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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
I do highly acknowledge these persons, who have sacrificed their time, exerted
their efforts and most of all, did everything in order for this thesis work to be successful
and meaningful.
To my parents, thank you for the unending support and for the unconditional
love that has given me the strength to push myself to my limits and finish this research
work.
To Rev. Fr. Francis Mark G. Guzman, for believing in me in those times that
To my classmates, for all the times we spent together, helping each other out in
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DEDICATION
I dedicate this portfolio to my family, friends, relatives, and to the entire grade
12 who graduated this school year and as well as to the upcoming grade 12 next year.
May this portfolio serve as an inspiration, guide and enlightenment to people, that this
is a very serious task and it is something that would uplift the morality of someone and
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CONTENTS
Chapter
CONCEPTUAL FRAMEWORK
3 SEX . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
8 BIBLIOGRAPHY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52
9 CURRICULUM VITAE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53
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CHAPTER 1
Among the many topics explored by the philosophy of sexuality, which are
We have chosen this topic because it is the most fundamental aspect of sexuality and
what should be the main purpose of why couples engage into sexual intercourse.
The researcher has come up with this study in order to create a deeper
understanding of sex. Sexuality is part of being human. In marriage, sex is a vital part
through which the couples are able to procreate. It also strengthens the relationship
innuendos. Some people create sexual fantasies and tries to acquire as much knowledge
about sex to prepare themselves for their future sexual encounter. In fact, premarital sex
in the youth is very rampant. A proof of this is that a lot of women already get pregnant
at such a very young age. Added to this fact is the advancement of technology. Modern
technology is now being used to record and broadcast sexual scandals. Most of the
teenagers talk about sex as if it is just an ordinary topic. They even create jokes about
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sex. They worry about sex and enjoy sex. This fact shows how people desecrate sex,
People nowadays see sex in many different ways. Mostly, every individual has
their own perspective of sex and sexual nature, depending on the kind of sexual culture
they grew up with. That is why most people don’t really understand the true meaning
and purpose of sex. Most of them do not see sex as something that must only be done
inside the covenant of marriage and that sex is a marital act that strengthens the bond
between a married couple and God. They do not understand that sex must always go
with the intention of procreation and not only for experiencing the sexual pleasure that
comes along with it, thus making it an act done out of lustfulness.
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STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM
Sex is a sacred act that strengthens the bond between a man and a woman. It
must be done only inside the context of marriage and with the intention of fulfilling the
main purpose of its existence, which is procreation. Nowadays, most people who
engage into sexual intercourse do it only to satisfy their sexual urges, they do it just for
satisfaction or only for pleasure. The true essence of sex is often set aside only for the
sake of experiencing the immense pleasure that comes with it and not for the main
reason of its very existence, which is procreation. It would seem that if the purpose of
sex – the reason for sex’s existence – is procreation, then all or most acts of sex should
result in pregnancy. However, this is not the case among human beings.
Most sexual activities happening right now around the world are not procreative
and most of those getting busy at this moment would be shocked and upset to find that
their “happy time” have resulted to pregnancy. As sexual beings, sex is a natural
phenomenon to man, and can be viewed as an expression of love and lust. That is why
people should know the difference between wanting to engage into sexual intercourse
for its main purpose, which is procreation, from wanting to engage into sexual
intercourse for pleasure and mere satisfaction. We should always remember that sex or
sexual intercourse is not a habit that we can do whenever we feel aroused or whenever
Yes it is very common and natural for human beings to engage into sexual
intercourse because it is part of their very existence as sexual beings. But, they should
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always remember that sex must always go with the idea of procreation, not purely for
the sake of experiencing pleasure itself. It must always be done inside the context of
marriage. People should always bear in mind the purity of sex and that it must always
be done inside of marriage with the intention of procreating or for procreation and not
purely with lust and the longing to experience that intense pleasure.
1. What is sex?
4. What can this understanding clarify in the issues that the society faces now in terms
of sexual culture?
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4.1. What salient part can this study come up that would be of great help in
understanding sex?
Sex is a part of human nature as sexual beings. It is the very core and the lifeline
of their very existence. In marriage, it is a vital part by which the married couples are
able to perform the process of procreation. It also strengthens the bond between the
husband and wife. However, due to it being a sacred act, it must only be done inside the
context of marriage and that any sexual act done outside the context of marriage is
Today, sex has already become a normal activity, almost everyone already has
an experience of sex, or if not, they at least have the idea of how it is conducted or
performed. The most common aspects that exposed the sacred image of sex is the
Premarital sex, especially among the youth, is very rampant. Proof of this is the fact
that a lot of women, mostly teenagers, already gets pregnant at such a very young age.
