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Most parents tend to cram too many activities in their children's schedule - from piano
lessons to tuition classes. Added activities mean added pressure for the children.
Parents should learn to set realistic expectations for their children and, more importantly,
place the children's happiness above all. Seek their opinion and don't force them if they
are not keen on it.
Teach them time management skills so they learn to schedule their time to get things
done more efficiently.
3. Have an active lifestyle
Work hard, and play hard. Physical activities like soccer or running are good as they
double up as exercise and stress relievers.
4. Talk things out
Encourage children to talk to you about their problems so they won't bottle up their
feelings.
Assoc Prof Fung advises parents not to wait until the children are stressed but to "conduct
problem-solving daily with them".
5. Teach children to be assertive
Assoc Prof Fung said: "Children need to acquire resilience."
Those who are afraid to stand up for themselves tend to have difficulty handling stressful
situations. Parents should teach their children to be assertive.
One way is to role-play problem situations and impart skills to handle those situations in
an appropriate, non-aggressive manner.
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