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STEALTH...
VALUE
OPENING
SEDUCTION
AROUSAL
EXTRACTION
VALUE
never stand in the same place too long. always moving. non moving = lowest value
interact, but give as little energy as possible.
interest you receive - effort you're giving to get that interest = attraction
one of my favorite things to do: create situations where surrounded by women.
dancefloor, enjoy, have fun, but do not look at women. soon women crowd around you.
if women giving you ioi, little wave, or kiss sign. (for non that good women). then turn your
back on her, so that gives them permission to point at me.
this hot girl is now paying attention to you and you haven't done anything yet.
Leave the whole club, instead of going to the smoking area, I need to get sum money, from
the atm, buy some cigarettes in the shop, make a phone call... shake the bouncer's hand, make
sure he remembers me, "i'll be back in a second", make sure he stamps me, remembers my
face, buy a chocolate bar, wait a few minutes, outside huge queue.
Force IOI to some girls, make sure they notice me.
often go to smoking area. quite, few distractions. good place to open. If you can see the
queue, you can force IOI with girls in the queue. eventually chat with them. "hi, I'll see you
inside", and just breeze back in. when they see you inside, you're that high value guy that got
in more easily than they did. Any girl that has to queue sees you at the potential a way to get
more easily into the club next time. (even though you had to queue as well before haha)
buy glass of champaign (similar price, but higher value drink)
fashion: go into the club, look at the highest value guy (the top dog), and copy him. He's got
the fashion that's work in that environment. Not generic.
hottest, high value girl, that everyone looks at, ignore her. don't look at her, or only
peripherally, or go in front of her, looking around her while making her feel invisible. as if
you're searching for your friends.
Movie star effect: get that attention without peacock or an obvious why women might be
looking
So light touch on back of the hand, legs, then other hand if can, "who is that guy, did he mean
to do it?", then do it for all women you pass thru, soon they talking abt you and superstar
effect.
Look around the room, for the most intimidating/scary girl. It'll make you look higher value if
you're seen interacting with her, especially if it's going well.
Unbreakable opener. Not any investment in this interaction. Disqualify yourself first,
"present for gf advice, blablabla, you seem very stylish, what should I get blablabla" then
leave it. (after she answered) Even can say present for your boyfriend, totally disqualifies you,
be the gay dude for a minute haha.
You've raised your value.
Stacking IOIs.
In set.
catch her eye, and force the IOI. (wave your hand type of thing, and smile like hey)
Girl you're talking you doesn't see the response of the girl you're waving, can never be to bad
and even if negative the girl you're talking to doesn't see it.
Then leave, talk to other girl, you've already raised your value.
Done that with girl I wasn't really into, then wave other girl, get her number, and come back
"oh shes a girl I haven't see in a while blablabla"
It seems like you get friendly and sociable, and always excuse, "oh I've lost her number".
In essence, stealth value allows you to very easily build your value in an environment.
You don't have to do 20 cold approaches, interact with people too much, it'll help if you do,
but there are cover ways to pump your value for girls in any environment.
STEALTH OPENING
1- Approach Priming
Non verbal technique,
rejection proof, hits a lot of buttons that verbal approach never can.
Traditional approach:
90% of those cases, approach has been bad.
She got all those negative associations with it.
She also asks herself:
Do I wanna stand and talk to this guy for a few minutes?
Do I want my friends to see me talking to this guy?
Do I want the other guys in the club see me talking to him?
Would I rather be doing something else?
Questions she asks while you're walking towards her.
She assumes it's gonna be bad, she can reject you straight away, and simply because you're
approaching her the same way so many guys did in the past.
Approach priming: familiar situation, but POSITIVE one. Positive association.
Few times in her life, she bumped into someone she hasn't seem in a shile, old friend.
Get that rapport from a distance, and make her feel that she's already comfortable talking that
she knows;
Forcing IOI, kind of the precursors to approach priming.
Catch a girl's eye, wave, tip your hat or raise your drink, tryna get a positive response, etc. and
if yes approach.
Approach priming, goes a little beyond that, locks her eyes, tilt my head, narrow my eyes, I'm
communicating something:
Don't I know you?
I'm playful
This is an interaction
What I'm looking for:
her to mirror that response, react positively, and give me something back.
Then, response in 5 different ways.
-Curious (ask her question)
-Playful (cheeky)
-Intrigued (don't I know you?) And she'll say "don't I know you?" The reason she'll do that is
because I'm triggering that emotion. She must believe she does know me because I'm
triggering that face.
