are dating )gnoring these points can put you in an a&k&ard situation

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Don2t )et These -ld Ha%its #poil a Healthy Dating Relationship

3ld habits die hard" but they eventually do die if you try really hard to get rid of them )f you have dirty old habits" better thro& them out of the &indo& before you commit yourself to your dating partner 5houting" screaming and thro&ing things may look great on a television daily soap" but in real life" they can &reck your relationships 3ld habits can kill a budding relationship For instance" your need to boo'e practically every evening can spell disaster for your love life !our partner may find it demeaning and terrible to continue her(his relationship &ith an alcoholic 6hile smoking" drinking" drugs and polygamy are some of the &orst habitual problems" there are some &ho s&ear" fight" get angry or hit out at their partners 6hen relationships reach such lo& planes" there is no point in continuing the relationship &here you are trying to hurt and bully your partner Habits" ho&ever old" can be broken if you determine to do it !ou can start by baring it all to your partner and asking him(her to get out of it Re$uest your partner to be a little tolerant &ith you and fight it out as a couple Thro& out the iron :clad habits and replace them &ith good ne& habits" practice them &ith all your body and mind 5ome of us have a vile tongue, &e assure ourselves that &e are open and speak the truth" but that at times can be very dangerous Honestly" ho& many of us &ould like to hear our shortcomings and faults from our dear partners )t is hurtful and painful to be blatant" learn to sugar coat your &ords and be careful &ith that tongue The things said in a rash moment of hatred and anger cannot be undone or be forgotten #o e of the co on dating ista,es are as follows:

E$pecting too uch 1 Do not e.pect the &orld from your partner Be happy and satisfied &ith &hat you have got Do not underestimate or overestimate your date or love mate #pea,ing lies 1 )f you lie once" you &ill have to lie again and again 5uch relationships based on the foundation of lies and cheatings &ill al&ays come to a sad end -pen co unication 1 Be open" but do not bare your soul to the other person %l&ays speak in a gentle tone" ho&ever angry you may be -earn the art of effective communication 1ot e$pressing1)t is important to e.press your love" other&ise ho& &ill the other person kno& about your feeling to&ards him(her They cannot &rench open your mind or hypnoti'e you to see your overflo&ing cup of love -earn to be e.pressive and affectionate to at least one person in your life

3ld to.ic habits slo&ly poison your mind and body They become your second nature that is about to destroy all your good virtues Healthy lasting relationships are built &ith love and care"

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not by anger or ignorance )f your partner &ants you to curb your smoking habit" it is a sign that he(she is concerned for you <ust start trying to minimi'e the number of cigarettes that you smoke in a day % little practice and perseverance is all it takes to &in great battles

3reat Tips for Healthy Dating

/very so often people speculate on &hat precisely is the secret behind a healthy relationship7 4ormally healthy relations are pleasant and the best part is that they make you feel good about yourself !ou can have a good relationship &ith anybody in your life )t can be your friends" teachers" boss" spouse" or even dating partners 6ith the advent of globali'ation" people have started believing the conception of dating To begin &ith" dating can be described as a social activity that mainly involves t&o people &ith the primary aim of understanding each other+s suitability if they intend to get into an intimate relationship or get married Here are some more great tips for a healthy dating relationship To begin &ith" never assume things <ust the fact that someone is ready to date doesn+t mean that he(she is a no good character !ou must remove this notion from your mind This can be an effective start to your healthy dating relationship )f you are dating and over a period of time you feel that you have been attracted to the &rong person then try not to blame it on any e.ternal reasons )nstead" try and &ork out the e.isting problem and find its cause %lso make an effort and analy'e yourself &hen you are in a dating relationship !ou need to be very clear about your opinion of the person you are dating 6hat it means is you ought to be sure of &hat you &ant from this relationship" &hether it is strictly to 2ust date or go further and tie the knot !our personal life is best preserved &hen you don+t try and share it &ith many people 5et aside the details of your private life from your close friends" and if needed" even from your family This can really make you have a healthy dating relationship For the moment do not think too far into the future and &hat it holds for you 6hen you initially start dating it does not mean that commitment and the future is &hat you think of That ought to be left for &hen you get to kno& each other better Thinking a lot about future can impede your dating relationship 5ee that your relationship has a blend of both" love and truth This is &hat &ill make relationship gro& %im not to divulge a lot of facts about your childhood to your dating partner )f your life has been traumatic then try not to narrate those stories to your partner in the initial stages of your dating 5ometimes such a kind of revelation can lead to a negative impression and your partner may feel like dumping you on your first date Hence" it is essential that you maintain your demeanor and don8t disclose too much %lso you and your partner should try and talk about many issues like detachment" capriciousness" managing responsibilities" and diligence" et al These are important" as it &ill enable you and your partner to understand about each of your $ualities and &hat e.actly you both e.pect in a relationship

