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5 gi tr th nh cha m tt trong mt

tr
Bn nn bit rng thc hin cc bin php k lut l mt phn ca cha
m tt. Mt a tr c k lut s t nhn bit nhng vic cn l m
ca mnh m khng cn n s nhc nh ca ngi khc.

V vy m thi gian pht khng cn qu lu. Theo cc chuyn gia, vi tr 2


tui thi gian tch ring n y l 2 pht v c thm mt tui th cng thm 1
pht. Tuy nhin, thi gian pht khng c ko d i qu 5 pht, bi chng c
th to ra nhng phn ng bt li ca tr. Phng php n y cng khng
nn dng vi tr di 18 thng tui. Loi hnh pht n y c nh gi
l hiu qu vi tr di 10 tui.
Sau y l nhng hnh thc k lut c nhiu ph huynh p dng
v t c nhng th nh cng tuyt vi. Nu bn ang lng tng vi
vic dy d con th nhng gi sau y s gip bn tr th nh b m
tt.
5 gi tr th nh cha m tt trong mt tr
nh minh ha
Phn thng khng cn phi l th t tin, chi hay nhng th
vt cht khc. Phn thng c th n gin ch l mt ci m yu
thng, mt n hn trn m hay mt v i pht ring t m khen b. V
ng nhin, khi b sai tri tuyt i khng c khen thng. Vic

khen thng khng ng lc s l m hng b v l m b khng nhn thc


c h nh vi, thi n o l tt v ng c khen.
2. Ngh thut khen thng
1. Ngh thut s dng thi gian
Nu bn ang lng tng vi vic dy d con th nhng gi sau y
s gip bn tr th nh cha m tt.
Hu ht cc bc ph huynh v cng kh khn khi phi k lut tr. c bit,
tr thng c thi phng th hay phn ng li mi khi phm li v
iu khin cha m kh khn hn trong vic p dng k lut.
Cho d bn s dng ngh thut k lut n o chng na th s nht qun
trong h nh ng l rt quan trng v n l cha kha bn c c
th nh cng. Ty v o tui m bn nn chn k lut n o cho ph hp,
nhng phi thc hin n n cng.
4. Ngh thut ging dy
5. S nht qun trong vic dng phng php k lut
Hy lp gip con mt bn quy tc v dnh n v o ni quy nh ging nh
nhng th nh vin khc trong gia nh. Nhng quy tc n y s ch cho b thy
iu g l c php v y l mt cch r r ng nht b bit
h nh vi n o c coi l tt.
Ngh thut khen thng mang li nhiu li ch trong vic a cc b v o
khun php. y l hnh thc k lut c cc chuyn gia khuyn dng.
Tt c tr em ch nn b k lut sau khi c dy v cc h nh vi ng
v sai. Bn cn phi dy b u l nhng iu c php v iu
khng c php trc khi ni t khng c vi b.
y l mt hnh thc k lut c nhiu ph huynh v gio vin p
dng vi cc b bng bnh. Khi b phm li, hy b ngi
mt gc ring, tch bit khi cha m hoc nhng a tr khc trong nhm
mt khong thi gian nht nh. Hu ht cc tr em u mun thot ra
khi tnh abbott pediasure trng b tch bit n y v ngay lp tc b s xem
xt li h nh ng ca mnh.
Rt nhiu bc ph huynh mc sai lm khng nht qun. Hm nay, h k lut
b nhng ngay mai v mt l do n o m h li nung chiu b. Nu
mt a tr c th trn ti bng cch khc, b s thng xuyn vn
dng iu n y. V vy, bn cn phi nht qun trong vic p dng k
thut k lut vi b. S nht qun l iu khng th thiu gip n lc
ca bn th nh cng v b sm hiu ra iu mnh phi l m.
Hu ht tr em s phn ng vi tnh hung n y bng cch thay i
h nh vi c iu mnh mun. K thut n y s gip b t hiu v

h nh vi ca mnh v t thay i sau khi nhn ra l iu khng c


php. Tuy nhin, cc bc ph huynh khng nn p dng k lut n y thng
xuyn, bi nu p dng qu nhiu, b s ni lon.
Khi con tr vi phm quy nh, bn s trng pht con bng vic t chi
thc hin iu b mun hoc khng cho b chi nhng chi b yu
thch. Phng php t chi n y s l m cho tr hiu rng, h nh vi ca tr
l khng c bn cng nh nhng ngi xung quanh chp nhn v
c c iu b mun, b phi thay i h nh vi ca mnh. Con cn
phi hiu c, b b t chi nhng iu b thch v h nh vi khng
tt ca b.
Cch dy b hiu qu nht l ni v cc quy nh trc, sau l khen
thng khi b l m ng. Khi b l m ng hy khen ngi hoc cho b mt
mn qu nh. Bng cch n y, b s ghi nh nhng h nh vi sua pediasure b a
tt.
Khi con tr l m iu g ng, hy thng cho con th m b ang
ch i, iu n y s l m b hnh phc. Trao phn thng cho mt h nh
ng v mt thi tt s m bo rng, tr hiu c tm quan
trng ca h nh vi tt v c gng hc nhng iu tt khc.
3. Ngh thut tng cng tiu cc
Ngh thut n y ho n to n khc vi k thut tch cc trn. y, cc
h nh vi khng ng ca tr s b nh du li v dng n l m c s
ngn chn h nh vi xu ca b ti din.
Khu vc b b pht nn l mt khu ring, yn tnh v khng b nh
hng bi nhng hot ng thng nht khc. S yn tnh tuyt i
n y s gip tr cm nhn su sc v s tch bit b thay i h nh
vi.

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