The significance of this study is not only to educate the current generation of
knowing their limitations regarding this particular matter, but also to remind married
and unmarried couples to be aware if they are already engaging into sexual intercourse
merely for pleasure or for personal satisfaction. It will also give new concepts and
knowledge that would be vital for the formation of man’s nature in sex.
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Through this, the readers of this research paper will be able to better avoid
premarital sex for unmarried couples, and extramarital sex for married couples. It will
also expose the very significance of sex’s existence and open the minds of the new
sexual act, and that one should consider sex as an expression of love and not just for
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SCOPE AND DELIMITATION
This research paper implies the importance of knowing that sexual pleasure
must not be experienced without the purpose of procreation, and that the purpose of
procreation will not be fulfilled if one does not experience pleasure because, these two
are vital aspects of sex and therefore cannot and must not be separated. It defines sex in
the context of the church and in the biblical context while expounding on St. John Paul
II’s Theology of the Body’s implication about sex. It also explains the complementarity
of procreation and pleasure in sex and the complementarity of a man and a woman, in
sexual intercourse.
The first two chapters contains the introduction, the statement of the problem,
the background of the study, significance of the study, the scope and delimitation, and
The third chapter defines the difference between sex ad sexual intercourse and
sex in the context of the church and in the biblical context. The meaning of
On the next chapter, the meaning of sex and its complementarity in St. John
Paul II’s Theology of the body is elaborated. It is also defined here the meaning of
procreation and pleasure in the sexual context and what it says about the nature of sex.
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The fifth chapter elaborates the difference between sex as pleasure, and sex as
procreation, and the end of sexual intercourse. The last two chapters explains what
solutions this study can come up with that could help society to understand the nature
of sex, it is also included here the summary and conclusion of the study.
CONCEPTUAL FRAMEWORK
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CHAPTER 2
This topic is quiet difficult to elaborate and expound due to the many aspects
about sexuality. So the researcher searched for earlier research works related on this
subject to further elaborate his claim on this subject matter. Here are some of the
“The Theology of the Body is a new and fresh approach to the human
body and to sexual morality. Theos is the Greek word for “God”, and logos is
Greek word for “word”. Theology, therefore, is “a word about God,” or the
study of God. Theology is also the study of all created things. God is light, says
St. John. The light of God shines upon our minds and hearts, giving us a clear
vision of God himself and all that God has made. John Paul II has studied the
human body, therefore, with the aid of the light God grant us.”1
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 1
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The Cambridge Companion to FOUCAULT Cambridge University Press
bibliography. The purpose of this series is to serve as a reference work for students and
non- specialist and to dispel the intimidation of such readers often feel when studying
the work of a difficult and challenging thinker or philosopher, which in this particular
psychology, which may be Freud’s influence to him. However, his unique approach to
sexuality corresponds with the reality he experiences. Thus, despite his advance
emphasized man’s experience with the help of some theories of deep psychology.
appears to man. However, it is evident also that the sexual meaning is not constituted
by consciousness and does not arise from freedom. It is only because like man’s
experience, sexuality imposes itself to him. It is not through consciousness and freedom
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that sexuality got its meaning, but for Merleau-Ponty, there is, in our body, an
intentionality which gives reality appearing to us a meaning that is not freely chosen by
us. Sexual meaning therefore, is an immediate reality that comes to us. It appears to us
Experimental psychology, a child usually has dim and unclear meaning of sexuality.
He constructs the world to be more pleasurable to him. He lives freely and even
lives without understanding the world of meaning. In every development of his mind
and body, especially the experience of changes in his body, a new perception of
meaning is realized. At first, this meaning is not clearly known. But after some
instructions and time required to understand the meaning, a child can now be integrated
with such meaning to his life. A man, though little by little, grasps his sexuality at the
age of adolescence. He would first start to look at his body and the body of another.