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%n additional tip for a healthy relationship is that you better avoid talking about your previous liaisons" as it might not go &ell &ith your partner %lso try not getting physical &ith your dating partner on your first date itself Think t&ice before you act

Healthy Dating and Co

unication

3ne of the most crucial factors in a healthy dating relationship is communication %ny relationship needs to have an open communication )t means that both the partners must be comfortable talking to each other and there should not be any hard feelings after any discussion To begin &ith" be confident &ith your dating partner and your relationship &ith him(her 6hatever may be the crisis" you can sit do&n and talk to your partner Be honest and straightfor&ard &ith your $ueries Things can be solved &hen you actually communicate &ell &ith your partner Most people have this myth that an open communication can spoil a relationship This is completely false 0ommunication can solve many issues among dating partners Misunderstandings can be cleared openly rather than putting false accusations on each other )t+s better not to hide your feelings and be more e.pressive %lso" very often &omen tend to think that their dating partner should understand &hat+s going on in their mind7 This is ne.t to impossible for anyone to understand &hat+s going in your mind Rather" talk openly about your feelings 5ay &hat you e.pect from the relationship Useful communication is an effective process The first step is listening -isten to &hat your partner has to say ;ive him(her a fair chance to speak about any issue that you discuss %lso try not to interrupt your partner &hile he(she speaks %fter your partner finishes you can put forth your opinions But" never try to be dominating in your speech Try not to focus on the anger or the snappish tone of the partner" but look beneath the surface of tumultuous emotions Put yourself in your partner+s shoes and you &ill reali'e &hat he(she is undergoing 6hen it8s your turn to talk" make sure you do so serenely and impartially )nsert &ords of support and" &henever probable" authenticate the other person8s sentiments 6hen communicating" take a rain check on your self1image and a hard look at places &here you can make improvements >ery soon" you8ll be a better lover !ou8ll even become skilled at ho& to ackno&ledge compliments and truly consider that you deserve them 0ommunication &ill ultimately make or break the dating affiliation )f you cannot speak or e.change a fe& &ords &ith your loved one" ho& &ill they kno& &hat you anticipate from your dating liaison7 !ou need to kno& &hat your date desires and act accordingly 0ommunications &ill keep your dating association optimistic and meaningful 0ommunication in dating is something that a lot of relationships lack )n fact" it is repeatedly one of the key factors in the break up of relationships !ou can start implementing good communication skills at the beginning of your relationship %s a result you &ill have minor issues bet&een you 0ommunication in dating is not 2ust about &hat film to see or &here to eat" even though this is a good &ay to start !our dating relationship must have other strong parts of communications 6hat is imperative are dating relationship fundamentals like conviction" commitment" and sincerity 0ommunicating your &ants and being thoughtful about your date are the $ualities that &ill drive your relationship instead of leaving it to &ane

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Healthy Dating * How to Read .hat /our Partner .ants

There are several people &ho end up being betrayed and used like tissues 3nly if you &ould have been able to read &hat your partner really &ants" you could have saved any a&k&ard situations in your life Time and again you can get a clue or a hint about &hat your partner is up to and &here your relationship &as heading Unkno&ingly the signs of betrayal are ignored only to face a disappointment in future 4ot only betrayals" but also sometimes &e even tend to ignore &hat can make our partner happy %t the beginning of every relation" everything seems to be 2ust great and going on &ell The initial stage is &hen &e take care to do every possible thing that can please our partners Ho&ever" as the relationship goes further and &hen your partner starts giving you hints as to &hat he or she &ants" you tend to ignore them )t may happen unkno&ingly but the truth is" it can bring differences in the relationship They say &omen are good &ith understanding non1verbal communication" then &hy does it happen that &hen a man asks for something through gestures" he does not get it 3ften" a &oman &ill give you a clue that she is &aiting for your compliments but does not receive any and thus feels her partner is being insensitive The solution to this problem is communication !ou must learn to communicate &ell and also be a good listener to understand &hat your partner is really saying Both men and &omen are different and thus they interpret things differently )f you take the effort to be a&are about ho& men and &omen tend to think" you &ould succeed in giving your partner &hat he or she &ants Many people have $uestioned themselves as to &hy their relationship d&indled after so many years 6hy &ere you together if destiny had to take you apart7 The truth is you fail to reali'e and accept &hat the reality is )f you go back and remember your partner+s behavior and &ords" you &ould reali'e that some&here he or she &as indirectly letting you kno& about the break up For instance" &hen your partner suddenly starts disconnecting from you often and gives reasons for not attending your calls or meeting you" it8s time to move on instead of &aiting for him to return someday To en2oy a healthy relationship" it is important that you communicate freely and learn to tell your partner &hat you &ant and e.pect %ssuming that your partner understands as to &hat can make you happy" is silly thinking )t is best to discuss things and let each other kno& ho& you feel -earn to see the reality and ask yourself if you deserve to be in this relationship Do not ignore the sings of an imminent of break up Taking steps &ell in advance &ill help you deal properly &ith your date and save yourself from ugly situations -earning to read bet&een the lines &ill certainly make a lot of difference in your dating game For e.ample" &hen a &omen says 43 she actually means !es most of the time Understanding men and &omen differently can pep up your dating e.perience