She'll end up doing it.
So many times, girls I've NEVER EVER EVER MET before
I say: I don't think I look that generic (smirky face)
She goes: "Didn't I see you before, where you last week, last year, where you in my
school,..."
They're just searching for it
It's just because of that association with the face I'm doing, they're mirroring it and feel the
same emotion.
A lot of the times the girl will open you, imagining that she knows you.
Fourth thing I might do.
Notice that she's doing, and mirror it. Purpose= rapport.
Pace and lead.
Only negative thing can happen is start looking away, but what do you risk.
Is she playful, is she fun.
Also, she cannot fake it. Pure response. Cannot fake it.
When you keep things non verbal, she can't help but let the signals leak out. And you will get
a very honest response.
More likely gonna be yes than if you do a cold approach because it's not putting the pressure
on her and not asking a difficult question.
FIFTH option: be sexual right away, you catch her attention, and it's the right situation,
approach very slowly, but with obvious sexual intent, you might take her hand, then the next
touch might be a stroke thru the hair, you're gonna slightly come in...
You might introduce yourself, so you might say "Hey I'm John" kiss on cheeks, and back in
the middle going in for kiss slowly.
In your movement you're saying "I'm gonna kiss you", you're letting her be ready for it, that
way you see her signals and she lets you know that it's on and if she's not ready for it (turns
away, backs on, looks uncomfortable) you change your walk into a "hey I've got a question
type of thing"
The sexual walk and going in for the kiss it's all done slowly so that she knows that if she's
cool with it she'll be ok for the kiss.
Tactile opening: Before you've got eye contact, before you've said anything, you open with a
touch, very subtle, nobody sees it, useful when you want secrecy, in noisy environment, or
she's with a guy, or friends, etc.
Example with girl dancing on a table of a guy paying her champaign. Hard for her to be seen
with you when other guy is paying for her, kinda disrespectful.
Walk past her, don't look at her then put your back close to her while dancing. If she doesn't
like it she goes forward and done. But if she keeps with it she likes it and you can move
forward. Real unconscious response, very easy thing to say yes to, as opposed to verbal
opening.
Turn back, making smirks as if I'm looking for my friends, and she'll see me, know I'm quietly
saying hello to her.
We now got an interaction that no one in the club knows.
It's playful.
Then turn her slowly holding her arm.
Thousands of ways to do it, but the thing to bear in mind is:
Very subtle touch, gaging her response, gradually increasing things to the point where it's
safe.
If you think about it, I never have to be worried about rejection.
I never gonna be walking around with a lot of approach anxiety.
Cause it's so subtle the harshest response you're gonna get is just the girl moving a little away,
everyone can take that.
Another example of tactile opening:
New York example, sitting next to a girl, very subtle touching her legs with mine in tune with
the music. Me talking to my friends, her sitting next to 2 guys. Me: unnecessary touching with
my arms, to her arms, since it's so subtle her response will be subtle.
Then I wanna see what's going all in the rest of the bar. My arm touching her arm. Smirky
face again, then she sees me, can take things further.
I took a situation very tough, and found out that she's probably single but definitely available.
-Familiarity opening:
Found out by accident but use almost exclusively now.
I approach prime, come up to the girl, "good to see you again", or "hey, how have you been?"
(most commonly)
She feels maybe she has met me somewhere before, but it's ambiguous enough for her not to
ask.
reason also I use it: she's in a group. Toughest situation example. Beautiful girl, boyfriend, big
huge guys, annoying friends.
If I approach prime, no one's gonna see it.
I approach her, then "hey how have you've been", (LOUDLY)while putting your hand forward
as if to shake hands.
The rest of the group hears that.
Here's what's going on from these guy's point of view.
They see me approaching, then the girl's face, and depending on her reaction they're ready to
take action. But because I primed it and faked the IOI she got a smiley kind of face. So they're
like "oh I think she knows him". They're 70% sure that I know her. Then I go "Hey, how have
you been?", then 100% sure that I know her.
As soon as I do that, they disappear. The girls talk to each other, the guys, ... talk to each
other, and they'll give me that time to game her.
After I've said that first part loudly,
the rest of our interaction is quiet, and I'm talking just to her, only for her benefit.
I'f I'm out with my GF, and you wanna steal her off me, that's how you do it.
