Stars In Seventh House

Mercury in 7th house

Your relationships tend to gravitate towards people who are
intelligent, thought-provoking, witty and learned. You desire your
spouse or business partner to be sharp, curious, clever and alert. You
need to communicate and exchange ideas and information with your
partner. Promotion of ideas to and from others appeals to you and you
are always up for a good debate, discussion or argument.

You may spend much time thinking about your relationship or

relationships in general. Marriage may be quite often on your mind.
You desire a marriage or business partner that provides you with
mental satisfaction and challenge. A partner who challenges you
mentally and one who helps you function on more of an intellectual
level is what you are looking for and need. Their value is enhanced if
they help you better adapt and more effectively communicate with
others. The person who gives you a lively flow of ideas, ideas that
challenge and test your own mental processes, one who brings out your
best mentally, stimulates you in a way that others may not understand.
Yet that is what you seek in a partner.

Your partner may be quick-witted, fluent, volatile, restless, high-

strung as well as outspoken, argumentative, wordy and critical.
Nervousness or mental imbalance may be present. Your partner may
possibly be connected with education, writing, traveling, sales,
language interpretation or clerical, secretarial, typing or computer
work.

In order to achieve the most positive results from any partnership you
should learn to control your argumentativeness and your desire to
criticize.

Venus in 7th house

You are charming, sociable and friendly and it is easy for people to
see your loving nature. Partnerships are generally happy and
harmonious. But your desire for peace and harmony at all costs may be
detrimental to you if you do not stand up for your own needs. You
desire a spouse who is attractive and probably well off financially.
Creature comforts and enjoying them with your partner are desired.
Take care that you do not get in the habit of expecting too much from
others, though.

You have a deep appreciation of the value of relationships. Too great

an emphasis on affection might cause problems for you. A desire for
the perfect relationship may be so strong that any imperfections in
your relationship could be blown up beyond proportion. Balance and
poise are necessary.

You seek a partner that can supply you with "the good life". You want
beauty, luxury and the finer things in life and you seek a partner who
can provide these. Perhaps marriage will bring you to a higher
station in life. Over-indulgence and over-emphasizing the sensual side
of life can lead to problems. You must have a partner you feel is
cooperative rather than competitive. If Venus is aspected poorly in
your chart, then perhaps your partner's moral standards are subject to
question.

Uranus in 7th house

Your partnerships are unique or unusual, usually possessing a
wonderful rapport or a total lack of understanding. You and/or your
partner are generally unconventional and you do things for their shock
appeal. Plenty of freedom is desired in the relationship and there
may be a lack of desire for commitment. In fact, maybe you search out
special situations in your relationships that ensure little
commitment. Perhaps you are most attracted to those who are already in
relationships or who are otherwise "unavailable".

Because of the uniqueness that exists within your partnerships, it is

likely that others will not understand them. You may not understand
them yourself. You meet the most interesting and unconventional
people in your life.

Any need to control the other person in your relationships will

probably lead to disaster. Partner and you will have to find your own
comfort level regarding time and attention spent on the other. A lot
of elbow room may be required. A relationship in which you feel you
are free to grow is one that makes it possible for you to do so. Any
limits or constraints placed on the relationship are likely to be met
with a certain "hit the road" attitude. Sudden and unexpected turns
are likely. Perhaps one person is required to be away from the other
for long periods of time. This position may give many long distance,
"casual" types of relationships.

You probably seek a partner who provides the thrills and spills for
you in your life. A partner who challenges you mentally and
emotionally is desired. Your relationships may be lab experiments
where you hope to learn who-knows-what. Someone who is inventive,
individualistic, creative, original, out-going, eccentric or radical
appeals to you. Your partner may possess considerable personal
magnetism and occasionally a degree of genius, but eccentricities,
erratic tendencies and even fanaticism may be present.

Your approach to marriage may be highly idealistic or utopian and

there may be an inclination to favor platonic unions. You want and
need your partner to be your friend. Most of your relationships
probably started as friendships. On the other hand, there may be a
tendency to seek excitement in partnerships and a marked interest in
romantic adventures may result in passing infatuations that can cause
a rift with the marriage partner.

The greatest threat to marriage may occur when one partner's capacity
for self-development expands at a rate greatly in excess of the
other's, so that one spouse may no longer be recognizable as the
person they were when the marriage took place.

For a successful partnership, you and your partner will need to

develop the qualities of tolerance, cooperation, detachment and
freedom.

Sun in 7th house

You want a partner that you can be proud of. In some way your sense
of pride is involved in the choosing of a marriage partner. There may
be a wish to gain social prestige and to marry someone who can be
admired and respected or someone who is higher on the social ladder.

Your partner must be one who encourages you to be your real self and
one who wants you to fully develop your powers of inspiration,
creativity and will. Your partner may be in a position of authority
and this may help give you more confidence in yourself or more
security within the framework of the relationship. You may be
challenged to display a greater degree of confidence and to exercise
authority more effectively and with greater magnanimity.