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Healthy Dating Tips for the .or,ing 3irl

6e often come across smart looking hunks at &ork and &ish &e could date them Date &e may" but often these relationships turn sour and &e end up &ishing someone had told us not to go around &ith that guy There are $uite a fe& men at &ork &ho look around for girls and play &ith their emotions only to &hile a&ay their time &hen in office The relationship is merely from ? to @ after &hich he does not even &ant to think about you" until the ne.t morning at &ork again -et us see &hat &e can do to help you save from the trap laid by your fello& colleague" if you &ere in a similar situation The smiles and the compliments from a good1looking man easily carry girls a&ay % fe& s&eet &ords are simply enough to make &eaken a girl8s knees Ho&ever" many times" these &ords are false Behind this s&eet smile there can be a devil &ith &rong intentions This does not mean that every boy or man you come across at &ork is bad )t only means that you need to be careful in choosing a date from your &orkplace )t is better to kno& the person &ell before you start dating him 3nce you start getting a signal that a guy is completely cra'y for you" make sure if he has good intentions Find out if he is serious about dating you" or is simply looking for some entertainment at &ork )f you too feel for this guy" do not sho& it instantly because if he is not a genuine person" he can easily take you for a ride )t is best to observe him for days Test him before you start dating 3bserve the &ay he treats you both" at &ork and once you are off !ou can plan to meet him at a public place" so you get to kno& more about him 6hen you both speak" observe if he has a roving eye" checking out other &omen )f so" he is certainly not in love &ith you Ho&ever" if he truly feels for you" he &ould constantly &ant to speak &ith you" get to kno& you better and make you feel special He &ould be clear about &hat he &ants and &ill e.press it to you eventually By spending some $uality time you can reali'e if you really &ant to date this man % genuine man &ill never gossip about you and your relationship at &ork Ho&ever" if he does so" it is the first sign that he may be 2ust fooling around 5haring it &ith one friend is different and letting the entire office talk about is not good )f you feel the guy is really serious and you t&o get along &ell" you can try dating him 6hen you start meeting outside" you can get to kno& the true person and then get going &ith the relationship Aeeping your relationship to yourself for a &hile at &ork is best Do not make an issue of the man you are dating )t is best to keep the dating scenes a&ay from &ork place and save yourself from gossip

Healthy Dating Tips * )earning to Trust

Trust is the foundation of every relationship 4o matter ho& much you love your partner" the relationship &ill be successful only if you learn to trust each other ) see several relations going through trauma and stress" all because they find it hard to trust one another There are $uite a fe& relationships that end up sour only because either of the partners finds it difficult to deal the suspicious behavior )f you are looking for&ard for a healthy and happy relationship" it+s time you learn to trust your partner