Cause I'm standing there, see the guy, not gonna be like "hey gtfo" to the guy, doesn't make
any sense, I'm gonna look at my GF and see if she knows him or not, and if she goes "ooohh"
I'm like oh okay they must go to work together, school together, be old friends. And the
opener seals it.
Oh I'm gonna go to the bathroom, or get a drink, or talk to my friends.
This guy could be all over my GF.
He could game her silently, and say "oh yeah, I've lost your number I've got a new phone, can
you give it to me I'll be in touch we should meet up for a coffee."
"Come up with me and my girlfriend."
I'll be like "oh that's fine" and she'll be like "wow this is exciting".
That's how he steals my GF.
I've used it in cases where it would have been impossible to get a girl and interact. Not
because she wouldn't like me but because no matter how much she liked me her friends
wouldn't let her talk to me. For example, 3AM, girls leaving the club, they're about to jump in
a taxi, familiarity opener the girl right at the end, the rest of them go wait for her patiently
because they think we know each other.
You would never interrupt old friends catching up, you would give them a little bit of time.
And a little bit of time is all you need to get a phone number, to join the group, to steal her
away somewhere else, and that's what you can do.
So when you see that big group, that's one thing you can do, nonverbal, inter familiarity. And
it'll work.
Before we get into the real meat of the verbal game, Something I notice I often do is I use a
few transitions.
These transitions normally bring about familiarity and are quite logistical in nature.
I wanna find out...
When she got here
Who she's here with
If she's got any plans for later
Reason I'm doing that:
So that I can very quickly think about how do I get her out with her, if I have to get around
any other people in order to do that, or invite them up so I can stop thinking about that, and
what her plans are for later.
She could say she needs to get an early night because she wakes up early, or that they're
planning on going another club, or that she doesn't know.
The last 2 options obviously lead you later on to help with the extraction.
So my first couple of questions, normally quite generic.
DISC 2 - STEALTH SEDUCTION/ STEALTH AROUSAL
3 - STEALTH SEDUCTION
key thing:
Rejection proof
Escalate without any chance of rejection
Comfortable with it - needs to be very smooth
Is it alright, if I move in a little closer. Is it alright if I touch you here when I talk to you. Etc.
She's gonna say yes to all of those because increment is very very small. So you can break it
down into such smooth movements she's just gonna accept every part of it.
But the cool thing is, you don't have to take an hour. You can do it all within 30 seconds.
That entire sequence, 10 seconds there, 10 seconds there and within 30 seconds you can kiss
her.
Another trick to build the sexual tension
What's your favorite food.
-Pizza
-Pardon?
-Pizza
-I don't hear, pasta?
-Pizza
All while moving in closer to her, to her ears, your cheek close to hers, pretending you didn't
hear, builds the sexual tension.
She's gonna be cool with it because it's not a that serious kind of approach.
Something quite nice to do as well is to combine 2 elements.
Micro escalation
Multi level communication (cover it later)
Communicate one way verbally and one other way non verbally.
Like you're talking boring verbally, but being sexual non verbally.
Girl might be with a guy, or with a group, leaning back next to her, putting your hand on her
hips, very sexual, then lean back, to very boring shit etc.
Allows you to covertly seduce her; and tick all of her boxes.
You don't appear as a threat to other guys, like her BF for example.
It's exciting. She knows that she's being seduced when no one else in the room could tell.
Really powerful.
If you do a lot of this stuff, you're gonna give the girl multiple experiences that she's never
had in her life.
She's never been tactile-opened, she's never been micro escalated,
you do this stuff and stack it up, and she's got an amazing memory of the half an hour of
whatever it was interaction you've spent together.
Conversation Control:
No "I wanna kiss you", "I wanna take you home" blablaba, I'm not giving her any signs
verbally that things are moving forward, I'm gonna escalate purely physically.
A lot of guys wanna talk dirty to a girl, wanna bring out sexual subjects, wanna ask
permission to kiss, I'm not gonna do any of that. If I wanna mention anything sexual it'll be
downtime in cheek.
The reason is, any guy that verbalizes, she then knows what's on your mind.
Non-verbally, slightly hedge, whereas verbally, you're fully invested.
Make her like "I wonder if he wants to kiss me" etc.
Cos as soon as you verbalize it's like "oh he wanna kiss me do I wanna kiss him", or "oh he
likes me do I like him", etc.
"oh he wanna take me home and have sex with me, do I wanna do that with him"
And thats not what you want. You want her to wonder and to want it from you.
Can also deal with objections in tongue and cheek romantic way.
