TranscriptTedTalksAnthonyRobbins

IwannaknowWHYyoudowhatyoudo,whats driving you.... I believe that the invisible force of internal drive is the most important thing in the world.Emotionistheforceoflife. Withourmindswecanrationalizeanything,but when emotion comes into it, the wiring in your headchanges. What makes the difference in the quality of peopleslife?Whatisitthatshapesus?Thereare two master lessons in life: the science of achievement, and the art of fulfillment. Scienceiseasyyoufollowtherules,gettheresult,upthe ante...butfulfillmentis aboutappreciationandcontribution,andyoucanonlydosomuchbyyourself. Resources are not the defining factor. Decision is the ultimate power. You find a way. Resources vs Resourcefullnes Time vs Creativity Money vs Determination Technology vs Love Contacts vs Curiosity Experience vs Passion Management vs Resolve ThreeDecisionsofDestiny: 1. WhatamIgoingtofocuson?Afeeling?Past/present/future?Theself,orothers? 2. Whatdoesitmean?Anendorabeginning?Apunishmentorreward? 3. Whatareyougoingtodo?Giveup,ormoveforward? Historyisbuiltonthesedecisions.Notwillingtogiveupaseat.Standinginfrontof atank.TakeLanceArmstrong.Afterbeatingtesticularcancerhewon7champion shipsheneverwonbeforebecausehegotemotionalfitness,psychologicalstrength. Thatsthedifference.Whatshapeshimandwhatshapesyou? 1. Inthemoment:Ourphysical/emotionalstate. 2. Inthelongterm:Ourworldview,ofmeaning,emotionandaction. Whatsyourtarget?Itsnotyourdesire.Itsthesixbasicneedswehave.Onceyou knowwhatthetargetis,youuncoverit,youfindoutyourmap.Whatsyourbelief systemthattellsyouhowtogetthoseneeds?Thenyoupickafuel.

1. Certainty,fordirection. 2. Uncertainty,forvarietyandsurprise.Youlikethesurprisesyouwant!Theones youdontlike,youcallproblems,butyouneedthem! 3. Significance, importance. The fastest way to be significant without resourceful nessisviolence.IfIputaguntoyourhead,Icanbecertainyouwillrespond,its significant and exciting, uncertain. Thats why violence has always been around, andwillbearounduntilhumanshaveaconsciousnesschange. 4. Connectionandlove.Mostpeoplesettleforconnectionbecauselovestooscary! Youcandoitwithintimacy,walksinnature.... 5. Growth. 6. Contribution beyond ourselves. Human beings get excited when they get a chancetoexperiencecontributioninsteadoftalkingaboutit. Weallneedthosesix.Whateveryourleadsystemistiltsyouinadifferentdirection. Thatwayyoudiscoveryourdestination,yourdestiny. Thelastthingisemotion.Thereare6,000emotionsintheEnglishlanguage.IfIget a large group of people to write down all their empowering and disempowering emotionsinthespaceofoneweek,therewillprobablylessthan12ontheirlist! Whendopeoplereallystarttolive?Whentheyfacedeath. Transformation can happen... Explore your web. The needs, beliefs, and emotions thatcontrolyou.Sotheresmoreofyoutogive,andsoyoucanappreciatewhats drivingotherpeople.Itstheonlywayourworldsgoingtochange.

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