With so much changes and desires, he would then start to think of his identity among
his peers. This learning would be fulfilled by questioning the elders or through reading
because not all are intended for child bearing. Because of that, Merleau-Ponty posed
that sexuality, as it is also designed for, can also be preferably used as an expression of
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Hence, sexual meaning is now directed to love. It is a different case from rapes
and sexual abuse. Sexual meaning in these cases is not identified with love but with
self-interest and satisfaction and are therefore directed to lust. Love and lust, as
Merleau-Ponty defines it, are two distinct things. Lust is for personal interests and
involved in the process. There is no genuine love that happens. Love, on the other hand,
that unites the persons involved and brings them into an atmosphere which only exists
for them.
response towards his environment. To him, it does not sprout out of man’s
ambiguous character where the body is presented differently from one another.
such a way that it expounds what is sexuality, how does man acquire knowledge on
sexuality and it provides knowledge and understanding as to what sexual meaning has
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This research work discusses the relationship between sexuality and
reproduce. During the 20th century, however, reproduction and sexuality began to
move independently, and today they can be, in many ways, considered separate, if not
independent. This epochal change has been made possible by enormous progress in the
ethical norms and religious dictates must also be taken into consideration.
because, by and large, religions continue to oppose change in how humans view
sexuality. All religions have focused on sexuality and its moral regulation, considering
the sacred origin of life—a gift from God—a basic concept and a cornerstone of
religion.
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CHAPTER 3
SEX
What is sex? Sex can be defined in two different contexts. The first is sex as the
person of a man and a woman. It is what makes a man different from a woman in such a
way that man is capable of engaging into sexual intercourse with a woman. This
difference creates not only a physical attraction, but also a spiritual one towards the
opposite sex. On the other hand, sex can also be defined as a process, in which a man
and a woman engage in to what we call sexual intercourse for the purpose of
procreation or child bearing. This definition of sex performs a large part in our nature as
human beings. It serves as the very core and the lifeline of our very existence.
virgins is important. The bible says we are temples of the Holy Spirit---and sin,
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 6
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SEX IN THE BIBLE
In the bible, sex is defined in different purposes. God has given sex to us as a
means of glorifying Him as we fulfill its design for procreation, intimacy, and physical
pleasure.
wife. However, most people of today’s generation, disregard the sacredness of these
purposes.
The purity of sex is often set aside for the sake of experiencing the immense
pleasure that comes with it without the intention of fulfilling its main purpose, which is
procreation. It would seem that if the purpose of sex – the main reason for sex’s
existence – is procreation, then all or most acts of sex should result in pregnancy.
However, this is not the case among human beings. Most sexual activities happening
right now around the world is not procreative. Rather, most of those getting busy at this
moment would be shocked and upset to find that their sexual intercourse have resulted
to pregnancy.
"And God blessed them; and God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply,
and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the
birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”3
The first and the main purpose of sex, is for the purpose of procreation, as
man’s way of “multiplying and filling the earth”. God has given us the gift of sex for us
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The Holy bible, Gen. 1:28
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to be able to continue our existence as a species and to maintain our dominance over
It was a blessing for God to give us the ability to have sex, as well as a means of
filling the earth with more human beings who would, in turn, continue to bear the fruit
"May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth, for your love is better
than wine."4
The second purpose of sex is for the purpose of pleasure. Yes it is very common
and natural for us human beings to engage into sexual intercourse because it is part of
our very existence as sexual beings. But, we should always remember that sexuality
must always go with the idea of procreation, not purely for the sake of experiencing
In this context, religious people struggle to teach and live out a biblical theology
of sex that centers on the marital covenant between husband and wife, affirms the
playful, non-procreative dimensions of sex, and welcomes the possibility of new life,
that we can do whenever we feel aroused or whenever we feel sexual urge towards the
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The Holy bible, Song 1:2
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opposite gender. But we should always bear in mind the purity of sex and that it must
always be done with the intention of procreating or for procreation inside the context of
marriage and not purely with lust and the longing to experience that intense pleasure.
breasts."5
among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his
"Let his left hand be under my head and his right hand embrace me."7
"Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle, which feed
The last purpose of sex is for intimacy. Sex is a wonderful blessing given to us
by the God that serves to express intimacy to another. Some theologians believe that
the sexual union is representative of the intimacy found in the Trinity. This is not to
say that the members of the Godhead, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, have sexual
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The Holy bible, Song 1:13
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The Holy bible, Song 2:3
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The Holy bible, Song 2:6
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The Holy bible, Song 4:5
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relations. That is absurd. But there is an incredible intimacy and communion between
them.
The three persons in the Godhead are, after all, one God. This is why Jesus said
that He and the Father were one (John 10:30). Remember, God says when a man and
This expression of physical union, which has a spiritual aspect to it (the two
became one flesh) is why some theologians see the sexual relation as a sacred
experience.
