How to Succeed in Life?

Dr. Lokanandha Reddy Irala Director KKC Group of Institutions PR Mangalam, Puttur

(1) What brings Success? (2) A famous Story Re told (3) Think Positive (4) Are you Ready for Change?

(1) What brings Success?

What brings Success?

PG?

What PG?.....MBA, MCA, MSc, ??? What to start?

Entrepreneur?

Marriage?

(1)What brings Success?

An Indian Institute of Technology (IIT), Delhi, graduate, Pramod Maheswari gave up many job offers

Started a coaching centre for joint entrance examination (JEE) for the IITs
He held his first classes in his father's tyre godown. Today, Career Point, with revenues of Rs 79 crore in 2010/11,

(2) What brings Success?

When he started out 20 years ago, Debtosh Chatterjee used to personally scour away stains in his clients' toilets, hoping to earn Rs 1,000 by the month-end. When he started, he was his company's sole employee;

(2) What brings Success?

Today he has a staff of 6,500, with revenues of Rs 39 crore in 2010/11

(2)
A famous Story

The Tortoise And The Hare

Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster.
Thats not true. The fastest runner is me! Im the fastest runner.

They decided to settle the argument with a race. They agreed on a route and started off the race.

Fine!

Ok, lets have a race.

The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time. Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing the race.
Poor guy! Even if I take a nap, he could not catch up with me.

He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep.

The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ.

The hare woke up and realized that he'd lost the race.

The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race. This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with.

The story continues

The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some soul-searching. He realized that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax. If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him.

Why did I lose the race?

So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.

Ok.

Can we have another race?

This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles.

The moral of the story? Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady. If you have two people in your organization, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organizational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap. It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.

But the story doesn't end here

The tortoise did some thinking this time, and realized that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way it was currently formatted. How can I can win the hare?

He thought for a while, and then challenged the hare to another race, but on a slightly different route. The hare agreed.

Can we have another race? This time well go through a different route.

Sure!

They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitment to be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until he came to a broad river. The finishing line was a couple of kilometers on the other side of the river.

Goal

The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoise trundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continued walking and finished the race.

What should I do?

The moral of the story?

First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency.
In an organization, if you are a good speaker, make sure you create opportunities to give presentations that enable the senior management to notice you. If your strength is analysis, make sure you do some sort of research, make a report and send it upstairs. Working to your strengths will not only get you noticed, but will also create opportunities for growth and advancement.

The story still hasn't ended

The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends and they did some thinking together. Both realized that the last race could have been run much better.

So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.

Great! I think we could do it much better, if we two help each other.

Hi, buddy. How about doing our last race again?

They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank.

There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back.

On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together. They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier.

The moral of the story? It's good to be individually brilliant and to have strong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team and harness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below par because there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly and someone else does well. Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with the relevant core competency for a situation take leadership.

There are more lessons to be learnt from this story. Note that neither the hare nor the tortoise gave up after failures. The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure. The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard as he could.

In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate to work harder and put in more effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to change strategy and try something different. And sometimes it is appropriate to do both.
The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop competing against a rival and instead start competing against the situation, we perform far better.

Lets go and build stronger teams!

(3) Think Positive

What is an attitude

THE ICEBERG
HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE OF AN ICEBERG?

THE ICEBERG
ONLY 10 OF ANY ICEBERG IS VISIBLE. THE REMAINING 90% IS BELOW SEA LEVEL.

Applying to human beings

Knowledge and skills

BEHAVIOR
SEA LEVEL

UNKNOWN TO OTHERS

VALUES STANDARDS JUDGMENTS

ATTITUDE
MOTIVES ETHICS - BELIEFS

 A positive thought is the seed of a positive result. If The most significant change in a persons life is a change of attitude. Right attitudes produce right actions. If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you except God. The man with confidence in himself gains the confidence of others. You will only go as far as you think you can go. Positive attitudes create a chain reaction of positive thoughts. Attitude, not aptitude, determines your altitude.

Lifes Little Question

Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?

 Negative attitude says : You cannot achieve success Positive attitude says : You can achieve success If you have been exhibiting a negative attitude and facing failures and difficulties. It is now the time to change the way you think.

Ouch!

How to achieve this

Decide that you want to develop PA

Always use positive words.

Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success

Visualize clearly in your mind that you are possessing a positive attitude
.

Associate yourself with people who think positively.

Read at least one page of inspiring book every day.

Engage in some regular physical exercise

Watch inspiring movies that make you feel happy and good

Always sit and walk with your back straight. This will strengthen your confidence and inner strength.

Disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Substitute negative thoughts with constructive happy thoughts.

Learn to master your thoughts.

Contemplate upon the futility of negative thinking and worries

Listen to good music and dance a little

Accept Responsibility
I am responsible . . .
. . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do

Remember to . . .

Watch your definitions they become thoughts Watch your thoughts they become words Watch your words they become actions

Watch your actions they become your destiny

The Choice is YOURS

With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude have a bad day you can never

(4) Are Ready to Change

The story of the eagle

The eagle has the longest life-span of its species

It can live up to 70 years But to reach this age, the eagle must make a hard decision

In its 40s

Its long and flexible talons can no longer grab prey which serves as food

Its long and sharp beak becomes bent

Its old-aged and heavy wings, due to their thick feathers, become stuck to its chest and make it difficult to fly

Then, the eagle is left with only two options: die or go through a painful process of change which lasts 150 days.

The process requires that the eagle fly to a mountain top and sit on its nest

There the eagle knocks its beak against a rock until it plucks it out

After plucking it out, the eagle will wait for a new beak to grow back and then it will pluck out its talons

When its new talons grow back, the eagle starts plucking its old-aged feathers

And after five months, the eagle takes its famous flight of rebirth and lives for ...

30 more years

Why is change needed?

Many times, in order to survive we have to start a change process. We sometimes need to get rid of old memories, habits and other past traditions.

Only freed from past burdens, can we take advantage of the present

HAVE A WONDERFULL & A positive Future

E N J O Y !!!!!!!!!!