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Trust is an inner feeling that only you can e.perience 3ften" people are not able to trust their partners due to past e.periences Ho&ever" one needs to bury the past and start afresh )mposing things on your current date and behaving in a suspicious manner &ill only push your partner a&ay from you <ust because your e. betrayed you" does not mean you start doubting the &orld around you )ndividuals are different and you need to stop 2udging them in the same light There are hundreds of people &ho sacrifice numerous things in life 2ust to prove their loyalty and keep a relationship going Ho&ever" this does not necessarily mean that they are in healthy relationship There are many &ho have faced betrayal even after being their best in the relationship Relationships are all about taking risks and one has to take it to e.plore &hat+s in store ahead %ssuming fe& things no& and inviting stress and problems in a relationship &ill certainly not take it ahead Here are a fe& healthy dating tips that &ill help you trust your partner Do not give place to un&anted thoughts )magining your partner to be cheating on you and thus behaving suspiciously is no &ay to be in a relationship )f something is troubling you" it is best to speak it out &ith your partner Ho&ever" be careful and do start the blame game &ithout proof or reasons 5peak up in a polite manner and let them kno& &hat is troubling you Discussing &ill help you come to a conclusion and you might reali'e that it &as a silly reason to get disturbed about 0ommunication is the key ingredient to every healthy relationship To strengthen your relation" it is necessary you communicate regularly 5hare &hat you did at &ork" &ith friends and so on This &ill keep your partner informed about your moves and there &ould be no place for mistrust Pressuri'ing your partner to behave in a certain manner 2ust because you don+t trust him or her &ill only lead your relationship to the rocks Dominating or posing restrictions on either partner &ill loosen the bond" drifting each other apart 5hare an e$ual amount of space and be considerate about each other+s &ishes and desires 3nce your partner reali'es your unreasonable behavior due to lack of trust" she is going to start taking herself a&ay from you reali'ing ho& difficult it can become in the future Thus" have control over your thoughts and nasty behavior Respect your partner and take the risk to trust them

)t is $uite difficult to say if some man or &oman &ill stay &ith you forever Relationships are all about taking risks and going &ith the flo& Ho&ever" if you can+t trust your partner" you are already destroying the charm of your relationship By learning to trust" you can at least try to keep your relationship healthy and happy

How to As, for a #econd Date

)mpressed &ith your first date and already &anting to have another7 6ell asking for a second date can be a daunting task The fear of &hat he or she &ould feel makes you s&allo& your &ords %sking for a second date completely depends upon ho& you have spent the first one The chances of second date being possible depend on ho& your date has perceived you )f you

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are sure that the girl or boy has spent lovely time &ith you" you can straight a&ay ask for second date )f the t&o of you hit it off on your first date" you most certainly can hint about meeting up again -aying the foundation in advance &ill make it easy for you to ask for second date )f you are positive that the girl has liked you and give you good vibes or clues of meeting up again you can feel free to fi. up the ne.t date There are fe& people &ho are open and can gel &ell instantly They might be the first one to ask for a second date %t the same time there are girls &ho are shy enough and may not be able to give you hints of second date )n this situation it can become a bit difficult to figure out if the person has en2oyed the date or not )f you are bold enough" ask the lady about ho& she found the first date Reading bet&een the lines &ill help you understand &hether she is really e.cited about the date or has simply been &aiting for the day to end )f you are not able to speak" you can send a bou$uet of flo&ers &ith a thank you note !ou can also mention in the card about your &ill to go on a second date )f you receive a call instantly after the girl receives the card" you can bet that she too is eager to meet up soon )t is al&ays nice to remind your girl about the first date Tell her ho& much you en2oyed each moment This is enough to give her a clue that you are ready for a second date )f in return she sho&s the same enthusiasm and you can sense she is e$ually &illing to date again" fi. up the second date immediately and get rid of the burden of asking her out )f her &orkplace is on your &ay" or she stays close to you" you can 2ust drop in casually and in the process figure out if there are any positive chances of a second date )f you are the one &ho is prepared to hear a yes or a no as &ell" then you can directly ask for a second date &ithout &asting any time There is a certain amount of risk involved in asking for a second date" but it is al&ays best to give it a try rather than not ask at all !ou never kno&" the other person might 2ust be &aiting for you to ask for a second date

How to Develop a 3ood Rapport .hen Dating

5o you are in a dating relationship and intend to kno& ho& to establish a good rapport &ith your partner7 6ell" it+s simple %ll you need to do is follo& a fe& effective leads and you &ill have no hassle dating -et8s take a sneak peak at the fundamentals of developing a good relationship &ith your partner )n a nutshell" all it takes for the development of a good liaison is having a positive and open attitude" persuading effective open communication bet&een both the partners" having good listening skills" and above all" accepting your partner &ith his(her share of imperfections Building a rapport &hen you are dating is vital" as it can help you to understand your partner better Try and ask $uestions to your partner )t can be absolutely anything that you may intend to ask : like hobbies" interests" fashion" anything under the sun 3nce you find a common point" both of you can then strike a conversation on the same matter This can be a beginning to a great start in your dating relationship /very person loves to be admired %n effective &ay of building a healthy relationship &ith your partner is by complimenting the other person+s fashion sense or 2e&elry" even the choice of