Sex is to remain pure no matter what. This means that the marriage bed must
union is God-ordained and God-given and must be experienced only within the context
of marriage. Through this, the sexual union can bring glory to God as it is experienced
in fulfillment of God's design and purpose to provide pleasure and intimacy, and a
means of fulfilling the command of God to fill the earth through procreation.
“As soon as Adam saw Eve, he knew something was different. Here
was another human body, which he could relate to, intimately. Eve was
complementary to him. This meant that they could be one. Think a minute
about the intimate details of a man and a woman. Men and women look
body is more supple and delicate. Think, too, of the sexual differences. The
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man’s genitals are external, while the woman’s are internal. They are made for
each other. The man enters the woman in sexual intercourse, and the woman
“God intended that men and women would be sexually attracted to each
other. Men and woman are meant for each other. Their bodies and their persons
So the purpose of sex is to glorify God, bring forth children, express intimacy,
provide comfort, and to fulfill the purpose of the complementarity of a man and a
Humans are sexual beings, meaning that both a male and a female are needed to
reproduce. Each is equipped with specific organs capable of producing specific cells
reproductive organs, sexual intercourse can and must lead to the reproduction of human
life.
Man, as we all know, has his sexual organs attached to his body externally. It is
designed to enter the woman’s sexual organs during sexual intercourse. On the
contrary, women have their sexual organs internally, which is designed to receive the
sexual organ of a man. Also, a man’s body is designed tougher and stronger for him to
be able to protect his family. While a woman’s body is designed to be gentle and more
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 48
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 83
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delicate. It is created this way for the purpose of caring for her family. These two are
marriage life.
The church derives her sexual teaching from her understanding of marriage and
implies her understanding of sex as a sacred and intimate act performed by married
couples to accomplish the purpose of unity of the two and for the woman to conceive a
child. The church also tells us that this sacred act must only be done inside the context
of marriage due to the fact that it is a way of strengthening the bond between a man and
a woman and their relationship with God as one flesh. While the distinction between
male and female pervades one's whole being, each sex is made to complement the
other.
We see this exemplified in those happy marriages where the couple remains
very close and lives for each other. The expression "soul mate" describes this, as does
The relationship is essentially different from the friendship between two people
of the same sex, and it is different precisely because of the complementary character of
But what is the difference between sex and sexual intercourse? Sex refers to
whether or not a person is male or female, whether a person has a penis or vagina. Sex
generally means the act of penetrating a woman’s reproductive organ, with a penis.
Sexual intercourse, in its biological sense, is the act in which the male reproductive
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organ enters the female reproductive tract. Formally, it is a communication between
people, when suffixed with sex, it becomes a sexual relation between individuals of the
opposite gender.
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CHAPTER 4
The Theology of the Body is the topic of a series of 129 lectures given by Pope
John Paul II during his Wednesday audiences in St. Peter's Square and the Paul VI
Audience Hall between September 5, 1979 and November 28, 1984. It constitutes an
analysis on human sexuality and is considered as the first major teaching of his
pontificate. The complete addresses were later compiled and expanded upon in many of
human body reveals God. He examines man and woman before the Fall, after it, and at
the resurrection of the dead. He contemplates the sexual complementarity of man and
woman. He explores the nature of marriage, celibacy and virginity, and expands on the
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“The Theology of the Body is a new teaching about the human body
and human sexuality, human relationships, and marriage and celibacy. The
teaching views these three realities as God would view them, that is, in the light
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), ix-x.
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of faith. For this reason, I would say that the theology of the body is essentially
author Christopher West, is that "The body and it alone, is capable of making visible
what is invisible, the spiritual and the divine. It was created to transfer into the visible
reality of the world, the mystery hidden since time immemorial in God, and thus to be a
sign of it.
John Paul was elected to the papacy in 1978 and began to present the Theology
of the Body in 1979, finishing it five years later in 1984. He was born Karol Józef
Wojtyla on May 18, 1920, in Wadowice, Poland. He was ordained in 1946, became the
bishop of Ombi in 1958, and became the archbishop of Krakow in 1964. He was made
a cardinal by Pope Paul VI in 1967, and in 1978 became the first non-Italian pope in
more than 400 years. He was a vocal advocate for human rights and used his influence
to effect political change. He died in Italy in 2005. It was announced in July of 2013
Pope John Paul II's early life was marked by great loss. His mother died when
he was 9 years old, and his older brother Edmund died when he was 12. Growing up,
John Paul was athletic and enjoyed skiing and swimming. He went to Krakow's
Jagiellonian University in 1938 where he showed an interest in theatre and poetry. The
school was closed the next year by Nazi troops during the German occupation of
Poland. Wanting to become a priest, John Paul began studying at a secret seminary run
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by the archbishop of Krakow. After World War II ended, he finished his religious
John Paul spent two years in Rome where he finished his doctorate in theology.
