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A SUCCESS QUESTION.

By Prof. Sanjay Yadav,


Education Counselor, M.A, M.Ed, DBM.

Introduction Concept:-
I have often wondered on these sayings,
 Make hay while the sun shines:
The Sun shines always everyday, but do we see the hay as
SUCCESS or Sun as a SUCCESS symbol.
 A Rolling Stone seldom gathers a moss:
The Student who is like a rolling stone keeps on studying
and ultimately gathers “Degrees” or “few degrees” in Moss
sense.
 Hard work and no play makes Jack a dull boy:
If hard work is supposed to make or bring in SUCCESS, then
how come Jack still remains or is still exampled till today as
useless and a dull boy.
 Nothing succeeds , like SUCCESS:
Whatever happens is for the good of those who are in the
TOPPERS category, they only succeed, if in every sense it is
taken. Then, what about those who are below average,
should they be doomed to never shine out ?
 God helps those, Who help themselves !!
What about those who did not get the goodwill of being
helped by themselves, does GOD ever help them, how far?
 To ERR is Human, but to forgive is DIVINE:
Have we nowadays erred at being so self-egotistical that we
have forgotten the good old days when there was a virtue in
giving help to others? Do we forgive all those who have done
us bad or told about us badly to others?
 A Miser counts his pennies everyday, a farmer his chickens:
When the miser and a farmer are both prone to counting
albeit different things of their daily concern, do we continue
such a tradition in our own life? Just because, someone
elderly in our family told us to do so and so by experience!!
 Angels fear, wherever FOOLS want to tread:
Does that ever mean that one should remain an Angel to see
an Angle of SUCCESS, or Fools are supposed to tread in
activities forever stamped on their foreheads as, “USELESS.”
 Time and tide do not wait even for SUCCESS:
Time has its own function, “USE IT IN GOOD WORKLOAD
AND REAP ITS FRUITS,” But TIDE does not favor anyone too.
So, it meant either you go with the sheep-following attitude
and get destroyed by the tide-over, or take your own time to
sort out your SUCCESS paths.
 A Bird in hand is better (Worthy) than two in the bush:
Does this mean that whatever you have, be satisfied with it
and do not seek out for anything different? Careers or
anything in life !! Bird-brained people do choose that and just
home-sit. They never try differently.

Family support spells a SUCCESS parameter: -


We are all by products of our own family familiar environs.
Each child in the traditional musing; is given such a phrase,
“Every child has a Mother as his or her first teacher-counselor-
guide-friend-parent”; all roles rolled into a single persona.
Day in and day out, in traditional family’s children
performance is compared with that of a successful adult, such is
the truth of living whether it be growing in an urbane city or even
a village.
Some places or States like Gujarat, M.P, U.P, Haryana,
Rajasthan and Bihar; where the family-head has a commanding
role for playing SUCCESS as a duty. His beck-and-call is to be
perceived or face the harsh reality of being compared with other
successful siblings; whether they stay within the family or are
outside India, job-wise or for studies abroad.

SUCCESS definition ( from Wikipedia):


Success may mean, but is not limited to:

 a level of social status


 achievement of an objective/goal
 the opposite of failure

SUCCESS (By Collins School Dictionary) Definition:


1. Achievement of something attempted.
2. Attainment of Wealth, fame or position.
3. Successful person or thing.
Self-growth interests do add to a SUCCESS state:
Who said there was no fun in writing poems, telling jokes, or
painting a picture or drawing a Cartoon ? If that was the case, then
there would not be programmes on Disney Channel titled =”M.A.D”
that explored fun-filled activities for kids. Creating a sense of utilizing
best out of waste placed objects.
If some people like watching Charlie Chaplin, Laurel and Hardy,
or even Michael Jackson movies or performances; can you say that
they are having a SUCCESS interest.

Essay-writing, Reading, Spelling weaknesses can be


remedied by the SUCCESS reworking:
We have our own ideas in Essays and also writing them.
But when teachers get down to schooling, some of them do not
follow a set pattern of dictating or writing out the essay on the
chalkboard.
Should we not let the child’s imagination to dwell freely,
when a topic as, “Mahatma Gandhi” is given, and let the child to
imagine and write down all the anecdotes, incidents, make their
own dialogues or stories on “Father of the Nation”, rather than
indoctrinating them with a Babbage of information down their
tender minds.
When someone reads, “BAPU, as he was pondly
(Fondly) remember-red (remembered),”
Does that mean the person has had no education at
all or no practice at all in reading sessions of Radiant
Reader Books?
Students write spellings wrongly, such as =
 Characterised for “Characterized”
 Intiative for “initiative”
 Consumuption for “consumption”
 Metamorforis for “metamorphosis”
 Shool for “School”
 Consignity for “ consanguinity”
 Common-table for “commendable”
 Histroy for “history”
 Egglish for “English”
 Amenmeter for “Anemometer”
 Browmeter for “Barometer”
 Thermstat for “themostat”
 Flase for “false”
 Fask for “Flask”
Now it is a job and an art of the Educational
Counselor who has learnt the Neuro-linguistics
Programming, to be able to give a therapy to the
individual cases applying the principles and models
of NLP. Take an example of a pre-supposition, “If a
thing does not work, try reworking it or do something
else ( in a more better and modified way)” Do you see
a way out of those misspelt words as given above can
be remedied, not here; but in individualistic needs.

