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Abstract
Thispaperexaminesthesurprising case ofwomenwho"comeoutas fat" totestand refinethe-
oriesaboutsocialchange,social mobilization, stigma,and stigmaresistance.
First,supporting
theoriesabout"socialmovement spillover,"wefindthatoverlappingmemberships in queerand
fatactivistgroups,as wellas networks betweenthesegroups,havefacilitatedthemigration of
thisculturalnarrative.Second,we findthatthedifferent, embodiedcontextofbodysize and
sexualorientationleads tochangesin meaningas thisnarrativetravels.Specifically,thehyper-
offatchangeswhatitmeanstocomeoutas a fatperson,comparedtowhatitmeansto
visibility
comeoutas gay or lesbian.Third,thiscase leads us toquestiontheimportance ofthedistinc-
tionmade in theliteratureson stigmaand on social movements betweenassimilationist strat-
egiesthatstresssameness,on theonehand,and radicalpoliticalstrategies thatemphasizedif-
ference,on theother.Finally,thiscase suggeststhattheextentto whicha stigmatized traitis
associatedwithmembership in a social group- withits ownpractices,values,and norms -
" "
shapeswhatit meansto comeout as one whopossessesthattrait.
Keywords
stigma,coming out, covering,flaunting,
destigmatizationstrategies
When asked about how she became a fat person" at her first National
involved with the fat rights movement, Association to Advance Fat Acceptance
prominent fat rights activist and (NAAFA) convention: "Even though
author Marilyn Wann talks about her you may look fat, it's hard to admit it.
"Really Bad Day," when a romantic As we talk about in NAAFA, it's coming
interest told her he was embarrassed out as a fat person" (Sherrie interview
to introduce her to his friends because 9/7/01).1
she was fat and when she received a let-
ter fromBlue Cross refusingher health
1 ofCalifornia,
LosAngeles
insurance because she was "morbidly University
obese." At that point, Wann realized 2Swarthmore College
that "living in the closet [was] not Corresponding Author:
working," and she "decided to come Saguy,UCLADepartment
Abigail ofSociology,
264
HainesHall,LosAngeles, CA90095
out as a fat person and tried to do it Email:saguy@soc.ucla.edu
really publicly and really loudly
because . . . [she] wasn't going to put 1Unlesstheyrequested interview-
otherwise,
ees are identified
withfirst-namepseudonyms.
up with exclusion" (Wann interview 8/ Weuse firstandlastnamesforthoseinterview-
17/01). Another activist, Sherrie, simi- ees whorequested to be identified
bytheirreal
larly talks about how she "came out as names.
In an essay on the "queerness offat," This begs the question of why and
Katie LeBesco notes that "fat activists how fat acceptance activists have come
regularly describe the experience of to use this narrative and how they are
coming out as fat and choosing to no using it differentlythan have gays and
longer pass as on-the-way-to thin" lesbians. It thus speaks to the sociolog-
(LeBesco 2004:95). She cites a 1983 ical question of how cultural narra-
example when "Pam Hinden told tives travel and change in the process.
what she called her Tat coming out As the above quotations demonstrate,
story,'" in which she "explained that fat rights activists are not disclosing,
coming out meant mustering courage as much as affirming,their fatness.
to engage in activities usually thought They are reclaiming the term fat, com-
proper only for thin people, giving up monly used as an insult, as a neutral
futile diets, and rebuilding her self- or positive descriptor(it is in this sense
esteem" (LeBesco 2004:95). "We're that we use the word fat here), reject-
here, we're spheres! Get used to it!" ing the terms obese and overweightas
Wann is quoted saying, echoing the pathologizing normal human variation
ACT-up and Queer Nation's mantra (Cooper 1998; Schroeder 1992; Wann
"We're here, we're queer, get used to 1999). They are innovating upon the
it!" (Burkeman 1998; cited in LeBesco concept of coming out as a "destigmati-
2004). zation strategy" (Lamont 2009; see
It is intriguing that fat acceptance also Wimmer 2008). Thus, the rela-
activists- who combat discrimination tively understudied case of coming
on the basis of body size - would talk out as fat provides an opportunity to
about coming out as fat. It is not sur- test and refine theories of stigma and
prising that members of this move- stigma resistance. Before turning to
ment, which emerged in the 1960s our findings,we review our theoretical
and 1970s in the wake of the civil perspective, provide background on
rights, women's rights, and gay rights queer and fat politics, and describe
movements, would be drawn to our data and methods.