He returned to his native Poland in 1948 and served in several parishes in and around
Krakow. John Paul became the bishop of Ombi in 1958 and then the archbishop of
Second Vatican Council—sometimes called Vatican II. The council began reviewing
church doctrine in 1962, holding several sessions over the course of the next few years.
As a member of the council, John Paul helped the church to examine its position in the
world. Well regarded for his contributions to the church, John Paul was made a cardinal
In 1978, John Paul made history by becoming the first non-Italian pope in more
than four hundred years. As the leader of the Catholic Church, he travelled the world,
visiting more than 100 countries to spread his message of faith and peace. But he was
close to home when he faced the greatest threat to his life. In 1981, an assassin shot
John Paul twice in St. Peter's Square in Vatican City. Fortunately, he was able to
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John Paul II’s teaching of the Theology of the Body also tackles the sacredness
of sex and its purposes, and further expounds the true purpose of sex and its role in the
The practical possibility to separate sexual pleasure from reproduction has eased
a condition that has always existed among humans: sex purely for pleasure, either
outside wedlock or adulterous, disregarding the main reason for the existence of sex. It
is a major crisis in our current generation that most people think of sex as a means of
personal satisfaction and enjoyment. They engage into sexual intercourse only for the
sake of experiencing the sexual pleasure that comes with it, setting aside the sacredness
of the marital act and the procreative power of sex. Thus, it makes any sexual
intercourse done out of lustfulness and pure eroticism, only for pleasure.
Sex consists of two main purposes for its existence, the purpose of procreation,
and the purpose of pleasure. Sex defines pleasure as its passageway in fulfilling its
purpose of procreation, in such a way that only through experiencing pleasure can the
purpose of procreation be fulfilled. Pleasure in sex is what makes us feel good when we
engage into sexual intercourse. It is the sensation that makes us reach our climax during
an intercourse. Without pleasure, sex cannot fulfill its purpose as a means for
procreation.
Pleasure is already part of sexual intercourse from the very beginning, because
it is how man is able to reach the goal of procreating. Man’s sexual instinct urges man
to maintain and develop his own race just as how one preserves his life by taking food.
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God has just attached pleasure in it to give man the urge to reach the goal of
procreation. However, pleasure must not be the main reason why couples engage into
sexual intercourse because pleasure is not the main purpose and the goal of sex, but also
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“First, sex is an act that may result in a new human being coming into
existence. For this to happen, God needs to create the soul of the new human
being. In other words, sex is the sacred space of God. Sex is where God likes to
work to continue his gift of creation. God must create a soul from nothing. The
parents supply the sperm and ovum during an act of intercourse---an act of love-
the maintenance of our continued existence here on earth because it serves as the very
lifeline of our very existence. One of the purposes for which God created sex is
procreation.
ability but a unity between the body and its internal faculty, hence by means of
sexuality, man is able to build an interpersonal relationship and express his intimate
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Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 72.
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Through this, the union between married couples, a man and a woman, is
strengthened and firmed by which the woman bears a child and is taken care of and
for why God created sexual intercourse. Man is given a body that is biologically
designed not only for procreation, but also to experience intense pleasure during the
process. These two are vital aspects of sexuality and cannot be separated. As sexual
beings, sex is a natural phenomenon to man, and can be viewed as an expression of love
and lust. That is why we must know the difference between wanting to engage into
sexual intercourse for its main purpose, which is procreation, from wanting to engage
into sexual intercourse only for the sake of experiencing pleasure and satisfaction. Yes,
it is very common and natural for us human beings to engage into sexual intercourse
because it is part of our very existence as sexual beings. But, we should always
remember that sexuality must always go with the idea of procreation, not purely for the
sake of experiencing pleasure itself. These two aspects of sexuality must never be
separated.
continued existence in this world. Without procreation, humans will be pushed to the
brink of extinction.
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Procreation is one of the most basic purposes of marriage. God designed
marriage to produce more people who reflect His image (Genesis 1:26–28 and 2:22–
24). Marriage produces family, God’s first and most fundamental institution.