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perfume and many more 5uch small appreciation can create &onders for your partnership Have a positive attitude in life !ou may have had a bad day at &ork" but try not to vent the irritation on your dating partner" as it might seriously affect the chemistry that you have built up Treat your dating partner &ith a lot of importance and never sho& any signs of being dominating 3n $uite a fe& occasions dating can be bet&een t&o complete strangers 3n your first date if you tend to feel that your conversations are not free and you are thinking too hard before you speak" then it+s best to end the meeting after the first date itself !ou and your partner should converse freely and you must feel totally at ease in his or her company Try and be a good listener Don+t keep speaking about yourself ;ive a good opportunity to your partner to e.press their opinions too -isten to &hat your partner is saying Take cues and carry on the conversation %nd" lo and behold" you &ill build a great connection % lot of the time people make an attempt to divulge facts about the traumatic e.periences of their childhood to their dating partners Many may not be at ease &ith this Till you completely understand the person it+s better not to reveal too many dark facts about your life !ou must remember not to speak about your past associations This can create a negative image about you Try to emphasi'e more on common likes and dislikes rather than get into things that can create a rift in your dating relationship 3nce you get along &ell &ith your partner you can carefully talk about the things you &anted to Until then it+s a big 43 to such kind of revelations )f you try and implement these effective tips then the chances are" you &ill end up in a long lasting dating relationship

How to #hrug off #hyness for a Healthy Dating Relationship

/very so often &e seem tongue1tied &hen &e try to communicate &ith people !ou may be an.ious" lost your confidence level or probably even suffering from shyness 5hyness can be considered acceptable to a certain e.tent But" beyond that you need to analy'e and rectify your behavior )f you are in a dating relationship" coyness can become a big barrier in your rapport &ith your partner People are normally accustomed to the fact that shy people date less The truth is that shy people may be latecomers in the concept of dating but once the initial bashfulness seems to vanish they turn out to be the reigning star amongst their circle of friends 5hyness is an unnatural $uality Try to overcome it %s a start" make an effort to build up your confidence skills Talk to almost everyone around you %pproach people &ith lot of gusto This can help you in shrugging off your shyness 5peak &ith someone about your problem of shyness Aeep reading books about raising confidence levels ;o out and talk to people of the opposite se. no matter ho& old they are !ou 2ust have to try and remove your feeling of shyness )f you don+t make an attempt to overcome your timidity then people might think you to be curt and unfriendly 5hyness can paraly'e your prospects of having a dating relationship )f you get into a dating liaison" talk as much you can &ith your partner )t may seem to be very irritating if you 2ust thro&

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a fe& fleeting glances at your partner and ans&er in monosyllables Rather" prepare yourself &ell before the date )n many cases shyness has been considered as a deeper crisis than you may imagine %t such times it is better that you consult a professional &ho may help you &ith some therapies 5tand in front of the mirror and groom yourself Talk &ith yourself and analy'e &hat+s the reason behind your shyness !ou are the best 2udge Maybe you can find the ans&er and turn successful in shrugging a&ay your bashfulness Make an effort that you &ill never underestimate yourself in anything The root cause of coyness is &hen you start thinking like a pessimist Remove the negative aspects haunting you Mi. &ith optimistic people %lso share your traits &ith your close friend or colleague and ask for personality grooming tips Don+t feel scared to ask a person for a date !our shyness can be even due to the cause of your &rong opinion about people )f you are usurped by the feeling of re2ection" then it may be difficult for you to get over your shyness 6hen you are on a date begin the conversation &ith a smile 5ho& your partner that you are easily friendly and amicable )f your partner comments or 2okes about anything don+t take it personally Be a good listener and spend $uality time &ith your partner These small beginnings &ill help you shrug off your shyness and in a matter of fe& days you &ill en2oy a healthy dating relationship 5o the ne.t time" don+t be shy to ask your partner for date Be confident %nd Bingo9 !ou &ill notice ama'ing resultsBBHappy dating