a proven strategyforcombating stigma
or unwanted difference (Goffman
THEORETICAL PERSPECTIVE:
1963). However, the narrative of com- FATPHOBIA AND SOCIAL
ing out does not seem to work with CHANGE
fat. That is, while coming out usually
refers to revealing something hidden, This paper seeks to contributeto under-
body size is hypervisible. It is what standings of political resistance and
Goffman (1963) referred to as a "dis- social change. It specifically considers
credited identity," meaning that it is political resistance to what we will call
plainly visible, as opposed to a "discred- fatphobia, akin to homophobia, in
itable identity," which can be which thinner bodies are defined as
concealed.2 morally, medically, aesthetically, and
sexually desirable, while heavy bodies
are vilified.The suffix"phobia" evokes
2Thatsaid,fatwomen often
talkaboutfeeling the fear and hatred that visible body
inthatpeopleonlyseea fatper- fat on oneself or on others
invisible,
socially
sonandcannotsee theindividual much provokes for
woman, in the United
as the protagonistin Ralph Ellison's(1947) many contemporary
InvisibleMan speaks of beingblack in the States. We conceptualize fatphobia as
UnitedStatesin the1940s. a social structure that is jointly
to hide. While a person with a dis- forgood gays- the kind who would not
credited identitycannot pass, they can challenge the norms of straightculture,
cover by preventing their stigma from who would not flaunt their sexuality,
"looming large" (Goffman 1963). Thus, and who would not insist on living dif-
a blind man may directhis eyes toward ferently from ordinary folk" (Warner
the person with whom he is speaking, 1999:113).
not to pass as seeing, but to avoid mak- Indeed, Yoshino's notion of flaunting
ing the other uncomfortableby drawing as a refusal to cover resonates with
attention to his difference (Goffman queer theory and activism, in which
1963). Yoshino (2006) calls the refusal "queer maintains a relation ofresistance
to cover,which results in drawing atten- to whatever constitutes the normal"
tion to a visible stigma, flaunting. He (Jagose 1996:99). Queer theory often
gives examples of gay men who are not performativelycelebrates acts that are
onlyout about their sexuality but flaunt typically coded as socially deviant in
by, say, bringing their romantic part- order to resist the very categorization
ners to office parties, kissing their of "normal" and "deviant." Yoshino
same-sex partner in public, or speaking (2006) argues that coming out involves
out about gay politics. By extension, a politics of assimilation, whereas
a fat woman may cover by wearing flaunting represents a politics of
dark clothes or flaunt by wearing difference.
a hot-pink bikini. Thus, while coming Sociologist Mary Bernstein makes
out is assumed to be a strategyfordis- a similar distinction between identity
creditable identities, flauntingis avail- foreducation, which "involves challeng-
able to those with both visible and invis- ing how dominant cultures perceive
ible stigmas. stigmatized individuals and communi-
Yoshino (2006) argues that the same ties in an attempt to gain legitimacy"
behavior may or may not be covering and identityfor critique, which "con-
or flaunting,depending on personal sen- frontsthe values, categories,and practi-
sibilities. For instance, some African ces of the dominant culture" (Bernstein
Americans experience prohibitions 1997). She argues that the former
against dreadlocks as a demand to approach is more commonamong collec-
cover, while others personally preferto tivitieswith strongorganizational infra-
straighten their hair. Yoshino (2006) structureand access to decision makers,
further argues that a given behavior while the latter is more common among
can constitutecoveringon some dimen- groups with weak organizational struc-
sions and flauntingon others. He specif- ture and no access to decision makers
ically discusses the dimensions of (Bernstein 1997).
appearance, cultural expression (what Yet, as we will see, in the case of fat,
he calls "affiliation"),activism,and asso- coming out ofteninvolves affirmingdif-
ciation. Demanding gay marriage, for ference,while flauntingis oftenpart of
instance, can be seen as flauntingalong a strategy of inclusion, leading us to
the dimensions of appearance, activism, rethink destigmatization strategies.
and association, but covering along the Finally, the fat case draws our attention
dimension of affiliation,in that it reaf- to how otherunderemphasizedvariations
firmsthe mainstream cultural value of in stigma- particularly the extent to
marriage. Queer theorist Michael which a given stigma is associated with
Warner affirms this view when he cultural practices, beliefs, and values-
argues that gay marriage "would make shape destigmatizationstrategies.
