And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth;

it is all from Him. Lo! herein verily are portents for people who reflect.(45:13. Al-Quran)

Psychological Philosophy
of

Evolving Human Excellence

Dr. Javed Iqbal

Realization & Channelization

The Role of IQ, EQ &CQ

In

The Career Making

Dr. Javed Iqbal

Sequence of Presentation
Psychological

Philosophy of
evolving Human Excellence
Conceptual and Operational
meaning of IQ, EQ &CQ

Pragmatism /Struggle for survival

(people feel they are wise then Allah)

(tactics/diplomacy )
(cautious )
(vested interest )

Ethical culture developed

( truthfulness )
( seriousness /commitment)
(Guardianship/sense of responsibility)
( Faith / belief /ideology, ideational )
(Hit and hurt the criminals/No sympathy )
If you have a top class hardware but software is
corrupt. surely out put will be not praiseworthy.
Result will be garbage in and garbage out

Knowledge with custody

Knowledge without
custody

Knowledge

Honesty

Planning
Efficiency
Productivity

Judicious use of resources

Composition of Human
Beings

Human being
Body

States Nafs
(Ammara,Luwamia &
Muthmina

1-Fire (proud)
2-Air(Fame)
3-Mud(Miser)
4-Water (Jealousy)

Soul

STATES OF NAFS
Lowest stage of Nafs

Aozubillah

Highest stage of Nafs

Types of Kalub

nafs is in the
khabees state
nafs is at the
state of Laeen
nafs is in the
Rajeem state
nafs is in the
Luwama state

Kalub-eshaheed

nafs is in the
Motamina state

Personality
Physical (Visible form)

Appearance

Physique

Dress

Smartness

Cleanliness
Mental

Mental Alertness

IQ

Creativity
Social

Group interaction

Conflict resolution

Organizing ability

Interpersonal relationship
Ethical

Telling truth

Honour the promises

Fairness and justice

Respect the human being

Man and Mathematical Relationship

Body

(100+100)0
200 x 0=0
(Knowledge
(50+50) 50
100 x50=5000

Sign

3
3
3

+(Add)
X(Multiply)
power

x Skill) Attitude

Mind

Quantity

5
5
5

8 :zero
15
243:
Hero

Psychological problems of new

service entrants

Self- centeredness
Possessiveness( power needs, affiliation,
achievement )
Lack of assertiveness
Impatience
Confusion
Rashness
Distortion in self perception and ideal self
Sexual disorder
Lack of emotional labor

Lack of Interpersonal skills

IQ
Intelligence

behaviour must know what,

why (what is doing &why he is doing
this
Intelligence behaviour must
meaningful and purposeful.
Intelligence behaviour must rational .
intelligence must cultural values

IQ (Intelligence Quotient )

1.
2.
3.

Comprehension
Reasoning ability
Judgment
Assessment of IQ:
Note sheet/ corresponding
Response (Logic with reference ) & paraphrase (CAR:
creative, accurate and result oriented ) .Focus approach
Decision (Mostly decision merit base, not obliged
others )

(Emotional Intelligence )Daniel Goldman

The term encompasses the following five characteristics and

abilities:
Self awareness-knowing your emotions, recognizing feelings
as they occur and discriminating between them
Mood Management-handling feelings so theyre relevant to
the current situation and you react appropriately.
Self motivation-gather up your feelings and directing
yourself towards a goal, despite self doubt, inertia and
impulsiveness.
Empathy- recognizing feelings in others and tuning into their
verbal and nonverbal cues; putting yourself in their shoes
Managing relationships-handling interpersonal interaction,
conflict resolution, and negotiations.

EQ (Emotional Quotient
) General intelligence is Gene Link and Social

Intelligence is Acquired
Identifying emotions of self and others,Self regulation,
self organization ,self awareness, social skill, coping
stress
Self control, self managing emotions of self and others
expression of emotion, Tolerance, Flexibility and
Emotional depth (unconditional love)

Assessment of Emotional Intelligence

Respect
Listening
Social relationship
Violent use of rule and regulation
Hot buttons

Example : Hundred Nail in the wall

put nail in the wall, on every episode of angry.
On self control take it out nail from the wall

Causes

When a human being becomes detached from religion it

makes him worthless.
Greed and material gain becomes all-important goal of
ones life in the world.
Ignorance and deviation from God
Weak belief system
Hypocrisy
Hub-e-ja
Hub-e-mal
Riyya

Spiritual diseases

False pride ,Arrogance (Takabbur)

Greed (Hirs)
Jealousy (Hasad)
Lust (Shahwah)
Backbiting (Gheebah)
Stinginess (Bokhl)
Malice (Keena)
Anger
Hippocracy
Riyya

Prophet Muhammad says:

Your greatest enemy is your (evil) self that resides
within you.
"He is a real king who can have full control over
his self"