Success: An Art, attained in diction!!


On seeing the above wrongly written words, one gets to
understand, that there was weakness or wrongful
communication with the mind whilst forming or imaging
the word-image of all of them.
So there was a candid, breakup in the visual
processing pattern that affected all the above words
being stored wrongfully in ones mind; thereby being
reproduced disastrously. Here, SUCCESS can be
reworked in words writing practice; carefully till a
correctness level is achieved.
It can be remedied by the use of NLP principle of
“Smaller CHUNKS to BIGGER Chunking,” moving from
smaller words / ideas practicing, then to those which
have 12-lettered alphabets, whence sufficient mastery
has been attained in diction. It’s an art, writing correctly
from the sounded-recall of the word.
SUCCESS: A Dream or hobby passé!!
Well, if some child after seeing Michael Jackson dance from his
dance-video “THRILLER,” having his signature moonwalk starts to
copy that or takes a training with local dance master in hip-hop and
ultimately gets selected to dance in a television program like ,
“CHAK-DHOOM-DHOOM” Or even “BOOGIE-WOOGIE.” Is that not,
SUCCESS in child-terms? Why does it upset every parent every time
in trying to find out SUCCESS meanings in a grown-ups sense? Had
the child not learnt dancing, with all his interest and with a certain
trance-formation in his psyche; then can we hope to have a better
transformation in his personality?

SUCCESS: A Subtler prodigy moulding!!


A child of Pt. Ravishankar need not become a
sitarist expert; but if little Anoushka did it, it was the
greatness of her “Khandaan” or high-bred genes.
Similarly, Rohan Tendulkar cannot achieve the
greatness of Sachin Tendulkar; but may come closer to
his legacy one day after handwork over the years.
People with a traditionally head-strong bent in
outlook and attitudes of living tend to compare
SUCCESS with a successful person in the present or
past. Then, they want the very same to happen for their
own kids.
Forgetting in the process that their kid is a whole
individual being and not a Xerox copy or a carbon copy
of their idol or idealized perfection idol. But, so what if
Film-producer Nasir Hussain could not make it to
stardom, and produced better films in the bygone era.
Now, Aamir Khan, would not have become what he
patiently waited for so many years before unfolding to
his film audience in films like,”GHAJINI”,OR“3-IDIOTS”
Subtler nuances, liking or disliking shape every
individual into being whatever they are destined to be.
But, remove hard work and reworking of SUCCESS
over the years and each moment is laid a total waste. It
is well said, “The stone (read “Raw Individual) cannot
be made to shine like a diamond on its own, and it has
to be focused, carefully polished, and fitted with proper
cut circumstances in life.”

SUCCESS: No substitute for regular practice spells


Do you think that film-stars don’t have to practice? Then
what are,” Takes” and “RETAKES,” which they have to undergo.
Shooting a film involves a definite set of hard work, classic
techniques and joint efforts.
Right from the SPOT-BOY focusing a Baby-Light, till the
Film Director , all are alertly involved into practicing the art of
better films making; that too in each moment.
Otherwise, the general public would never have got to see
the classic “Pather-Panchali” (Satyajit Rai directed), Mughal-e-
Azam to the more recent “Jodhaa-Akbar” (Sanjay Leela Bhansali
directed). “Harry Potter” became a series, so did “Star Wars”
and STEVEN SPIELBERG. It is well known fact that young
Steven ran errands for famed directors of Hollywood; just for
being able to be close to observing them. This created, a
SUCCESS experience path for him. He had eventually made a
small editing room in the Hollywood warehouse, from where he
initially operated and produced his first ever documentary.
Amitabh Bachchan, the legend megastar, as he is known,
is still known on the sets for turning up in time and wasting no
time of the Director. He has a record of sorts, for not giving more
than two retakes in any film. This is achieved, only by constancy
in practice and keen eye for every detail. To see him in film
shooting is never a boredom, but great education even at this
progressed age of 70 plus years. His one-line still is, “There is
no substitute for hard work and punctuality.”

