The Language of Lust

Becoming a Sexual Superhero:

The Secret Power of S.L.U.T.

by Lawrence Lanoff

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The Secret Power of S.L.U.T.

In the last section we discovered that humans are in a perpetual state of
creating our own inner reality, which creates our sense of self.
Contrary to popular belief, our identity is in a constant state of flux. Its
always changing, updating, depending on the circumstances.
This is fucking GOLD, because this is exactly why words have such
power and meaning in our lives and over our sexual identities.
Sexual identity is also in flux, sometimes flipping from one sexual identity
to another. The more experience we have using the Language of Lust, the
more working knowledge we gain. The more working knowledge we gain,
the smarter we become about sex and women.
And I know that if you are reading this, you are fully capable of making
deep changes in your own mind, and in the minds of your sex partners.

Language is the doorway to change.

Research suggests that the Language of Lust is a direct doorway a secret
pleasure pathway into the emotional and sexual centers of a womans
brain.
Heres why. The reality is that we can use words to change our minds and
remodel our brains from the inside out. This is hugely important for
becoming a master of erotic language, using it as a way to intensify lust,
passion, and pleasure in a womans body and in her erotic mind.
Words pack emotional punch, meaning, and power. Each culture has
trigger words that create cascades of sensations and emotions in the body.
This is the dramatic power of language.
For example, people have powerful emotions connected to the words that
comprise the acronym GMO Genetically Modified Organisms. From
road rage to orgasms, power words trigger emotions.

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SLUT is one of those power words that has the potential to change our
mind, our brain, and our experience in either a good way or bad way.
Here's what I mean.
Basically, for a woman's entire life, she's had a difficult relationship with
the word slut. It's a control word that mommy, daddy, friends, and
teachers instilled in her and used against her to maintain psychological
control over her sexual behavior and her pussy. This control is all based on
sexual shame. In basic terms what parents are saying is If you dont do
what mommy and daddy tell you to do, we will shame your vagina.
What this also means, however, is that if she uses the word slut, by choice,
she turns a disempowering, controlling word into a self-claimed
empowerment word. In other words, she can use the energy trapped in the
word to increase her erotic nature and her lusty, animalistic pleasure.
Heres why. In context, the thing we "shouldn't be," the thing that mommy
and daddy say is wrong, is the very thing that we secretly want to be! Its a
way to secretly be a bad girl. Its a way of saying no to mom and
dad. Because, no matter how we morally feel about sluts a slut is
SEXUALLY FREE! She has no social constraints. A slut has permission.
She has full permission to fuck. She's living for her pleasure and living for
the moment.

When a woman owns the word slut, she is learning to own her sexual
power.
A slut can be as selfish as she wants to be, fuck whomever she wants,
whenever she wants wherever she wants. Sluts are sexually liberated
people.
Lets Talk About SLUT Sexual + Liberation + Unleashing + Treasures
For the purposes of our program, I want to use the word slut as a
mnemonic device.
SLUT = Sexual + Liberation + Unleashing + Treasures

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Weve all been lied to about sex, so my intention is to have you take back
your power and experience liberation. And in taking back your power, you
can help guide a woman to unleash her own treasure trove of pleasure on
herself and YOU.
The reality is that pleasure feels good to our bodies. Its not like we have
to do some crazy magic tricks to make people want to move toward
pleasure; were wired that way. We have a natural tendency to move
toward pleasure and away from pain.
So the first step in taking back our power is learning how to reclaim our
own pleasure, to reclaim our own bodies.

Nobody owns your genitals.