Girl says:
-huuumm I can imagine that you must be a player, you must have loads of girls
-baby, you know that's not true, you know you're the only girl for me
this is a girl I've just met. But I'll do that and imagine what's going on.
I might run into something I know, and say hey this is my new gf, don't we look good
together, hey this is my new fiance, blablabla
I'll call her, sweetie, pumpkin, baby, etc.
Done early, but safe.
If you constantly give a girl tongue and cheek romanticism, she'll want the real romanticism
eventually.
Promote feelings of safety, the fact that I'm gonna be there for her.
All done tongue and cheek. Like when it's cold, "oh baby take my coat, I'll protect her"
blablabla.
Third convo element. My favorite,
The irresistible asshole.
Setting yourself up as the badboy guy, but not really serious.
If you wanna be like a real irresistible asshole, you're coming close to the girl, leaning for the
kiss, then, smirky kinda disgusted face, lean back, "it's like kissing my mum!"
Or for example, for the architect example, if she says she wanna be an architect and you say
"oh why don't you be a strip tease" . So you first are the irresistible asshole but then you are
honest like, hey, no but seriously, this is really cool, blablabla and throw a question about it,
while being interested.
Means she never knows when it's gonna come.
Not gonna be able to pin you down. She's gonna trust you cos once you do it she connects
with you.
Guys mess up when trying to be funny all the time. Good to first spark attraction, but then
switch to honest. To build connection and trust.
Third element
Multi Level Communication.
Verbal/non verbal.
Verbal, pretty playing
Non verbal: sexual
Girls have a good girls part, and a bad girls part.
Good girl: i don't wanna seem to easy, my girls see me, blablabla
bad girl: haven't had sex in a few weeks, wanna sleep with that guy, I wanna kiss him
blablabla
ML communication: way of removing the no.
ex: oh yeah, so what you're doing tomorrow.
blablaba, watching a film
oh yeah? what kind of film?
chicks film?
oh yeah that's cool! yeah i've seen a couple that I've like. Sometimes I'm not surprised but
sometimes I like them blablabla
meanwhile, caressing her back, moving in closer, her neck.
In short, boring verbal conversation, that doesn't provoke the no, but you've got the non verbal
going on, that increases the sexual tension.
What this means is: You can escalate non verbally more than you would if you did both
together.
If I'm being very poker face in my verbal game I'm able to do many things non verbally.
(personal note: reminds me of 60YOC)
The other thing that it deals with is the worry about other people in the room.
You were watching this and you didn't know what was going on before.
She knows that. So she'll accept it. Allows you to do very cool stuff.
What women like is when you can escalate in public but in a way where other people can't
see.
Under the table, etc.
You can use ML communication to do very crazy stuff.
You can be talking with other people and you can touch her bum. And no one will know. You
can even put your hand up her skirt, down her jeans, you can do that, and if you do it slowly,
and you seem to have a cool interaction with everyone else, she's just gonna enjoy the turn on
and never feel the need to say no because you're in control and you're being subtle with it.
And you're satisfying her nice girl part and her bad girl part.
Reason why it works is she can't see you being too excited about it, like a pervert, also you
don't seem to attached, kinda poker face, like it's no big deal.
I was in a situation, in a party, with 2 girls that I'd had never kissed before, Sitting between 2
girls, one girl, arm play with nipples, other girl leaning forward and my hand with the back of
her jeans, and both know what's going on, and look at each other, meanwhile I'm having a
normal conversation, with this dude in his hotel room, and he doesn't know what's going on.
And they just sit and look at each other like "oh I can't believe this is happening".
Those would not let me do that if we were the only people in the room. And they wouldn't let
me do it if it was a fool communication.
It's called ML communication, it splits, because my non verbal is a 100% escalation, my
verbal is 0, so it balances it out. They would not let me do it if I was like "yeah baby you like
it don't you huh"
They wouldn't like that it's dirty.
4- Stealth Arousal
Kino stuff
Sleazy kino
Create real spikes in arousal.
Never has been done to her before, very sexual, implying the same elements of playfulness,
secrecy and confidence.
You might be talking to a girl, and you wanna wait to touch her boobs, so drink, brush past,
arm touch her boobs while drinking, with back of my hands, there's quite a lot of contact
there.
Can do it with the drink... or touching your face, or whatever. Incidentally brush past.
You can also be leading her and brush the boobs with the back of your hands.