SUCCESS: No fast track chance overnight!!


As we all know, Saina Nehwal (Tennis champ),
Sachin Tendulkar (Cricket Megastar), VVS Laxman and
even Vishwanathan Anand (Chess Grandmaster), did
not get success overnight on the fast track lane. Even
the “NAU BAJ GAAYE KYAA!!”(Kaun Banega Crorepati,
game show) or “KBC”--coined by Puneet Bhatnagar, NLP
Master and Ad-media luminary, had to slog it out till
night to get SUCCESS rightly. Every education stream
degree has a wider application of ingenious iota of pre-
planned hard work. Get prepared for it, well in advance.

SUCCESS: Rumor-mongers Drain us, Keep away!!


The entire world is a “Pandora’s BOX”, with
competition peers abounding in almost every field in
career life. We get them as well in uninvited larger and
smaller packaging. Whether they be from our friend
circle or neighbors or more yet our very own family.
They have to say, “Do this and do not do that!”
“Fear this step and fear that step (in daily work)!”
How can we afford to circumvent the tribe of rumor
mongers or mongrels? They love to have a totality
influence on our minds and decision-making too. For
they have nothing else in life but the only goal leftover.
That is, precisely to spoil or see our lives go into shreds
of pain and anguish with an ultimate rung of failures.
Agony aunts too contribute fairly well into this
flavor. Just keep away from them, or else you will be
drained of your precious daily thought-work energies!
Never let them have the upper hand on your minds, for it
is the most gullible minds that they relish to feed upon
and gloat. “NEEM HAKEEM, KHATRE-JAAN,” so is the
saying, which is also time tested to its core.

SUCCESS: Balanced Syllabi in Life!


In our technological enhanced environments, many
persons abound to role playing in our success. Similarly,
now there are key role-players, such as “SUCCESS COACHES”,
“SUCCESS COUNSELORS” , “SUCCESS ADVISORS”, “SUCCESS
ANALYSTS”, “SUCCESS ENGINEERS”, “SUCCESS DOCTORS”, and
“SUCCESS DRIVERS”, etc. It would not be bemusing, if in the
future there be a new medico-stream of success doctors, titled
as “SUCCESS CAREERPATHS.”
We have now grown into, highly thinking and creating
intellectual beings. It is not succinct for us just to write Odes,
plays, poems, novels, and other fictional works. It’s a reality bite.
Get it straight in the Educational arena or get fast outpaced in
the job arena. That’s the precise syllabi in Life. We work to earn.
So also, we educate ourselves to earn. It is notwithstanding to
find a collegian, nowadays attending “Career Path” seminars or
workshops and also “Career EXPO.”
There is big business advertised in our national
Newspapers of the courses we can get to attend, its time limit,
and benefits. It makes us now a knowing genre of colleging
teens. Career Melas or EXPOS, have expert student counselors
and Student Advisors. Faculty from foreign universities too are
bent on luring away our young minds into courses offered in
foreign universities sitting right here from our very homes.
“If you have the RICHER MOOLAH, RULE the WORLD,” fits
the saying now. This is the newest of the informed syllabi, a
current takeover or makeover inspired from the seen SUCCESS
of character “CHATUR RAMALINGAM,”in the recent Indian film-
flick, “3 IDIOTS.” So, what makes SUCCESS syllabi? Do I have
the right SUCCESS Syllabi in my Life? These are some of the
pointers that one needs to evaluate in the fast changing global
scenarios, if at all we want to make a career abroad or at home
fronts. This has been even more so important with the on
growing or rather burgeoning careers in multi-national firms. We
now have the right English speaking classes for ultimately
taking up a career in business process outsourcing (BPOs) of
fast track moolah earning in our local “CALL CENTERS.”

Be a SUCCESS user, not just GIZMOS user!!


Many youngsters are now into the “PS3” platform
gaming genre. They are content at joining the great
league of online gamers, and not being careerists. Some
do grow up to become “GAMING DEVELOPERS” or
“GAME ENGINEERS” or “GAME ANIMATORS,”
All the rest are content with joining whatever
courses are available in the market based on the
sheepish mentality of “Yo BABY! This GIZMO (or
course) rocks man.”
This feeling is aroused by many of the people
following MBA (Retail, Finance, HR, Marketing, Event
Management, Hospitality), MMS, BBA, MCA, Fashion
Designing, M.Sc (Clinical & Medical Transcription).
Eventually, these youngsters drop out of the course
after a year if they do not progress well.
What a waste of time, money, energy and talent?
This is not a boon, but a booming ill affected our
progressing techno-savvy society. Going to the right
educational counselor is akin to going to the doctor
when suffering from fever. Nip the ailment in the bud
and be wiser by the efforts.

