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MAGAZINE
HONORING
YOUR PARENTS
AS AN ADULTp.76
VIGILANT HEART
CAN A GUY EVER BE
JUST A FRIEND? p.66
PURPOSEFUL
femininity
p.8
THE SUBTLETY OF
SELF-JUSTIFICATION p.36
FEB/MAR 2015
FOUNDERS letter
It is amazing
May this issue breathe new life into your walk with Christ and give you a vision
for the beautiful life of purity and set-apartness He has called you to. Know
that each of us are cheering you on as you seek to surrender your existence to
Him!
- Leslie
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SET APART FEMININITY // Explore Gods Sacred Intent for Your Life
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Purposeful Femininity: Unlocking the Secrets of Proverbs 31 Womanhood
26 Snakes & Soldiers
SET APART FAMILY // Discovering Gods Heart for Home and Family
86 Preparing Our Kids for Real Christianity
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setapartgirl playlist
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kiddo spot
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PLAYLIST
- LESLIE LUDY
- ANNIE WESCHE
- MANDY SAELER
- ELSJE ZORNES
10,000 REASONS
by Rend Collective
I appreciate how this song mirrors Psalm 103 in proclaiming Bless the Lord, O my soul; And all that is
within me, bless His holy name! It reminds me that Christ is worth all the praise and my joyful response
gets to be singing of His glory!
- JESS SCHWARTZ
- LAUREN ROBERTSON
- HEATHER COFER
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PURPOSEFUL
FEMININITY
LIVING IN LIGHT OF ETERNITY
A PROVERBS 31 SERIES BY LESLIE LUDY
THE WOMEN
SET APART
femininity
I HAD
EXCHANGED
AN ETERNAL
FOCUS FOR
A TEMPORAL
ONE.
Instead of reading my Bible or inspiring
Christian books, I often turned to
shallow novels and magazines. Instead of
cultivating meaningful relationships with
others, I wasted hours surfing the Internet
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priorities. Eric and I exchanged our movie
marathons for powerful times of prayer.
Instead of mindlessly surfing the Internet
during our spare time, we began studying
Scripture and reading inspiring Christian
biographies. We talked for hours about
what God was doing in our hearts and
what we were discovering in His Word.
Something amazing happened as I began
to spend my time on Christ-centered
activities instead of frivolous ones. Jesus
became my all in all, not just in theory
but in reality. My relationship with Him
began to satisfy all my needs.
I experienced the words of Psalm 16:11:
In Your presence is fullness of joy; at Your
right hand are pleasures forevermore. By
seeking pleasure and fulfillment through
pop culture distractions, I had settled for
temporary, short-lived satisfaction. But
as I built my life and my time around
the eternal instead of the temporal, I
discovered joy and peace that was real
and lasting.
My life has never been the same since.
Its not that Ive never watched a movie or
read a novel since that season of shifting
my priorities. But my approach is far
different than it used to be. No longer do
I find my fulfillment or identity in shallow
pursuits. Rather, I have learned that true
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purpose comes only from a truly Christcentered existence. Not just saying that
He is my highest priority, but living as if
He is.
My vision for the ministry of Set Apart
Girl was inspired by a statement I read
in Elisabeth Elliots biography about the
life of Amy Carmichael. She wrote, The
preoccupations of young womentheir
looks, their clothes, their social lifedont
seem to change much from generation
to generation. But in every generation
there seem to be a few who make other
choices.
The bait toward idle, shallow, trivial living
is present in every generation. But in
every generation, there are those who
are willing to rise above the mediocre
norm and embrace the narrow way
of the Cross, exchanging idleness for
purposeful femininity. Idle femininity
causes us to waste our live on things that
are meaningless in light of eternity. But
purposeful femininity will change this
world for the glory of God.
GAINING AN
ETERNAL FOCUS
The most important step in embracing
purposeful femininity is exchanging
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NO DAUGHTER OF
THE KING IS CALLED
TO LIVE AN IDLE,
SELF-INDULGENT
LIFE BUILT AROUND
TRIVIAL THINGS.