God has never changed or rescinded the order to “be fruitful and multiply.”
create disciples of Jesus. Raising children to love God and love their neighbors is the
Procreation defines sex as its natural passageway in fulfilling its purpose. Only
through the process of sexual intercourse shall procreation be fulfilled and not through
any artificial method. Aside from that, procreation prohibits sex that it must only be
done inside the context of marriage wherein, God Himself, has given the blessing and
authority for the husband and the wife to experience sexual pleasure and to fulfill the
purpose of procreation.
and responses towards another. A person's sexual orientation can influence their sexual
interest and attraction for another person. Sexuality is one of the major aspects of our
nature as humans. It is the very core and the lifeline of our very existence. Without sex,
our race will be completely wiped out from the face of the earth. We need to procreate
should still keep in mind the limitations of sex. Sex is not created as a means of
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Although pleasure always comes along with it, sex is not made for our
lustfulness to feast on, but rather to maintain our continued existence in this world and
for married couples to be able to express their intimate love for one another. Prior to
that, it also strengthens the bond of the relationship between a husband and his wife.
We should always keep in mind that sexuality is a marital act that represents the
relationship of God to married couples. We should respect the marital act by means of
keeping it sacred. It must only happen inside the context of marriage because God gives
his divine consent to procreate only to married couples, a husband and his wife. We
should not think of sexuality as a means of personal satisfaction and enjoyment and that
it must not occur out of lustfulness and eroticism because it represents the relationship
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CHAPTER 5
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“Sex performs a very significant role in our nature as human
Sex has been elevated to a new level of consciousness. We are told that even
cars are sexy! Sex has been used to serve selfish, pleasure-seeking activity.”
into intercourse to bear and conceive an offspring. It consists of two main purposes for
its existence, the purpose of procreation, and the purpose of pleasure. Sex defines
pleasure as its passageway in fulfilling its purpose of procreation, in such a way that
only through experiencing pleasure can the purpose of procreation be fulfilled. Pleasure
in sex is what makes us feel good when we engage into sexual intercourse. It is the
sensation that makes us reach our climax during an intercourse. Without pleasure, sex
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“Sexual pleasure is the emotional and physical satisfaction that arises
from the movement of those organs and secretions that aid the act of
procreation. This pleasure reaches its peak in a healthy man in the pleasure that
13
Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 61
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https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=36447
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accompanies the emission of seed, or in women and youths below the age of
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“The Catholic Church holds that direct sexual pleasure outside
marriage is gravely sinful and never admits of slight matter; indirect sexual
pleasure may be either sinful or no sin at all. Direct sexual pleasure is desired
and enjoyed in itself and is the privilege only of married partners between
contrary to the virtue of chastity. Indirect sexual pleasure is not sought for itself
but arises from some other action that is performed for a good reason. If there is
such a reason, the actions are not sinful, provided a person neither intends the
Pleasure is already part of sexual intercourse from the very beginning, because
it is how man is able to reach the goal of procreating. Man’s sexual instinct urges man
to maintain and develop his own race just as how one preserves his life by taking food.
God has just attached pleasure in it to give man the urge to reach the goal of
procreation. However, pleasure must not be the main reason why couples engage into
sexual intercourse because pleasure is not the only purpose and the goal of sexuality,
but also to divinely maintain and propagate life itself through procreation.
reaches the climax during sexual intercourse. They will feel this sensation as we engage
in intercourse even if we do not have the intention to procreate. The practical possibility
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https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=36447
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to separate sex from reproduction has eased a condition that has always existed among
humans: sex purely for pleasure, either outside wedlock or adulterous, disregarding the
main reason for the existence of sex. It is a major crisis in our current generation that
most people think of sex as a means of personal satisfaction and enjoyment. They
engage into sexual intercourse only for the sake of experiencing the sexual pleasure that
comes with it, setting aside the sacredness of the marital act and the procreative power
of sex. Thus, it makes any sexual intercourse done out of lustfulness and pure eroticism,
only for pleasure. Pleasure in the context of sex is often misunderstood and is often
considered as an act for self-satisfaction and enjoyment. We often think that sex can
only be intended as a means of enjoyment and pleasure. Sex for pleasure seems to be
something that is distinctly human, given most animals seem to get it on only during
ovulation or heat. The fact is that most, sex doesn’t happen for procreational purposes.
Nor, interestingly, is it for pleasure. In fact, according to some research, the desire for
physical pleasure is not the most important reason for us to have sex.