You must seek a relationship where both people are equal. A

partnership in which one is "superior" and the other "inferior" is not
likely to be successful. That "always me-first" attitude is not
conducive to a rewarding partnership. A need to feel part of a family
is present.

With this position marriage and partnerships are likely to assume a

paramount and key role in your life. There may be a tendency to look
for a "father figure" and, as you may be inclined to surrender the
initiative to your partner, you are rather more likely to react than
act first yourself, so that your partner may assume a dominant role.

If your natal Sun is badly aspected, then the partners you attract may
be egotistical, domineering, vain and ostentatious. If your natal Sun
is well aspected, then partners are likely to be proud, firm-minded,
self-confident, ambitious, honorable, frank and generous.

Selfish pride and too much desire to have your own way may be the
greatest challenges in your relationships.

Saturn in 7th house

There may be the tendency to attract older, more serious partners.
Partnerships may involve much duty, responsibility and hard work.
There may be a karmic tie from the past to the partners in this life.
Whatever the case, there may be a feeling of restriction, bondage,
depression and anxiety in your relationships. They certainly can be
enduring, though.

Saturn here indicates you need to learn to cooperate with and to

develop empathy for others. You are perhaps cautious about marriage,
but, when committed, may find it very difficult to leave your marriage
partner, even if you are unhappy. You may marry for security rather
than love. Discipline is needed in relationships.

There may be a very self-controlled and sometimes calculating attitude

towards all forms of partnership. You are inclined to seek a partner
who will awaken your sense of responsibility and give you a greater
sense of purpose and will to succeed. For a woman there may be a
subconscious desire to marry a "father figure" and the partner may
well feel an urge to organize your life on a more effective basis.

The responsibilities of marriage or the fear of marriage may delay

marriage. If Saturn is well aspected in your natal chart, then this
position usually indicates that one loyally abides by marriage vows
and faithfully carries out marital duties. With a well placed and
well aspected natal Saturn, the partner is likely to be a person of
integrity, faithful, steady, reliable, industrious, persevering and
economical, perhaps not over-demonstrative and preferring deeds to
words, and providing a real anchor for the partnership.

If natal Saturn is badly aspected, then there is a tendency to endure

an unhappy marriage rather than to lose face by breaking up. If you
neglect to make your partner happy, your own happiness will be
affected in the same proportion. This position can also mean a second
choice marriage, which endures in spite of boredom, unhappiness and a
lack of love. In other words you may have wanted to marry someone else
but settled on a second choice instead. The partner may act in such a
way as to become a burden, and may be uncommunicative, narrow in
outlook, cold, and over-critical. In some cases the spouse may be
much loved, but prone to ill health. Marriage to a widow or widower
is possible.

Neptune in 7th house

There may be a tendency to idealize marriage or the marriage partner.
Many sacrifices may be made for the spouse. The marriage partner can
be spiritually minded, artistic or just plain confusing. Communication
may be a problem due to your concepts and ideals not coinciding. There
is the tendency to attract a partner whereby you or they play the role
of martyr or savior. The feeling may be that your partner "needs"
saving and that you're the only one who can "save" (change) them.
Because of this your partner may be an alcoholic or a drug (ab)user.

Your imagination and your idealization of your partner may be more

real to you than what your partner is in reality. If this is so, then
there will come the day when your blinders are removed and you will
see their true nature. This then may lead to great disappointment and
discouragement when you find out that they or you have been living a
lie and that things are not as they have appeared. With this position
you must make absolutely sure you are dealing with the hard, cold
facts of your relationship and not the romantic notions dreamed up
from storybook tales.

You are likely to seek a marriage partner who can provide a source of
inspiration and bring out your capacity for compassion and loving
understanding. There can be a tendency to see a prospective partner
through rose-colored glasses or to weave imaginative fantasies about
new contacts or hoped-for encounters. Consequently there is a
possibility that the partner may not be the type of person conjured up
by your imagination.

There is some tendency to form partnerships based on admiration or

pity. If your natal Neptune is afflicted, such admiration may have
resulted from your having been dazzled by glamorous externals, while
an over-active sense of pity may be exploited by a prospective partner
so that you marry out of sentiment or misplaced sympathy.

Possibilities exist that the partner is very sensitive and may need to
be treated with kid gloves. The partner may be artistic or musically
inclined or have some connection with drama or the stage. The material
side of life may not concern them. Your relationship may be quite
spiritual and above the sordid things of this life, hence it may be
more platonic than sexual. The other side of the coin is that you may
become involved with unreliable, inconstant and somewhat shiftless
types whose sympathies may be largely focused upon themselves, or they
may be underprivileged in some way, or neurotic or invalids suffering
from chronic ill health.

An unconscious willingness on your part to indulge in self-deception

regarding your partner is possible. This may keep you in a bad
relationship because you refuse to see the truth or you falsely
believe that only you can change things.