1st time shell pay no attention, 2nd time shell wonder and 3rd time shell be like omg whats
happening, beat rate increasing, etc, she starts getting excited
Also when you take her hand, to dance, you grab her hand, but your first touch misses, so
touches her pussy area first then grabbing the hand.
If she does look at me, I'm not getting of af it, ambiguous whether I'm doing it voluntarily,
kinda smirk, light smirk.
Leg between her legs. Lots of incidental touching.
If girls in jeans, quite close, talking to her, hand somewhere around her shoulder, a slight
squeeze around the shoulder and other hand laying on her belt undoing her jeans at the same
time. In 95% of the time the girl won't notice you undo her jeans because of the distraction
pressure you apply to her shoulder.
Works, have done it 20-30 times.
The next step, is to lift up the zip, cause when it's in the down position, it's locked, but when
it's in the up position, it's free.
So you wanna lift up the zip, then might leave it up again for a bit, then undo the zip.
Most girls don't wear belts, so easy to do.
Then put your hands in the back of her jeans.
Girl train station police officer example, never happened to her before.
It's like the old pick pocket trick.
Creates a sexual spike, shows a lot of confidence, but funny. Not sleazy.
Touch her jeans, oh, is it the same material? while touching her and her ass.
etc.
oh you have something on your jeans, first safe, trying to clean it, then caressing it slowly...
She's gonna put your hand away soon but with a smile
oooh poor baby, mooah mooah mooah mooah in a funny smirky way.
DISC 3
5- STEALTH EXTRACTION
The final step.
Getting the girl home.
No chance of rejection, done nice and smoothly.
Transitions that I used. Logistical in nature
Who you're here with, what time did you get here, what are you doing later, blablaba.
Something to bear in mind, is that the girl is NOT gonna live the club with you 99% of the
time if she just got there. She wants to dance, relax, have a few drinks, and THEN, get home
with you. If she gets there at 11 pm, she doesn't wanna leave at 11:30.
A lot of this game is gonna be applied after the 1st hour. You're probably gonna look at most
of your extractions happening between 1 and 2 o'clock. In a club opened usually from 11 and
late. Sometimes when the club closes.
After done my logistics, she might have no plans for later, (mental note that I need to set those
plans and get her to agree to them)
or she might have plans for later. (ie go to another club).
-hijack them and change those plans like go to somewhere else
-agree that it's a good thing to do and sidetrack her along the way
Ex: says goes to movie
I say : bad idea, go to another club, give her a bunch of reasons, like "oh it's straight tonight",
"have you been to this club it's awesome..." etc
get her to agree, and when it comes to leaving, we're gonna drop past my house.
Couple of drinks on the way to this place.
If it's the club she originally wanted to go to, we're gonna do the same thing, drop for home
for some drinks and THEN go to the club.
Of course in most cases you wanna never have that happen. You wanna just stay in the house.
Once you get there.
Avoid the trigger words.
If she says yes, say "ow me to". I'll tell you what, we've gotta get some food in a minute, do
you wanna finish your drink first, and then we're gonna get some food.
What kind of food do you like? Do you like this, this and this? Alright perfect. You're gonna
love it. She's not coming back to your house for sex now she's going back for food.
So if you can think of things that you can throw out there and then see if she bites, and if she
doesn't you haven't lost anything, if she does you've got your perfect excuse to get her back.
Then you'll be doing really well.
Again, you're not gonna use any trigger words, not gonna say "come back to my place for
food", you'll say "let's go and get some food". She won't know until you're walking or until
you're in the taxi on the bus, or however you're gonna get home, in your car, she's not gonna
know until that happens where you're going. And then you just play it off.
Then you say. Oh yeah I'm a really good cook, I'm gonna cook you this this and this. Can you
cook?
So she's like "errr oh noooo, hmmm, what's going on.." "oh I'm distracted. Can I cook or not?
Oh let me answer that question."
That's what you do. Don't enter into a debate about it. You're gonna answer the question and
then distract. And LEAD the interaction.
If at this point you've let her lead it. Where are we going? Back to my house. Oh really? I
thought we were getting some food? Yeah but...
BAAAAD. That's what's gonna happen if you let her lead it.
But, if you keep distracting and leading, she won't have time for that negative thought pattern
to build up, and it'll be very easy for her to accept what's going on and go along with it.
So there we have it.
5 step process, that when you go out, is gonna work in the toughest environments, is gonna
involve, raising you value in really easy way, you're not gonna be rejected you're gonna walk
around with total confidence, you're gonna have a swagga , cause nothing can go wrong.