BACKGROUND: THE COMING OUT norms after the war. While they made
NARRATIVE political demands, the Mattachine
Society's use of coming out narratives
In his examination of prewar gay male was focused on the "internal acceptance
communities in major cities, George ofa homosexual identity(which could be
Chauncey explains that coming out wholly private)" (Johansson and Percy
was not initially associated with the 1994:21).
closet. Rather, one spoke of coming The Stonewall Riots of 1969, or the
out into homosexual society or the Stonewall Rebellion, is a watershed in
gay world, including enormous drag traditional narratives of lesbian and
balls that were patterned on the main- gay historyin the United States and is
stream debutante and masquerade oftencreditedwith sparking the gay lib-
balls, "a world neither so small, nor eration movement (see D'Emilio 1983;
so isolated, nor often, so hidden as Duberman 1993). The Stonewall Inn,
'closet' implies" (Chauncey 1994:7). In a popular, members-only bar in
other words, during this period, com- Greenwich Village in Manhattan, had,
ing out was conceptualized as mainly like otherestablishmentscateringto les-
social and cultural (see also Garber bians and gays, oftenbeen the target of
1989:325). Borrowing from Sewell's police raids. On July 27, 1969, however,
(1992) language, the upper-class Stonewall patrons resisted a police raid,
debutante ball was transposed onto which escalated into Village-wide riots
the gay social scene, exerting social that continued off and on for several
change in a cultural more than a polit- days, as others joined the resistance.
ical sense. Recent scholarship has shown that
By placing large numbers of men in a vibrant political field was already in
same-sex living arrangements and put- place prior to Stonewall and that the
ting women in workplaces with large New Left played a greater role than the
numbers of women, the war increased Stonewall rebellion in energizing and
the likelihood that those with same-sex radicalizing the movement (Armstrong
desires would find like-minded people 2002). Nonetheless, Stonewall remains
(Berube 1989). The end ofthe war, how- a pivotal and definingmomentin collec-
ever, brought renewed attention from tive gay rightsnarratives.
the government,community and reli- In the 1970s, the gay rights move-
gious leaders, and the media to gender ment took the civil rights and black
and sexual identity (Faderman 1991). power movements as a new model for
As Alan Berube explains: "The taste of political organizing and conceptualizing
freedomduring the war, the magnitude gay identity (Armstrong 2002). While
of the postwar crackdown, and the pre-Stonewall organizations such as
example ofthe growingblack civil rights the Mattachine Society conceptualized
movement caused more and more les- homosexuality as a relatively minor
bians and gay men to think of them- aberration of mental character, the
selves as an unjustly persecuted minor- post-Stonewall organizations framed
ity" (Berube 1989:393). The few lesbian gay identityas a significantcomponent
and gay organizations in existence dur- ofsocial and personal identity.The com-
ing the 1950s and 1960s, including the ing out narrative assumed a central role
Mattachine Society and the Daughters in gay identity and community,as is
of Bilitis, developed in response to the reflectedby the publicationofnumerous
legal and political enforcementof sexual anthologies of coming out stories
Moreover, our interview and textual the people I turn to are fat and queer
data suggest that residents of San women or gender-queer people" (Wann
Francisco, where queer politics has email 9/30/09).
been most active (Armstrong 2002), In an essay, activistCharlotte Cooper
queer-identifiedactivists and queer the- explains that "as queers it's likely that
orists were among the first to talk of we are a little bit more advanced [in]
coming out as fat. For instance, that we are better able to reject homo-
Marilyn Wann was living in San phobia, or question assimilation"
Francisco in the early 1990s when she (Cooper 2009:4-5). Note that fat activist
created the zine FAT! SO? and talks Pat Hindon, who was quoted in the
about being influencedby her gay male introductionas one of the first people
friends in Queer Nation who took her to talk about coming out as fat, also
to "politicized/punk drag shows and identifiedas lesbian (LeBesco 2004:95).
