You can achieve the transcendent potential of Venus conjunct

Uranus when you realize that your relationships--to others and to your
environment--are based on an inner awareness of your own true
individuality. You have been the recipient of revelations about the
nature of the individual and the cosmos. Thus, at one and the same
time, you approach life and its relationships without regard for the
constraints of societal opinion and with regard to the feelings and
beliefs of others.
Your judgments and feelings arise from higher level of perception
and, therefore, they lead to a state of equanimity and true enjoyment
of the world. You remain open, even eager, to explore new dimensions
of perception. With regard to interpersonal relationships, you
continually use your contacts with others to grow personally, and you
expect that any serious relationship will be based on mutual and inner
growth. Any relationship, also, will be a true partnership, with both
parties maintaining their own individuality while functioning as a unit.
Insecurity
If you are insecure about your judgment, your relationships
and/or your femininity, you will be unwilling to open yourself up to
revelation and the transformative change that it produces. The
Uranian energy then disintegrates into an urge for illusionary change.
You may dissipate the Uranian energy by dallying in the
unconventional. However, to the extent that the subconscious drive
toward transformative change is strong, your tastes may not stop at
being unconventional, but may become symptomatic of a rebellion
borne of your subconscious resistance to true transformation and
change.
If you lack self-assurance, the Uranian energy may also manifest
in you being entirely unpredictable with regard to your judgment, your
inter-personal conduct and/or what attracts you. Your extreme
willfulness hinders any serious partnership, as you subconsciously try
to defend your insecure ego. You may find yourself the
victim/perpetrator of many relationship break-ups. You are also likely
to react to what you perceive to be any encroachment on your
independence.

You can realize the transcendent potential of Venus conjunct

Neptune when you transcend your attachments to the material plane,
and even to human relationships, transforming your values and your
concept of relationship in the process. Your transcendence happens by
degrees, not in a sudden flash, through continued refinement and
purification both of your value system and of your consciousness
concerning individual relationships. Beginning with a strong pull
toward spirituality and a recognition that there is more to life and more

to existence than what is to be found on the physical plane, you have

explored your underlying values, as well as your attachments to people
and things, with sensitivity. Keeping the goal of becoming closer to
God (or the Universal Consciousness) in mind, you have sought to
purify your aspirations and your dealings with others.
You recognize that things and people of themselves are of no real
or ultimate value and that all possessions and relationships are
impermanent and will fade away. Therefore, you have sought the Real
and the Eternal value and relationship. You have weaned yourself
away from your attachment to the senses and to material objects that
seem to give gratification. To replace your attachment to material
things--for true detachment can only be achieved by attachment to
something higher--you have gained a deep appreciation of Love. It is
Love, you have found, that is what is really valuable in life, the real
Treasure of human existence.
Thus, you abandon your selfish attachment to people and you
transform your relationship(s) so that they are based on Universal
Love. You recognize that, in this life, you have certain karmic
relationships with others and you lovingly perform your duty towards
those people. At the same time, you recognize that your only real and
everlasting relationship is with the Supreme Being. You ultimately see
the Godhood in everyone and, so, you are able to relate to everyone
with compassion and kindness and without expectation or attachment.

The transcendent potential of Mercury conjunct Pluto is realized

when you perceive with your intellect the Oneness of Being and that
the Source of all Creation is within your own consciousness. You may
have searched long and deeply and may have experienced a dark
night of the soul before the dawn of this realization broke upon your
consciousness. You may have wrestled with the problem of Good and
Evil before realizing that the solution rested Beyond Good and Evil.
Your mind may have been torn apart while the dross of material and
egoistic attachment was sifted out so that your mind would become
pure enough to receive the gift of Insight.
In a final stage, you may have done battle with Duality before
achieving the vision of Oneness. You may have pierced the intellect
with the intellect in an epistemological crisis in which you overthrew
the rational intellect so that you could see by the Light of the
Transcendent Intellect. Or, you may simply have flown phoenix-like to
the depths and height of your consciousness in a discovery of Truth.

Your mind is now absorbed in the Source of Being and has been
transformed so that it sees with the Eye of the Soul. Truth nakedly
shines before your minds eye and all sense of ego is consumed. You
intellectually know that you are illusion and that the only Reality is the
Being that is within. Your mind is now simply a tool that you use to
function in the world. It is a tool sharpened to a fine hone and
tempered by the fires of mental adversity. It sees only truth and its
gaze is piercing. You, thus, use your mind with utmost efficiency. You
speak only truth. Love provides the scale by which you know whether
to make your tongue a scalpel or to refrain in silence. You do not
betray Secrets to those without ears to hear. You therefore speak
little. However, you take your mind up whenever you will to the Center
of your Being.