SUCCESS Quest: Decide in a learned manner.


Nowadays many courses are being offered online
and off-line too. With a plethora of choices and fields
galore, one has to judiciously separate the “Wheat from
the chaff!!” The saying is held in esteemed importance
as the trends of fast track education are overwhelming
the minds, hearts and souls of the newbie learners.
So, the SUCCESS QUEST has begun well from the
later 1990s, and the pattern is more here to stay with
World Economies that are pouncing on our local fronts
to establish colleges, Universities and learning centers.
There is a wider range of courses now available and
Foreign Courses have flexible patterns or credit-ratings
based learning introduced. This feature is not in
constancy on our local University Courses Syllabi and
Exams structure.
There is undoubtedly, a quest race amongst the
peers to outshine each other in their courses. But, it
should not overtake the need to decide on a course in a
better counseled or informed manner. Remember that
SUCCESS achieved by blindly following a popular
course and then discovering that there are fewer jobs in
the local markets, leaves a despairing feeling among the
lower middle-class learner. It is they who suffer the most
as; the sense to get educated at any costs is rapidly
engulfing their family stratum. “Decide in a learned
manner,” should be ones motto now, with no place for
completing things in a hurry.

SUCCESS: Increase own credit ratings.


“Rome was not built in a day,” so still goes the
saying. Therefore, carefully utilize your daily work
schedule timings; to fit in space for whatever extra
things or hobby that your pursue, E.g.- “Yoga, Aerobics,
SQUASH,Swimming,Cricket,Swimming,Chess, etc.”
If I have the resources, I can plan well ahead by
joining the local library or event or workshop. Say for
example, I want to become an expert Painter or Theatre
Actor; then it will be well advised to join a local class for
the same in addition to the regular stream pursued by
me. I may be doing MBA, but my free time hobby maybe
interested in “SPA-Culture” that is to both later-on be
as an earning career for me when I join a five-star hotel
offering “SPA-services” and will also help in unwinding
my keener senses. Hence, an extra certified course in
“SPA Management” or part-time jobbing will definitely
increase my present credit-rating. It will make me
Industry Certified personnel and not just a plain MBA.
Plan, undertake and empower your SUCCESS time.
“TIME and TIDE wait for NONE,” so goes the famed
saying. It will be wiser to adhere to time and plan your
daily game plan in achieving your targets accordingly.
Set a role, enlarge it, rework on it and expand it to
get the finality of SUCCESS for you. It is also said that,
“God helps those who help themselves.” If you want to
stand ahead of the maddening crowd of the New Age
Educated jobbers, then you must do that extra research
in your field and comb every source for SUCCESS.
Educational counselors are the right persons to
help you out on this path. NLP-practitioners have been
specially trained to see SUCCESS reworking for your
sole needs. So, what are you waiting for “JUST DO IT”
meaning plan, undertake and empower that every
important step towards a shining SUCCESS in your life.

Picture a celebrity story but see your SUCCESS path.


In the olden days, I dreamed of becoming someone as
famous as the local newspaper columnist KHUSHWANT
SINGH—“WITH MALICE TO ONE AND ALL”, and the
famed cartoonist- “YOU SAID IT,” R K LAXMAN; or even
the megastar AMITABH BACHCHAN.
Coming to recent times, the contemporary writer
SHOBHA DE, or further a tele-serial “Comedy Soap
Anchor” actor KRISHNA. Sometimes, I do dream of
making it big in the tinsel-town just like, SALMAN KHAN
(BIGG BOSS, Season 4), Shahrukh Khan, or even Aamir
Khan produced film --“PEEPLI LIVE” famed character of
NATHAA portrayed so effectively that it readily sank into
the local theatrical buffs hearts.
Choose whatever ANCHOR that dreams in your
minds picture and do get truly inspired by them; but do
not go on blindly following them in your real life.
Remember always that, “Celluloid world is not REALITY
WORLD, but only fraction of a real world portrayed.”
Film world or the reel-world as it is so popularly called,
can never hope to replace the hardest of the harder real
life work world.
So never be disillusioned of going as a REEL
character, see the BIG PICTURE; perceive as yourself in
the real world and analyze or ANCHOR accordingly in
whatever course that you are studying.

Paint your own SUCCESS picture.