other gay community stuff' (Wann Similarly, in a 1983 essay entitled
email 9/30/09).She took furtherinspira- "Coming Out: Notes on Fat Lesbian
tion fromqueer zines being produced in Pride," the author Thunder, who identi-
San Francisco at the time, including fied as a "dyke," spoke about "going
Diseased Pariah News and Hothead frombeing a fat woman to coming out
Paisan: Homicidal Lesbian Terrorist. as a fat woman" (Thunder 1983:212,
Wann notes that when she began emphasis in the original). According to
printingFATISO? in July of 1994, she Cooper, in response to an earlier version
used the "fatdykecommunityas a major of this paper, it is not so much that fat
support for [her] work" (Wann email 9/ activists have appropriated coming out
30/09).While traditionallymarginalized narratives fromlesbian or queer groups,
in the NAAFA itself,feministlesbians but that gay liberation rhetoric was
were active in the organization's Fat already "woven into the history of fat
Feminist Caucus and founded several liberation" via the experience of queer
independent groups, including the fat activists.
Feminist Underground in the early Queer theorists,who criticallystudy
1970s (Fabrey email 11/23/09;Stimson the socially constructednature ofsexual
n.d.). Since then, lesbians and bisexual acts and self-identifications, were also
women have organized and supported among the first to view fat through
scores of San Francisco-based fat activ- a queer lens. For instance, an essay
ist groups, including performance that began as a 1986 conferencepaper
groups such as the Fat Lip Readers by queer theorist Eve Sedgwick (Moon
Theater, Big Burlesque, Fat Bottom and Sedgwick 2001) explicitlyuses the
Revue, Bod Squad, Big Moves, the phrase "coming out as a fat woman"
Padded Lilies, the Fat Women's Swim, (see also Kyrola 2005; LeBesco 2004).
Radiance magazine, and the Fat Girl It claims that, despite the visibility of
zine (Wann email 9/30/09).There are fat, "there is such a process as coming
also queer cultural and fat positive out as a fat woman" in which "the
events, such as Fat Girl Speaks, that denominationof oneself as a fat woman
were organized in Portland in the late is a way ... ofmaking clear to the people
1990s and early 2000s, and organiza- around one that theircultural meanings
tions like the National Association for will be, and will be heard as, assaultive
Lesbians of SizE (NOLOSE). "Even and diminishing to the degree that
now," writes Wann, "when I think of they are not fat-affirmative" (Moon and
local fat activist community, most of Sedgwick 2001:206).
Analyses of NAAFA newsletterslend contact they had had with queer activ-
additional supportto the claim that net- ism or with others who were in touch
works between queer and fat groups with queer activism. Sally Smith
facilitatedthe migration of the coming explains that she worked for LIFE
out narrative. We found six explicit (Lobby for Individual Freedom and
mentions to "coming out as fat" in Equality), an umbrella group of primar-
NAAFA newsletters printed between ily gay and lesbian organizations whose
1981 and 2006. In the first,published mission was to lobby for responsible
in the 1981 Spring/Summernewsletter, AIDS legislation. She says, "I'm sure
Kimm Bonner, then chair of the New that being immersed in (what was at
England chapter of the NAAFA writes, the time) a gay rights issue provided
"Personally- what I've gotten out of a prism with which to view my experi-
this [joining NAAFA] is to come out of ence" (Smith email 12/16/09). Bill
the closet- I feel really good about who Fabrey says he picked up the expres-
I am. I've been able to tell everyone in sion of "coming out" as a fat admirer
my life- family,friends,people at work from "fat feminists," who he says
that 'Hey- this is me- if I like it, you were the first at NAAFA to use the
should accept it too"' (Bonner 1981:2). phrase in reference to body size: "I
In 1988 then executive director Sally never thought of it until they used it"
E. Smith writes, "In my first year as (Fabrey email 10/6/09).While himself
a NAAFA, I came out of the closet on a heterosexual man, Fabrey's ex-wife
size acceptance issues" (Smith 1988:3). of many years identifies as bisexual,
An April 1989 article with no byline, and he considers himself "supportive
but which Bill Fabrey attributesto him- of gays and lesbians" (Fabrey email
self, says, "The firstNAAFA officewas 12/3/09).