Contrary to what many women today
believe, this life is not about us. We are
not meant to spend our years pursuing
our own personal satisfaction and
happiness. We are here for the glory of
God. We have been given a commission
by the King of all kings to go into all the
world, preach the Gospel to all nations,
SET APART
femininity
AVOIDING IDLE
CHATTER
Another way that idleness often sneaks
into our lives is through the words that
we speak and write. 2 Timothy 2:16 says,
Shun profane and idle babblings, for
they will increase to more ungodliness.
The term idle babbling means empty
discussion, discussion of vain and useless
matters. What a perfect description of
much of our modern communication!
Facebook comments, Twitter, Pinterest
boards, and even blogs can often be
breeding grounds for idle chatter,
JESUS SAYS WE
MUST WEIGH EACH
WORD WE SAY (AND
WRITE) IN LIGHT OF
ETERNITY.
A great way to figure out whether the
words you are speaking, posting, tweeting,
blogging, or texting have eternal value is
to ask the questions, Do these words
point people to Jesus Christ and reflect
His nature? Do they serve any higher
purpose other than to fill space and
sound interesting? Do they honor God,
or do they esteem the shallow things of
this world? If your words are hollow and
meaningless, then its better not to say
(or write) them at all.
If idle chatter has become an unhealthy
pattern in your life, prayerfully consider
taking a season away from all the outlets
(blogs, social media, and so on) that seem
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femininity
PURPOSEFUL
FEMININITY
A PROVERBS 31 SERIES
If you long to rise above the pull and distractions of our culture and
enter into all that for which God created and saved you, I urge you
to read The Set Apart Woman.
-Nancy Leigh DeMoss, Author and Revive our Hearts teacher and host
We who long to love the Lord our God with all our hearts do well to
listen as Leslie speaks into our lives through the pages of this book!
-Bonnie Barrows Thomas, Torchbearers International
AVA I L A B L E N O W F O R P R E - O R D E R !
Order at setapartmotherhood.com
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Snakes &
SOLDIERS
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a garden enclosed.
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a miniature universe, called the garden
of Eden, in which to reflect the nature
of the Creator by doing in that garden
what God does over all creation. Within
that garden was a woman, which Adam
was also responsible, in a sense, to dress
and keep, tend and defend, provide
and protect. This ought to have been a
garden encloseda garden with a gate
and gatekeeper, a garden with a lock and
someone with the key to lock, a garden
with someone to tend that which was
within and was on guard for the dangers
that might be without. However, Adam
stood by while Eve was enticed by the
serpent.
Wait! Howd a dragon get in the garden?!
Who left the door open? Who neglected
to keep watch? Who failed their
responsibility?! Adam, Adam, and Adam!
The one who had responsibility over the
garden, and was the gatekeeper of the
garden, and was guardian of the garden
neglected to exert the authority he was
entrusted in order to protect that which
was under his care.
The United States Pledge of Allegiance
has an interesting line that garners a lot
of debate and attention, but is vitally
important for us as humans to embrace
and acknowledge. It is that the USA is
one nation under God. If an earthly
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SET APART
femininity
It starts with
God's Word
THE
Subtlety
OF SELF-JUSTIFICATION
by LESLIE LUDY
Be willing
to listen to the
Spirit of Gods gentle
tug of correction.
The more I
focused on all the
things that were
wrong with her, the
more I could justify
the compromise
I was allowing into
my life.
God got my
attention and
brought me to a
place of true
repentance
Self-justification is one of the sneakiest
and most subtle forms of deceit that the
enemy uses in the lives of Christians.
When we are not open and eager for the
Spirit of God to correct and refine us, we
spend a huge amount of time and mental
When we truly
love our God...
then we will
actually welcome
correction and
conviction
The Pharisees were professional selfjustifiers. They were so busy proving to
themselves and to everyone else that
they were just fine the way they were that
they completely missed the message of
WHAT ABOUT
UNGODLY
CORRECTION?
Of course, there may be times when
someone attempts to challenge you in
an ungodly, un-Christ-like wayspeaking
lies or false accusation under the banner
of Truth. (Eric and I have experienced
this all too many times in our role as
Christian leaders.) Should we receive this
Be willing
to admit you are
wrong, repent & walk
in the other direction.
AVOIDING THE
SELF-JUSTIFICATION
TRAP
The principle of Heavenly wisdom
verses earthly wisdom is important to
keep in mind when it comes to guarding
our hearts against self-justification.