16
“What is sexual pleasure? Unfortunately, the concept denoted here by
mind, we offer the following very simple (and regrettably vague) definition:
16
https://blog.oup.com/2008/07/sexual_pleasure/
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pleasures, from the soothing sensations of sensual massage, to the explosion of
fantasies, and direct neural stimulation, we assume here for the sake of
simplicity that stimulation of the genitals, breasts, or other relevant body parts is
17
“According to this simplified model, the experience of sexual pleasure
begins when the skin receptors in one or more erogenous zones are stimulated,
and ends with a positive evaluation within the brain that the sensations
experienced are indeed both pleasurable and sexual in nature. The interpretive
overemphasized.”
18
“The sensory signals arriving at the brain following stimulation of an
Instead, interpretation of these signals by the brain is required for the impinging
that admits the profound influences of culture and context in the experience of
sexual pleasure. With regards to context, it is often claimed that sex isn’t really
sex for a prostitute plying her trade; sex with a lover, however, is an entirely
17
https://blog.oup.com/2008/07/sexual_pleasure/
18
Ibid
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is provided by the Manus, a pre-World War II society in Papua New Guinea.
Among the sex-negative Manus: Intercourse between husband and wife was
pleasure provided here neglects several of its more salient aspects, including the
19
“According to Elizabeth Lapovsky Kennedy and Madeline Davis,
level peaks to orgasm when they make love orally or digitally to a woman. The
nature of this orgasm is unclear. Some describe it as physical, while others think
it is mental.”
20
“However, like any intrinsic characteristic, sexual pleasure is
pleasure. Even if the capacity for sexual pleasure is innate, and in some sense
“basic” for the human species, one might argue that pleasure is secondary to
procreation (or reproduction). This is certainly true for the “lower” species of
19
https://blog.oup.com/2008/07/sexual_pleasure/
20
Ibid
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mammals, which, if they experience pleasure at all, are nonetheless restricted
sexually to the reproductively fertile estrus periods of the female. For these
the primates, however, one begins to see a bifurcation in the functional meaning
the female cycle. In humans, the divergence of the reproductive and the non-
of sexual desire, women can—and do—engage in sex at any time in their cycle,
irrespective of fertility status. For men and women, pleasure is not dependent on
21
“Pleasure, not reproduction, also provides the most parsimonious
ears, toes, and the backs of kneecaps. Similarly, the wide variation in sexual
Psychologically, pleasure drives the human desire for sex, and also provides the
the evidence suggests that the pleasurable and procreative aspects of human
21
https://blog.oup.com/2008/07/sexual_pleasure/
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22
“Procreation is important spiritually, too. The spiritual goal of having
children is to create disciples of Jesus. Raising children to love God and love
their neighbors is the most natural way to follow the Great Commission: “Then
Jesus came to them and said, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been
given to me.”
23
“Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the
name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to
obey everything I have commanded you. And surely, I am with you always, to
the very end of the age’” (Matthew 28:18–20). Teaching one’s own children the
Now let us talk about procreation in sex. Procreation is the most important
purpose of why God created sex. Procreation plays a very significant role in our nature
as humans being as it is the main goal of the act of sex. Only through procreation shall
for reproduction or to bear a biological offspring. It is how we will be able to fulfill the
reaching the goal of procreation, it is also different in such a way that pleasure, during
sexual intercourse of a man and a woman, can still be, but must not be, experienced
even without the intention of fulfilling the purpose of procreation. Sexual intercourse,
22
https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-procreation.html
23
Ibid
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in its biological sense, ends after the man and the woman engaging in this act both
24
“When a man becomes aroused, the nerves surrounding his penis
become active, causing the muscles around the arteries to relax and more blood
to flow into the penis. The additional blood makes the penis stiff and hard, or
erect. This erection tightens the veins so the blood can’t leave the penis,
enabling the penis to remain erect. When a woman becomes aroused, the
vaginal lips and clitoris swell, the nipples on her breast become erect, and the
25
“The vagina becomes lubricated, or slippery, by the passage of fluids
through the vaginal walls. The man will usually insert his penis into the
woman’s vagina after the above processes have begun. The sensual pleasure of
sex comes in large part from the movement of the penis in the vagina. This
pleasure increases until orgasm is reached. Orgasm comes with increased blood
pressure, heart rate, and strong contractions in the genitals. For men, this is
fades, detumescence occurs, in which the brain sends a signal to allow the blood
But does it really end at this point? The Theology of the Body of John Paul II
sees sexual intercourse as a seal in the bond of a man and a woman after marriage. It
strengthens the relationship of the married couple with authority under God’s divine
24
http://www.dummies.com/relationships/sex/what-happens-during-sexual-intercourse/
25
Ibid
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consent. Meaning, sex does not only end at the end of sexual intercourse. It is a symbol
26
“Sex does not only belong to the physical world. Rather, sex belongs
to the world of symbol and the world of love. Sex is not a casual pastime or a
mere toy, devoid of any coherent meaning. Nor can sex be reduced to an
to see if a relationship might work. Sex is much more than that. Sex
it to a higher, more perfect level. Sex places on a sacred ground the love a man
nuptial.”