located in Fabrey's spare bathroom, When asked how it had occurred to
and the membership file was main- her to use this language, Bruno, who is
tained in their walk-in closet . . . (Talk straight and "happily married for 32
about fatpeople and theiradmirerscom- years," mentions that she may have
ing out of the closet!)" (NAAFA 1989:2). picked it up from one or several
Barbara Altman Bruno writes in the NAAFA board memberswho were living
1993 newsletterthat "it takes most peo- in San Francisco: "Since she [a NAAFA
ple a period of time before they will board member] lives and I used to live
'come out' as fat people, and join in the Bay Area, 'comingout' was a com-
NAAFA" (Bruno 1993:7), and in 1995, mon term" (Bruno email 12/16/09).
"Your 'coming out' process [as fat peo- Barron mentions that she "used to
ple] may have taken many years, per- hang out a lot in Hank's Gab Cafe (on
haps decades" (Bruno 1995:4). In 2006 Marilyn [Wann's] FAT!SO ? website)"
Kathy Barron writes about coming to and that "I'm sure that Marilyn had
realize that many fat people are "'in something to do with it- she has been
the closet' in terms of acknowledging a huge inspiration to me and a driving
themselves as fat" and urges "all force in much of my fat activism"
NAAFA members to come out as proud (Barron email 12/16/09).
fat people and fat activists" (Barron
2006:1). How VisibilityMatters
When asked how they came to use
this language, several of these NAAFA In some cases in which a person was
newsletter contributorspointed to the previously fat and still identifies as
such, coming out as fat involves- as States. This act is of symbolic impor-
with coming out as gay or lesbian- tance, especially given how often the
the disclosure of a hidden self identifi- mass media use "headless fatties"(pho-
cation. For instance, after losing 100 tos of fat bodies with heads cropped
pounds and arriving at college where out of the image) when discussing the
no one had known her as fat, Jennifer so-called obesity epidemic (Cooper
spoke about hearing "women talk about 2007).
fatness in a way I'd never heard before" More typically, coming out as fat
and findingherself "rather mortified." involves a person who is easily recog-
She says, "I felt the only way they'd nized as fat affirmingto herself and
understand was if I outed myself. others her fatness as a nonnegotiable
That's what I did, rather uncomfort- aspect ofself,ratherthan as a temporary
ably" (Jenniferinterview 7/14/06). state to be remedied through weight
In her one-woman short video enti- loss. For example, Kelly says, "I've
tled A Fat Rant (Nash 2007), which begun identifyingmore now with fat as
had attracted over one million viewers opposed to thinkingof myselfas essen-
on YouTube by August 2008, the young, tially a thin person who just needs to
beautiful, witty, and fashionable Joy lose twenty pounds" (Kelly interview
Nash announces that she weighs 224 12/22/06).5For many, using the word
pounds and is "moderately obese" fat is a key component of coming out.
according to government guidelines. Lily says, "If there's a marker for me,
"I'm fat," she says, "and it's OK. It when I would say I came out as a fat
doesn't mean that I'm stupid or ugly or person, it's when I first reclaimed the
lazy or selfish. I'm fat. . . . F-A-T. It's word fat" (Lily interview 7/7/06).
three little letters. What are you so Marilyn Wann explains that she tries
afraid of?" to "get people to use the F word. There
After a public lecture in which the is nothing inherentlybad about the F
first author showed a clip of A Fat word. I don't use euphemisms because
Rant , members of the audience pro- these reinforcethe concept that there
tested that the charming woman on is something wrong with fat" (Wann
the screen was not actually fat. It may interview6/9/06).