When we become entrenched in selfjustification, well often excuse anger,
strife, discord, slander, gossip, bitterness,
and pride under the banner of speaking
Truth or standing for righteousness.
Many young Christians today do this
through blogs and social media postings
as a way of lashing out against other
Christians they disagree with. They are
so convinced that they are right and
the other person is wrong that they will
excuse ungodly behavior and prideful
or disrespectful attitudes in order to get
their point across.
But God does not communicate His Truth
in an ungodly way, as James 3 clearly
shows us. So if you find yourself lashing
out at fellow Christians because of their
convictions, or disagreeing with them in
a harsh, angry, or prideful manner, thats
a strong indication that youve become
blinded by the sin of self-justification.
Remember my attitude toward the friend
Contrary to what
the enemy wants
us to believe, being
corrected by Gods
Spirit is actually
one of the most
amazing gifts that
God gives us!
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and ending just few years ago, I was an avid movie and TV show watcher.
In college especially, I would use TV shows as a chance to unwind, relax, or
even just as background entertainment as I worked on a design project. I
justified this with the following excuses: Well, I deserve a chance to unwind.
Its a fun, quirky, and...er...mostly innocent show anyway. All my friends are
watching it, so it cant be that bad. Its not like I am watching an R-rated movie
or anything. It is filmed with an artistic style so that probably means that, as
a designer, I should watch it.
Those are some of the excuses I told myself and, for the most part, these
shows would have been deemed fine to watch by most Christians in
America. However, roughly two to three years ago, God began to convict
me of many areas of my life that were not honoring to Him. This process of
sanctification didnt start with movies, but eventually His Holy Spirit began
to point out how this area of my life wasnt in alignment with how He desired
me to live. It was as if He was asking me what the result was of watching
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these shows. Was the time I spent vegging in front of a screen bearing good
fruit or bad? I think my first response to this conviction was something less
than holy and along the lines of, Well, its not bearing bad fruit, God. Cant
we just say its bearing no fruit, or status quo fruit? Besides, what am I going
to do if my friends have a movie night? Or how will I be able to handle not
knowing what happens to that TV hero? As I thought about those excuses, I
could see how they reflected a lukewarm nature. I certainly had no desire to
be like the lukewarm church discussed in Revelations 3:16! In John 15 Jesus
says, Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every
branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit (John 15:2).
I can see now that during that time God had begun a work to prune away
things which werent bearing any fruit for His glory.
When I let the Lord begin His pruning process, there were two big areas that
I noticed were being affected by TV shows and movies: time and thoughts.
Clearly, the amount of hours I spent in front of that silver screen was eating
away at precious time I could have been doing something more productiveor
at least more wholesome. The second big area this bad habit was influencing
was my thoughts. When watching a particular TV show series I noticed that I
was constantly thinking about it, wondering how the main characters would
get out of whatever sticky situation they found themselves in, chuckling over
some witty saying, etc. It wasnt until I began to cut shows out of my life that
I really realized how much they were affecting my thoughts! The Lord made
it clear that what I was allowing to enter my mind through movies and shows
was influencing areas of my life that I didnt think could possibly be affected
by it. At first, I just began to be more careful about what I was watching.
Eventually however, as the Spirit began to shed light on different facets of my
life that werent reflecting His holiness, I thought, Hmm, I wonder if I cut out
romantic movies if I wont have to struggle so much with wanting an earthly
Prince Charming to come sweep me off my feet? Or, If I cut out all PG13 movies, I wonder if Ill have more wholesome, less battle/conflict-related
dreams?
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justification:
My schedule is simply too busy to set aside focused
time to spend with God today.
over. It is so easy to allow the busyness of life dictate the time we spend
in quiet with the Lord (or if we even spend any time with Him at all). I have
gone through seasons of my life where I look back and realize it has been
several days since I spent any significant amount of time in the Word or in
prayer. And I usually realize it when I begin feeling frazzled and stressed and
out-of-sorts. Temptations to be frustrated and brusque and impatient and
unloving are much more difficult to resist. Somewhere along the line when I
give into the justification I am too busy to take time out of my day to be with
my Savior, I start subconsciously stating He is not my priority. I am saying I
can live this life without Him, in my own strength. And as a result, I see the
damaging effects begin to seep into every area of my life.
