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VietHR Club | Bi trc nghim di y s tit l cho bn bit bn thuc kiu ngi rt
r nht nht no:
c. Rt thng xuyn.
13. Khi bn phi c mt bi pht biu hay trnh by mt bi thuyt trnh:
. Bn ch tp trung vo nhng iu bn sp trnh by m pht l khng
lng ngh bi pht biu c nhng ngi khc.
b. Bn n ngh nhng li n xo lng.
c. Bn lng ngh mt cch k lng, v s li bi pht biu c mnh cho
thch hp vi nhng iu mi ngi v trnh by trc .
14. Bn cm tng rng nhng ngi khc:
. i x vi bn nh mt ngi bnh thng.
b. i x vi bn mt cch chiu c.
c. Lun giu ct bn.
15. Khi c mt ai khen ngi bn:
. Bn cm thy khng thoi mi mt cht no, v p li bng cch lm
bm mt vi li ni bng qu.
b. Bn chuyn nim vinh d y cho mt ngi bn khc, v nhn chng i
ch .
c. Bn gi li cm n ti ngi khn ngi bn.
16. Khi c ai ni mt vi iu khng hay v bn:
. Bn khng ti no p li li ngi ngy ti thi im y, v ri
su bn phi mt ti 2 gi ng h nui tic rng bn khng th
r bt k s tr no.
b. Bn cm thy mnh b ht hi, b hiu nhm v b mi ngi ght b.
c. Bn p tr li ngi bn ki ngy lp tc.
17. Bn c ngh rng nhng ngi khc bit r bn rt r nht nht th
no?
. H bit nhng ch mt mc no .
VietHR Club | Bi trc nghim di y s tit l cho bn bit bn thuc kiu ngi rt
r nht nht no:
b. H bit rt r l ng khc.
c. H khng h bit.
18. Khi mt vi ngi bn khng quen bit to ting ln ging ngay bn
cnh bn:
. Ngy lp tc bn cng thy mnh c li.
b. Bn cho rng nhng ngi cn hc cch kim ch bn thn nhiu
hn.
c. Bn ci nho vic lm l bch c h, bi cho d l nguyn nhn g i
chng n th vic lm cng chng ng bn qun tm.
19. Bn ang c ngh v c vi ngi mi bn ti n ti cng h:
. Bn t chi v bn u c qun bit h, v kt qu l bn phi n ti l loi
mt mnh.
b. Lc u bn t chi, nhng v su, thy h mi nhit tnh qu nn bn
buc phi chp thun.
c. Bn ng hy t chi l cn ph thuc vo tm trng c bn lc y r
so, bn c cm thy b lm phin mt cht no hy khng.
20. S rt r nht nht ca bn:
. Khin bn khng dm ni ln nhng kin c ring mnh.
b. Khin bn ngh mt ng ni mt no.
c. Khng h cn tr bn th hin bn thn.
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Nu bn t t 70 n 100 im
Bn l ngi cc k rt r nht nht v lun b s rt r nht nht y m nh.
Bn c th cng t b, khng thm c gng vt qu s rt r nht nht y t
lu ri, trong khi s rt r nht nht y vn ng hu hoi cuc sng c bn v
khin bn khng th hon thin bn thn. Nhng ngi khc c th thy bn
cng ng yu nhng li hi lnh lng. Khi bn i cng nhng ngi x l khng
qun bit, bn c ch y s rt r nht nht c mnh bng cch t r lnh nht
x cch, v tht khng my, thi y li b mi ngi hiu lm l bn kiu cng
ngo mn.
Nu bn t t 40 n 70 im:
Bn chc chn rt rt r nht nht, nhng bn li thng thnh cng trong vic
ch y n. Bn lun rt t gic v cng lun c gng khng ngng th hin
nng lc bn thn v c ngi khc tn trng. iu ny thng xy r, v
nhng ngi khng bit r v bn thng d b bn nh l. Bn chc l phi
c khng t nhng th thut, mnh kho l bp, nhng th khin cho bit
bo ngi khc b bn nh l bi mt v b ngoi t tin v y cn m. Bn l
ngi lun ch giu s rt r nht nht c mnh.