be that many people do not realize just Bogeywomen zine suggests respond-
how broadly the official category of ing to the statement "you're not fat" by
obese is defined,including one-thirdof saying "I am fat, honey. Don't assume
the U.S. population, many of whom do I'm as terrifiedof the word and the con-
not look especially fat. When Nash cept as you are" (Owen, Buffington,and
announces that she is obese, she may, Owen 2000-2001). When Nicky meets
in fact,be announcing somethingpeople someone forthe firsttime, she describes
do not realize, thus challenging their herself as a "fat black woman." When
assumptions of who is obese, much in they express surprise, she responds by
the same way that a straight-looking saying uFat is not a four-letterword.
woman challenges assumptions about I'm very comfortablewith the word fat,
what it means to be lesbian when she so feel free to use it. Fabulous and
comes out as such. By associating Thick. That's what it stands for"
a happy, confident,and beautiful face
to fat, Nash undermines the fear and 5Notetheuse of"with"as opposedto"as"fat
loathing that this term typically pro- here and the reluctanceit seems to signal.
vokes in the contemporary United ThankstoReneAlmeling forthispoint.
find comfortand pride in their bodies individuals that is necessary forthe for-
on a personal level, while acknowledg- mation of group practices, beliefs, and
ing that a "fat-pridecommunity"or cul- values.
ture, akin to gay/lesbian/queerculture The fact that the fat acceptance
with its rainbow flag, gay neighbor- movement is not grounded in cohesive
hoods, and pride parades, does not yet social groups with their own practices,
exist. The National Association to values, and culture is, we would argue,
Advance Fat Acceptance had only two the reason why the movement has not
to three thousand paid members yet developed a strong counter-culture
in 2001 (Saguy and Riley 2005). and why comingout as fat is more about
The International Size Acceptance rejecting negative stereotypes than
Association (ISAA) has branches across about affirminggroup practices,beliefs,
the United States, in Canada, Brazil, or values. Wann speaks to this when
the United Kingdom, France, she says that "fat people have yet to
Australia, and in the Middle East and find a point of anger that would mean
North Africa (ISAA 2007), but it has no turning back. Fat people still go
not operated as a paid membership along with blaming ourselves- rather
organization since 2005, according to than blaming the prejudice against
ISAA director Allen Steadham us - when we're treated as second-class
(Steadham email 5/18/09). "Fat-pride or untouchable" (Wann email 1/12/09).
community,"in Wann's words, is hard Wann explains how, at a NAAFA con-
to find (Wann interview 6/9/06).It is, vention, she was "joking about how
she says, "very grassroots and small. Slim-Fast® is self-hatredin a can, and
It's not even a lawn. It's a few blades [later learned that] a woman sitting
of grass" (Wann interview 6/9/06). nearby leaned over to another NAAFA
Given this,websites and/orbooks pro- member and confided, I've drunk
vide a virtual "fat-pridecommunity"for a Slim-Fast® every morning since I've
many. BeforeJoyNash made her filmA been here'" (Wann interview 6/9/06).
Fat Rant , she had never been to a fat Similarly,Michelle says in an interview,
acceptance meeting,but as she explains "I have people who are within my own
in an interview,"Fd already been read- chapter who consider themselves to be
ing a bunch ofthe [fatacceptance litera- fat-acceptancepeople, but on the other
ture], like Shadow on a Tightrope and hand, they still never have walked
[Marilyn Wann's] FAT ISO? and things away from dieting. They never have"
like that. So, I definitelyknew that I (Michelle interview 10/18/06).
wasn't alone." Similarly, Jennifertalks Just as many fat people, including
about coming out "into a hypothetical some membersoffat acceptance associa-
community,aware there were otherpeo- tions, would rather be thin, preferthin
ple with these ideas, without actually mates, and would hope to have thin
ever knowingany ofthem,ever meeting children, blind people- who do not
any one of them" (Jenniferinterview 7/ have a common culture, history, or
14/06). While virtual or hypothetical language - tend to shun the company
"communities" can be comforting of other blind people, seek sighted
and absolutelycrucial to affirminga stig- mates, and do not wish to transmittheir
matized trait as a valued part of one's blindness to their children (Deshen
sense of self, they are limited in their 1992). In contrast,members of the deaf
ability to fosterthe sustained interper- world,who have a vibrant culture,their
sonal interaction among like-minded own language, and pride in their