Relationship of Psyche and Soma

Psyche mind

Body(Soma)
Gas,Palpitation/tremors,
aches/Pains,Lossofweight
etc,BurdenonHead/Heart

Overt Behavior

Aggressive/Hostile,
Withdrawn neglectful

Emotions

Irritable/
Anxious/Depress

Feelings

Negative Feeling about

self, Negative self
image, ideas of
worthlessness

Thoughts

Conviction of suffering
from, a dreadful,
disease (heart) fully
convinced that he is
being persecuted

Perception

Hearing Voices, seeing

things

SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS AND EXPECTED

PSYCOLOGICAL PROBLEMS
HASAD:(Jealousy)
Hasad means to be
unsatisfied by the
distribution of Allah. Those
who have the attribute of
jealousy will always remain
uncomfortable on the inside
and will never be happy by
others achievements.
Rasulullah (saws) said: Do not
be jealous among yourselves

Sleep disorder, Mood

Disorders or Depression,
Borderline Personality
Disorder and Paranoid
Personality Disorder

BUGHAZ( MALICE ):
People who fall a prey to bughaz
wants other people to suffer.
Confrontation may be religious and
worldly matter.Kulb such people is not
purified . People with the attribute of
keena tend to keep the grudges. They
forgive the other verbally but are
always looking for ways to get back at
the person who caused them pain
Such people are never internally
satisfied as they burn in the fire of
jealousy

Sleep disorder,
Mood Disorders,
Anxiety Disorders,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder,
Histrionic Personality Disorder,
Depression
Borderline Personality Disorder
Paranoid Personality Disorder

ANAD

They know truth

but not accept
truth .Such people
who fall a prey to
anad lose their
ability to forgive
and are always
trying to hurt their
enemy.

Sleep disorder,
Mood Disorders,
Anxiety Disorders,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder,
Histrionic Personality
Disorder,
Borderline Personality
Disorder
Paranoid Personality Disorder

GAROOR/ Takabbur (False pride, Arrogance)

Garoor is like an
illusion. The
people who have
the attribute of
garoor they
believe that their
achievement is
of their own by
no help of Allah.

Sleep disorder,
Mood Disorders,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder,
Histrionic Personality
Disorder,
Borderline Personality
Disorder

FAKHAR
People do accept
that whatever they
have is given by
Allah but they feel
that their
achievement is on
their own efforts
and not by any
involvement of the
supernatural
power.

Sleep disorder,
Mood Disorders,
Anxiety Disorders,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder,
Histrionic Personality
Disorder,
Borderline Personality
Disorder
Paranoid Personality
Disorder

TOHMAT
To falsely accuse
someone of any bad act
without knowing the
truth
TELLINGLIES

Toknowaboutthe
realfactsbuthiding
them

Sleep disorder,
Mood Disorders,
Anxiety Disorders,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder,
Histrionic Personality
Disorder,
Borderline Personality
Disorder
Paranoid Personality
Disorder

Lust (Shahwah)
Sleep disorder, Mood
Disorders or Depression,
Narcissistic Personality
Disorder, Histrionic
Personality Disorder,
Boderline Personality
Disorder andParanoid
Personality Disorder

Components of Treatment

Psycho education: nature, cause and maintenance of

the disorder.
Cognitive restructuring/acceptance model
Emotional distress management
Exposure
Problem solving
Assertion training
Activity scheduling
Goal setting

Psychological Attributes
(Who is a normal officer)

Innovative& Creative ( lock out instead of lock on).

Spontaneous Response(practical ability &insight )
Constructively rebellious (never use harsh words
, nor short temper and some times do not exercise the rules &regulations
religiously).

Does not use fashionable words in

expressing thoughts(critical, solution oriented with
sound strategy).

Has ability of emotional labor (high

interpersonal skills).

Non status conscious

(he knows that he has power

and uses it only when needed. (to maintain discipline )self realization
unnecessary exercise of power, ).

Domain of Human being

Mental, Emotional, Social & Physical

Psychological Philosophy of Excellence

Baby

Doll
Barbie Doll:(Oxford Dictionary: Noun; Australia/New
Zealand ; An attractive but characterless or unintelligent young
women) (Gentle Lady: Knowledge + Values )

Panadol:(Narcissist

(self love , this is my right, Psychosomatic (pretend

they are ill) Projectionists, self- angritize ( I can do every things,I am the best .

IQ
IQ

Cognitive Domain:

thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention, memory, problem solving, imagination,
creativity, academic and everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.

Domains of Development
Development is described in three domains, but
growth
in one domain influences the other domains.

Physical Domain:

Cognitive Domain:

body size, body proportions, appearance, brain development,

motor development, perception capacities, physical health.
thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention,
memory, problem solving, imagination, creativity, academic and
everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.

Social/Emotional Domain:

self-knowledge (self-esteem, metacognition, sexual identity,

ethnic identity), moral reasoning, understanding and expression
of emotions, self-regulation, temperament, understanding others,
interpersonal skills, and friendships.