!anaging the Costs of Dating

!ou are in love &ith someone but you don+t have a great deal of money to spend on your partner 6hat &ould you do in such a scenario7 Most men don+t understand that not all &omen in the &orld go berserk for men &ho have money 5ome &omen are not very materialistic and &ould appreciate your love rather than your money But" if your partner is highly demanding and needs a constant sho&er of &orldly pleasures then you need to find &ays to tackle such a situation Firstly" try not to be over egoistic in e.plaining your financial constraints to your partner )f this is clear in the beginning of your relationship then things may not turn messy %fter your disclosure let your partner decide about continuing the relationship further !ou must not fear of divulging the truth to your partner Try not to over e.aggerate yourself 2ust to &in your partner Problems regarding e.penses can arise later Be the normal self you are and talk openly about your problems if not on the first date" at least the second time you have a meeting 3ne thing that is increasingly evident today is that &omen hold full1time 2obs %s a result they are financially self1sufficient and not totally dependent on their partner ;one &ere the days of conventional thinking This might pose as an advantage for dating partners 6hat you can do is choose to take turns to pay the bills &hen you visit multi1cuisine restaurants 5ome men believe that they should not allo& &omen to pay any e.penses and try to act foolish But" once you are a couple" cost sharing &ill prove to be very effective and it &ill only help you out in your future endeavors

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5uppose you have a financial crunch Talk to your partner about it Have no $ualms in sharing your problems &ith your partner The ne& age dating relationship believes in the CD1CD sharing of finances 6omen have started feeling that since they &ork they too can pay their bills )n that case allo& your partner to do so and don+t interfere The e.penses of dating a &oman are skyrocketing and out of control )n such a scenario the most effective &ay of having a healthy dating relationship is by sharing costs and e.penses Most single &omen are financially independent and supportive in sharing their e.penses &ith a guy /ffective &ays can be going to cheaper restaurants" spending less on movie tickets" e.clusive dinner treats" et al make an effort in finding places &here you can spend the evening peacefully &ithout much e.pense This can help a lot %lso think about ho& many days in a month do you and your partner meet %ccordingly consider the places you can have a date The stereotyped notion of having a date in high1class restaurants should be abandoned )nstead" think about something uni$ue This &ill help in cost saving and also reflect a great change in your dating relationship Dating partners should try and implement some of these tips to find ama'ing results in their relationships )n this ne& era" try and emphasi'e on the management of costs &hile dating

!eeting Dates that #hare Co

on Interests

)t is true that opposite attracts" ho&ever" spending time &ith a person &ho has nothing similar to you" or does not a share common interest" can get boring in the later stages To save you from not falling into &rong relationships all the time" it8s best to look out for dates that share common interests ;athering at places that you like or doing activities that interest you" may help you find the perfect date &ith similar likings Being single and doing activities that you love to do may 2ust introduce to another single that shares the same interest )f you love traveling" get going on a nature trail and surprise yourself by meeting someone &ho may turn out to be your best date There are many people &ho cage themselves" as they don+t have a partner to accompany them Ho&ever" staying aloof or all by yourself &ill never help you meet people &ith similar interests )nstead" start net&orking and meet people from every &alk of life as often as you can There are many couples that have met at a hobby class" at the office" or even at a friend+s party Taking a step for&ard &ill help you find that perfect date that shares similar interests )t is $uite rare and boring as &ell to have a date that does and likes everything 2ust like &hat you do )t is best to have a date that shares a fe& things in common )f you are an artist and love painting or al&ays &anted to try a hand at pottery" then go for a &orkshop that teaches you This &ay you have a chance of meeting someone interesting at the &orkshop that has at least one interest in common )f you are a party animal" visit all the happening parities &here you are sure to meet some great and interesting people Making yourself visible at great and happening places is the best &ay to find and meet dates that share common interests Dating is much more fun &hen t&o people share a couple of common interests Dating sites are other cool places to find people &ith common interests These sites allo& you to vie& hundreds of profile from &hich you can choose a person go goes &ell &ith your e.pectations By reading

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the profile" you can make out if there is anything common bet&een the t&o of you and then proceed further Dating sites make it easier to find dates &ith similar likings than looking out for people at various events and locations 3utdoors is also a great place to meet someone interesting and &ho has the potential to become your perfect date Be an enthusiast and e.plore people &henever you meet them at seminars" meetings" and parties or online Talking to each other and sharing some information &ill help you kno& if you share something in common and have the potential to become great couples 5itting at home and e.pecting for your dream date to &alk in &ill only remain like a dream !ou need to make an effort to find your potential date by meeting interesting and fun people )solating yourself &ill only make you feel lonely and left out

