hello everyone,

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh

i'm a sikh guy, live in delhi(india). i go to a college in delhi, wear a turban
evryday and never cut my beard total number of students in my college would b
sumwhr around 500 n sikh students would b 50(including approx., 25 guys n 25
girls). i knw almost all the sikh guys n gals in my college. most of my classmates
r non-sikhs. all my non-sikh classmates always say one thing to me that i am vry
lucky n the reason they give for this is that i am a sikh. they say that i'm a
sikh guy n i would marry a sikh girl and all the sikh girls r really beautiful n
hot n sexy. they believe that it is sure that i would get a beautiful wife. now,
the next thing that follows this makes me upset n feel really bad. they say that
most of the sikh girls are first tasted by the non-sikh guys, they use the term
used girls(like we use it for used cars). they say that first we(non-sikh) guys
hav fun with sikh girls n then leave them for sikh guys to marry them. they mean
to say that we marry the used girls. they make fun of us all the time.
out of all 25 sikh girls in my college, i wanna say 20 hav non-sikh boy-friends.
thr is jus 1 sikh girl who has a sikh boy-friend. my non-sikh friends say sikh
girls r easy to get n thr is no need for a commitment to marry them bcoz the girls
would automatically say that she cant continue with this relationship bcoz her
parents wont allow. the non-sikh guys jus hav physical relationships with sikh
girls n leave them for us to marry them. on the other hand, out of all sikh guys
in my college, thr is jus 1 who has a girl-friend.
i talked to a girl about this. she is a good friend of mine. she is hindu but her
boy-friend is a clean shaven sikh. she told me that girls don't like sikh guys
with their beard n turban. they also make fun of them thats y no girl wants to go
out with them. sikh girls enjoy their college life with non-sikh guys but marry a
sikh guy bcoz of the pressure by parents.
i'm feeling vry depressed bcoz of this. girls from the same community dont like
us. i dun wanna loose my sikhi bcoz of this but at the same time i dun wanna marry
a girl who has been driven by another guy.
i just wanted to share my feeling. i knw thr is no solution to this problem . can
anybdy help me to get out of this state of my mind?
thanks,
waheguru

dude ....wat ur saying is 100% true .im a 19 yr old sikh guy ,doin engg in pune
.to b very frank ive never had ny girlfriend (u en me both no da reason)...if we
lay still ,en think fr a while .....why ppl say sikh gals r hot ?
ans : because they r hot
then if we belong to the same genetic lot ....then even the guys shd be hot
....but but we hve a small problem here .....wat ?
k ans ....our "hair" .it is wat makes our makes us look rough ...en a bit hairy
scary....en gals don't like apes...in general ....wat i see is dat we r loosing
our genetic identity en superior characters to these bunch of loosers(weak
pathetic indians)...k ill give u ma example ....once i asked my little sis...whome
wd ya like to marry ...a sikh or a non-sikh....she said --a non-sikh ..en wen i
asked her why ....she said ....they look smarter!!! there its as simple as
dat.........................
i hve been searching da ans to it since then....en da only way is to "change fo
god sake"....our gurus tought us to fight against inequality....en its exactly wat
is hapenning.....they tld us to use logic ....our hair is a direct result of it
....it ws because muslims had beards those times ....en they looked more fierce
while fighting....so to match their valor --we organized our seleves into soldiers
wid 5k s as our uniform under guru gobind singh ji ....nw dat ws da need our
gurus had en ans ....nw its is our time en we mst hve en ans ....i ll tell ya one
striking fact ....the 5anj pyare ....at the harmandir sahib r practically
illetrate....so hw cn we let them lead us ....we need smone who cn re unite us
under a new code of livin....things need to be modified.....its simple en straight
...we should be allowed to cut our hair...its is a problem today en we need not
bear it ...instead stop en fight its cause ....we shd be driven by logic nt by
traditions .....en its den only we cn hve a true union ....u no we belong to a
race which has been fighting invaders fr 2500 years .....en we have made it till
this date....its because its in our blood our genetics to survive....nt which
colour turban we tie.....we r lions en en we dont tolerate any nonsense.....dont
be one of those stupid sikhs who tie their turbans because they r told to do
so....reason it out ...ull still be a sikh if u cut ur hair ....because a sikh
means a "follower" ....en till day u believe in god ....ull be a sikh ....so du
wat ur ancestors did fight it bravely ....en claim ur might

yeah !! en one more think ....dont keep ur hair jst because u think it will keep
ya closer to god !! believe me man....i ve been through loads of stuff en history
....there is not even a single line dats says " our hair connects us wid waheguru
"

en this is to all those idiot sikhs ...who talk about religion en our culture
without any knowledge about our history our race en wat en why our gurus laid
constraints on us ........................................go see urslf in da
mirror.....ull see a slave

fr ya my friend ......listen to ya logic ...it is da ans to all ur problems in

life.....en to our shaken religion .......contact me at honeyrambo4@yahoo.com