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Evans Article
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Timed Test
Listening/Questioning
Independent Work
Why is listening difficult?
How can we identify poor listening?
How can we become effective listeners?
Talkers are rewarded: noise gets attention.
We learn this from infancy.
We are more important: we tend to think
and boost our self esteem, thus we don’t
listen.
We are more knowledgeable: a little
knowledge is a dangerous thing. A lot of
knowledge is more dangerous when it
comes to listening.
We think faster than the other person
speaks: this can be used to be distracted
or ignore what the other person is saying.
We develop our mindsets: in order to
cope, we create areas of certainty-beliefs,
assumptions and attitudes that we hold
true.
The talker communicates poorly:
sometimes the person speaking speaks
too fast, does not know the listener, or has
too much information.
Seek first to understand, then to be
understood.
Communication is the most important skill
marry me?”
Avoid a conversation. How often on
time.
Practice!!