There are effective ways to study pattern your
future earning capacities, and paint your own SUCCESS
picture. It all comes with the phrase, “A careful planning
a day, keeps the FAILURES at bay,” which is akin to and
adapted form of the phrase, “An APPLE a day, keeps the
doctor away.” People in the villages dreaded the
epidemics of SMALLPOX, TYPHOID, DENGUE and
MALARIA, so much so that they feared going to the
doctor or Public Health Center in the village and instead
made a beeline to the local witch-doctor or soothsayer.
They were gullible, as their minds could be anytime
influenced by the soothsayers or neighbors too.
Independency of decisions was and still is the main
authoritative right of the power wielding elder in the
mofussil village or towns even today; wherein the rays
of modern day education and computer based education
haven’t made a deeper foray. The film, “PEEPLI LIVE”
tends to draw out a satire on such tendencies that ail
our understandings in society even today.

Get into SUCCESS model, not a ROBOT model.


“SUCCESS AT ANY COSTS,” is a widely held true motto of
NEW--IPOD generation teenagers, as also the Collegians across
the country. They have little time to sit-down, in “SUCCESS-
thinking” and are keener on XBOX, PSP3, Cyber game playing,
Ipod toting for songs, etc. We have turned ourselves into
GAGGED-Gadget gizmos and non-thinking pure “Gobbling
whatever is offered in Cyber-games”. SUCCESS…well what are
you talking about man?
Such will be the modern day quipping of a youngster.
“NEVER HEARD of SUCCESS GAME PLAN, no time man!!” is
another reply we get.
The constancy of spate in educational suicide attempts
(since last two years, in XIIth varied Exam results failures CBSE
Boards and regular Boards) in New Delhi, and other metros have
seen such immensity of rat-race classes and refresher courses.
Instead of being a good SUCCESS models these classes or
institutions have taken its toll well on the gullible average student
who have turned into a neurotically weaker unthinking genre.
Such blind allegiance to courses and education cult-making
factory is unavoidable evil of the modern day roboting model in
education field. Are we just then turning ourselves into ROBOTIC
models and not real SUCCESS paradigms? So now, it belies on
you whether your mainstay is to, “Get into your own SUCCESS
Model,” and not any ROBOTIC Model in education scenario. There
should never be a dialogue, “I joined because my friend joined that
course too!!”

Others achieved, “I CAN” SUCCess now (Self-Growth Model):


I cannot compare those Learning nuances with directly pure
Money-spinning, as there is a strong penchant within a regular
middle class Indian household. “You study to EARN DAILY
BREAD, GROWING OUR VANSH, not for SUCCESS. Girls are never
meant to be educated!!” Orthodox attitudes traditionality bespeaks
here. Education scenarios have changed wee bit.
The Sixth Pay Commission package was announced in
Centre and the States, with a special impactive focus on spreading
the girl child education taken as a frontline decision. More women
are now joining varied technical fields now, as opposed to the
once held male bastion. But, the foreign universities and jobs
allure has still back-seated our Indian scene achievements. Is this
truly a gift of the 60-years Freedom that we have given ourselves?
We need to change the bigger picture to see SUCCESS in as
much as a pageant to student needs.
Teenagers, career aspirants, have a burning desire to do
more abroad, as also do the technologically trained ex-alumnus
student fraternity. Younger collegians do not have a liking to
lead a happy and contented life taking the simple joys in
helping each other in whatever small way into boosting the Indian
working Economy. They still crave at achieving MBA, PMT, BMS,
Grad. IETE, Foreign Emigration on job fronts, etc.
Mugging objective answer patterns rather understanding was
the SUCCESS trendsetter traditionally updated. We gloat in
attending posh-located networked classes for the above approach
course refreshers. Well that is another trend. Come whatever may,
and come as to whatever costs.

Globalised Learning Strategies (like, NLP) help SUCCESS.


The “WORLD IS YOUR STAGE, AND YOU ARE AN ACTOR IN IT,”
Now there is a sea-change in what the world has to offer to each individual.
Whether one wants to become a Financial ANALYST , HR-HEAD , Retail
Manager, Department Store Manager, Financial Lending Institutions Cadres
or even proper EVENT MANAGING , like Commonwealth Games 2010
complete with the opening ceremony Laser Show lighting and DRUMMERS
spectacle. Such wide spectrums of careers await the choice of modern day
learners.
So also, is the availability of Books, Seminars, and Workshops by
local and Foreign Universities!! The course structure too has achieved a
broad frame working to the benefit of the Learner. If a student is weaker in
Language one can better up their own understanding and level of applying
the English Language in their daily usage to engineer a certain degree of
SUCCESS. NLP-practicing counselors can help where an ordinary career
counselor cannot. This is distinctly an added advantage to a young and
indecisive learner’s mind, which does often lack in the directionality of
approach. Neuro-linguistics has come into the forte as being one field
involving the MIND-TECHNOLOGY and generating SUCCESS.