In order to get the best results from the marriage relationship you
must learn to overcome vague desires for an unattainable ideal, to
control any tendency to get carried away by shallow romanticism and to
be as clear-headed and practical as possible when assessing the
virtues and attractions of prospective mates. Stay well-grounded.

Pluto in 7th house

Control and power issues along with feelings of ownership are present
with the partner or spouse. Cooperation with the mate will need to be
learned. A partner may be selected based on that person's ability to
stand their ground and not give in. A partner such as this could make
the relationship very combative and competitive rather than harmonious
and equal-sided.

You are inclined to seek a partner who will provide a challenge to

discover new resources within yourself that will give you the power to
transcend previous performances and to transform certain aspects of
your being. A partner who makes you feel growth and intensity is one
you seek. There is a tendency to admire well developed will power in
others, with the result that you may attract those who tend to
dominate you, possibly feeling that if you have to cope with a
somewhat overpowering personality you may discover more effectively
the full extent of your own resources.

There are intense feelings and reactions in your relationships. You

have a need to cooperate with others and expect total commitment in
your partnerships. Trouble can occur when this same sense of
commitment is not felt by the other person in the relationship.

Moon in 7th house

You seem to attract sensitive people as partners, perhaps those who
want to "mother" you or be mothered. There can be many changes of
partners and many relationships because of the need to find someone
who can bring an ultimate security. This search continues because
security can only be found within, not without. You desire
companionship, hence many relationships.

Your feelings are greatly influenced by those with whom you are in
close personal contact. You want to be popular with others. You are
inclined to seek partners who can bring out your sympathetic side and
play on your emotions.

For men there is often a tendency to seek a "mother figure" and to

bring out in others a desire to mother, protect and care for them. You
are therefore likely to attract a partner who is kind and
domesticated.

Both you and your partner may need to be on your guard against moody
or fickle behavior. Marriage may be undertaken with the object of
establishing a home. More than one marriage is possible.

There is probably a compelling emotional need for a partner and for

marriage. In order to get the best results from any partnership you
must learn to control any tendency to be continually at the mercy of
your moods, which may result from over-vulnerable feelings. Try to
control a tendency to be too dependent on others for your emotional
stimuli and you should discipline a constant desire for changes in the
nature of the relationship.

Concerning vocation: Your work situation is tied to the public,

partnerships, a keen awareness of public expectation and the need to
meet it. Perhaps marriage is essential to give clear focus to work
security. For many with this position, the work profile can be
labeled a "public personality." You are dependent upon others for the
fulfillment of work needs. The process of relationships is extremely
important.

Mars in 7th house

You are independent, like to have your own way and you must develop
gentleness and diplomacy in order to avoid rubbing people the wrong
way. You need to learn how to cooperate with others.

Relationships energize you and you get a great deal of stimulation

from them. You desire an active partner who can help you share in the
goings-on of the world. Your partner needs to challenge you, help you
initiate projects and perhaps compete with you. You need a sparring
partner! Your relationships have much energy and you need to channel
that energy into constructive means and not into destructive ones. The
competition between you and your partner might better be directed
towards the outer world.

In all your dealings with others you enjoy the element of challenge
and competition. You may goad others just to see how they will react.
The chase is important to you, perhaps more important then the end
result. Because you enjoy the action, you may not mind losing battles
to a partner who is prepared to carry the fight to you. Your marriage
partner is likely to be very ardent, positive, active, capable and
courageous, with a will of their own.

Perhaps the partner you seek is someone who can play the role of a
champion or a crusader. Mars here makes for an association where the
passions have full play and a love match with much devotion is
possible. The tendency is to marry early, often as a result of love at
first sight, although if Mars is badly aspected, you may "marry in
haste and repent at leisure".

There may be strife and friction in marriage as a result of the

partner's hasty temper, intemperance, extravagance, brashness,
intolerance, over-demanding attitude or violence.

In order to get the best results from marriage and partnership, you
should try to be as cooperative and easy-going as possible, practicing
gentleness and diplomacy rather than allowing any assertive or
quarrelsome tendencies to gain the upper hand.

Jupiter in 7th house

Benefit, opportunities and wealth may come about as a result of
marriage or partnerships in general. You seek a partner that can
expand your visions, open up opportunities for expansion and help you
grow. Your partner can strengthen your faith and deepen your
religious or philosophical attitudes and ideas. You may feel that you
need a partner to help you develop your moral outlook and social
conscience.

Your partner, who may be a member of one of the professions, may be

more affluent than you. If Jupiter is badly aspected in your natal
chart, then your partner may be somewhat opinionated, lazy, self-
indulgent, extravagant and self-willed, sometimes untrustworthy,
immoral, shameless and wasteful.

You are able to bring out the generous and good-natured impulses of
others, but in order to get the best results from the marriage
partnership you may need to control any extravagant tendencies and
prevent false pride from unduly affecting the smooth course of your
relationships.