You're gonna be opening in a really subtle way. Those high pressure long walk ups that are
real coin tosses that can go either way that can really really good, really really bad, they're
not happening anymore.
You're getting accepted on your approach much higher percentages of the time because you're
not triggering any of the negative responses. You're giving the woman something different.
You're showing confidence, and playfulness, and qualities that she doesn't normally meet in
guys that approach her.
When you're in there, you're gonna be using conversational game, that ticks all the boxes,
doesn't have any of the weaknesses, and means you're having a lot of fun. Cause you're
having fun. You come across as not too serious, not too invested, can take it or leave it, high
status, etc... making her react to you. She can't take control of the conversation, you're
unpredictable,
she's gonna tell her friends about you. Emotional roller coaster for her, at the same time micro
escalation going on.
Escalation happening so smoothly that there's no way that you're gonna have a big rejection.
You don't have to be worried about it.
You use multi level communications to get away with things you normally wouldn't be able to
get away with.
And then you bring out the big guns and you're doing your sleazy funny kinos. And you're
doing the other things that build massive sexual interest. Stealth arousal, things that set a huge
memory in her mind, that probably never gonna happen to her again in her life, and she might
have been to the clubs 100s and 100s of times and you're gonna do 10 or 12, 15 things that
she's never had done to her before. She will NOT forget that night.
And then, when it comes to taking her home, she could be easy, kind of girls that goes home
with lots of guys, but if she's not, you might be the first guy that successfully gets her home.
You're gonna be the one that's so under the radar that you're gonna be able to do it right away.
When all the other guys would fail.
So that's the 5 steps process.
Some things that come up, questions I get asked, guys wonder if there's anything differently
you should do either if you can't close the girl that night or if you wanna build a bit more
connection, and there really is.
You might get some numbers, but not the girls.
It's very easy to kiss 10 girls, get 10 phone numbers, and then have them all flake.
Very easy for that to happen. If you leave the girl on a sexual high point, and that's her
interaction with you, and then you reengage with her, whether by phone or text, and then she's
not that point anymore cause she's not been drinking and it's the daytime, and she's not
dressing sexy, she's not feeling sexy, she won't meet you again.
So, for the girls that you meet that you wanna take on a date, take slightly different route.
You can kiss her, on the dance floor. Back off, discuss with her, build some memories, if run
out of things to say, kiss her again, then back off, cos it's very easy have that conversation
after you've sexually escalated. Easier to do that after than before.
MORALS.
There's no girl out there that hates me. However, if you game a girl a 100%, get her and don't
see her again, she could be thinking that.
If you wanna sleep with 7 girls a week, you can do that, but you have to be moral about it. But
leave out a few things in your game. She shouldn't know too much about you. You shouldn't
know to much about her. There shouldn't be too much of a connection. Remove a lot of the
honesty component.
Tell her that you're leaving the country soon, or that you're dating other girls and don't wanna
settle down.
You don't wanna have any false hopes or use that as a reason to get her into bed.
If your game is so good that you can blow away an average girl, she's gonna wanna see you
again. So don't give her 100%. Give her just enough. If she's giving you IOIs, you don't need
to work hard anymore.
If you look at everything I do, I only apply all parts of it for girls who are incredibly
confident, has loads of options, and stuff going on, has high standards and is used to guys that
have a lot of the qualities I'm demonstrating. Not all of them, but a lot of them.
That's the only time I'd apply all of that game.
If I met the girl who was slightly lacking in confidence, not the most beautiful girl in the
room, but I wanted to sleep with her, she might get 50% of what I can do.
As soon as I see the point, I'm getting the IOIs, she's interested, she's not going anywhere, I
don't need to be funny, I don't need to be the irresistible asshole. I don't to do the most smooth
kinos. I don't need to even hold constant eye contact. I wanna control all of that and back it off
a bit. And keep it at the level where it's good enough.
She'll sleep with that guy and she'll enjoy it, but she won't fall in love with him. She won't
desperately wanna see him again. So if he's honest about it, and upfront, she's not gonna miss
him that much. When you're applying this stuff, don't just do it as an ego thing, tryna get the
strongest possible response, just do what is necessary. And, what I'm hoping, is that with
experience it will help you find what you want and then find the girl that you really like.
Because that's generally what I use it for.
I feel like I can game in any situation, and it's thru that experience of doing it a lot, that allows
me to find a girl and stay with her.