Create your own SUCCESS MIND MAP.


Our educational system is Non-Credits parts based, as you
finish the studied portion you are allotted a Credit Rating, as do
some foreign universities. Nor is it suited to needs or the
upcoming needs of the slowest of the slow paced learners.
Learning at a self growth pace and time is still a distant
dream concept. Though distance education has carved out an
understandable presence herein. Still much remains to be done.
We have put in courses even in the Distance Streams which speak
of heavily syllabi-completion orientation rather than cater to the
available time needs of the students. Herein, lays the ingenuity of
the student learner in creating a SUCCESS MIND MAP.
We still speak of completing the portion of study in a jiffy and
holding of exams routine-based to educate learners; rather than
concentrate efforts to study the SUCCESS rates or educational
output capacities of the Learners. What is responsible for all this
latency in our attitudes? Considering that, every learner is a
potential working and contributing citizen to our nation’s growing
economy.

Set aside sometime everyday to THINK SUCCESS:


Let every learner, set aside even ten-twenty
minutes on an average daily basis in order to think on
his or her ways to SUCCESS implementing.
You may note down the salient points, discuss the
course to be taken with your studies counselor or NLP-
Counselor. This will entail your career preparedness on
a daily worked basis rather than doing it on the last
moment or after the finality of educational course result
has arrived after the Xth, XIIth or even B.A/ B.Com/ B.E. /
B.Sc/ B.Tech Graduation Levels. Normally, middle class
parenting has the set ideology of following other’s suit
in the last available moment. Such a trend is not seen
now or in the fewest rates in Metro cities in India.
We are still, now unaware of the usefulness of an IQ
TEST or even CAREER COUNSELING at the local
residential areas of suburbs in MUMBAI. Although,
News media printed editions online and physically have
started the trends. E.g.: “Hindustan Times” has a
workshop arranged to inform the students & parents to
get the best out of their wards chosen career by inviting
talks with experts and guest speakers at the various
venues in Mumbai.

DRINK WATER filtered, now filter your SUCCESS too.


It is a well known fact to “DRINK WATER filtered”
so that germs do not access your bodily systems. In the
same way, analogically we do have to filter our own
SUCCESS too, by reworking every single step towards
the finality in achieving our hard earned goal.
Just as we detest the very idea of falling sick,
similarly we must also take precautions of not falling
into the wrong career just because our friend suggested
it for us. We must take the due time, to sit down and
picture this. We must muster enough courage to analyze
our educational study patterns as a movie. Each and
every frame or dialogue should follow and not fool
around with the next.
So, what are you waiting for , just get up and filter
the right amounts of positivistic planning on a daily
basis so that less remains in the end for achieving. Also
we can be now sure to have eliminated the pebbles, dirt
and the muck from our life if we are able to FILTER OUR
SUCCESS in the right daily directions. Follow your heart
and MIND your own business for it is your own life that
you are so responsible in leading ahead. If you do just
that, someday you may be seen as a SUCCESS icon in
your own field.
I know of news, where a middle class family girl had
a hobby of wine-tasting. Traditionally, this area of work
was viewed as a MALE BASTION. She one day
persuaded her MIND and HEART into leaving the set
career as a BANKER and set-up a winery business. Now
that’s an iconic stature achievement. She was
successful in filtering in SUCCESS strategically for her.
There is now a website, www.tulleeho.com which
caters to wine-tasting, brewing news and certificate
course on making cocktails,etc. Somebody had to
conceptualize this website according to the present day
societal needs and filter it down to suit the tastes of the
commerce and trade and even earn out of it in the long
run.
List your shortfalls, as a stepping stone to SUCCESS:
We can do best to avoid failures at the last
instance, by being able to analyze our shortfalls or
short-comings. Nobody told our parents, on the course
they have to take to ultimately succeed in their jobs. The
20s to 1980s did not even have the concept of having an
expert counselor to guide a person’s career leave alone
to manage it.
In the past twenty years, life and work has changed
a lot with the onslaught of technological progress made.
We now have “CAREER COACHES”, ‘Career Advisors’
and “Career Counselors” too. They have helped us to
effectively test us in the ground we stand vis-à-vis our
future career cultivation. We now have to be able,
“Career Farmers” or lose out to the daily job-scenario
competition. Just as never before newer fields, like ---
“TELEMEDICINE” , “Medical Transcription”, “Medical &
Clinical Technologist” and also lesser known avenues
of “Graphical Analyst” , or even “Handwriting Analyst”
are being sought after by younger genre.
A student has to effectively understand what his or
her shortfalls are whether they be in the field of English
speaking / writing, or even communicating technically in
subjects of Science and Technology. Example= ‘If a
Medical Transcriptionist wrongfully writes in report of
an already chronic Diabetic patient; Infra-Uterine
Sarcoma instead of Supra-Duodenal ulcer; you can well
see what damage will have been done or HELL WILL
UNLEASH at the OPERATION THEATRE.”