Nobody owns your genitals. Not mommy. Not daddy. Not your school.
Your genitals are yours and yours alone to share, for pleasure, with
whomever you choose. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you are
free.
Pleasure comes from allowing ourselves sexual freedom, giving ourselves
permission to feel good sensations in our bodies. A womans body is also
wired for pleasure. Her mind is wired for new experiences. She wants to
feel good. She wants to let go. She wants to feel things physically and
emotionally that shes never felt before.
She just needs permission whether its from you or from within herself.
And for this permission to occur, one way or another, in order for her to
turn off her processing mental mind and turn on her freer erotic mind, she
has to feel safe, understood, and encouraged to be her fully empowered
sexual sex.
We can use the Language of Lust to give her permission to let go sexually
by asking questions that explore how shes feeling about the intimate
moment you are sharing.
Here's an example: "If you feel really good in your body, right now, would
you continue to explore your desires?" If she says "yes," then you know

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you are creating a safe space for her. If she says no, then you have
feedback that you havent connected deeply enough to create that safe
space.
Another way to claim your sexual power is to focus your attention on what
you want to cultivate inside of you. You can ask questions like "Do you
want to completely relax and let go or do you prefer to just chill and
explore and have fun?"
We create situations with language, so that whatever choice is made
(between complete relaxation or exploring and having fun), it leads both
of you to the feeling of relaxation and safety that you want to cultivate.

How To Do It
Step 1:
What Experience do you want to create?
Like anything, its important to know what you want. If you dont know
where you are going, how are you going to get there?
Step 2:
You need to lead her into the experience you want by going there first.
Dont expect her to magically go to a place of pleasure and release if you
dont feel comfortable inside of yourself with feeling and sharing pleasure.
Yes, I know this can feel weird.
But if you want magical results, you have to get comfortable feeling
uncomfortable so that you can feel super comfortable. (Thats some more
Zen shit for you.)
You want to be cultivating the feelings you want to feel in your body first.
Your words will reflect these feelings you are actually creating in your
body.
Step 3: Run Simulations.

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Imagine a situation that lights you up erotically and makes your body
feel calm and relaxed. Use your brains natural ability to run simulations
in your head to make yourself feel the kinds of feelings you want to create.
Step 4: With your sexual pump primed, invite your lover to come play
with you.
An invitation is a request to share pleasure together. Invite her into your
world.
Step 5: Be flexible. Its the real world and things dont always work out as
we planned. Be willing to roll with whatever happens. Its a process.
For example
1. What do I want? I want to play with her ass tonight.
2. Go first. Im going to get comfortable with that desire in my body.
I connect with my lust for that.
3. Run simulations. I imagine, vividly playing with her ass exactly
the way I want to. I give myself permission to go in all the way in
my mind. I let my animal desires run crazy. I feel the simulation
with all of my senses.
4. You are primed, now invite her to play with you. Use the power of
speaking your desires to create shared sexual realities together
(remember the last section).

From this place, though your words may sound like questions at times,
your tone should match what you are feeling inside and what your
intentions are.
By cultivating, creating, and stating out loud your desired realities, people
can choose to come, jump on board, and play. And play is fun. Lots of fun.
Im inviting lovers to play in my sandbox.
The beauty of sexuality, desire, and erotic turn-on is that its always in a
state of flux. We can play with the flow of sexual energy and stimulate our

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bodies and our own erotic imaginations. Its from our erotic imagination
that we speak and communicate the quality of calm, relaxed, confident
sexual energy energy that she will respond to with her body.
And always be flexible. Things change. Not everybody wants to play in
your sandbox. Thats life. So make sure, no matter what you are doing,
you are both having fun.

Section Bonus Always think ROSA

Think ROSA Relax, Observe, Suggest, Act.

Relax into the calm, assertive energy in your body.

Observe the effect your words and energy have on her body and
erotic mind.

Suggest to her what you desire to experience.

Act, based on direct feedback, freeing both of you to feel erotic

intimacy and immense pleasure.

The point is this: we can always say no to a question. We cant say no

to an energy, a feeling, a vibe. A vibe is something you can begin to make
real using the power of suggestion. And confidence is key. Be confident
that your partner is interested in what you are suggesting. Be sex-positive
by remembering that no matter what happens you are learning and
learning is a beautiful thing.
Use the Language of Lust skills youre developing and become more and
more confident that your partner is, at the very least, interested in what
you are saying and in expanding her sexual sense of self.