26
Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 69-70
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CHAPTER 6
Nowadays, most people perceive sex in many different ways. They may see it as
something that could be done even if you are not yet married. They may see it as a way
27
“Sex is an important part of our lives. We of all people know this,
living as we are in a sexually saturated society. Sex has been elevated to a new
level of consciousness. We are told that even cars are sexy! Sex has been used
Society now has become very ignorant in understanding the true meaning and
purpose of sex to human beings as sexual creatures. They have now made their own
perceptions of this matter depending on the sexual culture each of them has grown up
in.
People believe things about sex that is taught to them by their parents or family,
things they hear from their peers, things they see from the media, and many other
27
Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 61
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sources. That is why it is very important to have a clear understanding of the true
engage into sexual intercourse anytime they want, with anyone they like, disregarding
In this study, readers will be able to grasp a wider knowledge about the nature
sex, why we should it, who should do it, and when should they do it. This study can
clarify those misunderstandings especially in today’s sexual culture. People will be able
to understand that sex is not a hobby that you can do whenever you want or whenever
you are aroused, especially if you are not yet married. That is one of the most important
28
“Marriage does just this. As a sacrament, it participates in the New
self- giving love of this New Covenant. When a man and a woman marry, they
receive the sacramental blessings of the New Covenant. God lets them share in
between a man and a woman, and God. In this context, God gives the authority for a
married man and woman to engage into sexual intercourse, to strengthen this covenant
28
Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City, Philippines: Paulines Publishing
House, 2006), 66
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But why is it that most people of today’s society, most likely will engage into
sexual intercourse, even if they are not yet married? Even if it means disregarding the
sacredness of this covenant and disrespecting God’s blessing and authority regarding
this matter.
This study can deepen the understanding of the readers and give them further
knowledge regarding the importance of sex and its true purpose in our lives.
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CHAPTER 7
Man is endowed with a body biologically designed not only to procreate but
also to experience immense delight and enjoyment in the process of procreation. Thus,
sex can be viewed as an expression of love and lust. Both, however, are vital aspects of
sex. They are vital in a sense that both can contribute for the enjoyment of sexual
intercourse. However our society today has this unusual interest in sex. The means of
are several factors why all these happen. Our view on sex is influenced by culture,
People of today’s society should understand that sex is not something that is
done for mere satisfaction and enjoyment. It is not something that is done for sexual
pleasure and to satisfy our lustfulness. Sexuality is a sacred act that strengthens the
bond between a man and a woman inside the context of marriage. It is the one that
strengthens their covenant with God in which God gives them his authority and
blessing for them to be able to engage into sexual intercourse and fulfill its purpose of
experiencing pleasure and for the purpose of procreation. These two are vital aspects of
sexuality and therefore cannot be separated because, if you engage into sexual
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intercourse only with the purpose of experiencing sexual pleasure, it would result to
Also, you cannot fulfill the purpose of procreation if it does not go with
pleasure, because pleasure in sexual intercourse serves as a key in achieving the climax
of sex. That is why pleasure must always go with the intention of procreating and not
can actually be minimized or controlled. With proper education and knowledge of the
consequences that may adhere to it, the world can truly be a better place. A place that
respects and does not desecrate the true essence of sex. With people that does not seek
to take the marital act as a means of merely engaging in it for the sexual pleasure itself.
Rather, considering it as a sacred act for strengthening the bond between a married man
and woman, and for fulfilling God’s order to go forth and multiply.
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BIBLIOGRAPHY
Primary Source:
John Paul II, Man and Woman He Created Them: A Theology of the Body
(Boston, Pauline Books and Media, 2006)
Secondary Sources:
Anthony Percy, The Theology of the Body made simple (Pasay City,
Philippines: Pauline Publishing House, 2006)
Internet Sources:
http://www.dummies.com/relationships/sex/what-happens-during-sexual-intercourse/
https://blog.oup.com/2008/07/sexual_pleasure/
https://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-procreation.html
https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=36447
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