SUCCESS EFFICIENCY: A CAUSE CELEBRE d’etre..!!


Crude commercialization, Funds & Infrastructure inability too
has crept into our education system on the public level. As of
now classes for every subject under the sun are seen
advertising their product in the National newspapers on
Educational Wednesday supplements. Is this, the only,
“CAUSE CELEBRE de etre,” of SUCCESS or do we have
Somewhat greater reasons to celebrate?
Most of the average students are still in the peer tow-lines.
Traditionally bound to whatever the local University diktats in
terms of Syllabi administering rather than being useful in realizing
the student’s needs. Example: If I need Aviation Engineering
Course and my Mumbai area college does not have it, I will be
forced to opt out of it as a first choice and settle down to other
course choices available locally. This is not a good success
efficiency cause celebre d’etre!! Then, ultimately it will
subconsciously affect in my mind and also lower my performance
as a learner. Although , some efforts are being made to harmonize
& base courses upon popular principles of SUCCESS,
EFFICIENCY, UNIFORMITY,UNIVERSALITY. Such a thought went
into establishing a Distance Model in LEARNING at the--- IGNOU,
YCMOU,INDIRA GANDHI INSTITUTE OF DEVELOPMENT And
RESEARCH (IGIDR) as also other local SETUPS. We can now see,
from the below example , as to how still the “BRAIN DRAIN”
concept has been kept alive by the better facilities, timely
promulgation of funds in the foreign universities. “US of
America” has got richer by our minds.

SUCCESS NEWS, recently:


Assistant professor of computer science Ashutosh Saxena
at the Cornell University in the U.S., who did his B. Tech.
from the Indian Institute of Technology, Kanpur, in 2004,
is working to bring such robots help into homes and
offices. Saxena, who joined the Cornell faculty in 2009,
believes robots can make people's lives better and more
productive, according to a Cornell release.

It is a greater irony that in abroad whatever is


done in practicality we preach it “LOCK-STOCK-AND
BARREL,” in the cinematic sense. What with the
Tamil-Telugu-Hindi titled Film, “ENTHIRAN
(ROBOT)” 2010; showing superstar Rajnikant
paired opposite AISHWARYA RAI-Bachchan as a
projected SUCCESS role-model??

SUCCESS QUEST: Creating Global & Corporate Mark !!


We have all the edicts in technology here to aide our research,
yet the funds or work arena is never made available. Recently, on August
22nd,2010; Asit S. Koticha, an ex-Alumni of Poddar College and Mumbai
University donated a whopping 32-crores as a personal cause to make our
Educational institutions as TECHNOLOGICALLY ENABLED viable
ARENAS of SUCCESS REALITY and global competitive presence to match
nearer to the levels of education standards at the HARVARD, STANFORD,
OXFORD, SOUTHHALL, ESSEX, and the CORNELL UNIVERSITY.
Each of which has a modernized research-labs oriented paradigm.
We have woken-up now privately, albeit in the corporate level to
contribute in bits and parts towards the SUCCESS rate achievement in
education, as envisaged earlier in whitepaper by the UNO, UNESCO,
ECOSOC, World Bank. The National Education Policy, by the initiative of
“SARVA SHIKSHAN ABHIYAAN” PROJECT in each State.
More is yet to come on asking participative private understanding,
efforts and much needs to be done too. Our traditionally drilled horse
blinkers have yet to be removed wherein the traditional trend was, “I
cannot participate into anything it’s a pure Governmental Governance
initiative.”
If such a standard donor call remains still back-seated or No chairing
donations to Universities or innovations in the technologically strategised
fast developing nation as India; then education donations or monitoring
donations will stand no broader grounds and still miss out to create a
benchmark in our Corporate scenarios.
SUCCESS QUEST: An EPILOGUE!!
How can we then, expect to usher in a better global
Understanding or globalised learning strategies incidental
into our Indian Educational set-up. SUCCESS will be far
from achieved, then, only at the larger conceptual levels.
Where are we leading ourselves in this scenario? Who are we
trying to convince or fool around ? Where are our pitfalls or shortcomings?
“AAJ AAPKA SUCCESS RATIO DEKHA KYA??” Our recent achievements
in THE Commonwealth Village 2010, infrastructure has a harder lacking in
basics of amenities as also corporate sponsors to projects. How
then can we speed our understandings for a “Global Vision20-20 for India”
as envisaged by our ex-President, Hon. APJ Abdul Kalam.
If good goal setting is the primary think-tank for us, then we have
done a lot of work into it. We drink water filtered, but we never do the same
for SUCCESS. “WHAT AN IDEA SIRJI??” Now, more remains to be done in
the Good Governance settings and in the Infrastructure development
appraisals.
SUCCESS is there ingrained in the blood of every young at heart
Indian. Yet, we fail to convince the same into becoming an
effortless or rather flawless National model in engineering a constant level
of the “SUCCESS” practicality.