Planning a Date4 Plan Different5 Thin, Different

Most boring dates end up at dinner or at the same old coffee shop There are some uninteresting couples that don8t take any initiative to make their date special and happening 6hy do &hat the rest of the &orld does7 )nstead" think out of bo. and find your o&n &ay of making your date special Making a date fun and interesting does not happen instantly" but it re$uires proper planning in advance )f you have practiced listening" you can make out &hat your date likes and &hat can impress him( her 6hen it comes to planning a date" make sure you try and figure out &hat can make it the most memorable and ama'ing date ever )f both of you like adventure" surprise each other by opting for some &ater sports" or attend a camp !ou can also choose to take her on top of some popular mountain ;o bungee 2umping" or any other activity that gives both of you immense 2oy 5pending $uality time is important to pep up any relationship or even &hen it comes to making an interesting date )f he likes ballet or any other dance form" go to a place &here both of you can en2oy grooving to lovely music !ou can also enroll for a &orkshop &here you learn different forms of dance and get a chance to get closer to each other )f you have ever heard your date telling you that she has never tried skiing and &ould like to check it out" surprise her by taking her skiing This &ill make her happy and you &ould get a chance to get some high scores 5ome days you can also plan to go for a movie and then dinner )f you en2oy taking a stroll in a 'oo then that can be your ne.t plan 6hen you plan for dinner" try and make it special as &ell ;o to a place she &ould love and that servers the best cuisine Ho&ever" before planning dinner" make sure you are ac$uainted &ith her choice of food )f both of you like partying" check out a happening pub &here you can shake a leg to some top numbers Doing the same thing on a regular basis can get $uite boring" and your date &ould simply not look for&ard to meeting you ne.t Ho&ever" &hen you make it fun and e.citing" is &hen the both of you &ould &ant to spend more time together Try and plan something e.citing every time you meet This does not mean that you have to shell out cash on every date !ou can stay at home and still plan something interesting

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)f you love cooking" cook some delicious food" invite her over and before you get going for lunch you may &ant to &atch a movie on D>D" or play games on your play station Planning these dates does not need you to spend every time !ou can make the most &hen sitting at home as &ell Ho&ever" make sure it does not become a routine to avoid boredom in your dating game )f bikes are something you both love" plan up a drive and e.plore your riding skills Plan a day to give your bike a different look or team up to paint your room %fter all a date is &hen you can en2oy yourselves" spend lovely moments together and have the best of each other

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%s the dating game begins" it becomes fun and e.citing Ho&ever" as it moves on" there could be certain dilemmas that you may face /very relationship goes through these phases and it is best to solve them rather than let them get out of hand 5ometimes" the problem may be a minor one like deciding on &here to go on your ne.t date : a trivial matter" one might say The more serious problems begin &hen you start to $uestion issues like the level of commitment in your relationship )gnoring such a dilemma is not the solution )nstead" it is best to tackle such issues immediately and find an amicable solution 6hat to do ne.t or &here to meet on is a dilemma that almost all dating couples face This situation can be handled properly by discussing the issue and deciding on a place of mutual interest !ou can figure out interesting places that both &ould en2oy and arrange a date accordingly )f you are sure &hat she likes" or &hat can make her happy" you can surprise her and take her to the place that she has been longing 3ne of the ma2or dilemmas that you can face is that of commitment This can be a confusing stage &here you have to decide on going further &ith this person /ven if the girl has sho&n interest in committing" and you are not sure about the same" it can get difficult Here it is best to be honest &ith yourself !ou need to do a self1analysis and figure out if you &ant to spend your life &ith this special someone or you &ould still prefer to meet others too )f you have recently started dating" it is best you take some time to kno& the person better and then ans&er this $uestion Ho&ever" if you have been dating for more than a year" it+s time to ask yourself if you are still looking out for the perfect date )f things are turning ugly bet&een you and your date" you may be confused as to &hether to give the relationship a chance or call it off )f you have been steady for long and suddenly figure out a problem" it is best to try and solve it immediately %lso" if you have genuinely liked your partner and &ould like to give the relationship a chance" then you need to discuss this openly &ith each other and communicate your feelings too There are many couples that face dissimilarities and problems from the very beginning" &hich makes dating all the more stressful instead of fun )n such a situation it is best to stop right there and move on to find a better date %nother common dating dilemma is &hether to trust your date or not )t is $uite natural to get this feeling %s humans &e do not understand if &e should trust a stranger )f &e al&ays doubt one another8s honesty then dating can be the most a&ful e.perience 5maller dilemmas are easy to handle them 4ot making a big issue of the same &ill help you en2oy dating 4o matter &hat the issue" try solving the problem as $uickly as possible The sooner you do that" the better your chances of having a healthy dating relationship

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The Characteristics of a Healthy Dating Relationship