Mental Domain

Judgmental ability,
comprehension &reasoning
Well adjusted
Accommodative
Optimistic thoughts
Mental maturity
Intellectual rational
For decades, a lot of emphasis has been put on certain aspects of intelligence such as
logical reasoning, math skills, spatial skills, understanding analogies, verbal skills etc.

Definitions of Intelligence

Intelligence is adjustment or adaptation of the individual to his total

environment, the ability to learn, and the ability to carry on abstract
thinking (Freeman, 1955).

The ability to resolve genuine problems or difficulties as they are

encountered (Gardner, 1983).

Mental activities involved in purposive adaptation to, shaping of , and

selection of real-world environments relevant to ones life (Sternberg,
1986)

Different Models of Intelligence

1.
2.
3.

T. R. Taylor (1994) identified three independent

research traditions that have been employed to
study the nature of human intelligence.
The psychometric approach
Information Processing approach
Cognitive approach

Robert Sternberg - Triarchic Theory of Intelligence

While he agreed with Gardner that intelligence is much broader than a

single, general ability, he instead suggested some of Gardner's
intelligences are better viewed as individual talents. Sternberg proposed
what he refers to as 'successful intelligence,' which is comprised of three
different factors:
Analytical intelligence:
This component refers to problem-solving abilities.
Creative intelligence:
This aspect of intelligence involves the ability to deal with new
situations using past experiences and current skills.
Practical intelligence:
This element refers to the ability to adapt to a changing environment.

Emotional intelligence means the

ability to use your emotions in a
positive
and constructive way in
relationship with others or
Knowing how you and others feel
and what to do about It.

EQ

Ikhlaq (Self Actualization) (Roger)

1-Tahamul (tolerance, forbearance,
patience,endurance)
2-Husn-e- takhatib (politeness in
manners ,civility and affability)
3-Khair Khawahi (well-wishing,
solicitude)
low EQ level ( emotional instability ,
inferiority feelings, depressiveness,
anxiety, obsessiveness, dependence ,
hypochondrias and guilt.)

Over/under expression of
emotions

Emotions

Affection, Anger, Annoyance, Angst,

Apathy, Anxiety, Awe, Boredom, Compassion,
Contempt,
curiosity,
depression,
despair,
disappointment, disgust, ecstasy, Empathy, Envy,
Embarrassment,
Euphoria,
Fear,
Frustration,
Gratitude, Grief, Guilt, Happiness, Hatred, Hope,
Horror, Hostility, Hysteria, jealousy, Loathing, Love,
Lust, Misery, Pity, Pride, Range, Regret, Remorse,
Sadness,suffering, surprise, wonder, worry

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional stability
Intrapersonal adjustment
Interpersonal adjustment
Mood change is temporary pneumonia
Emotion continuous emotional disturbance , personality
trait
Upper class grandiosity , supersity
Middle infority , low self esteem , depression

Emotional domain

Love, joy, anger, aggression

Over/ under presentation of emotions
Internal form of feeling--- behavior
Outburst of emotion
Situational reaction / not responde
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Social domain

Interpersonal relationship
We are not expressive , use sign language (I love
you)
Emotional imbalance
Interaction balance

Educational system= schizophrenic and

psychopath
Lack of assertiveness in culture
Lack of objectivity in education
Memorization base examination system
Children are not independent
Basic needs are not fulfill
Adaption of individual / profession as teacher is not
by choice but by chance
Curriculum moral and rational

CQ

CQ(Common Quotient)

A set of principles of good

conduct

Telling truth
Honour the promises
Fairness and justice
Respect the human being

The journey of life is travelled only once!so,

make TAUBA for past, SHUKAR for present
&DUA for the future Because DUA is the only
element that changes TAQDEER everything is
Pre-Written .!But , with Prayers it can be Re
written .!so live the best and leave the rest to
Allah

Wives of king Edward & ShahJahan bothdied of

Polycystic Syndrome. Both kings immensely
loved their wives but both had a different way of
expressing it. Shahjahan spent billions to make
Taj Mahal in memory of his beloved wife.King
Edward built the University for research
proclaiming that none else should die of disease
which had snatched his beloved wife .such
differences of thinking determine that causes of
that rise or fall of nations

Meta Cognition

Meta Cognition (Those has high EQ they will

have high ability of introspection

E Q low

Family social set up

Neglect, authority
Lack of confidence
Revenged aggression

Capitalism

Socialism
Ruh
IslamicValues

Bloom taxonomy
Cognitive domain

Affective domain

Psychomotor domain

Creation (Higher order thinking)

Cognition has effect on our

emotion , EQ formation

All people has different skills

running waking talking, but
champion develop his skills ,
the become champion

Evaluation
Syntheses
Analysis
Application (lower order thinking )
Understanding
Remembering