FINALLY SPEAKING: SUCCESS QUEST SCENE


Few corporate houses have felt the shortfalls in our education
system and have started or initiated efforts, example –
Tatas have started a community outreach programme to
educate on the ways of Learning for Kids., Reliance has –
“DHIRUBHAI AMBANI INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL” in Bandra
; Rustomjee Builders have aided “Rustomjee International
Baccalaureate School Project” and Wallace-Apeejay Ltd.
has chipped in the “Apeejay School” Success project model
in Navi-Mumbai.
We have turned into Senior citizens now, so to speak in terms of
Education scenario since 1950. Most remains still now to
be done in terms of reality in the “SUCCESS QUESTION”.
Our planning still remains to be developed further.

About the Writer: A Brief Profile.


Mr. Sanjay Yadav, started his Educational Career by
doing:=
D.Ed – Diploma in Education [Equivalent to XIIth Std],
Maharashtra Board of Teacher Education (Pune).
B.Ed- Bachelor of Education (Specialty Subjects Guidance &
Counseling), University of Mumbai.
M.Ed-Masters in Education (Specialty Guidance-Counseling, IQ
Testing, Career Counselor), University of Mumbai.
M.A(Hindi)-University of Mumbai.
Dip. Business Mgt-Through, “The British Institutes (Mumbai)”

Worked with (Institutions / Private Bodies) :-


 Education Panel Advisor-cum-Trainer: Prajna Bodhini High
School (2005 – 2007).
 Educational Counselor: 2009, Kumudini Classes,
Dahisar (E) Mumbai.

Hobbies & Interests:


 Conducting Workshops in English Education.
 Conducting Workshop in Personality Development.
 Counseling for “Better Success Achievement(BSA)”
 Writing a Blog: http://alearnedmind.blogspot.com
Email: yads2008@gmail.com
Mobile: +91-9022407112 or +91-9969135057 (By Appt.).
Poetry Writing in English & Hindi.
Reading Books on Personality, Educational Counseling,
Emotional Quotient, IQ, and NLP-Mind Development.
Future Aspirations:
To do as much writing, associating with career concerned
minds, counseling individuals as much possible and as time
permits in the field of,” Career Selection & I.Q. Levels Tested,”
“Personality Development” and also guiding individuals in
“Better Success Achievement(BSA)”.

HELPFUL LINKS : (SUCCESS)


Success has wider meanings which spans different areas and
ascribed to different objects or places in the past. The below are
some of these explorative links.
Geography

 Success, Western Australia, a suburb of Perth, Australia


 Success, Arkansas, United States
 Success, Missouri, United States
 Success, New Hampshire, United States
Ships

 Success (prison ship), an Australian prison hulk and museum ship, 1840–1946
 HMS Success, a succession of Royal Navy ships, including:
 HMS Success (1825), on which Captain Stirling explored Western Australia
 HMS Success (G26), an S-class destroyer from 1943–1959
 HMAS Success has been the name of two ships in the Royal Australian Navy
 HMAS Success (H-02), an S class destroyer launched in 1918
 HMAS Success (AOR 304), a Durance class replenishment oiler launched in 1984
Other

 Successful, a song by the Canadian rapper, Drake


 S.U.C.C.E.S.S., a non-profit organization aiding new East Asian immigrants in the Lower
Mainland of British Columbia, Canada
 Success Corporation, computer game company
 SUCCESS (magazine)
 Success, a play by Nick Drake, written for the Royal National Theatre
 New Connections 2009.
 Success (album), by The Weather Girls
 "Success", a song on that album
 "Success" (song) recorded by Danni Minogue
Success Automobile Manufacturing Company, a defunct auto company in St. Louis, Missouri,
United States.

Another Helping Link to SUCCESS : According to the JOHN WOODEN,


PYRAMID:-Courtesy : www.coachjohnwooden.com ;John R. Wooden, Head
Basketball Coach, Emeritus, UCLA (AMERICA). Goto www.coachjohnwooden.com to
review "The Pyramid of Success."

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