If I believe Jesus is my source of life, then I will do whatever I can to spend
time with Him. Even when I cant sit down and have hours of uninterrupted
time with Him, I will go steal away when I see the opportunity of spending
precious minutes in His presence. And this doesnt come out of a legalistic
I must have my quiet time to be spiritual kind of mentality, but one that
desires to be with Jesus and cultivate my relationship with Him no matter
what other busyness comes my way.
Psalm 63:1 says, O God, You are my God; early will I seek You; my soul thirsts
for You; my flesh longs for You in a dry and thirsty land where there is no
water.
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Its okay to give into a little bit of laziness or selfindulgence when youre dealing with sickness.
THIS ONE really hit home for me this week. Even now, as I
was coming over to sit down and write my part for the team article, so many
thoughts came through my headOh, Grace, you did so much today; its
time to take it easy. Dont you realize you may need to have surgery done
later this week? You need some time to mentally prepare for that. You
havent been sleeping well, and you need a nap. Dont you feel that intense
pain? Why would you try to write with that going on?? Go lay down with
your heating pad. And the war inside my head waged strong. It is a humbling
thing to live with chronic sickness/pain/fatigue, and it has been even more
humbling for meespecially this weekas I have realized how easily I let
myself fall into the pattern of justifying wrong actions based on how I feel
from one day to the next. This thought pattern cannot remain!
grace
God is a God of order and constancy; He is not swayed by times and moods.
I am to be like Him. It really came down to something as simple as that.
Complaining, whining, self-pity, over-indulgence these things do not bring
glory to God; thus I cannot continue to participate in them. I, as a temple of
the living God, cannot host anything in meHis dwelling placethat does
not align with who He is. No matter how I feel.
Ive dealt with fairly significant health issues for most of my life, and fairly
severe ones for the past two and a half years. It has not been easy, and I have
not always responded correctly. God, in His great mercy, has been faithful to
woo me to Himself so gently, so lovingly, and to open my eyes to my failures.
He has chiseled and pruned, molded and kneaded; He has not left me alone
to wallow in myself. And, through it all, I have come to understand some very
basic truths that seem so simple, and yet were so profound in my own life.
1.
Sickness/chronic pain/exhaustion/fill-in-the-blank does not change your
calling as a child of God. You are called to love Him, to serve Him, to bring
Him glory with your life, to seek Him, to call on Him, to know Him, to live and
die for Him. What a calling this is! Revel in itdive into it with excitement to
know Him and be known of Him more and more!
2.
Even if I dont physically have what it takes to even so much as get out of bed
on any given day, God still calls me to Himselfto deny myself, take up my
cross and follow Him. This may play out differently in physical ways from day
to day, but God remains the same.
3.
There is no provisionfor self-anything in the life of one bearing the name
of Christ. In Him, for Him, and because of Him do we live and breathe. We
cannot be using every breath for Him and His glory if we are wasting it on
self-pity, self-deprecation, discouragement, frustrations, and every other
emotion that I know all too well comes along with constant pain and sickness.
4.
The diagnoses of this world must not control us. I have incurable, lifelong
pain, continual surgeries, and such other things in my diagnosis. I have been
told to expect depression, to find a counselor and go to therapy, etc. And
the temptation grows stronger when outside voice is given to these things.
And yet, when we truly knowour God, there is such joy. There is a longing to
share His goodness with everyone around you. Your focus becomes outward,
and there is no time for despondency because of your diagnosis, whatever it
may be. Listen to His voice, and His diagnosis: LIFE, and that more abundantly,
in Him.
5.
We must take every thought captiveevery single one. Does this edify and
build up? Does this strengthen and fortify? Is this drawing me closer into
the throne room of God? Is this profitable? The requirement to take every
thought captive or to be still and know that He is God doesnt diminish just
because well, I hurt really bad today, so Im going to just wallow in the juicy
steak of despair and discouragement for a while.