)f you have taken the plunge and started dating" then you need to understand the characteristics of this relationship &ell Having a date is easy" but to maintain a healthy dating relationship is tricky %ll you need to do is recogni'e and follo& the essentials and there &ill be no looking back in your dating life )n any relationship" sincerity and faith are vital factors and a path&ay to a healthy and pleasant dating relationship Make sure you compliment your partner on &hat you like best about him or her Talk about your troubles )t feels good to share your 2oys and sorro&s &ith someone %void being dominative in your relationship )f you have committed any mistake then accept it and apologi'e for the same % healthy dating relationship re$uires a good deal of emotional respect among the partners )f you and your partner have any disagreements" try solving the matter amicably rather than &alking a&ay in a temper or starting a series of emotional blackmail and threats Both the partners should respect each other+s decision after the end of the s$uabble /ven if you have a conflict of ideas try and understand the feelings of your partner /very person has a right to keep his point of vie& and you must respect this For a good dating relationship you must develop the art of understanding and being a good listener too !ou should have the ability to put yourself in your partner+s shoes and understand &hat he(she is trying to say about any particular issue )t+s necessary that you pay attention to your partner+s vie&s rather than imposing your o&n individual vie&s /very relationship must have its fair share of liberty and support among the partners /ach and every person has a right to have his(her space" suggestions" vie&point" friends" thoughts et al )f either partner decides to break up then their decision ought to be respected 3f course" this does not mean that you should blindly accept the decision &ithout being given a valid reason %lso" if the partners are not interested in a long1term commitment then $ualities like 2ealousy" obsessive attitude etc should not come to the forefront !ou ought to encourage each other in &hatever you do Try and learn the good $ualities from one another rather than 2ust find faults all the time Make an attempt to strengthen your relationship in the best possible &ays Presenting one another surprise gifts is a great &ay of spicing up your relationship 6henever you gift your partner" try not to think of the money you spent it The thought means much more than the gift )nstead" imagine the happiness your partner &ill derive on getting the gift )n addition" you must sho& constant care and respect for your partner This attitude should be consistent i e from the start of the relationship and as the association nurtures Mutual fondness for one another is necessary in a dating relationship 0ompliment and appreciate your partner 5mall things can make a huge difference to your bond Try and follo& some of these characteristics and hopefully then the &orld &ill have only a handful of splitsville couples

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The !odern .o an2s 3uide to As,ing a 3uy -ut

!ou may be ultramodern and chic" &ear the latest designer dresses and foot&ear" but are you really &oman enough to ask a man out for a date &ith you7 6ith changing times" the rules of romancing and dating have also changed )t is no longer cool to &ait for a hot hunk to make the first move %s a confident and fashionable female, men look up to you to ask them out for a s&ell date Men love the chic contemporary &oman of today : brash" cool" confident" intelligent and beautiful" a lethal combination %pproaching a guy for a date puts you in total control of your romantic liaisons Many men find it very appealing &hen females make the move to kill Men of today have accepted the fact that &omen are more or less e$ual to them in all spheres of life" if not better #o e tips to as, a dude for a date:

Head for the 'ar# )f a handsome hunk catches your fancy" buy him a drink %s you+ve made the first move" it is up to him to reciprocate your advances Propose an -uting# 6hilst you+re talking to him" casually ask him about his &eekend plans and propose something like &atching a movie or visiting a dance club together Invite his 3ang to eet yours# )f you find it a&k&ard to ask him alone" try to invite him and his friends to meet your associate+s circle This &ill help you both to mingle &ell &ithin your respective comfort 'ones <ust make sure your gorgeously ravishing friend is absent at the meet Drop a Hint# )f you find it too uncomfortable to invite a guy out" drop subtle hints like" *Have you seen the latest popular play7 ) &ould love to see it + /ven after this if your dude remains mum or doesn+t pounce on the opportunity" he is either not interested in you or he is too dumb for dating Research and Play# This is for dummies Be informed about the guy that you+ve fallen for Find out &hether he is already committed to someone else or happily married

)f you ask a dude out for dinner" lunch or a drink" you can al&ays turn on your best flirtatious behavior Make good eye contact" smile generously and make him feel that you are totally charmed by his personality Be hard to get" don+t give him the idea that you are readily available for him Men like challenging and mysterious &omen Try to find out his hobbies" interests and culinary tastes 4ever ask him about his financial position" even though you are desperate to kno& ;et to kno& him better and then slo&ly try to probe about his monetary value 5ome men appear to be classy and full of style" but they may actually turn out to be broke" and there are those &ho do not flaunt their money" but are $uite &ell off %s a parting line" let me &arn you that men are after all &ell bred animals %sking a man out on a date is tricky business Be cautious" you are about to step on his ego" take care to tread lightly

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