VietHR Club | Kt qu:
Nu bn t di 40 im:
Bn tri qu i ln cm thy mnh rt r nht nht , nhng nhng ln
khng xy r qu thng xuyn c th nh hng ti cuc sng hng ngy
c bn, v bn cng hc cch c gng vt qu nhng ln cm thy rt r
nht nht y, nhng ln c th gy r cho bn khng bit bo nhiu l rc ri.
C th bn s tr nn t tin hn khi trng thnh. Hoc cng c th nhng
thnh cng m bn t c s ci thin s t nhn thc v bn thn c bn v
mng n cho bn s t tin m bn hng thiu. Hoc bn c th ch cm thy
thoi mi khi c lm chnh xc nhng g mnh thch. Cho d l bt c l do g,
bn cng ch l mt ngi c hi cht rt r nht nht v thnh thong mi thy
mnh rt r nht nht .
Bc th nht: Xc nh i th ca bn
c th nh bi i th c mnh, trc ht bn phi bit r l i hy l
ci g. Cng chnh v vy, mc ch c bi tp u tin bn nn lm l tm hiu
nghin cu mt cch c mc ch s rt r nht nht c bn. Su mt vi ngy,
bn s phi qun st s rt r nht nht c th hin trong cc hot ng hng
ngy c mnh mt cch khch qun v c chuyn mn, nh th bn l mt
chuyn gi ng nghin cu tm hiu v mt loi ngi tin s th v m mi
ngi cho rng b dit vong hng trm ngn nm ny.
Bi tp: Chia tch bn thnh nhng tnh cch khc nhau
1. Hy th gin trc gng v ngm nhn tht chm ch chnh bn thn mnh.
Hy tng tng rng ngi bn thy trong gng ki l mt ngi hon ton
x l m y l ln u tin bn gp mt. Hy qun st chnh mnh tht c th.
Hy thu li hnh nh c ngi trong gng ngy trc mt bn v gi n
thng trc trong tr nh.
2. Ngy t by gi, bn s b chi tch thnh hi con ngi khc bit: mt din
vin phi thc hin t nhng vic i li trong ngy cho n nhng sinh hot
thng nht, v mt qun st vin - mt ngi lun ng su cnh g, tm hiu
xm xt tht k lng nhng hnh ng c ch y. Hy c gng nhn nhn bn
thn, chnh xc nh th bn l hnh nh phn chiu trong gng. ng bo gi
mt du chnh bn thn mnh.
3. Hy ly mt cun s ty v mt chic bt v bin chng tr thnh nhng vt
bt li thn c bn trong hi tun su .
4. Trong vng hi tun, hy qun st cch bn thc dy vo mi bui sng, cch
bn tm r, thy , n sng v i lm. Hy qun st c cch bn i b trn
ng ph, cch bn bt x but, cch bn i mu sm v rt nhiu vic n.
5. Vo mt lc no trong ngy, bn s pgi i u vi s rt r nht nht
trong chnh con ngi bn. Nhng tt nhin khng phi ngy lc ny. Hy dnh
thi gin qun st cch bn lm nhng cng vic tr nn nht nho v qu i
qun thuc, nhng cng vic khng cn bn phi b qu nhiu cng sc n lc
thc hin.
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Nu ti c th giu tht k nhng
xc cm c nhn c mnh th mi
ngi s khng th nhn r ti cm
thy ti t th no v chnh bn thn
mnh v h cng s khng ht hi ti.
33%
25%
3. Ti s bt s hn khi ni chuyn
vi nhng ngi khc, bi thc s
chng c l do no h c th ngh
rng ti ngu ngc hy ti l k thu
cuc.
75%
Ti y, mt ln n ti phi khng nh rng: S r rng v tnh khch qun l
nhng ng minh tuyt vi nht c bn.
Bng cch phn tch mt cch khch qun nhng im c li v bt li c
nhng ngh tiu cc bn lun gi trong u, bn c th xu ui con qu m
nh bn trong sut thi gin di . Tuy nhin, chng ti phi nhc li rng s
trung thc tuyt i l v cng cn thit nu bn mong mnh s thnh cng.