Dear ones, dont let the enemy use whatever it is in your life that you struggle
with (pain, health issues, etc.) to justify drawing you away from the One who
loves and desires you. Allow the King of kings to use this trial to refine and
purify You for His serviceoh! what an honor and joy it is to live life for Him
in every situation and circumstance!
justification:
Your emotions rule you and define you. They
guide your day-to-day living, direct the decisions
that you make, and determine the way you treat
other people. Naturally, your emotions will
control youespecially as a womanyou really
cant help it! All must hail Queen Emotion!
mandy
Your emotions and my emotions, if not fully surrendered to the Spirit of God
and daily held in check by the power of Gods Word in our lives, are infinitely
dangerous. The displacement of emotions control is a must if we truly desire
to follow Jesus Christits a part of the command to deny ourselves. If
anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross,
and follow Me (Matt. 16:24, emphasis added).
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If we are claiming to live lives that are set-apart for Christ, there cannot be
room left for emotion to rule. Every thought must be taken into captivity,
we must live with a wide-eyed vigilance, and we must guard our hearts with
all diligence that Christ might be honored in our inner (wo)man and by what
flows out of our lives (2 Cor. 10:5; 1 Pt. 5:8; Prov. 4:23).
Please note that I am not intending to suggest that emotions are bad, wrong,
or evil. Emotions are a good thing, even a blessing from God Himself! Imagine
if there was no cresting joy in your heart when spring finally arrives after the
cold of winter. Or if in the birth of a new baby, everyones faces were flatlined. Emotions are a gift. Emotions can be a beautiful accent in the human
life, but only when they are just thatan accent that serves the agenda of
God in our lives.
If youve struggled with justifying your actions, thoughts, and attitudes based
on what you think and how you feel, take some time to be alone with God
and walk through this area. Acknowledge your wrong to God; ask for His
forgiveness and for His grace to enable you to walk His way. As you step
forward, ask God to sensitize you to the onset of emotion and for His strength
to spring into obedience. God delights to lead His children in triumph!
As Oswald Chambers said, When obedience is in the ascendant, He will tax
the remotest start and the last grain of sand to assist you with His Almighty
power!
Now thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ
2 Cor. 2:14a
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THE
VIGILANT
HEART
by Jasmin Howell
I PREFACE THIS
article by saying I have always been
incredibly social and I love people. This
quality has been a blessing in my life
the more I have learned to speak and
act in relationships with wisdom, but
in my youth it sometimes got me in
trouble. I have such excitement and joy
being around others, but as I grew from
a young girl into a young woman, I was
not overly cautious with how I expressed
my excitement, or to whomparticularly
in my friendships with guys. No, I have
not always had discretion or wisdom in
my relationships, but I am thankful that
I can stand with Paul who expressed his
gratitude for the saving work of Christ,
and say, thanks be to God, who gives
us the victory through our Lord Jesus
Christ (1 Corinthians 15:57).
As a little girl, I always preferred the
company of boys and I always had plenty
of boys whom I considered friends. In my
young mind, boys seemed more reliable.
It was confusing to me that one day a
girl would be my friend, but the next day
she was an enemy. Girls seemed flippant
and I didnt ever know what to say to
other girls because I was afraid of them.
But with boys I could just be myself. I
didnt understand or enjoy the emotional
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Even in mere friendship, our words,
interaction, and dress are all saying
something and can give a guy hope for
more than friendship; in my case, my
overenthusiastic nature needed to be
tempered with a careful spirit towards
the guy involved. How were my actions
going to affect him? Throughout my
teenage life until I later met my husband,
WHEN WE KEEP
our eyes forward and set our gaze on Christ,
He leads us away from a path of self-serving
behaviors in our friendships with guys and leads
us instead to the path of life, where our delight
and satisfaction is first and foremost Christ.
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FROM IT FLOW THE
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Friendships with guys can be blessings
and a lot of funmany marriages are
the result of God-given friendships.