Bonuses
BONUS 1 - STEALTH DAY-GAME
I can get EVERY SINGLE GIRL giving me IOIS. while walking down the street.
Walk past the girl, don't look at her, then small movement, playful expression, she sees it.
On your phone. Women will feel more comfortable looking at you while you're on your phone
than without.
You walk with someone, discuss while looking at him, then watch her, then look at your
friend, while continually discussing.
She'll feel more open.
99% of women that will past you.
I think I've always been someone that didn't feel like I was pushing the limit sexually. I started
by not touching girls at all, and then I'd touch her on their arms and things like that, as long as
the touch is quite light, and the escalation done smoothly, you're always gonna know.
For example, if you're pulling a girls hair strongly she'll either go "hey what are you doing!!!"
but if you go slowly caressing her hair she'll lightly remove it if she doesn't like it or go
"hmmmm" and keep it.
That gives you the answer you need.
Never gonna be a harsh rejection.
Never slapped. Because I'm very sensitive to where she's out.
If you see the 100 escalation as the top of the mountain, the best way to get there is not
brusquely, but smoothly while continuously checking her responses
-Let's say you've opened the set, gone really well, then cock-blocking friend comes in, what
do you do?
First they think we know each other, so they don't cock-block. They've seen that girl's
response, which gives me a few minutes, so because I approach prime, because I approach
with familiarity, they give us that minute, they still might get irritated after that time that the
girl is talking to someone, but by that point I've done enough to get in there and get to the
point where she'd get rid of them. So I can honestly say that them coming in has not been a
problem. You've also from her point of view is gonna be more polite, if the guy's getting a
good response.
Something that I do is early on in the night, I'm not gonna try to get a girl away from her
friends or take too much of her time or do any of that stuff. She's just arrived to the nightclub.
She's gonna be chatting to people, flating around, having fun, and I don't wanna get in the way
too much. So I might have a one minute conversation here and then I'll leave it to it. For the
next couple of hours, she's thinking why didn't he chat me up, what's he doing, why is he
talking to those other girls, what's going on, and then, after she's had fun, and danced, and
done all that stuff, I can reopen. And you can always reopen a girl that's been nice to you and
reacted well and it's gonna go perfectly. So I'm carefully my timing, I'm using approach
priming and familiarity, and when you're getting good enough they just disappear anyway.
(the friends)
More generally, the friends look, and they see that things are looking really good, they just
leave up to it.
-You've opened her and she's in the group, would you then open up to them and talk to them
or just go away or talk to them another time?
Different types of girls. Girls who's with a promoter, or with her really close friends. Depends
on the situation.
I wanna keep a little bit secrecy. Let's say we've secretly been dating, or been to school
together. So that their friends think that we got much more history than we actually do. I don't
think it benefits the interaction greatly to meet the friends, cause the friends are judging you
based on how it looks to them. So if they see you talking to a girl and she's getting awkard
face, they're thinking "eww... gotta rescue her"
but if they see the girl reacting very positively, they're happy that she's fine and they assume
that things are going very well.
BONUS 3 - SOCIAL DOMINATION
Building a fantastic lifestyle.
Came years ago.
Getting some results, but only social circle were other PUAs.
Didn't have access to the most beautiful women cause didn't have access to the places.
One day I started doing things differently.
Within first month I got things sorted. Social circle with cool guys, hot female friends that I
met out with, would introduce me to other girls, etc.
Building a Social Circle:
"his friends are cool, female friends too, he must be a cool guy".
Female friends delivered girls to me. Literally.
Just because of the introduction.
Find role models.
Steve, and Alex.
Mindset shift. Imagine going in a room, 40 pua dudes, you could do that, found the guys that
were the coolest, approached the guys that had slept with 100+ women.
Approached them and was incredibly nice.
Almost gamed him. Just with the view of hanging out with him, around me, and learn so
much from him.
Ask him for a drink, perhaps not working. Ask for lunch, better chance.
Cos these guys have busy lives.
I wanted to hang out with people who would totally outclass me.
Role Models
Male Friends.
annoying guy, friend with a girl, gave him a chance, chat him up, invited him and his girl to
my house for couple more drinks, Alex. Also, club promoter, made friends with him.
One night, 2 very good friends and connections, I did something that dramatically improved
my life.
if in NYC, London, else, there will be a party were all the models go, then afterparty.
Few ways to get access to those social circles.
