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before she was born. He vaguely remembered a conversation, but hadnt understood what
treating such a tiny premature baby meant.
And nobody talked to him after Miracle was born about continuing life-sustaining treatment. In
fact, he had gotten to her two-month birthday without realizing that her suffering might end in
death. We had updated his wife, but she didnt like to hear bad news, and didnt tell him.
Luckily, the news has improved. Miracle is off the ventilator and will likely survive to be
discharged, though she will suffer from chronic lung disease.
Even so, we need to make sure both parents are always kept part of the discussion, to ensure we
have their informed consent throughout treatment. It cant be just one conversation.
More broadly, when in the first trimester obstetricians talk with pregnant women and their
partners about testing for genetic anomalies, they should include discussion of values and
attitudes toward life, death and disability, or at least recommend such discussions. Certainly
parents at high risk of giving birth to premature babies, or to babies with severe congenital
defects, should receive such counseling, including from neonatologists and other specialists.
Sometimes, I think we doctors need to do more than inform. On occasion, Ive offered to make a
life-or-death decision for parents. If they agree, they are essentially making the decision, but are
shifting the burden to me. Its harder for parents to say, I unplugged my baby, than to let the
doctor do it.
Our culture is slowly growing more comfortable talking about end-of-life issues as they relate to
the elderly: whether to allow a natural death or prolong life even if it means suffering.
In my world, though, the surrogate decision makers are young parents of infants like Miracle.
And they are still completely unprepared. Its time we broaden the discussion to include them.
April R. Dworetz is an assistant professor of pediatrics, specializing in neonatology, at Emory
University.