When both a guy and a girl enter into a
friendship with discretion and a guard on
their hearts, then there is the possibility
for a God-led friendship to blossom into
more as He leads. This was the case with
my husband Mike and me. We maintained
a friendship for four years, but we often
hung out together with our families or
with larger groups of people. We had the
opportunity to observe and enjoy each
other within the context of others, and
HONORING
YOUR PARENTS
AS AN ADULT
by Heather Cofer
HONORING
OUR PARENTS
BEGINS IN
OUR HEARTS
Sadly, we also live in a world where
many parents greatly hurt their children
during their childhood years, whether
physically, emotionally, or mentally. So
it is understandable why a great number
of people justify bitterness and dishonor
toward their parentsgetting them back
for the pain they experienced growing
up. And ultimately, no matter how good
or bad parents are, every single one
is sinful and does wrong toward their
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PREPARING OUR
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CHRISTIANITY
Dreaming Gods Dreams
For Our Children
by LESLIE LUDY
But when we train our children to be self-focused as they think about their life and
future, we are diminishing their understanding of the Gospel and limiting what God
can do through their lives. Self-fulfillment
and the pursuit of personal happiness isnt
all its cracked up to be. A life built around
selfish desires only leads to emptinessas is
clearly evidenced in the miserable, wasted
lives of the rich and famous that we see on
the tabloids and in the news. Celebrities
have everything that supposedly brings
fulfillment. Yet they dont have anything
beyond self to live for, and their lives lack
true purpose which often plunges them into
drugs, alcohol, affairs, depression, and even
suicide.
As mothers in todays world, we hear countless messages about helping our children
achieve their full potential and realize their
destiny. Enabling our child to go after their
dreams and pursue happiness is considered one of the loftiest achievements of
parenthood. We are often led to believe
that an excellent mother is one who gives
praying
DILIGENTLY
He gives them to us so
that we can surrender
them back to Him.
One of the most powerful stories Ive ever
read is the story of John Patons father
in 1858, on the day that John left for the
mission field. His father had always desired
his son to live a poured-out life for Jesus
Christ. He had prepared him, trained him,
and helped him discover a passionate, vibrant, daily relationship with Christ. Now,
John was grown, ready to sacrifice his very
life in order to bring the Gospel to the lost.
His father knew that he would very likely
never see his son again once he left for the
mission field. Here is Johns description of
their parting:
My dear father walked with me the first six miles
of the way. His counsel and tears and heavenly
FULLY SURR
RENDERED?
He gives them to us so
that we can surrender
them back to Him.
This story never fails to challenge me with
the question: have I surrendered my children completely to God? Am I willing to
allow Him to do whatever He wants to do
with their lives and futures? If He calls them
to suffer for His sake, am I willing to allow
it? If He calls them to a life of difficulty and
sacrifice, will I allow it? Will I continually
point them toward the narrow path, even
if it means they will not be recognized or
applauded by this worldeven if it means
that God may call them to the ends of the
Give Them
Deeper Truth:
Our world promotes shallowness. Even
Christianity has become shallow in many
circles. Kids are capable of grasping much
deeper truths than we often give them
credit for. But if we are facilitating a shallow, worldly lifestyle built around television
and video games, or a fluffy Christianity that
leaves them comfortable with mediocrity,
their hearts and minds will not be able to receive the deeper truths of Gods kingdoms.
So we must be purposeful about bringing
rich Gospel truths into our conversations
and activities at home. Here are a few of
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Isnt it exciting to realize that Gods plans
for our children are so much bigger and
better than anything we could plan for them
ourselves? This week, I encourage you to
pray God-sized prayers over your childrens
futures, point your children toward His
dreams for their lives, and then watch and
see what He will do!
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TAKE IT DEEPER:
Read: Philippians 3:20
Reflect: Am I pointing my children down the narrow way of the Cross? Am
I giving them Gods dreams for their future instead of the worlds? In what
areas might God be asking me to exchange my own dreams for His? How
would this affect my childrens perspective toward their future?
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cute lil things the Ludy kids are saying & doing
KIPLING, AGE 6
Kip continues to be one of those rascally-yet-delightful little boys that keeps us smiling and chuckling daily. His trademark symbol is Dub 6 (because Dubber is his nickname and he is 6 years old!)
and he puts Dub 6 on just about everything he can get his hands onincluding his toy boxes, teeshirts, Legos, backpacks, napkins, and storage containers. Kip has a secret agent spy notebook
(its a froggy notepad that we got at the dollar store!) and each night he records his secret spy language that nobody can read except him! Kip is always making big plans for the future. When he
heard about the underground church in other countries, he drew a diagram of a church building
underneath the ground and told me all about his plans to go overseas and dig underneath the dirt
so he could build an underground church for the Christians there.
HUDSON, AGE 10
Hudson turned double digits in December! He was excited but also a little sad as he grappled with
the fact that he would never be single digits again! He loves to make Lego creations
and Lego short films, and is working on some Lego Bible story movies that
are quite epic! This past year, Hudson caught a vision for going to the
mission field and is already planning and preparing for the future!