The Staff
Find somewhere who is the lowest end of this guest list clubs
Facebook group, or call up, guest list, "my friend said I had to visit club XYZ when I was in
London (or whatever town you're in), can you put me on the guest list?" whatever it takes to
get on the guest list.
Turn up, Come early soon after the club opens, be very polite, don't go with a bunch of guys,
you either come on your own or with women or at most one guy that looks the part.
You're gonna pay to get in, but you're gonna get in.
Once inside, you can start your work.
Rich guys spending money
girls
the staff
One person, the club promoter, you wanna get in with.
Young guy, surrounded by tons of women. 10, 20, 30 and no guys.
Are you a promoter? Oh cool, I was about to come up next week, and a bunch of my female
friends come up, can I put them on your guest list?
They'll always say yes cause they get a fee for each girl they bring to the club.
And it's a tough business, they gotta send text messages all week to tryna get women to come
to the club, and if someone is offering them like this it's like offering him free money.
Get his number or business card. Then next week, you're gonna have access to the club on his
guest list. But, before then, all you need to do is find 3, 4, 5 women that you can take. You can
go to a crappy bar that night, approach 4 women, chat to them, and then go up to say "where
are you headed later?", "why don't you go out and check this club with me?" It is quite easy to
rounded up a few women to come up with you when you're doing it in a friendly way, not a
pick up way and just tryna pick them up to this club.
So, you wanna get in with the promoter, and one way to move up the levels is to see what
other clubs and nights he promotes.
Normally, the lowest level promoter will promote a slightly better place on an off night.
A guy might promote a 2 good night and one less good night. There's so many nights to
promote that sometimes the less fashionable clubs will pay more so the promoters are happy
to work there as well, but might also promote a better club on another night of the week.
He's gonna have some access generally so he's a good friend to have. Getting in with the
promoter is fantastic, you can roll into the club with them, the girls you bring and invite out
are getting free entry and free drinks, so it's a great way to get a girl to see you again when
you close her on that, this guy is gonna be really happy with you because you're bringing
women into the club, and him money.
You're gonna share his girls cause he's got way too many.
The Money
The rich guys
drinking champaign
On a table. Paid a minimum of $500, $1000.
Give him a compliment. Cool shoes man. Ok nice to meet you, great to meet you what's your
name. Ok. Great to meet you Marc.
Listen, I have some female friends, I'll come and introduce you some to you later.
Then go around the club and game women. Then, say to a group of women "Listen my friend
Mark's other there, and I'm a bit worried about him. He's ordered waaay too many drinks and I
think he's gonna get totally drunk. So can you come and help us drink some? BTW, he's super
super rich, but he's actually a nice guy. Yeah, he's got all the Ferrari and all stuff but he's
actually a really cool guy I think you're gonna like him he's not one of this arrogant rich guys.
So nice DHV intro for him, then come up to him "Marc, come meet my friends, this is Sarah,
Michelle and Jenny" "Hey guys this is Marc, super nice guy, such a nice guy".
You're gonna introduce him and let him talk. And he should offer the girls a drink. If he
doesn't, you can say "hey mate, is it alright to pour the girls a drink?" and he should say yes.
What he's gonna see is that these beautiful women hopefully, coming over with big smiles on
their faces, coming over to him, so making it really easy for him, they've been DHV intro by
you and you've already got in with the group, and so, they're gonna give him the time of the
day, they're gonna talk to him. IF he did a cold approach, that probably wouldn't happen.
In this moment, really great situation. Girls, get them to a table and get them drinks. Give
them a kind of solidify your relationship. They're not gonna run back to another promoter or
table because you're taking them to one.
Next Step
Find where he lives (probably big house, mansion or suite in a hotel)
Shall we get the girls back to your place for an after-party? And then do what it takes to get
these girls back.
In most cases, he's not gonna know what to do. So you're gonna be the one that is better
socially.
The guy that holds things together, and you're gonna have your choice of the girls.
You're getting back to his house, have a party and hopefully sleep with one of these girls in
one of his 25 spare bedrooms.
Next time he wants to go out, does he wanna go out with you?
Yes.
Going to these amazing pre-parties, clubs and after-parties, a lot of those guys get free dinners
cause they bring beautiful girls to restaurants. You can do that.
In a nutshell, it's some real practical to build some social circle, going out there, and having
access to the best places, and that's really how it's done, I've tried to do it in the most distilled,
practical way.
You can make some mission to meet some female friends tonight.