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Nhng im bt li c nim ny
Ti phi l tm im c mi s ch
nu ti cho rng nhng con ngi ny
chng bit lm g hn l ngm nhn v
bnh phm v ti
Trong cuc sng, mi th thng din
r tri vi nh c n. S chng c g l
si tri khi bn c gng gp g nhiu
ngi v c duy tr tnh bn
Nu nh t hoc c t khng th phn
bit gi mt cuc tr chuyn thn mt
vi mt vi kiu ngh c tnh cht l
lc, th y l h c vn ch khng phi
ti
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iu tra:
1. Bn tng cm thy lo lng khi ln u tin ni chuyn vi mt ngi
khc gii?
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------2. Bn c c ht sc mi mt ngi m bn cm thy rt c sc li cun i
chi cng bn khng?
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-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------4. Trong nhng kiu tnh hung thng thng no bn cm thy mnh rt r
nht nht v khng thoi mi nht?
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------5. Bn c tri qu bt k biu hin no v th cht khi phi lm mt bi thi vn
p hy i phng vn xin vic khng?
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Mt cm gic tuyt vi v s yn tm
Bn khng buc phi lm tho li khuyn c nhng tc gi trn my mc ti
tng t. Hy s dng kh nng t duy c bn. Nhng ri bn s nhnh chng
nhn r: Ch mt s tht n gin rng bn bit chnh xc nhng g nn v
khng nn lm, nhng g c chp nhn v nhng g khng c chp nhn
trong mt tnh hung bt cht xy r, s mng n cho bn mt cm gic tuyt
vi v s yn tm.
Bi v khi bn cng nhng ngi khc, s rt r nht nht thng b kch ng
hoc tr nn trm trng hn bi s thiu hiu bit c bn v nhng kiu ng
x x gio s c mi ngi chp thun, v d nh bn s mnh s lm iu g
ngu ngc v t r vng v, v gio dc.
Hy tng kh ci kiu rt r nht nht ny i! S rt d dng bn loi b n,
vy ti so bn li khng lm. Hy khm ph r mt cch chnh xc nhng g bn
nn c x trong cc cuc gp g din r thng ngy. Bn s nhnh chng t
c mt t tin nht nh, iu s lm bn phi ng ngng.
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Tng kt:
S rt r nht nht tng hu hoi cuc sng c bn by lu ny gi khng
cn l mt i th khng th nh bi. N thm ch cng chng phi l mt th
lc y quyn nng nh bn tng ngh.
Phng php cc k n gin m bn hc c trong chng ny d trn 3
nguyn tc c bn. Nguyn tc u tin bo gm vic gip bn phn tch c mc
ch s rt r nht nht c bn cng nh nhng ngh tiu cc v chnh bn
thn bn. iu ny gip bn c th nhn nhn r i th c mnh xm thc s
n nh th no.
Bc tip tho, bn phi chin u chng li nhng ngh m bn thu c,
nhng ngh thng xuyn l cn nguyn gy r s rt r nht nht. Bng vic
phn tch nhng im c li v bt li c nhng ngh thu c y, bn s
nhn r rng: S c li hn rt nhiu nu bn tng kh nhng ngh r khi
u, hn l c n ng ng bm tho bn, nh nhng qu cn ct cht qunh
mt c chn bn.
Bn khng phi l ngi duy nht trn tri t nhn r nhng biu hin kh chu
v th cht cng nh tm l khi phi i u vi nhng tnh hung nht nh.
Tri li, mi ngi u c nhng biu hin ny nhng ch mt mc no .
Hy ho mnh bt nhp vo gung quy c x hi v ng tip tc giu mnh
trong thp ng c s rt r nht nht.
Cui cng, hy c mt cun sch vit v nhng hnh vi c x trong gio tip, n
mng n cho bn mt cm gic tuyt vi v s yn tm. S chng c g tuyt vi
hn nh khi bn bit chnh xc nhng g mnh nn lm hy nn ni truyn
cm gic v s t tin vo trong con ngi bn!
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