It is so fun to see God shaping his vision, personality and gifts
as he grows older!
HARPER, AGE 8
Her birthday party this year was so grown up! She had an Asian tea party at Nanas house, and
as I watched her sip tea with her friends, I was reminded how much of a little lady she is becoming!
She received her first sewing kit, and within twenty-four hours had already made a wallet, a pillow,
and done several repairs on various dolls and stuffed animals that needed fixing! Sad to say, her
sewing skills have already exceeded mine!
AVY, AGE 5
Avy has developed her own sense of style, and each morning it is quite hilarious to see what kind of
outfits she has come up with. One of her favorite winter styles is to put a swimsuit over leggings,
layer on a cropped cardigan, and then wear white shiny dress shoes and a bo-ho style pink headband to complete the look!
LILY, AGE 3
Lily is a non-stop chatter box and a spunky little fire-cracker! She is gifted with amazing leadership
abilities and continually tries to take charge of all the other kids and tell them whats what. She
loves to pretend to be a doggy and she greets each day with incredible enthusiasm and excitement.
One of her favorite statements to me is, Mommy, I love you cuz youre funny! which is quite hilarious, since I am never doing or saying anything comical when she tells me this.
REES, AGE 3
Rees turned three in February! He loves his big brother Hudson and greets him each morning with
a great big bear hug! Everynight before bed he asks me to sing him a song about Rhinos, airplanes
and tigers so I assume these are a few of his favorite things! Though Rees
can be a bit of a rascal, he is one of the sweetest lil guys Ive ever
met, with a shy smile that can melt my heart even during moments of frustration!
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JOYFUL IN SUFFERING
BY HEATHER COFER
I have always been somewhat afraid of suffering. Even
though I know the Lord will give me everything I need
to walk through any form of suffering, it has always
been more head knowledge than heart knowledge.
That is, up until recently.
This past year I have been the observer of many dear
Christian people walking through sufferingvery,
very deep suffering. Losing children, severed relationships, the loss of family members or friends As
I have witnessed others walking through these things,
there is one thing that has been made blatantly evident: God is always good. Instead of these tragedies
drawing them away from Christ, they have allowed
the Lord to use them to build greater strength, trust,
and unshakeable joy in the midst of the greatest of
storms. ...
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Murray
A FAVORITE QUOTE: If you felt you could not do it, you are on the right road, if
you let yourselves be led. Accept that position, and maintain it before God: My hearts
desire and delight, O God, is absolute surrender, but I cannot perform it. It is impossible
for me to live that life. It is beyond me. Fall down and learn that when you are utterly
helpless, God will come to work in you not only to will, but also to do. - Andrew Murray
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ANNIES PICK:
Word of Promise
NKJV Audio Bible
Several years ago, Leslie shared with me how she had begun
listening to the Bible on audio CD throughout the daywhile
getting ready in the morning, in the car running errands, or while working on various house
projects. Whenever Ive made this part of my own routine, it has had such an amazing
impact upon my thoughts and Spiritual focus. Its also a great help to memorizing scripture
or soaking your heart and mind in a portion of Gods Word you may be studying. And, as an
added bonus, this version has voice actors for each character and background noise that
paint a vivid landscape for whatever passage you may be listening to!
MANDYS PICK:
No Compromise: The Life Story
of Keith Green
by Melody Green
Over the course of the past four and a half years, Ive picked up
No Compromise, reading a chapter here and there. Each time I did, it seemed as though
the Lord had perfectly chosen those chapters to reach my heart in each unique season. I
was encouraged in my walk with God, convicted of sin, filled with new prayers, and gained
fresh passion for reaching souls for Christ. The book isnt written to persuade you that
this man, Keith Green, was perfect or didnt have struggles. Rather, it honestly shares the
deep working of God in his life and the struggles that became great victories. As you read
about Keiths blazing pursuit to truly know Jesus Christ and witness his radical obedience,
you will be sensitized to sin and compromise in your own soul, and will be fueled to live a
life of true devotion to Christ and to fulfill the Great Commission.
(Additional Note: The first slice of this book chronicles Keiths life before he encountered Jesus Christ
and contains details from his past that are mature in content.)
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